"pick-me girl" meaning in English

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Noun

Forms: pick-me girls [plural]
Etymology: From the phrase pick me + girl, the implication being that such women, like someone pleading "pick me!", are desperate to be chosen over their putative competition. Head templates: {{en-noun|head=pick-me girl}} pick-me girl (plural pick-me girls)
  1. (slang, derogatory) A woman who asserts that she is unlike (and sometimes better than) most other women, in order to gain attention, approval, or validation from men. Tags: derogatory, slang Categories (topical): Female people, Feminism, People Synonyms: NLOG, pick-me, pick me girl, pick me Related terms: Karen, simp
    Sense id: en-pick-me_girl-en-noun-73hiOeIt Categories (other): English entries with incorrect language header

Inflected forms

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