"nice guy" meaning in English

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Noun

Audio: En-au-nice guy.ogg [Australia] Forms: nice guys [plural]
Head templates: {{en-noun}} nice guy (plural nice guys)
  1. (idiomatic, euphemistic) An inoffensive adult male who desires romantic companionship but who is too bland and uninspiring to be attractive. Tags: euphemistic, idiomatic Categories (topical): People
    Sense id: en-nice_guy-en-noun-dL83Ua5G Disambiguation of People: 35 39 26 Categories (other): English euphemisms
  2. (Internet slang, sarcastic, derogatory) A man who pretends to be kind and polite with the goal of attracting women, often becoming hostile and misogynistic when their advances are rebuffed; someone affected by nice guy syndrome. Tags: Internet, derogatory, sarcastic Categories (topical): People, Stock characters Translations (man who is unappealing to women): nice guy [masculine] (French), いい人 (ii hito) (alt: いい ひと) (Japanese)
    Sense id: en-nice_guy-en-noun-ugH953JE Disambiguation of People: 35 39 26 Disambiguation of Stock characters: 22 46 32 Categories (other): English entries with incorrect language header, English entries with topic categories using raw markup, English terms with non-redundant non-automated sortkeys Disambiguation of English entries with incorrect language header: 21 62 17 Disambiguation of English entries with topic categories using raw markup: 13 67 20 Disambiguation of English terms with non-redundant non-automated sortkeys: 21 61 18 Disambiguation of 'man who is unappealing to women': 26 73 1
  3. Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see nice, guy. Categories (topical): People Derived forms: nice guys finish last, nice guy syndrome, no more Mr Nice Guy Related terms: bad boy, friend zone
    Sense id: en-nice_guy-en-noun-DR5HsYhG Disambiguation of People: 35 39 26

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