See be cruel to be kind on Wiktionary
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"etymology_text": "From William Shakespeare's Hamlet, Act 3, Scene 4: \"I must be cruel, only to be kind: / Thus bad begins and worse remains behind.\"",
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"ref": "1884, James G. Wakley, editor, The Lancet, volume 127, page 72:",
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"ref": "1909, Caleb Saleeby, Parenthood and Race Culture: An Outline of Eugenics, page 44:",
"text": "It is life, more life, and fitter life, that is her desire: the “murdering and being murdered,” the “blood and tears” are no part of her aim. But they are inevitable, though lamentable, if her aim is to be realized. She must be cruel to be kind.–a little cruel to be very kind.",
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