See it's not you, it's me on Wiktionary
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"text": "Matthew: We have a problem...\nMelissa: Is it me?\nMatthew: No, no, no. It's not you, it's me. I'm not attracted to you.\nMelissa: Oh.\nMatthew: Now, I don't want you to take this as a rejection, but as an acceptance between two people whose needs are profoundly incompatible. And you're not alone. I devote an entire chapter to this in my book.",
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"ref": "1993 October 28, “The Lip Reader”, in Seinfeld:",
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"text": "‘[…] I've been repeatedly calling him all morning. He won't pick up. All I got was this pathetic text,’ I cough and clear my throat. ‘It said, “It's not you, it's me, I'm sorry Katie”.’",
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"word": "no ets tu, sóc jo"
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