"nice guy syndrome" meaning in English

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Noun

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Head templates: {{en-noun|-|head=nice guy syndrome}} nice guy syndrome (uncountable)
  1. (colloquial) A phenomenon in which a man thinks that he deserves romantic or sexual attention from women by virtue of being nice. Tags: colloquial, uncountable Categories (topical): Feminism, Love, Sex Synonyms: NGS [initialism] Related terms: friend zone
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