"ditelan mati emak, diluah mati bapak" meaning in Malay

{
  "etymology_text": "Literally \"swallowed to death by mother, spitted to death by father\". , meaning if the person's parents were perished, one would suffer in a difficult situation, because no one will take care or provide the needs of their children, the result is that children who lost their parents would affect their future.",
  "head_templates": [
    {
      "args": {
        "1": "ms",
        "2": "prepositional phrase"
      },
      "expansion": "ditelan mati emak, diluah mati bapak",
      "name": "head"
    }
  ],
  "lang": "Malay",
  "lang_code": "ms",
  "pos": "prep_phrase",
  "senses": [
    {
      "categories": [
        {
          "kind": "other",
          "name": "Malay entries with incorrect language header",
          "parents": [
            "Entries with incorrect language header",
            "Entry maintenance"
          ],
          "source": "w"
        },
        {
          "kind": "other",
          "name": "Pages with 1 entry",
          "parents": [],
          "source": "w"
        },
        {
          "kind": "other",
          "name": "Pages with entries",
          "parents": [],
          "source": "w"
        }
      ],
      "glosses": [
        "between a rock and a hard place, to have the wolf by the ear"
      ],
      "id": "en-ditelan_mati_emak,_diluah_mati_bapak-ms-prep_phrase-wtudQLee",
      "links": [
        [
          "between a rock and a hard place",
          "between a rock and a hard place"
        ],
        [
          "have the wolf by the ear",
          "have the wolf by the ear"
        ]
      ],
      "raw_glosses": [
        "(idiomatic) between a rock and a hard place, to have the wolf by the ear"
      ],
      "tags": [
        "idiomatic"
      ]
    }
  ],
  "word": "ditelan mati emak, diluah mati bapak"
}

{
  "etymology_text": "Literally \"swallowed to death by mother, spitted to death by father\". , meaning if the person's parents were perished, one would suffer in a difficult situation, because no one will take care or provide the needs of their children, the result is that children who lost their parents would affect their future.",
  "head_templates": [
    {
      "args": {
        "1": "ms",
        "2": "prepositional phrase"
      },
      "expansion": "ditelan mati emak, diluah mati bapak",
      "name": "head"
    }
  ],
  "lang": "Malay",
  "lang_code": "ms",
  "pos": "prep_phrase",
  "senses": [
    {
      "categories": [
        "Malay entries with incorrect language header",
        "Malay idioms",
        "Malay lemmas",
        "Malay multiword terms",
        "Malay prepositional phrases",
        "Pages with 1 entry",
        "Pages with entries"
      ],
      "glosses": [
        "between a rock and a hard place, to have the wolf by the ear"
      ],
      "links": [
        [
          "between a rock and a hard place",
          "between a rock and a hard place"
        ],
        [
          "have the wolf by the ear",
          "have the wolf by the ear"
        ]
      ],
      "raw_glosses": [
        "(idiomatic) between a rock and a hard place, to have the wolf by the ear"
      ],
      "tags": [
        "idiomatic"
      ]
    }
  ],
  "word": "ditelan mati emak, diluah mati bapak"
}