breast boobily

en-verb

breast boobily (third-person singular simple present breasts boobily, present participle breasting boobily, simple past and past participle breasted boobily)

breasts boobily (present singular third-person)
breasting boobily (participle present)
breasted boobily (participle past)
breasted boobily (past)

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Posted anonymously to a message board, and reposted to Tumblr by scottbaiowulf in a post published December 28, 2016, criticizing how men write about women: "She rolled out of bed and put on a shirt, her nipples prominently showing through the thin fabric. She breasted boobily to the stairs, and titted downwards."

My favourite fighter summons a whirling sword that she can teleport to, while her ultimate makes her leap into the air and do three huge, anime-sized purple slashes. She's also got bare legs up to her crotch and a figure that breasts boobily across the battlefield.

2021 August 16, Matt Cox, “Naraka: Bladepoint review: a punishing battle royale that rewards perseverance”, in Rock Paper Shotgun, archived from the original on 2023-08-07:

In Pike's 1992 horror novel for adults, The Season of Passage, she is Dr. Lauren Wagner, a physician-astronaut who we meet breasting boobily on a treadmill in the novel's early pages to the delight of Terry Hayes, a reporter sent to interview her. What exactly she is a doctor of is never entirely clear.

2023 January 31, Sarah McCarry, “Weird Cosmologies and Unsubtle Monsters: The Shared Terrors of H.P. Lovecraft and Christopher Pike”, in Tor.com, archived from the original on 2023-08-07:

gotta apologize to male authors because I just walked down the stairs and it turns out my chest did actually breast boobily

2023 February 6, @roastmalone_, Twitter, archived from the original on 2023-02-08:

There's a unique advantage to not only making your protagonists women but hiring women to write them, as the novel was written by Bell and the screenplay was adapted by Jessica Sharzer. They may be over-the-top, but they still feel like real people as opposed to some male fantasy that breasted boobily.

2023 February 19, Ariel Fisher, “The Daily Stream: A Simple Favor Is A Complicated, Decadent Mystery”, in /Film, archived from the original on 2023-08-07:

You're introduced to the robo-sex-ballerinas, who move like they were animated by an OpenAI chatbot fed only on men-writing-women memes, breasting boobily at you across the room.

2023 March 6, Chris Tapsell, “Atomic Heart review - confusion and fear reflects the growing concerns of an industry”, in Eurogamer, archived from the original on 2023-08-07:

Most developers will be happy to create crass, misleading advertising, and it should be regulated. Advertisements broadcasted on television are, so why not those we see in games? I don't have high hopes for this happening any time soon, but it seems to be becoming more and more necessary. I have seen women breasting boobily away from zombies too many times already.

2023 April 1, Tessa Kaur, “Mobile Game Advertisements Need To Chill Out”, in The Gamer, archived from the original on 2023-06-03:

(Internet slang) To move with an exaggerated swaying of the breasts (parodying a typical description of female characters by male authors which focuses excessively on their breasts).


hunter eyes

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Coordinate term: prey eyes

But according to incels, there are very clear male beauty standards: wide cheek bones, hunter eyes, thick eyebrows, a square chin, a symmetric nose, rugged jawline and a lean body.

2023, Julia Ebner, Going Mainstream: How extremists are taking over:

(incel slang) A man's eyes that are relatively hooded, elongated and recessed into the skull, believed by incels to be particularly attractive to women.


chestfeeder

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A nursing father, one who chestfeeds (suckles a baby).


transmaxx

transmaxx (third-person singular simple present transmaxxes, present participle transmaxxing, simple past and past participle transmaxxed)

transmaxxes (present singular third-person)
transmaxxing (participle present)
transmaxxed (participle past)
transmaxxed (past)

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So my question here to all members is, should I try to looksmaxx and find a girlfriend and get laid, of^([sic]) should I transmaxx and become a girl?

2023 March 3, u/InevitableQuirky3249, “Guys... I need your advice to take the most important decision of my life.”, in Reddit, r/transmaxxing, archived from the original on 2023-08-30:

sexual marketplace
sexual marketplace#Noun

(incel slang, sometimes 4chan /lgbt/ slang) To undergo gender transition (particularly from male to female) for the perceived social advantages that come with being the opposite sex, especially as regards the sexual marketplace.

incel slang; sometimes 4chan /lgbt/ slang; incel slang; sometimes 4chan /lgbt/ slang


transmaxxing

The attempt to escape the burdens of being perceived as privileged has gone a step further with the new phenomenon of "transmaxxing". The writer Mary Harrington describes the term as "a subculture of young men who embrace trans identities not because they believe they were 'born in the wrong body' but simply because they can, and because they think it'll make their lives better". These individuals see the benefits that society gives those who are transgender or female, compared to the burdens of being a cisgender male.

2023 February 21, Jessica Gill, “Male, pale and stale?”, in The Critic, London: Locomotive 6960 Limited, →ISSN, →OCLC, archived from the original on 2023-05-24:


mascularity

From Latin masculus (“male, masculine”) + -ar + -ity.

To some the unmentionables might savor of mascularity; but having seen something of a more polite society, my feminine associations are not restricted to petticoats

1854, Elisha Kent Kane, chapter XLVI, in The U.S. Grinnell Expedition in Search of Sir John Franklin. A Personal Narrative, New York: Harper & Brothers, →OCLC, page 425:

Now, suddenly, he sat bolt upright and began to hurl them one after another down the valley with a great effect of mascularity and science.

1927, Elizabeth Bowen, “Valley”, in The Hotel, London: Jonathan Cape, published 1981, →ISBN, page 163:

For boys, all the pubertal changes (such as growth of facial and body hair, breaking of voice, increased mascularity, and altered physique) tend to have unambiguously positive connotations, which are accompanied by positive self-perceptions.

1990, “Psychiatric Disorders During Adolescence”, in John Bancroft, June Machover Reinisch, editors, Adolescence and Puberty (The Kinsey Institute Series), New York, Oxford: Oxford University Press, →ISBN, page 135:


phongyi

phongyis (plural)
phongyi (plural)
phongee (alternative)
phonghee (alternative)
phonghi (alternative)
phongi (alternative)
phoongy (alternative)
ponghee (alternative)
poongee (alternative)

The death of a Ponghee or president of a kyoung is regarded as a great event, and the funeral is conducted with pomp and ceremony. The body, being emboweled, and its juices pressed out, is filled with honey.

1839, Howard Malcom, Travels in South-Eastern Asia, embracing Hindustan, Malaya, Siam and China […] :


anti-slut defense

This is known as her 'Anti-Slut Defense', and will happen at some point during the escalation. It can be when you go to feel her thigh, feel under her shirt or even right before you two are about to have sex.

2016, Lamont Lloyd, Be Fearless With Women: Unleash Your Animal Magnetism, page 164:

As part of her anti-slut defense, she will be accused of saying she was too drunk to say no, so she could not be labeled a slut or have to take responsibility for having consensual sex.

2020, Karen Stollznow, On the Offensive: Prejudice in Language Past and Present, page 84:

(seduction community) The avoidance of taking responsibility for initiating or agreeing to sex, so as not to appear slutty.


gender-critical feminist

en-noun

gender-critical feminist (plural gender-critical feminists)

The disturbing incident, also caught on video, took place in London’s Hyde Park as a few dozen women waited to find out the location of a controversial debate between transgender activists and “gender-critical feminists” who believe biological sex determines who is a woman.

2017 September 24, Cathy Young, “Why you shouldn’t punch a Nazi”, in Boston Sunday Globe, volume 292, number 86, page K5, column 1:

Where the traditional rights of biological women collide with asserted rights of trans women — sport, intimate spaces, rape crisis centres, prisons — gender-critical feminists join with conservatives like me in insisting that biological women’s rights must prevail: for the sake of their safety, privacy and right to a level playing field.

2020 June 10, Barbara Kay, “Professor holds the line on free expression: U of A decision offends those on left and right”, in National Post, volume 22, number 191, page A8, column 1:

Gender-critical feminists are loud about these issues, and they are unique in including leftists that oppose these laws—often the only leftists who do.

2023, Holly Lawford-Smith, Sex Matters: Essays in Gender-Critical Philosophy, Oxford University Press, →ISBN, page 211:

gender-critical feminism
gender-critical feminism

An adherent or proponent of gender-critical feminism.


trans community

trans community (plural trans communities)

trans communities (plural)
transcommunity (alternative)

(transgender) The community of transgender and transsexual people.


chadmaxx

en-verb

chadmaxx (third-person singular simple present chadmaxxes, present participle chadmaxxing, simple past and past participle chadmaxxed)

chadmaxxes (present singular third-person)
chadmaxxing (participle present)
chadmaxxed (participle past)
chadmaxxed (past)

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(incel slang) To act in an exaggeratedly masculine way in a bid to increase one's sexual market value.


sarger

Atul quit sarging earlier this year – he now has therapy, a gym routine and a girlfriend (who he met online) – so instead, I shadow Phil for the day. Phil's story is typical of many sargers. A bad break up led him to the PUA community, which led him to Saturday Sarge. A sarger for four years (he started at 26) he's now a respected 'approach coach' – someone who guides the more inexperienced or nervy 'sargers' through their first few months of approaching women on the street.

2014 October 18, Gareth May, “Saturday Sarge: meet the men who go hunting for women”, in The Daily Telegraph, London: Telegraph Media Group, →ISSN, →OCLC, archived from the original on 2019-03-01:


false pregnancy

en-noun

false pregnancy (countable and uncountable, plural false pregnancies)


transplainer

(derogatory) A transgender person who explains transgender issues to cisgender people, often in a condescending way.


shoti

tlb

(Philippines, Chinese Filipino, colloquial)

shotis (plural)
sioti (alternative)
shot (alternative)
shots (alternative)

Borrowed from Hokkien 小弟 (sió-tǐ, “younger brother; youngest brother”).

bor+

‘SAY HI TO SEVI’ ❤ LOOK: A week after Kryz and Slater Young's second child was born, the couple finally has a name for their shoti. Say hi to Sevi, skyfam! ❤

2022 May 29, Immae Lachica, “Say hello to Skyfam’s second child, Sevi!”, in Cebu Daily News (CDN Digital) by INQUIRER.net, Cebu City:

(informal) a younger brother; little brother

(familiar) a young male junior (usually within the Chinese Filipino community)

term of address for the youngest brother

Kryz Uy and Slater Young's firstborn son Scottie just had an adorable first meeting with his baby brother! [...] The new big brother was also seen carrying the baby in his arms. "A big Ahia Scottie welcome!" Kryz wrote in the caption. Slater, meanwhile, posted a video of Scottie carrying the newborn and adorably saying "Hi Shoti!" while caressing his cheek.

2022 May 28, MGP, GMA News, “Kryz Uy and Slater Young's firstborn Scottie meets baby brother”, in GMA News Online:

(informal) term of address for a younger brother

(familiar) term of address for a young male junior (usually within the Chinese Filipino community)


programming socks

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(Internet slang) Particularly feminine thigh-highs, facetiously touted as a way to improve one's programming by transfemmes and femboys in the computing community.


lady's woman

en-noun

lady's woman (plural lady's women or ladies' women)

lady's women (plural)
ladies' women (plural)


husbandryman

One who carries out husbandry; a husbandman.


demiguy

For quotations using this term, see Citations:demiguy.


maternity dress

maternity dress (plural maternity dresses)

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A dress designed to be worn by a pregnant woman who has a large baby bump


no-no boy

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This renunciation required answering "no" to the last two questions in a questionnaire.

(US, historical, World War II, slang) A Japanese man who refused to renounce the Japanese emperor and to serve in the United States armed forces.

Internment of Japanese Americans#Loyalty_questions_and_segregation


mife

The miso/mife combination is becoming increasingly popular: In 2011, it accounted for 36 percent of all abortions before nine weeks of gestation, and it’s often considered the gold standard of medication abortion, with an estimated success rate that is nearly 10 percent higher than using miso alone (92 to 95 percent and 80 to 85 percent, respectively).

2014 June 27, Erica Hellerstein, “The Rise of the DIY Abortion in Texas”, in The Atlantic:

(pharmacology, informal) Clipping of mifepristone.


man-woman

According to Louisa, the lesbians she met were "these hardcore women who either look like men, or, yeah, they all looked like men, I think, or these man-women, I don't know how I should describe that".

2016, Christina Scharff, Repudiating Feminism: Young Women in a Neoliberal World, page 81:

Gordon MacDonald postulates that the way God created Eve, "leads me to think that the original Adam, a kind of man-woman, is now two: a man and a woman."

2011, R. James Tasker, Restoring Cultural Foundations, page 178:

A hybrid of man and woman; hermaphrodite.


trial of scar

Tradition has taught that a previous classical Caesarean section, more than one scar, previous obstructed labour, and contracted pelvis all provide absolute contraindications to a trial of scar.

1988, Christopher Targett, “Caesarean Section and Trial of Scar”, in The Australian and New Zealand Journal of Obstetrics and Gynaecology, volume 28, number 4, pages 249–262:

In a recent UK survey, 95% of consultants responded that they would not allow trial of scar following a classical Caesarean section (Roberts et al 1994).

1995, Geoffrey Chamberlain, editor, Turnbull's Obstetrics, 2nd edition, Churchill Livingstone, →ISBN, page 719:

A trial of scar may be justified in a woman with a previous cesarean section who is currently on HAART, has an undetectable virus and spontaneously goes into labor.

2012, Jyoti Dhar, “A Guide to the Clinical Care of Pregnant Women with HIV”, in Mamatha M Lala, Rashid H Merchant, editors, Principles of Perinatal and Pediatric HIV/AIDS, Jaypee Brothers Medical Publishers (P) Ltd, →ISBN, page 317:

(obstetrics) A labour where a vaginal delivery is attempted in a woman who has had a previous caesarean section.


YWNBAW

Joker(2019) is about killing people you don't like and yes you're supposed to idolize him. Also it's about how YWNBAW. Fuck you.

2021 December 27, RiverPoisoner, Twitter:

Youre^([sic]) right, how could ANY lesbian (or straight man for that matter) resist THIS perfect specimen of the feminine form? YWNBAW.

I got a "YWNBAW" comment over talking about being tall…If you think all women are short, I suggest your harddrives to be checked.

2023 October 14, BelleNekoKiss, Twitter:

(Internet slang, derogatory, offensive) Initialism of you will never be a woman; used to insult trans women.


YWNBARW

Acronym of you will never be a real woman.

acronym

Estrogen isnt a magic potion that legitimizes your perverted fantasy version of reality. YWNBARW

3,000 of y'all are out-and-beyond transphobic and out-and-beyond proud! Thank you for the milestone, and remember. YWNBARW. 🎉

Alternative form of YWNBAW (“you will never be a woman”).


IUGR

(obstetrics) Initialism of intrauterine growth restriction.


gestational diabetes

(obstetrics) A condition in which a woman without diabetes develops high blood glucose levels during pregnancy.


Harawayan

en-adj

Harawayan (comparative more Harawayan, superlative most Harawayan)

more Harawayan (comparative)
most Harawayan (superlative)

Of or relating to Donna Haraway (born 1944), American scholar of science and technology studies and feminist theory.


APH

antepartum haemorrhage
w:antepartum haemorrhage

(obstetrics) Initialism of antepartum haemorrhage.


woman-identified-woman

Their father hasn't contributed except periodically to their support. He has the option of living his life style as he wishes, but I have to hide and deny my life style as a woman-identified-woman or risk losing my children.

1980 April 12, M. Amish, “The Right to Be a Parent”, in Gay Community News, page 12:

(feminism) A lesbian, whether political or native-born.


skingirl

Several white power skingirls told me of slam dances at which there was “no mercy for the weak.”

2003, Kathleen M. Blee, Inside Organized Racism: Women in the Hate Movement, page 182:

For some, this may be associated with general appearance, such as the Chelsea-type haircut characteristic of skingirls […]

2009, George McKay, Subcultures and New Religious Movements in Russia and East-Central Europe, page 73:

A female member of the skinhead subculture.


femalism

In line with femalism, African womanism is committed to the quest for total freedom of the colonized African men and women.

2004, Chioma Carol Opara, Her Mother's Daughter: The African Writer as Woman, page 20:


vaginocracy

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quoted in 2023, John Mercer, Mark McGlashan, Toxic Masculinity: Men, Meaning, and Digital Media
The psychoanalyst: he gives you the deep reasons for your situation. You have probably been abandoned by a boyfriend, maybe you are a lesbian and still do not know, you plan a vaginocracy as revenge from men, and you're very fat and nobody cares about you, are the most common reasons.

(informal, derogatory) A government or social order dominated by women.


snail-sense feminism

A Nigerian approach to feminism that encourages women to work slowly and cautiously in their dealings with men and patriarchy.


autocastration

en-noun

autocastration (countable and uncountable, plural autocastrations)


she-E-O

she-eo Referring to a woman CEO, this is an irresistible play on words for headline writers, contest organizers, and singers. It has various spellings: she-e-o, she e o, she-eo, sometimes with capital letters. In the year 2000, a Canadian company sponsored a She-EO contest for women only, awarding $250,000 Canadian for the best dot-com business plan. And then there is the women's a capella^([sic]) singing group at Harvard Business School that calls itself the She E O's.

2004, Allan A. Metcalf, “The Crystal Ball”, in Predicting New Words: The Secrets of Their Success, illustrated edition, Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, →ISBN, page 179:

She's Executive Officer - the She-E-O: This journal is to recognize all of the female entrepreneurs and bosses that make it happen. This notebook is vibrant and colorful and represents the brighter side of business that women bring to the table. It is a great gift for any female boss, big or small. She can continue to take notes, plan, set goals, dream and prosper with this journal. This journal is a great gift to yourself or someone else for encouragement, appreciation, empowerment, and recognition. Let's CELEBRATE the She-E-O!

2021 March 31, Terri Jordan Adams, She's Executive Officer: The She-E-o: Take Notes, Independently Published, →ISBN:

“She's Ultimate Platinum Regional She-EO of the Midwest. Its insane. She must make, like, millions.”

2021 August 24, Kyla Sharp, The Lies She Sold: A gripping psychological thriller, Kyla Sharp, →ISBN:

The origins of the term ‘She-e-o’ may be rooted in the SheEO Foundation, created by Vicky Saunders as a community support system for women and non-binary people in 1999.

2022 April 25, Camilla Mørk Røstvik, “Startups and the unsettling of the menstrual product industry”, in Cash Flow: The businesses of menstruation, UCL Press, →ISBN, page 174:

It's like I got promoted to she-E-O of a super toxic corporation, hey, but I'm in charge now, so I can make things better.

2023 July 21, Anna Drezen, “Taxi to the South!” (20:13 from the start), in Praise Petey, season 1, episode 1, spoken by Petey St. Barts (Annie Murphy):


transvestigate

en-verb

transvestigate (third-person singular simple present transvestigates, present participle transvestigating, simple past and past participle transvestigated)

transvestigates (present singular third-person)
transvestigating (participle present)
transvestigated (participle past)
transvestigated (past)

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The poster has transvestigated this celebrity because of her defined jawline.

Who are transvestigators, and what does it mean to transvestigate?

2024 August 14, Quispe López, “How “Transvestigation” Crawled Out of the Worst Corners of the Internet Into the Mainstream”, in Them, archived from the original on 2024-08-14:

(Internet slang) To perform transvestigation; to informally investigate into whether a public figure is secretly transgender, generally by analyzing that person's appearance and anatomical structure.


evictionism

A libertarian position on abortion based on property rights, according to which a woman is entitled to eject a baby from her body as a trespasser or a parasite.


transgener

(Internet slang) Deliberate misspelling of transgender.


sitty

Borrowed from South Levantine Arabic ستّ or a related term.

bor+

... Sitty Halima seemed to grow stronger. Despite being in constant pain, she was determined that Hanady and I should enjoy what would turn out to be our last summer in her company. I learned from my aunt that in fact, Sitty Halima did not[…]

2021 March 2, Linda Sarsour, We Are Not Here to Be Bystanders: A Memoir of Love and Resistance, 37 Ink, →ISBN, page 53:

After Israel banned Representative Rashida Tlaib from visiting her sitty (grandmother) in the West Bank in 2019, #MyPalestinianSitty trended on social media as Palestinians shared stories honoring their fierce grandmothers.

2021 October 23, Esther Farmer, Rosalind Pollack Petchesky, Sarah Sills, A Land With a People: Palestinians and Jews Confront Zionism, NYU Press, →ISBN, page 184:

(usually capitalized, as a title) Grandmother (in Arabic contexts).


superdad

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Coordinate term: supermom

But Superdad often earns higher income and enjoys higher status than Supermom. Furthermore, Superdad is widely congratulated for taking on his 'extra' responsibility while Supermom is vaguely condemned for losing her children's father.

1994, Douglas M. Brown, Janice Peterson, editor, The Economic Status of Women Under Capitalism: Institutional Economics and Feminist Theory, Edward Elgar, →ISBN, page 10:

Like new dads, superdads have added the caregiver role to their worker role. But unlike new dads, superdads have made changes at work that put their father role ahead of their worker role.

2013 June 28, Gayle Kaufman, Superdads: How Fathers Balance Work and Family in the 21st Century, New York University Press, →ISBN, page 198:

(informal, uncommon) A father who looks after his home and children whilst being in full-time employment.


needleman

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A man who works with a needle; a male embroiderer, sewer, etc.


girlfailure

/ˈɡɜɹlˌfeɪ.ljəɹ/

Compound of girl + failure. Coined in 2021 as an antonym to girlboss.

Coordinate term: boyfailure

(fandom slang) A fictional girl or woman who is endearingly pathetic or inept.


cislate

en-verb

cislate (third-person singular simple present cislates, present participle cislating, simple past and past participle cislated)

cislates (present singular third-person)
cislating (participle present)
cislated (participle past)
cislated (past)

From replacing the trans- part of translate with cis-; coined by T.J. Jourian.

The purpose of this section is to translate – or perhaps more accurately to cislate – and simplify trans language to a cis(-assumed) audience.

2017, TJ Jourian, “Trans* ing constructs: Towards a critical trans* methodology”, in Tijdschrift voor Genderstudies:

Many of us also distill ourselves into descriptors that we think they might understand or accept, doing the cislating for them through “how” we participate. And it is to the detriment of their work not to consider how their other […] Speaking of cislating, one of the things I am tired of reading is long and often static, inaccurate, problematic, limiting terminology sections in every paper and book that includes TGNC people's stories.

2020 November 5, Nancy S. Niemi, Marcus B. Weaver-Hightower, The Wiley Handbook of Gender Equity in Higher Education, John Wiley & Sons, →ISBN, page 541:

I thought aloud about 'a word for kinda transm kinda not' before settling on transish? and Otto went through terms like demitrans and cisdissident before settling on cisn't for this study: 'I am not exactly trans, but cis isn't it. Cisn't it? [laughs]' (Otto). […] Despite this discomfort, all participants engaged in cislating themselves. They all 'let people call me trans (J) because 'sometimes it's just easier' (Bix) or 'better than cis (Otto). […] cislated frames that focus on trans / cis and binary / nonbinary dichotomies and on man / woman / nonbinary trinaries […]

2024 January 16, Kris Aric Knisely, Eric Louis Russell, Redoing Linguistic Worlds: Unmaking Gender Binaries, Remaking Gender Pluralities, Channel View Publications, →ISBN:

(transgender and social sciences) To simplify or 'translate' (transgender people, experiences, or concepts) into words, narratives, and concepts that cisgender people can understand.


cislation

en-noun

cislation (countable and uncountable, plural cislations)

From replacing the trans- part of translation with cis-; coined by T.J. Jourian.

2019, Kate Curley, Debunking the false dichotomy: Developing and applying trans quantcrit at the intersection of trans/non-binary identities and religious, secular, and spiritual engagement in college, thesis for Eastern Michigan University
What is called the cislation of transness (the perpetuation of cisnormativity in descriptions of trans people) in higher education and RSS research is pervasive (Sumerau, 2017; Sumerau, Cragun, & Mathers, 2016). Historically and contemporarily, cis people have controlled the narrative on trans/NB people’s experiences.

Rather than push for more fluid, dynamic, and intersectional notions of gender expansiveness, the “binary v. nonbinary trans people” fallacy keeps our most simplified and palatable narratives front and center. This is yet another practice of cislation, or the translating of seemingly illegible (i.e., not understandable) genders for cis recognition.

2019 June 4, T.J. Jourian and Z Nicolazzo, "Not Another Gender Binary: A Call For Complexity Over Cis-Readability: Why a nonbinary/binary trans dichotomy is counterproductive to gender liberation", National Center for Institutional Diversity

[…] our and our kin’s lives, realities, bodies, and voices, thereby interrupting their cislation. Cislation refers to an analytical practice of presenting trans perspectives in such a way as to make them legible to a dominantly and presumably nontrans readership, but that may in fact […]

2020, Z Nicolazzo, TJ Jourian, “'I'm looking for people who want to do disruption work': Trans* academics and power discourses in academic conferences”, in Gender and Education, 2020:

Binary and non-binary more often function as cislations (i.e., their use is often aimed at making trans positionalities more understandable to cisgender people) than as a readable trans dichotomy (see Jourian & Nicolazzo, 2019).

2021 August 5, Joshua M. Paiz, James E. Coda, Intersectional Perspectives on LGBTQ+ Issues in Modern Language Teaching and Learning, Springer Nature, →ISBN, page 163:

(transgender and social sciences) The act or process of cislating.


TAVA

w:Transgender American Veterans Association

Acronym of Transgender American Veterans Association.


malewife

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Near-synonyms: househusband, henhussy (archaic, derogatory)

haechan and jaemin realising they're the designated malewives is cracking me up pls

2021 April 21, @hot4haechan, Twitter, archived from the original on 2024-02-02:

Girlboss And Malewife […] As noted by @ULTRAGLOSS, Alice fulfills the role of an independent and confident girl-boss while Jasper fits the role of her supportive and idolizing male-wife.

2022 October 5, Ashvaria Rai, “Twilight: 10 Memes That Perfectly Sum Up Alice and Jasper's Relationship”, in Screen Rant, archived from the original on 2022-11-01:

Cinderella ushers in a new age for their kingdom, opening the doors of Charming's castle to the common folk, while he fully supports her. A fantastic girlboss and malewife combo!

2023 February 14, Petrana Radulovic, “Which Disney couples would survive their happily ever afters, ranked”, in Polygon, archived from the original on 2023-04-12:

...look I know malewives exist and everything, but I tried to be that, and then I realized I was trans

2024 January 22, u/CueDramaticMusic, “Get translated idiot”, in Reddit, r/CuratedTumblr, archived from the original on 2024-02-02:

(Internet slang) A man in a relationship with a dominant, assertive woman (a "girlboss"), taking on a traditionally feminine gender role (especially a stay-at-home dad).


Cliffie

A student or alumna of Radcliffe College.


sisterson

sistersons (plural)
sister-son (alternative)

From Middle English systerson, sustersone, from Old English sweostorsunu, from Proto-West Germanic *swestersunu, from Proto-Germanic *swestērsunuz, equivalent to sister + son.

But next year, to conserve the soil, it'll be put in alfalfa, and my sisterson Willy takes care of it then.

1974, Martin Harry Greenberg, Patricia S. Warrick, Political Science Fiction:

The Svarfdalers came out there to the coast; among their company were the Thorgrimssons, sistersons of Ljot, and the men of Ljot's household.

1989, E. S. Shaffer, Comparative Criticism:

[…] Canon Tiedemann Giese (Polish Gize), a sisterson of the Ferbers Mauritius, Eberhard, and Hildebrand, to publish the pamphlet Floscvlorvm Lvtheranorvm De fide et operibus avēηλoуıкov, […]

2003, Jeremi Wasiutyński, The Solar Mystery:

Slit nostrils and gouged eyes ensured that Apius's exiled sister-sons need not be considered by the Senators.

2010, Guy Gavriel Kay, Sailing to Sarantium:

But the brothers and sons of Taminy were angry that Taminy was dead. And the sistersons of Taminy were angry, too.

2013, Iver Cooper, 1636: Seas of Fortune:

(rare, possibly nonstandard) The son of one's sister; sororal nephew


day game

Near-synonym: street pick-up

(seduction community) The practice of going out in daylight hours to cold approach strangers and attempt to seduce them.


approach anxiety

(seduction community) The anxiety one experiences at the prospect of chatting up a stranger.


gutter game

(seduction community) The practice of going out at night to cold approach strangers on the street outside nightclubs etc. and attempt to seduce them.


troonism

troonism (countable and uncountable, plural troonisms)

Etymology tree
Proto-Indo-European *terh₂-der.
Proto-Italic *trānts
Latin trāns
Latin trans-bor.
English trans-
Proto-Indo-European *ǵenh₁-
Proto-Indo-European *-os
Proto-Indo-European *ǵénh₁os
Latin genus
Old French gendrebor.
Middle English gendre
English gender
English transgenderblend.
Proto-Indo-European *dʰeǵʰ-
Proto-Indo-European *-ōm
Proto-Indo-European *dʰéǵʰōm
Proto-Indo-European *-ō
Proto-Indo-European *ǵʰmṓ
Proto-Germanic *gumô
Proto-West Germanic *gumō
Old English guma
Middle English gone?
English gooney
English goonblend.
English troon
Ancient Greek -ισμός (-ismós)der.
English -ism
English troonism
From troon (“transgender person”) + -ism.

etymon

Then he decided troonism was science in the absence of evidence, because ... regardation?

2023 June 15, u/PubicOkra, “The Year of the Chud still in full blast as Demi Lovato gets tired of using they/them”, in Reddit, r/stupidpol:

This very courageous detransitioner is standing as a student rep at trans-hysterical Melbourne University. A hotbed of woke and troonism. Brava!

2023 September 5, @EmmaDiamonde, Twitter:

Yet the mainstream narrative is we're not supposed to blame porn for troonism despite how much they say that influenced them. It's simply mental illness and feminist theory.

(anti-LGBTQ slur, Internet slang, derogatory, offensive) Transgenderism (purported ideology behind transgender identities).


goonette

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plate spinning

(informal, seduction community) The practice of staying in contact with a number of potential romantic or sexual partners at the same time.


bubble zone

A government-mandated perimeter around a facility providing abortions, preventing protesters from approaching closely.


vampire time

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But what would he have thought about the female character in a novel I recently read who, noting that she was in her menstual period, called it 'vampire time'?

1985, Dennis Joseph Enright, Fair of Speech: The Uses of Euphemism, page 58:

Thus the curse of Eve and the monthly blues give way to sanitary protection and menstual health. On the street things are a bit different, of course. There it's vampire time.

(euphemistic, slang) A woman's menstrual period.


in kid

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"Those little ones there, probably no more than ten, fifteen kilos," he says, pointing out three goats about the same size as the cattle dog, "they would be in kid."

2008, Monte Dwyer, Red In The Centre: The Australian Bush Through Urban Eyes, Monyer Pty Ltd, page 200:


heartbeat law

A law that forbids abortions after the fetal heartbeat can be detected, typically around six weeks.


YWNBAM

10 is already an oldshit. If you didn't start transing in the womb YWNBAM/W

2023 June 16, u/pleasedontfeedthedog, “I transitioned at 10”, in Reddit, r/transgendercirclejerk, archived from the original on 2024-04-29:

Ywnbam get over your fetish for gay men lmaooo

2023 December 9, @flluttrershy, Twitter, archived from the original on 2024-04-29:

if you have an onlyfans ywnbam. yes that includes markiplier. markiplier is a woman

2023 December 4, u/ftincel_, “Trans men are women obviously?”, in Reddit, r/4tran4, archived from the original on 2024-04-29:

I like how the people who claim the Baeddels are anti-transmasculine are the ones arguing maleness is a biologically essential trait and not socially constructed implicitly arguing trans men aren't real men. YWNBAM but *progressive*.

2024 March 20, @Sinister_Sophia, Twitter, archived from the original on 2024-04-29:

(Internet slang, derogatory, offensive) Initialism of you will never be a man; used to insult trans men.


gagwoman

A woman writer or woman performer of gags.


boyclit

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(transgender slang) The clitoris of a trans man.


PMDS

persistent Müllerian duct syndrome
w:persistent Müllerian duct syndrome

Initialism of persistent Müllerian duct syndrome.


lavender menace

It's an old story that lesbians and gay men have always been a part of movements for justice. However, it is only recently, as queers have come into their own political awareness, that this has been more than an unacknowledged, unreciprocated contribution of gay and lesbian spirit. […] We were the lavender menace of the early women's movement and the bourgeois decadent lifestylists of the sectarian New Left.

1982 August 28, Scott Brookie, “Making Love, Not War”, in Gay Community News, volume 10, number 7, page 5:

(often ironic) The presence of lesbians or lesbian activism in the feminist movement, seen as a threat to the movement at large.


noona

Borrowed from Korean 누나 (nuna, “older sister of a man”).

bor+

(manhwa, men's speech) An affectionate term of address for an older sister or somewhat older woman.


hyung

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Borrowed from Korean 형(兄) (hyeong, “older brother of a man”).

(manhwa, men's speech) An affectionate term of address for an older brother or somewhat older man.

(South Korean idol fandom) An older male member of an idol group.


ahjussi

ahjussis (plural)
ahjushi (alternative)
ajussi (alternative)
ajushi (alternative)
ajeossi (alternative)
ajeoshi (alternative)

Coordinate term: ajumma


gentleman-in-waiting

gentlemen-in-waiting (plural)
gentleman in waiting (alternative)

(historical) A male attendant or servant in a royal or noble household


boygina

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(transgender slang) The vulva or vagina of a trans man, or the neovagina of a detransitioned man; mangina.


Bloomerist

(historical, sometimes derogatory) A supporter of equal rights for women, especially in relation to dress.


Roman charity

en-noun

Roman charity (countable and uncountable, plural Roman charities)

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(Greek mythology, Roman mythology) A story where someone is sentenced to die by starvation; but their daughter saves them by secretly breastfeeding them.

Cimon and Pero (Rubens)
Peter Paul Rubens


trooner

Etymology tree
Proto-Indo-European *terh₂-der.
Proto-Italic *trānts
Latin trāns
Latin trans-bor.
English trans-
Proto-Indo-European *ǵenh₁-
Proto-Indo-European *-os
Proto-Indo-European *ǵénh₁os
Latin genus
Old French gendrebor.
Middle English gendre
English gender
English transgenderblend.
Proto-Indo-European *dʰeǵʰ-
Proto-Indo-European *-ōm
Proto-Indo-European *dʰéǵʰōm
Proto-Indo-European *-ō
Proto-Indo-European *ǵʰmṓ
Proto-Germanic *gumô
Proto-West Germanic *gumō
Old English guma
Middle English gone?
English gooney
English goonblend.
English troon
Latin -ariusbor.
Proto-Germanic *-ārijaz
Proto-West Germanic *-ārī
Old English -ere
Middle English -er
English -er
English trooner
From troon + -er.

etymon

But I do argue this point about trans women being male to the trooners.

2023 June 8, Suzanna (@AlastairSuzanna), Twitter:

Trooner propganda^([sic]) preys on outcasts who have a hard time identifying with society

2023 June 19, StraffadeJanne (@StraffadeJanne), Twitter:

Why do trooners need constant validation? It’s not an “expression of identity” it’s a mental illness

2024 June 22, The Sauce (@PotOfLean), Twitter:

(anti-LGBTQ slur, Internet slang, derogatory, offensive) A transgender person; a troon.


Cathedral

the Cathedral (canonical)
the cathedral (alternative)

From cathedral. Coined by political blogger Curtis Yarvin, writing as Mencius Moldbug.

coined

The reaction from the Cathedral—the press, the political establishment, and everyone else who shaped acceptable opinion—was quick and unanimous

2019 May 14, Michael Malice, “The Strike” (chapter 3), in The New Right: A Journey to the Fringe of American Politics, →ISBN, from third sentence of third paragraph:

This is why grown-up men and women in the Cathedral (to use the neoreactionary term for the Establishment) actually believe that the MAGA yahoos of January 6 nearly overthrew the US government.

2022 January 14, Rod Dreher, “Neckbeard Militias Are Not My Enemy”, in The American Conservative, archived from the original on 2022-04-15:

[Curtis Yarvin] is forthright in his belief that the present order — to his mind, an oligarchy governed by a complex of elite institutions (like this newspaper) that he calls “the Cathedral” — should be overthrown

2022 December 10, Ross Douthat, “A Political Theory of King Elon Musk”, in The New York Times, archived from the original on 2024-03-23:

(US politics, slang, Dark Enlightenment and libertarianism) The mainstream system or establishment in society, regarded as liberal or leftist.


they/them

From a common format for specifying gender-neutral pronouns in online profiles.

I've long used videogames as a means to cope with both my disability and my dysphoria, but Baldur's Gate 3 is the first time I've been able to really get into roleplaying a they/them causing mayhem.

2023 September 10, Nova Smith, “Baldur's Gate 3 is the first game that met me halfway in roleplaying a they/them causing mayhem, and that feels like the future of RPGs”, in PC Gamer:

The individual straight cises whom I work with are pretty nice for the most part. Still, people (mostly my boomer coworkers) often misgender other people (mostly the younger they/thems) at my office and bristle when corrected.

2024 May 1, Emily Gould, quoting Mx. Vanilla, “‘Help! Our DEI Trainer Won’t Stop Talking About Kink’”, in The Cut:

In case you were wondering, "Shakespeare's They/Thems" turned out to be Rosalind and Viola. The Folger talk summons these "cross-dressed female protagonists" as evidence that Shakespeare was "comfortable" with "non-binary" and "transgender identity"

2024, Colby Gordon, quoting Folger Shakespeare Library, Glorious Bodies: Trans Theology and Renaissance Literature, University of Chicago Press, →ISBN, page 18:

(Internet slang, sometimes offensive) A non-binary person; a person who uses non-binary pronouns.


same day lay

same day lays (plural)
same-day lay (alternative)

(seduction community, vulgar) An act of sexual intercourse with a woman one has cold approached on the same day.


gender nonconformity

Gender expression, identity or behavior that is not in accordance with traditional masculine or feminine gender norms.


king consort

en-noun

king consort (plural king consorts or kings consort)

king consorts (plural)
kings consort (plural)

Coordinate term: queen consort

Near-synonym: prince consort (if not recognized as a king)

It is also worth an aside here and noting that when Mary Queen of Scots married François, the French Dauphin in April 1558, he likewise became king consort of Scotland.

1998, Michael Ashley, British Monarchs: The Complete Genealogy, Gazetteer, and Biographical Encyclopedia of the Kings & Queens of Britain, page 639:

Make no mistake, should Rhaenyra ever sit the Iron Throne, it will be Daemon who rules us, a king consort as cruel and unforgiving as Maegor ever was.

2018, George R. R. Martin, Fire & Blood, unnumbered page:

Forged by King Consort Radagon to proudly symbolize the tenets of the Golden Order.

2022, FromSoftware (developer), Hidetaka Miyazaki, George R. R. Martin (writers), Elden Ring, →OCLC, scene: "Golden Order Greatsword" item description:


taharat hamishpacha

Borrowed from Hebrew טהרת המשפחה (“family purity”).

bor+

That's an _added_ bonus, like avoiding pork products avoids trichonosis or circumscised males are less prone to penile cancer and women who practice taharas hamishpacha are less prone to cervix cancer.

2003 May 18, mos...@mm.huji.ac.il, “Actually, only 20% of the Jewish people left Eg”, in soc.culture.jewish.moderated (Usenet):

They are "offended" by the laws of taharas hamishpacha and bristle at the idea that women sit behind a mechitza.

2004 May 23, Susan Cohen, quoting Cindys, “Sheitel Burning in Israel”, in soc.culture.jewish.moderated (Usenet):

Numerous scholars […] have opined on potential ways in which adherence to the mandates of taharat hamishpacha can benefit a marriage, including injecting a monthly sense of renewal into the husband-wife relationship, ensuring that the couple learns to relate to each other on levels beyond the physical, cultivating a husband's sensitivity towards his wife during a vulnerable time of the month, sanctifying the physical bond between husband and wife, and more.

2010, Shmuel Goldin, Unlocking the Torah Text: Vayikra, Gefen Publishing House, →ISBN, page 88:

The Jewish laws pertaining to menstruation, given in Leviticus.


M-She-U

Blend of MCU + she. Most likely popularized by the YouTube channel Nerdrotic.

(fandom slang, derogatory, Internet slang) The Marvel Cinematic Universe, perceived by fans to be too feminist or left-wing.

Hollywoke

Hollywood films being perceived as overtly left-wing


menophilia

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A paraphilia involving menses or the menstrual cycle.


mascgirl

mascgirls (plural)
masgirl (alternative)

A female individual who adopts a masculine aesthetic.


rapid-onset gender dysphoria

en-noun

rapid-onset gender dysphoria (uncountable)

Coined by Lisa Littman in July 2016. First appeared in a notice posted to a gender-critical blog and was later popularized by a 2018 paper by Littman.

rapid onset gender dysphoria (alternative)

Rapid onset gender dysphoria, by contrast, usually only relates to biological females, and is determined by a sudden acknowledgment they may be trans with little to no prior signals.

2022 September 8, Nikolas Lanum, “New 'Tucker Carlson Originals' two-part special sees 'detransitioners' speak out against trans 'movement'”, in Fox News:

(gender critical, pseudoscience) Controversial and scientifically unsupported subset of gender dysphoria claimed to be caused by social influence.

Rapid onset gender dysphoria controversy


rapid onset gender dysphoria

rapid onset gender dysphoria (uncountable)

rapid-onset gender dysphoria
rapid-onset gender dysphoria#English

Alternative spelling of rapid-onset gender dysphoria


She Who Must Not Be Named

Alternative spelling of She-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named


altersex

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https://anunnakiray.com/2017/01/21/intersex-vs-intergender-do-intersex-transexuals-exist/ Altersex: A catch-all term consisting of alter, meant here as “different” or “another possibility,” and sex, referring to physiological primary and secondary sex characteristics.

https://medium.com/@pauljohnpoles/why-isnt-anyone-talking-about-subconscious-sex-db5bd49aec30 “Altersex” could be another option, though it does not seem to specify whether one wants no sex characteristics, or a combination of female and male sex characteristics.

https://www.quora.com/Can-non-binary-people-get-gender-affirmation-surgery-How-would-that-work Take a transmasc non-binary AFAB person. They may get top surgery to better fit their gender. Maybe look into altersex if you’re talking about bottom surgery.

(of an individual) Having any of a variety of acquired conditions in which one's sex characteristics differ from those of a typical male and female; for example, having sex characteristics relating to both male and female sexes by choice. this word can be used to fictional condition.


TNBGD

Our research uncovered that violence affecting TNBGD people is widespread across the four countries through systemic, cultural, religious and political influence.

2023 February 10, Nyx McLean, Thurlo Cicero, “Interrogating Transphobia Within The LGBTQIA+ Community”, in GenderIT.org:

(uncommon) Initialism of transgender, non-binary, and gender diverse.


parents' rights

(international law) Civil rights movement interested in human rights affecting parents related to family law.


parental rights

(conservatism) Synonym of parents' rights


gender transition

gender transition (countable and uncountable, plural gender transitions)

This book is intended to be a guide for MtF and FtM Transsexuals in managing the legal aspects of gender transition.

1999, Spencer Bergstedt, “Book Reviews”, in Matthew S. Carlos, Mykael Hawley, editors, Transgender Tapestry, Waltham, Mass.: International Foundation for Gender Education, →ISSN, page 83, column 1:

(transgender) Process or act of changing one's gender role or physical characteristics, by social, medical, or legal methods, to conform to their identified gender, rather than the sex assigned at birth.

gendertransisie

process of affirming one's gender identity


abortifactive

[…] abortifactive agents such as Brucella abortus and Tritrichomonas foetus are not present in the Swedish bovine population […]

2003, Susanne Stenlund, Hans Kindahl, Arvid Uggla, Camilla Björkman, “A Long-Term Study of Neospora caninum Infection in a Swedish Dairy Herd”, in Acta Veterinaria Scandinavica, volume 44, number 2, pages 63-71:

Complete necropsies, abortion panels to rule out other abortifactive agents, serum Ig levels, and aoEBA-specific immunohistochemistry (IHC) were performed on each fetus to confirm EBA diagnosis.

2011, Roxann S. Brooks, Myra T. Blanchard, Mark L. Anderson, Mark R. Hall, Jeffery L. Stott, “Quantitative duplex TaqMan real-time polymerase chain reaction for the assessment of the etiologic agent of epizootic bovine abortion”, in Journal of Veterinary Diagnostic Investigation, volume 23, number 6, pages 1153-1159:

[…] a high degree of seropositivity to N. caninum was diagnosed after evaluating for various abortifactive agents.

2015, Priya Bapodra, Barbara A Wolfe, “Investigation of Neospora caninum seroprevalence and potential impact on reproductive success in semi-freeranging Père David’s deer (Elaphurus davidianus)”, in Veterinary Record Open, volume 2, number 1:

Abortion panels were conducted to identify fetal/neonatal losses due to other abortifactive agents.

2022, Myra T. Blanchard, Mike B. Teglas, Mark L. Anderson, Peter F. Moore, Bret R. McNabb, Kassidy M. Collins, Bret V. Yeargan, Jeffrey L. Stott, “Protection of Cattle against Epizootic Bovine Abortion (EBA) Using a Live Pajaroellobacter abortibovis Vaccine”, in Vaccines (Basel), volume 10, number 2, page 335:

REMINDER: Steroids may be abortifactive for gravid females; be willing to live by the consequences. Use only in life threatening circumstances for pregnant females.

2024, “Chemical Immobilization, Capture and Handling:”, in Yellowstone Grizzly Project, archived from the original on 2024-08-26:

(pharmacology) Inducing abortion or miscarriage, abortifacient.


gender-affirming surgery

gender-affirming surgery (countable and uncountable, plural gender-affirming surgeries)

(transgender) A surgical procedure that alters a person's physical sexual characteristics to conform with their gender identity.


birthing person

birthing person (plural birthing persons or birthing people)

birthing persons (plural)
birthing people (plural)

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Black trans/gender nonconforming birthing persons are more likely than cisgender women to seek a home birth, but they may face particular challenges in finding medical personnel who respect their identity and reproductive choices.¹⁶

2015 December 22, Julia Chinyere Oparah, Alicia D. Bonaparte, Birthing Justice: Black Women, Pregnancy, and Childbirth, Routledge, →ISBN, page 160:

Dads can feel ignored or shunned from the grief experience, particularly in the hospital environment, which can feel entirely oriented towards the care of the woman or birthing person.

2020 November 5, Kay King, Why Baby Loss Matters (Pinter & Martin Why it Matters), Pinter & Martin Ltd, →ISBN, →OCLC:

Even if you don't manage to make a difference in a particular scenario, it can make a bit difference to a woman or birthing person to know that they had you as an advocate, supporting them and their interests.

2023 March 14, Tania Staras, Communication in Midwifery - E-Book: Communication in Midwifery - E-Book, Elsevier Health Sciences, →ISBN, →OCLC, page 20:

(neologism) a person who has the ability to give birth (or has had it)


gender envy

A sense of joy felt when noticing someone else's gender expression; secondhand gender euphoria.


ultrafeminism

This stereotype of the West is not new. It builds on writings of the influential political scientist Sergey Karaganov, who considered the West to be characterized by “phenomena such as LGBtism,^([sic]) multisexuality, ultrafeminism, denial of history and one’s roots, faith, support of black racism including its anti-Christian elements and its anti-Semitism”.

2023, Angelika Nußberger, “Russia and the West – Identity Formation on the Basis of Otherness”, in European Identities and Values in Transformation: Impulses of the Hamburg-Vigoni Forum for a European Future Agenda (Notes from the Hamburg-Vigoni Forum; 4), Hamburg: University of Hamburg, page 23:

(sometimes derogatory) An extreme form of feminism.


gender affirmation surgery

gender affirmation surgery (countable and uncountable, plural gender affirmation surgeries)

Gender-affirmation surgery is a rapidly growing field in plastic surgery, urologic surgery, and gynecologic surgery. […] However, the details of gender-affirmation surgery are less well-known to other surgical subspecialties and other medical subspecialties.

2021, Arya Andre Akhavan, Shabaaz Sandhu, Idorenyin Ndem, Adeyemi A Ogunleye, “A review of gender affirmation surgery: What we know, and what we need to know”, in Surgery, volume 170, number 1, →DOI, →PMID, pages 336–340:

gender-affirming surgery
gender-affirming surgery#English


urinary leash

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(feminism, historical) The former situation of women being largely confined to their homes because of a lack of public toilets for women.


ethnosexism

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Borrowed from German Ethnosexismus, introduced by Gabriele Dietze 2016 in reference to the discourses around 2015–16 New Year's Eve sexual assaults in Germany. Equivalent to ethno- + sexism.

An intersectional form of discrimination pushing narratives where a sex or gender is constructed as disadvantaged due to ethnic background and geopolitical position.


incelhood

This is arguably linked to two things: declining tolerance for straight men’s behavior may have, on the one hand, caused this; the effect is misogynistic backlash in the form of rising incelhood.

2022 November 19, Amlan Sarkar, “A Straight Masculinity Crisis Is Underway — And It’s a Good Thing”, in The Swaddle:


male as norm

(grammar, feminism) The principle that holds that grammatical and lexical devices such as the use of the feminine suffix -ess and the use of man to mean human, strengthen the perceptions that the male category is the norm, and that corresponding female categories are thus less important.


boypreggers

/ˈbɔɪˌpɹɛ.ɡəs/

/ˈbɔɪˌpɹɛ.ɡəɹs/

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just got my boybortion, no longer boypreggers 😔😔😔

2021 August 25, @Minty_2022, Twitter, archived from the original on 2024-09-21:

Which DS9 character should get boypreggers?

2023 November 5, imsoglitter, Tumblr, archived from the original on 2024-09-21:

You can get me boypreggers anytime

2024 September 16, Jonah Ramirez (@_polybius), Threads, archived from the original on 2024-09-21:

(Internet slang) Of a boy or man, pregnant.


cypro

(pharmacology, informal) Clipping of cyproterone.


antiwomanist

en-adj

antiwomanist (comparative more antiwomanist, superlative most antiwomanist)

more antiwomanist (comparative)
most antiwomanist (superlative)

Interactions between women and men, or girls and boys, are warped with imbalance from the outset: “Male acculturation (a better description would be males’ seasoning) is antifemale, antiwomanist, antifeminist, and antireason […] Most men have been taught to treat, respond, listen, and react to women from a male’s point of view” (Madhubuti, 2005, p. 175).

2018 February 27, “White Men’s Terrorism: Rape Culture, Mass Gun Violence, and Raising Our Boys to Hate Our Girls (and Everyone Else)”, in The Bridges We Burn:


antiwomanist

This means, then, that many, if not most, male feminists and male womanists exist, literally, in a "no-man's land," where they receive the cold shoulder from feminists and womanists, and are shamelessly shunned by male antifeminists and antiwomanists and the supersexist men who rule the male supremacist world.

2010, Reiland Rabaka, Forms of Fanonism:


intersexness

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The state of having the physical features of both sexes, or of having ambiguous sex, i.e. not unambiguously male or female.


`num`MeJew

2018 January 31, Lisa Feldsher, “#MeJew”, in The Times of Israel:

2020 January 1, Judi Zirin, “#MeJew”, in The Times of Israel:

(neologism) A feminist movement against antisemitic sexual assault, harassment, and violence.


SEGM

w:Society for Evidence-Based Gender Medicine

Initialism of Society for Evidence-Based Gender Medicine.


non-Christian

/ˌnɒnˈkɹɪst͡ʃən/

/ˌnɑːnˈkɹɪst͡ʃən/


FemLar

feminization laryngoplasty
w:feminization laryngoplasty

(surgery) Abbreviation of feminization laryngoplasty.


International Day of the Girl Child

International Day of the Girl (alternative)

At its fiftieth session in February 2006, the CSW identified the girl child as its "priority theme," and it collaborated with UNICEF to organize an expert group meeting on the girl child and build momentum toward creating an International Day of the Girl Child.

2019 October 16, Ashwini Tambe, Defining Girlhood in India: A Transnational History of Sexual Maturity Laws, University of Illinois Press, →ISBN:

A holiday celebrated on October 11 that aims to raise awareness of the challenges and issues faced by girls around the world


International Day of the Girl

International Day of the Girl Child#English

Alternative form of International Day of the Girl Child


milk token

(UK) A token given by the state to a pregnant woman or mother of a young infant for the purchase of milk and related supplies.


milk card

(UK) A payment card serving the same purpose as milk tokens.


milk voucher

(UK) A voucher serving the same purpose as a milk token.


girlbulge

/ˈɡɜːlˌbʌldʒ/

/ˈɡɜɹlˌbʊldʒ/

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(transgender slang) The bulge (outline of the genitalia visible through clothing) of a trans woman.


tbulge

(transgender slang) The bulge (outline of the genitalia visible through clothing) of a transgender person.


manclaiming

(feminism, rare, derogatory) A man's practice of claiming a woman's work as his own.


AVfM

But on Saturday, AVfM managing editor Dean Esmay published an essay decrying “censorship” and “misandry” on a new platform: Wikipedia, that sum of all human knowledge, where Esmay says editors “infected” by a “hateful Gender Feminist dogma” have conspired to silence him and other members of his movement.

2014 April 8, Caitlin Dewey, “Men’s rights activists think a “hateful” feminist conspiracy is ruining Wikipedia”, in The Washington Post, archived from the original on 2014-08-04:


traitoresse

They must refuse to be her officers, because she is a traitoresse and rebell against God.

1558, John Knox, edited by Edward Arber, The First Blast of the Trumpet against the monstrous regiment of Women (quotation in English; overall work in English):

There ſhall your Maſter haue a thouſand loues, / A Mother, and a Miſtreſſe, and a friend, / A Phenix, Captaine, and an enemy, / A guide, a Goddeſſe, and a Soueraigne, / A Counſellor, a Traitoreſſe, and a Deare: […]

c. 1604–1605 (date written), William Shakespeare, “All’s Well, that Ends Well”, in Mr. William Shakespeares Comedies, Histories, & Tragedies […] (First Folio), London: […] Isaac Iaggard, and Ed[ward] Blount, published 1623, →OCLC, [Act I, scene i], page 231, column 2:


traitresse

Call'd hir vntrue and traitresse, as who sought
 To yeeld him vp she could no more defend

1595, Robert Garnier, translated by Mary Sidney, The tragedie of Antonie. Doone into English by the Countesse of Pembroke (quotation in English; overall work in English):


traytress

My Wife, my Traytress, let her not come near me.

1671, John Milton, Samson Agonistes (quotation in English; overall work in English):


-moder

From mode + -er, modelled after boymoder and girlmoder.

(transgender slang) Forms nouns relating to a person who is presenting in a given manner regardless of their gender identity.


green queen

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From green + queen (“an effeminate or homosexual man”).

com

queen<id:homosexual man><t:an effeminate or homosexual man>

(US, gay slang) A gay man who derives sexual pleasure from engaging in public sex in parks, near bushes and trees.


John 50

John 50s (plural)
John, 50 (alternative)

From John + 50, in reference to a 2001 study in the journal Gender and Psychoanalysis, where a 50-year-old male identified as John is described as struggling with gender dysphoria after years of repression.

Anon will be a extremely bitter john 50 and his family will all have an extreme hate for him for trooning out. Also i bet this sends his sister down a terf pipeline and I honestly don’t blame them

2023 June 6, u/avian_variety, Reddit, r/4tran:

It honestly feels like I was born to be a #john50 the way that my life has only gotten worse on hrt and I was so successful at repressing for so long but alas I was born in present era 💔💔

nick fuentes is a john50 lateshit represser who seeks out nazism to cope with his gigaogremoder repression

(4chan /lgbt/ slang, derogatory) A trans woman who has long repressed her feelings of gender dysphoria.


John 50

en-verb

John 50 (third-person singular simple present John 50s, present participle John 50ing, simple past and past participle John 50ed)

John 50s (present singular third-person)
John 50ing (participle present)
John 50ed (participle past)
John 50ed (past)
John, 50 (alternative)

en:to transition in the manner of a John 50

(intransitive, 4chan /lgbt/ slang, derogatory) To transition as a John 50.


nyan-binary

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(Internet slang) Non-binary, in contexts relating to cats.


homosexual transsexual

en-noun

homosexual transsexual (plural homosexual transsexuals)

In Blanchard's transsexualism typology, a transgender person who is attracted to people of the same birth sex.


transmania

ThinkAboutIt: Do they stand to gain that much? I mean how many people are we talking about? Seeking testosterone inhibitors or estrogen shots. And surgery. Which wouldn't be BigPharm, but would at least be the medical industry.
TeeTee: Okay, point taken, they may not be driving the transmania, but since they benefit, they're surely supporting it.

2020, Peg Tittle, Gender Fraud: a fiction:

Public acceptance of gender ideology […] reached critical mass during 2014-2015 when it exploded on the scene with a Time Magazine cover story "The Transgender Tipping Point," and Vanity Fairs cover story on Olympian Bruce Jenner's new identity as female, titled "Call Me Caitlyn." Popular culture was soon saturated with transmania'.

2022, Stella Morabito, The Weaponization of Loneliness: How Tyrants Stoke Our Fear:

As the Left continues to alienate themselves from traditional American values with woke new versions of classic fairy tales and children's stories, conservatives have quietly begun building a parallel economy ... this has opened up a huge economic opportunity for newcomers who refuse to bend to liberal pressure to champion the transmania that has replaced common sense in corporate executive suites (Stauffer).

"Next News Network" (YouTube channel), quoted in 2024, Jennifer A. Kokai, Tom Robson, Disney Parks and the Construction of American Identity (page 192)

(derogatory, offensive) The enthusiastic acceptance or promotion of transgenderism.


girlglock

girlglocks (plural)
gock (alternative)
girlcock (alternative)

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(vulgar, transgender slang) The penis of a trans woman.


inspin

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Blend of involuntary + spinster, after incel

(Internet slang, seduction community) A woman incel.


poor little rich boy

poor little rich boy (plural poor little rich boys)

(idiomatic) An unhappy young man from a wealthy background.


night game

(seduction community) The practice of going out in nighttime hours to cold approach strangers and attempt to seduce them.


womanosphere

From woman + -o- + -sphere, by analogy with manosphere.

Instead, we retreat into our gender-segregated media spaces where the manosphere extols stoicism and the womanosphere celebrates emotional vulnerability.

2024 April 17, David Sasaki, “The emotionally immature lives of men and women”, in The Time Capsule:

(Internet) The collection of blogs and websites that focus on women's issues.


fragile masculinity

Anxiety felt by men who feel they do not meet cultural standards of manhood


boyfailure

Coordinate term: girlfailure

(fandom slang) A fictional boy or man who is endearingly pathetic or inept.


male-identified

I'm here to tell you that lesbian battering occurs in all kinds of lesbian relationships. I am a butch and I was a victim of it. All kinds of women can be abused, and many different kinds of women can be abusers. It's not going to be as easy as pointing fingers at those who are "male-identified" or have "internalized homophobia," and saying the problem is over there.

1984 February 4, Anne Franklin, “Who Are The Experts?”, in Gay Community News, volume 11, number 28, page 6:

(feminism, of a woman, derogatory) Aligned with patriarchal interests.


kor kor

[kɔː˨ kɔː˨˦]

From Cantonese 哥哥 (go¹⁻⁴ go¹) or Hokkien 哥哥 (ko-ko, “elder brother”).

korkor (alternative)
kor (alternative)
gor gor (alternative)

(Singapore, informal or childish) Term of address for an elder brother within Chinese families.

(Singapore, informal, by extension, used by children) Term of address for an older male child, teenager or young adult.


kor kor

From Hokkien 姑姑 (ko͘-ko͘, “paternal aunt”).

(Singapore, informal or familiar) Term of address for a paternal aunt within some Chinese families.


jie jie

[t͡sɛː˨ t͡sɛː˨˦]

From Cantonese 姐姐 (ze²⁻⁴ ze²⁻¹) and Mandarin 姐姐 (jiějié).

(Singapore, informal, by extension, used by children) Term of address for an older female child, teenager or young adult.


WPATH

Surgical interventions for gender dysphoria, according to WPATH, can include feminizing or masculinizing hormone therapy, voice therapy, chest augmentation and reduction, or genital surgery.

2018 May 31, Emanuella Grinberg, “What is medically necessary treatment for gender-affirming health care?”, in CNN:

Aware that WPATH suppressed systematic reviews of evidence while developing its latest “standards of care,” ASPS says that it “is reviewing and prioritizing several initiatives that best support evidence-based gender surgical care to provide guidance to plastic surgeons.”

2024 December 8, Leor Sapir, “A Consensus No Longer”, in City Journal:

w:World Professional Association for Transgender Health

Acronym of World Professional Association for Transgender Health.


male condom

Retronym of condom, coined after the introduction of the internal condom/female condom to distinguish the type of barrier contraceptive worn over an erect penis from the type worn internally in the vagina or anus.

(often proscribed) A condom worn over an erect penis, in contradistinction to one worn internally in the anus or vagina.


external condom

external condom (plural external condoms)


Trantifa

These men with "gender identities" are fascists who call themselves "antifascists." […] Trantifa's hatred of women is unparalleled, in my experience. […] A mob of hundreds of trantifa gathered outside the library, chanting and screaming that we are "TERFs" […]

Trantifa activists make crude gestures and display the trans-antifascist banner at a rally in Vancouver, Canada, in March

2023 June 11, James Reinl, “The new face of extremism unmasked: The UN and Republicans are watching 'Trantifa' - the hard-left transgender activists who flirt with violence to promote their radical agenda”, in Mail Online:

(informal, derogatory) transgender activists, seen as violent extremists.


trumed

(Internet slang, euphemistic) transmedicalist or truscum


MacKinnonian

en-adj

MacKinnonian (comparative more MacKinnonian, superlative most MacKinnonian)

more MacKinnonian (comparative)
most MacKinnonian (superlative)

Of or relating to Catharine A. MacKinnon (born 1946), American feminist legal scholar, activist, and author.


Chodorowian

Chodorowian (comparative more Chodorowian, superlative most Chodorowian)

more Chodorowian (comparative)
most Chodorowian (superlative)

Of or relating to Nancy Chodorow (born 1944), American feminist sociologist.


lesbian chic

Critics attacked what they perceived to be the key feature of lesbian chic, i.e., 'cheque-writing dykes who [look] suspiciously like the average Tory shithead's daughter' (Solanas 1993, p. 5).

2008 February 19, Veronika Koller, Lesbian Discourses: Images of a Community, Routledge, →ISBN, page 149:

[…] the fever surrounding lesbian chic in the 1990s belied "a larger cultural anxiety about the dangers of the lesbian body, exemplified by the simultaneous embrace of the 'new femme' as cutting edge and the denunciation of real-life lesbians as perverse and depraved".

2020 September 14, Kate Farhall, Sex, Feminism and Lesbian Desire in Women’s Magazines, Routledge, →ISBN, page 2007:


betatize

en-verb

betatize (third-person singular simple present betatizes, present participle betatizing, simple past and past participle betatized)

betatizes (present singular third-person)
betatizing (participle present)
betatized (participle past)
betatized (past)
betatise (alternative)

beta + -ate (verb-forming suffix) + -ize

af

She can hold her purse, she's just trying to betatize you, and I don’t use that world lightly, into doing something for her and kind of turning you into this, like, doormat for. You might think I'm exaggerating here and I'm being this complete red pull guy, I'm telling you, it’s the truth, she’s willing to see if she can steal the frame and make you her personal assistant and kind of make you do something, like, everything you do has to be on your own terms, right, so when she says hold my purse for me and you hold it for her, I know it may not seem deep, but it definitely is.

2024 December 18, YBCTooCold, 5:17 from the start, in Female Sh*t Tests (TIER LIST):

(seduction community) To turn into a beta in socio-sexual hierarchy.


RAFC

I've successfully transformed myself from an AFC (Average Frustrated Chump) into an RAFC (Recovering Average Frustrated Chump).

2008, Zander Martin, The Players, →ISBN, page xxxvi:

average frustrated chump
average frustrated chump#English

(seduction community) Initialism of recovering average frustrated chump.


yabghu

yabghus (plural)
yabgu (alternative)
jabgu (alternative)
djabgu (alternative)

Learned borrowing from Old Turkic 𐰖𐰉𐰍𐰆 (yabɣu).

lbor

(historical) A ruler of a medieval Turkic state, nominally subject to a khagan.


Jane 50

(4chan /lgbt/ slang, derogatory) A trans man who has long repressed his feelings of gender dysphoria.


AHE

(uncountable) Abbreviation of autohomoeroticism.


autohomoeroticism

In Blanchard's transsexualism typology, the proposed paraphilic tendency of a female person to be sexually aroused by the thought of being male and engaging in homoeroticism.


priestess of Venus

en-noun

priestess of Venus (plural priestesses of Venus)

Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see priestess, of, Venus.


Mexico City policy

Named after the venue of the United Nations International Conference on Population and Development, where it was announced.

non-governmental organization
non-governmental organization

(US politics, historical) A former United States government policy that blocked U.S. federal funding for non-governmental organizations that provided abortion counseling or referrals, advocated to decriminalize abortion, or expanded abortion services.


Dniprianyn

Calque of Ukrainian дніпря́нин (dniprjányn)


Dniprianka

Calque of Ukrainian дніпря́нка (dniprjánka)


nullectomy

I don’t know how much more of this our culture can take. “Gender-affirming” surgeries are growing increasingly extreme. A source sent me links to websites operated by doctors who perform “bottom surgeries” advertising “genital nullification” — a.k.a. “nullectomy” — procedures that remove genitalia in order to create a “smooth” appearance in the groin.

2022 November 2, Wesley J. Smith, “‘Nullectomy’: Physician-Assisted Mutilation”, in National Review:

I’d rather be born the way I am now, but flat and nippleless chest, and having a nullectomy. Maybe a slightly different face shape too

2024 September 16, u/AroAceMagic, Reddit, r/NonBinaryTalk:

If you are interested a person who got their body exactly like you described created a sub for this kind of surgery, it's called "nullectomy"

2024 October 30, u/MystiqueAnza, Reddit, r/asexuality:

(surgery) Plastic surgery to remove external genitalia in order to create a smooth groin appearance; a person who has undergone this surgery is a nullo.


two-week wait

The time between ovulation and the expected time of menstruation, during which a person trying to get pregnant is unsure if it has "taken".


big pregnant

en-adj

big pregnant (comparative more big pregnant, superlative most big pregnant)

more big pregnant (comparative)
most big pregnant (superlative)

bĭg ˈpɹɛɡnənt

/bɪɡ ˈpɹɛɡnənt/

And she was big pregnant this time, she’s big pregnant, straddling the girl, and beating her with the shoe!

2003, Gerard Van Herk, “Barbadian lects”, in Michael Aceto, Jeffrey Payne Williams, editors, Contact Englishes of the Eastern Caribbean, John Benjamins Publishing Company, →ISBN, page 263:

Ainny Mary looked at Dolores after she was big pregnant with you, and told your mama that she was carrying another boy.

2009 June 28, Shebaad, Star Cocooned in Mediocrity, AuthorHouse, →ISBN, page 40:

All of a sudden, the door opened. It was her. She was big pregnant; her stomach was out there. I just kept looking at her: she was not cute at all.

2012, Tameka Monique, The Divas That We Are!!: If You Know Your Worth, Others Will Recognize It and Respect It., Xlibris US, →ISBN, page 91:

She was big pregnant and waddled around their home with Matthew teasing her about her big belly.

2018 August 28, Shawn M. Beasley, Killing the Rougarou, iUniverse, →ISBN:

Before John could say anything, Tony’s wife walked in. She was big pregnant.

2022 February 28, Janice Owens, Gilbert and Max: The Wedding, Page Publishing, Incorporated, →ISBN:

She's pregnant. She's big pregnant.

2024 October 25, (Please provide the book title or journal name), CNN:

(informal) Near the end of pregnancy, with noticeable abdominal swelling.


V-code

en-verb

V-code (third-person singular simple present V-codes, present participle V-coding, simple past and past participle V-coded)

V-codes (present singular third-person)
V-coding (participle present)
V-coded (participle past)
V-coded (past)

(LGBTQ, transitive) To subject (someone) to V-coding.


V-coding

In a grotesque manipulation of power dynamics, sexual and carceral violence combine to produce V-coding: Prison staff “pacify” incarcerated men by putting a trans woman in a cell with them to “offer” sexual favors. But this kind of sex, usually unprotected, isn’t sex at all. It’s facilitated rape.
Studies and testimonies over the past decades define V-coding as “a central part of a trans woman’s sentence.” One survivor, Kim Love, described being forced to take a “husband.” Prison authorities frame this as violence prevention.

2024 February 29, Zain Murdock, “How ‘V-Coding’ Demonstrates The Violence Of Rape And Prison Culture”, in PushBlack, archived from the original on 2025-02-08:

(LGBTQ) The placement of incarcerated trans women in cells with aggressive cisgender male inmates as a form of reward or pacification for said male inmates.


autogynandromorphophilia

/ˌɔː.təʊˌɡaɪˌnæn.dɹəʊˌmɔː.fəˈfɪ.li.ə/

Coordinate term: autoandrogynemorphophilia

The supposed paraphilic attraction to the thought of being a transgender woman ("gynandromorph").