sidonta

sidonta (nominative singular)
sidonnat (nominative plural)
sidonta (accusative nominative singular)
sidonnat (accusative nominative plural)
sidonnan (accusative genitive singular)
sidonnat (accusative genitive plural)
sidonnan (genitive singular)
sidontojen (genitive plural)
sidontain (genitive plural rare)
sidontaa (partitive singular)
sidontoja (partitive plural)
sidonnassa (inessive singular)
sidonnoissa (inessive plural)
sidonnasta (elative singular)
sidonnoista (elative plural)
sidontaan (illative singular)
sidontoihin (illative plural)
sidonnalla (adessive singular)
sidonnoilla (adessive plural)
sidonnalta (ablative singular)
sidonnoilta (ablative plural)
sidonnalle (allative singular)
sidonnoille (allative plural)
sidontana (essive singular)
sidontoina (essive plural)
sidonnaksi (singular translative)
sidonnoiksi (plural translative)
sidonnatta (abessive singular)
sidonnoitta (abessive plural)
sidonnoin (instructive plural)
See the possessive forms below. (comitative)
sidontani (nominative singular)
sidontani (nominative plural)
sidontani (accusative nominative singular)
sidontani (accusative nominative plural)
sidontani (accusative genitive singular)
sidontani (accusative genitive plural)
sidontani (genitive singular)
sidontojeni (genitive plural)
sidontaini (genitive plural rare)
sidontaani (partitive singular)
sidontojani (partitive plural)
sidonnassani (inessive singular)
sidonnoissani (inessive plural)
sidonnastani (elative singular)
sidonnoistani (elative plural)
sidontaani (illative singular)
sidontoihini (illative plural)
sidonnallani (adessive singular)
sidonnoillani (adessive plural)
sidonnaltani (ablative singular)
sidonnoiltani (ablative plural)
sidonnalleni (allative singular)
sidonnoilleni (allative plural)
sidontanani (essive singular)
sidontoinani (essive plural)
sidonnakseni (singular translative)
sidonnoikseni (plural translative)
sidonnattani (abessive singular)
sidonnoittani (abessive plural)
sidontoineni (comitative plural)
sidontasi (nominative singular)
sidontasi (nominative plural)
sidontasi (accusative nominative singular)
sidontasi (accusative nominative plural)
sidontasi (accusative genitive singular)
sidontasi (accusative genitive plural)
sidontasi (genitive singular)
sidontojesi (genitive plural)
sidontaisi (genitive plural rare)
sidontaasi (partitive singular)
sidontojasi (partitive plural)
sidonnassasi (inessive singular)
sidonnoissasi (inessive plural)
sidonnastasi (elative singular)
sidonnoistasi (elative plural)
sidontaasi (illative singular)
sidontoihisi (illative plural)
sidonnallasi (adessive singular)
sidonnoillasi (adessive plural)
sidonnaltasi (ablative singular)
sidonnoiltasi (ablative plural)
sidonnallesi (allative singular)
sidonnoillesi (allative plural)
sidontanasi (essive singular)
sidontoinasi (essive plural)
sidonnaksesi (singular translative)
sidonnoiksesi (plural translative)
sidonnattasi (abessive singular)
sidonnoittasi (abessive plural)
sidontoinesi (comitative plural)
sidontamme (nominative singular)
sidontamme (nominative plural)
sidontamme (accusative nominative singular)
sidontamme (accusative nominative plural)
sidontamme (accusative genitive singular)
sidontamme (accusative genitive plural)
sidontamme (genitive singular)
sidontojemme (genitive plural)
sidontaimme (genitive plural rare)
sidontaamme (partitive singular)
sidontojamme (partitive plural)
sidonnassamme (inessive singular)
sidonnoissamme (inessive plural)
sidonnastamme (elative singular)
sidonnoistamme (elative plural)
sidontaamme (illative singular)
sidontoihimme (illative plural)
sidonnallamme (adessive singular)
sidonnoillamme (adessive plural)
sidonnaltamme (ablative singular)
sidonnoiltamme (ablative plural)
sidonnallemme (allative singular)
sidonnoillemme (allative plural)
sidontanamme (essive singular)
sidontoinamme (essive plural)
sidonnaksemme (singular translative)
sidonnoiksemme (plural translative)
sidonnattamme (abessive singular)
sidonnoittamme (abessive plural)
sidontoinemme (comitative plural)
sidontanne (nominative singular)
sidontanne (nominative plural)
sidontanne (accusative nominative singular)
sidontanne (accusative nominative plural)
sidontanne (accusative genitive singular)
sidontanne (accusative genitive plural)
sidontanne (genitive singular)
sidontojenne (genitive plural)
sidontainne (genitive plural rare)
sidontaanne (partitive singular)
sidontojanne (partitive plural)
sidonnassanne (inessive singular)
sidonnoissanne (inessive plural)
sidonnastanne (elative singular)
sidonnoistanne (elative plural)
sidontaanne (illative singular)
sidontoihinne (illative plural)
sidonnallanne (adessive singular)
sidonnoillanne (adessive plural)
sidonnaltanne (ablative singular)
sidonnoiltanne (ablative plural)
sidonnallenne (allative singular)
sidonnoillenne (allative plural)
sidontananne (essive singular)
sidontoinanne (essive plural)
sidonnaksenne (singular translative)
sidonnoiksenne (plural translative)
sidonnattanne (abessive singular)
sidonnoittanne (abessive plural)
sidontoinenne (comitative plural)
sidontansa (nominative singular)
sidontansa (nominative plural)
sidontansa (accusative nominative singular)
sidontansa (accusative nominative plural)
sidontansa (accusative genitive singular)
sidontansa (accusative genitive plural)
sidontansa (genitive singular)
sidontojensa (genitive plural)
sidontainsa (genitive plural rare)
sidontaansa (partitive singular)
sidontojaan (partitive plural)
sidontojansa (partitive plural)
sidonnassaan (inessive singular)
sidonnassansa (inessive singular)
sidonnoissaan (inessive plural)
sidonnoissansa (inessive plural)
sidonnastaan (elative singular)
sidonnastansa (elative singular)
sidonnoistaan (elative plural)
sidonnoistansa (elative plural)
sidontaansa (illative singular)
sidontoihinsa (illative plural)
sidonnallaan (adessive singular)
sidonnallansa (adessive singular)
sidonnoillaan (adessive plural)
sidonnoillansa (adessive plural)
sidonnaltaan (ablative singular)
sidonnaltansa (ablative singular)
sidonnoiltaan (ablative plural)
sidonnoiltansa (ablative plural)
sidonnalleen (allative singular)
sidonnallensa (allative singular)
sidonnoilleen (allative plural)
sidonnoillensa (allative plural)
sidontanaan (essive singular)
sidontanansa (essive singular)
sidontoinaan (essive plural)
sidontoinansa (essive plural)
sidonnakseen (singular translative)
sidonnaksensa (singular translative)
sidonnoikseen (plural translative)
sidonnoiksensa (plural translative)
sidonnattaan (abessive singular)
sidonnattansa (abessive singular)
sidonnoittaan (abessive plural)
sidonnoittansa (abessive plural)
sidontoineen (comitative plural)
sidontoinensa (comitative plural)


fireplay

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Many years I attended a BDSM conference where a well-known and respected BDSM master presented a demonstration of fireplay as part of the planned programme.

2009, Peter Masters, This Curious Human Phenomenon:

(BDSM) Any of various sexual practices involving fire, such as setting fire to alcohol against the skin.


mastru

mastri (plural)
majistru (alternative)
maistru (alternative)
maestru (alternative)
masciu (alternative)

Vulgarization of majistru, from the accusative of Latin magister. The stressed syllable shift could be explained with the conflation with a cognate variant, like the Catalan mestre. Compare Corsican maestru, French maitre, Ligurian méistro, Italian maestro, Sardinian maistru, Spanish maese.


genitorture

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The content of these videos often includes genitorture, tit-torture, bondage, spanking, flagellation (with belts, whips, and canes), water sports[…]

1995, John Robert Burger, One-handed histories: the eroto-politics of gay male video pornography, page 62:

Sounds are sometimes used in SM play for medical scenes and male genitorture.

1996, Bill Henkin, Sybil Holiday, Consensual sadomasochism: how to talk about it and how to do it safely, page 225:

If you have violent fantasies of evil women owning males as absolute property, with such elements as genitorture, castration, amputation, skinning alive, cooking alive, butchering, cannibalism, etc, you owe it to yourself to give Katharsis a look see.

1997, John Randall, “ASFD: F/m males as absolute property owned by women ... torture, genitorture, castration, execution”, in alt.sex.femdom (Usenet):


edge play

LL-Q1860 (eng)-Flame, not lame-edge play.wav

(BDSM) Any sexual activity involving the risk of physical harm, such as bloodplay or asphyxiation.


shibari

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Borrowed from Japanese 縛(しば)り (shibari).

What if your slave needs to be spanked/caned/flogged to get warmed up before serious rough sex that involves face slapping, but your ideal evening consists of spending an hour or so tying up your slave in an elaborate shibari rope harness and then just sitting there watching him/her twist slowly from the suspension rig?

2006, Robert J. Rubel, Master/Slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice, page 36:

“She's not your subbie, Dominic,” I stated. “You left her hanging in the shibari room last night. […]

2014, Katherine Rhodes, Not Quite Juliet: Silver Soul 1:


shibari

shibari (nominative singular)
shibarit (nominative plural)
shibari (accusative nominative singular)
shibarit (accusative nominative plural)
shibarin (accusative genitive singular)
shibarit (accusative genitive plural)
shibarin (genitive singular)
shibarien (genitive plural)
shibareiden (genitive plural)
shibareitten (genitive plural)
shibaria (partitive singular)
shibareita (partitive plural)
shibareja (partitive plural)
shibarissa (inessive singular)
shibareissa (inessive plural)
shibarista (elative singular)
shibareista (elative plural)
shibariin (illative singular)
shibareihin (illative plural)
shibarilla (adessive singular)
shibareilla (adessive plural)
shibarilta (ablative singular)
shibareilta (ablative plural)
shibarille (allative singular)
shibareille (allative plural)
shibarina (essive singular)
shibareina (essive plural)
shibariksi (singular translative)
shibareiksi (plural translative)
shibaritta (abessive singular)
shibareitta (abessive plural)
shibarein (instructive plural)
See the possessive forms below. (comitative)
shibarini (nominative singular)
shibarini (nominative plural)
shibarini (accusative nominative singular)
shibarini (accusative nominative plural)
shibarini (accusative genitive singular)
shibarini (accusative genitive plural)
shibarini (genitive singular)
shibarieni (genitive plural)
shibareideni (genitive plural)
shibareitteni (genitive plural)
shibariani (partitive singular)
shibareitani (partitive plural)
shibarejani (partitive plural)
shibarissani (inessive singular)
shibareissani (inessive plural)
shibaristani (elative singular)
shibareistani (elative plural)
shibariini (illative singular)
shibareihini (illative plural)
shibarillani (adessive singular)
shibareillani (adessive plural)
shibariltani (ablative singular)
shibareiltani (ablative plural)
shibarilleni (allative singular)
shibareilleni (allative plural)
shibarinani (essive singular)
shibareinani (essive plural)
shibarikseni (singular translative)
shibareikseni (plural translative)
shibarittani (abessive singular)
shibareittani (abessive plural)
shibareineni (comitative plural)
shibarisi (nominative singular)
shibarisi (nominative plural)
shibarisi (accusative nominative singular)
shibarisi (accusative nominative plural)
shibarisi (accusative genitive singular)
shibarisi (accusative genitive plural)
shibarisi (genitive singular)
shibariesi (genitive plural)
shibareidesi (genitive plural)
shibareittesi (genitive plural)
shibariasi (partitive singular)
shibareitasi (partitive plural)
shibarejasi (partitive plural)
shibarissasi (inessive singular)
shibareissasi (inessive plural)
shibaristasi (elative singular)
shibareistasi (elative plural)
shibariisi (illative singular)
shibareihisi (illative plural)
shibarillasi (adessive singular)
shibareillasi (adessive plural)
shibariltasi (ablative singular)
shibareiltasi (ablative plural)
shibarillesi (allative singular)
shibareillesi (allative plural)
shibarinasi (essive singular)
shibareinasi (essive plural)
shibariksesi (singular translative)
shibareiksesi (plural translative)
shibarittasi (abessive singular)
shibareittasi (abessive plural)
shibareinesi (comitative plural)
shibarimme (nominative singular)
shibarimme (nominative plural)
shibarimme (accusative nominative singular)
shibarimme (accusative nominative plural)
shibarimme (accusative genitive singular)
shibarimme (accusative genitive plural)
shibarimme (genitive singular)
shibariemme (genitive plural)
shibareidemme (genitive plural)
shibareittemme (genitive plural)
shibariamme (partitive singular)
shibareitamme (partitive plural)
shibarejamme (partitive plural)
shibarissamme (inessive singular)
shibareissamme (inessive plural)
shibaristamme (elative singular)
shibareistamme (elative plural)
shibariimme (illative singular)
shibareihimme (illative plural)
shibarillamme (adessive singular)
shibareillamme (adessive plural)
shibariltamme (ablative singular)
shibareiltamme (ablative plural)
shibarillemme (allative singular)
shibareillemme (allative plural)
shibarinamme (essive singular)
shibareinamme (essive plural)
shibariksemme (singular translative)
shibareiksemme (plural translative)
shibarittamme (abessive singular)
shibareittamme (abessive plural)
shibareinemme (comitative plural)
shibarinne (nominative singular)
shibarinne (nominative plural)
shibarinne (accusative nominative singular)
shibarinne (accusative nominative plural)
shibarinne (accusative genitive singular)
shibarinne (accusative genitive plural)
shibarinne (genitive singular)
shibarienne (genitive plural)
shibareidenne (genitive plural)
shibareittenne (genitive plural)
shibarianne (partitive singular)
shibareitanne (partitive plural)
shibarejanne (partitive plural)
shibarissanne (inessive singular)
shibareissanne (inessive plural)
shibaristanne (elative singular)
shibareistanne (elative plural)
shibariinne (illative singular)
shibareihinne (illative plural)
shibarillanne (adessive singular)
shibareillanne (adessive plural)
shibariltanne (ablative singular)
shibareiltanne (ablative plural)
shibarillenne (allative singular)
shibareillenne (allative plural)
shibarinanne (essive singular)
shibareinanne (essive plural)
shibariksenne (singular translative)
shibareiksenne (plural translative)
shibarittanne (abessive singular)
shibareittanne (abessive plural)
shibareinenne (comitative plural)
shibarinsa (nominative singular)
shibarinsa (nominative plural)
shibarinsa (accusative nominative singular)
shibarinsa (accusative nominative plural)
shibarinsa (accusative genitive singular)
shibarinsa (accusative genitive plural)
shibarinsa (genitive singular)
shibariensa (genitive plural)
shibareidensa (genitive plural)
shibareittensa (genitive plural)
shibariaan (partitive singular)
shibariansa (partitive singular)
shibareitaan (partitive plural)
shibarejaan (partitive plural)
shibareitansa (partitive plural)
shibarejansa (partitive plural)
shibarissaan (inessive singular)
shibarissansa (inessive singular)
shibareissaan (inessive plural)
shibareissansa (inessive plural)
shibaristaan (elative singular)
shibaristansa (elative singular)
shibareistaan (elative plural)
shibareistansa (elative plural)
shibariinsa (illative singular)
shibareihinsa (illative plural)
shibarillaan (adessive singular)
shibarillansa (adessive singular)
shibareillaan (adessive plural)
shibareillansa (adessive plural)
shibariltaan (ablative singular)
shibariltansa (ablative singular)
shibareiltaan (ablative plural)
shibareiltansa (ablative plural)
shibarilleen (allative singular)
shibarillensa (allative singular)
shibareilleen (allative plural)
shibareillensa (allative plural)
shibarinaan (essive singular)
shibarinansa (essive singular)
shibareinaan (essive plural)
shibareinansa (essive plural)
shibarikseen (singular translative)
shibariksensa (singular translative)
shibareikseen (plural translative)
shibareiksensa (plural translative)
shibarittaan (abessive singular)
shibarittansa (abessive singular)
shibareittaan (abessive plural)
shibareittansa (abessive plural)
shibareineen (comitative plural)
shibareinensa (comitative plural)


singletail

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Velvet also whips him, beats him and torments his cock and balls (by kicking, squeezing or the judicious use of a singletail whip) on a regular basis — as often as he needs and wants, but at least several times a week.

1999, Katharine Gates, Deviant Desires: Incredibly Strange Sex:

Stopping her tapping, Angelica belted the singletail, and grasped Allison's lead pulling her tits up sharply to render her helpless.

2008, Jennifer Campbell, Allison's Training, page 110:


keyholder

keyholders (plural)
key holder (alternative)

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(BDSM) A dominant partner who controls whether their submissive partner is able or allowed to orgasm or receive sexual stimulation, typically by locking the submissive partner in a chastity belt or chastity cage.


malesub

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TPE

en-noun

TPE (countable and uncountable, plural TPEs)

total power exchange
total power exchange#English

(BDSM) Initialism of total power exchange.


humiliatrix

humiliatrix (plural humiliatrixes or humiliatrices)

humiliatrixes (plural)
humiliatrices (plural)

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From Latin humiliātrīx or humiliate + -trix, compare humiliator and dominatrix.

2005 March 27th (4:25am), “aaadoveliz” (user name), alt.personals.spanking (Usenet newsgroup), “thongs, bikini, panties, panty, bikini, stockings, garterbelt TallCenter harvey glory bubba”, Message ID: <85b18095.0503270425.70a037db@posting.google.com>
The high-heeled humiliatrices of Cincinnati.

Miss D, a dominatrix and humiliatrix, who is a regular commentator on a number of sissy blogs

2010, Sally Hines, Tam Sanger, Transgender Identities:

But who was I to judge him I would probably die a miserable death myself for being the dominatrix, the slut buggerer, the forced bi specialist that would make grown men do unthinkable things by sucking each other off, the humiliatrix who would men^([sic]) weak at the knees with her power by forcing them to stick their tongue up my bottom hole and clean it, the woman who could stick stub cigarettes out on a mans^([sic]) chest while cumming all over his face.

2011, Rose Budworth-Levine, Intimate Encounters, page 62:

(BDSM) A dominatrix who specialises in humiliation.


დისციპლინა

disciṗlina (romanization)
დისციპლინა (nominative singular)
დისციპლინამ (ergative singular)
დისციპლინას (dative singular)
დისციპლინას (dative singular)
დისციპლინასაs) (dative singular)
დისციპლინასაsa) (dative singular)
დისციპლინის (genitive singular)
დისციპლინის (genitive singular)
დისციპლინისაs) (genitive singular)
დისციპლინისაsa) (genitive singular)
დისციპლინით (instrumental singular)
დისციპლინით (instrumental singular)
დისციპლინითაt) (instrumental singular)
დისციპლინითაta) (instrumental singular)
დისციპლინად (adverbial singular)
დისციპლინად (adverbial singular)
დისციპლინადაd) (adverbial singular)
დისციპლინადაda) (adverbial singular)
დისციპლინავ (singular vocative)
დისციპლინაზე (singular)
დისციპლინასთან (singular)
დისციპლინაში (singular)
დისციპლინასავით (singular)
დისციპლინისთვის (singular)
დისციპლინისებრ (singular)
დისციპლინისკენ (singular)
დისციპლინისგან (singular)
დისციპლინისადმი (singular)
დისციპლინიდან (singular)
დისციპლინითურთ (singular)
დისციპლინამდე (singular)


მაზოხიზმი

mazoxizmi (romanization)
მაზოხიზმი (nominative singular)
მაზოხიზმმა (ergative singular)
მაზოხიზმს (dative singular)
მაზოხიზმს (dative singular)
მაზოხიზმსაs) (dative singular)
მაზოხიზმსაsa) (dative singular)
მაზოხიზმის (genitive singular)
მაზოხიზმის (genitive singular)
მაზოხიზმისაs) (genitive singular)
მაზოხიზმისაsa) (genitive singular)
მაზოხიზმით (instrumental singular)
მაზოხიზმით (instrumental singular)
მაზოხიზმითაt) (instrumental singular)
მაზოხიზმითაta) (instrumental singular)
მაზოხიზმად (adverbial singular)
მაზოხიზმად (adverbial singular)
მაზოხიზმადაd) (adverbial singular)
მაზოხიზმადაda) (adverbial singular)
მაზოხიზმო (singular vocative)
მაზოხიზმზე (singular)
მაზოხიზმთან (singular)
მაზოხიზმში (singular)
მაზოხიზმივით (singular)
მაზოხიზმისთვის (singular)
მაზოხიზმისებრ (singular)
მაზოხიზმისკენ (singular)
მაზოხიზმისგან (singular)
მაზოხიზმისადმი (singular)
მაზოხიზმიდან (singular)
მაზოხიზმითურთ (singular)
მაზოხიზმამდე (singular)


switchy

en-adj

switchy (comparative more switchy or switchier, superlative most switchy or switchiest)

more switchy (comparative)
switchier (comparative)
most switchy (superlative)
switchiest (superlative)

I'm switchier than my boyfriend; I'm fine with either topping or bottoming, whereas he's only comfortable with bottoming.

(sex, slang, BDSM, LGBTQ) Versatile; not exclusively a top or a bottom, or inclined to switch between sadistic and masochistic roles.


სადიზმი

sadizmi (romanization)
სადიზმი (nominative singular)
სადიზმმა (ergative singular)
სადიზმს (dative singular)
სადიზმს (dative singular)
სადიზმსაs) (dative singular)
სადიზმსაsa) (dative singular)
სადიზმის (genitive singular)
სადიზმის (genitive singular)
სადიზმისაs) (genitive singular)
სადიზმისაsa) (genitive singular)
სადიზმით (instrumental singular)
სადიზმით (instrumental singular)
სადიზმითაt) (instrumental singular)
სადიზმითაta) (instrumental singular)
სადიზმად (adverbial singular)
სადიზმად (adverbial singular)
სადიზმადაd) (adverbial singular)
სადიზმადაda) (adverbial singular)
სადიზმო (singular vocative)
სადიზმზე (singular)
სადიზმთან (singular)
სადიზმში (singular)
სადიზმივით (singular)
სადიზმისთვის (singular)
სადიზმისებრ (singular)
სადიზმისკენ (singular)
სადიზმისგან (singular)
სადიზმისადმი (singular)
სადიზმიდან (singular)
სადიზმითურთ (singular)
სადიზმამდე (singular)


sleepsack

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(BDSM) A device resembling a sleeping bag, often fastened with a zipper, that tightly immobilizes the occupant.


ponyplay

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(BDSM) A form of petplay in which one or more players take on the role of a horse or pony, especially as the pet of another.


緊縛

Compound of 緊 (kin, “tight”) + 縛 (baku, “to bind”).


緊縛美

緊縛美 (canonical)
kinbakubi (romanization)

Compound of 緊縛 (kinbaku, “tight binding”) + 美 (bi, “beauty”).

compound

(BDSM) generic term for practice and display of Japanese bondage


緊縛師

緊縛師 (canonical)
kinbakushi (romanization)

Compound of 緊縛 (kinbaku, “tight binding”) + 師 (shi, “master, teacher”).

(BDSM) a practitioner of Japanese bondage


縄師

Compound of 縄 (nawa, “rope”) + 師 (shi, “master, teacher”).

(BDSM) a practitioner of erotic bondage.


縛り手

縛り手 (canonical)
shibarite (romanization)

Compound of 縛り (shibari, “tying, binding”) + 手 (te, “hand”).


縛師

Compound of 縛 (baku, “binding”) + 師 (shi, “master, teacher”).

(BDSM) a practitioner of Japanese bondage. Used as the short form of kinbakushi (緊縛師).


electrosex

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At a command to lift his legs, Savin switched out the plug for another electrosex variety, adding the needed gel to the torpedo-shaped insert.

2010, Michelle Polaris, Magician's Chains, page 216:

He wasn't done using his electrosex toys on Gina. Jacob watched her face as Mike placed one clamp on her right nipple and then her left. She grimaced a bit before writhing around seductively on the table.

2012, Gail Starbright, Slave Girl for Rent, page 43:

(BDSM) Electrostimulation for erotic purposes.


剃毛プレイ

剃毛プレイ (canonical)
teimō purei (romanization)

Compound of 剃毛 (teimō, “shaving”) + プレイ (purei, “play”)

(BDSM) act of humiliation where the bottom (usually female) has her pubic hair shaven with express or, more often, implied coercion.


pissboy

(BDSM, slang) A submissive male participant in urolagnia.


top from the bottom

en-verb

top from the bottom (third-person singular simple present tops from the bottom, present participle topping from the bottom, simple past and past participle topped from the bottom)

tops from the bottom (present singular third-person)
topping from the bottom (participle present)
topped from the bottom (participle past)
topped from the bottom (past)

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Aaron didn't appreciate being topped from the bottom, but Joey's voice was so rough Aaron didn't care who was running the show.

2009, K. A. Mitchell, Collision Course, page 97:

“Topping from the bottom is a very bad habit to get into. Perhaps this will break you of it.”

2012, Cara Carnes, Passion's Training, page 71:

(BDSM) To make demands while supposedly in a submissive role.


non-con

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Alternative form: noncon

Consensual non-consent
consensual non-consent


armbinder

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(BDSM) A restraint that binds the arms together into a single sleeve.


ring gag

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(BDSM) A gag with a hollow ring that holds the mouth open.


SSC

(BDSM) Initialism of safe, sane and consensual.


shinju

Borrowed from Japanese 真珠, literally "pearl".

(BDSM) The binding of the female breasts.


fladge

One could find plenty of 'soft fladge' in British porn films […]

2005, Edward Shorter, Written in the Flesh: A History of Desire, page 227:

His honesty was a joy to behold: “I don't know shit about the fladge, son, but my punters can't get enough of it. […]

2011, Nick Urzdown, A Spanking Good Life, page 25:

(BDSM, slang) flagellation (as a sadomasochistic practice), or pornography that depicts it


ارباب

fa-noun

ارباب • (arbâb) (plural اربابان)

[ʔäɾ.bɔ́ːb̥]

[ʔæɹ.bɒ́ːb̥]

Borrowed from Arabic أَرْبَاب (ʔarbāb), originally the plural of رَبّ (rabb, “lord”).


sissyfication

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From sissy (“timid or cowardly person”) + -fication.

af

(BDSM) A situation where a submissive is forced to take on a feminine role, that of a sissy.


lezdom

en-noun

lezdom (countable and uncountable, plural lezdoms)

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Similar scenes exist on the Menstruation Sluts.com website which advertises “60 menstruation lezdom photos” and which exploits this same idea, that the forced smelling and tasting of menstrual blood is something particularly abhorrent […]

2012, Lauren Rosewarne, Periods in Pop Culture: Menstruation in Film and Television, page 143:

(BDSM, uncountable) Lesbian domination; a sexual practice in which a lesbian dominates the other woman or women.

(BDSM, countable) A lesbian dominator in sadomasochistic sexual practices.


breathplay

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I think it's safe to say that no matter which position one takes on it, breathplay is considered edgeplay.

1998 September 10, M. Shirley Chong, “Re: Bill Majors: my experience--Part Three”, in soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm (Usenet):

These are stated as absolutes, even though we know perfectly well that there IS a level of force that can be applied to the kidney area safely, that restricted ciruclation is perfectly safe for a short time and that breathplay is commenly^([sic]) engaged in with no problem at all.

2006 December 14, Bob King, “Re: Now that you have shot the messenger; WAS: Defining Abuse in Absolute and Total Power Exchange”, in soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm (Usenet):

It even includes the consensual breathplay of faith (Juliette Lewis) and Max Peltier (Tom Sizemore) in Strange Days: Peltier's meta-sadistic crimes notwithstanding, he gave Faith only what she desired, and afterwards her eyes glittered "with sated lust" (Cameron and Cocks 1993).

2013, Lewis Call, BDSM in American Science Fiction and Fantasy, Palgrave, →ISBN, page 25:

(BDSM) Erotic asphyxiation; a sexual practice involving the intentional deprivation of oxygen to the brain, often by means of choking.


knifeplay

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When the professor turned out to be too warped even for my tastes — consensual knifeplay is one thing; drunken gunplay quite another […]

2009, Quince Mountain, “Cowboy for Christ”, in Jeff Sharlet, Peter Manseau, editors, Believer, Beware: First-Person Dispatches from the Margins of Faith, Beacon Press, →ISBN, page 116:

Michael's knifeplay had never aroused him, but that fact had never concerned Jonathan, for Michael had never insisted upon it.

2009, Erastes, Transgressions, Running Press, →ISBN, page 318:

Partly because I loved milder forms of knifeplay but had never taken it as far as I'd fantasized, but mostly because of her.

2014, D. L. King, She Who Must Be Obeyed, Lethe Press, →ISBN, page 106:

(BDSM) A sexual practice involving the use of knives, daggers, or swords for physical and mental stimulation.


painplay

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I do not have much experience with painplay, and am not sure how much I'll be able to take, but I'm prepared to find out.

1996 December 17, k'Shandra, “Reflections on Safewording (long)”, in alt.sex.bondage (Usenet):

I was originally into plain old bondage, but have found that both submission and painplay are things that I can eroticize.

2000 December 24, Sockermom9 [username], “Re: Psycology of BDSM”, in soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm (Usenet):

But I'm curious -- what got you started doing BDSM? What fantasies were intense enough to drive you to try painplay in the first place?

2002 June 24, Janet Hardy, “Re: sub vs bottom”, in soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm (Usenet):

(BDSM) Any sexual practice involving the intentional infliction of pain.


waxplay

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It is much safer to test a few drops from each candle you use for waxplay, than to depend on a rule like "red candles usually burn hotter than white."

1998 March 4, Adrian, “Re: Paraffin (was You Know You're Into Something Kinky When...(YKYISKW))”, in soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm (Usenet):

Oh, a visual digression. My beloved has learned (after all these years, that a great way to weird me out is simply to have me remove my contact lenses before we play. I'm severely nearsighted, so all I see is vaguely colored blobs. It's great with waxplay.

1999 March 15, Lacenlthrs [username], “Re: Fashion fetishes and BDSM”, in soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm (Usenet):

That certainly perked up my ears...I'm *very* partial to waxplay meself. Do I detect another of the KinkyFolk? ;-)

2000 February 19, Jas, “Re: Hello”, in alt.support.childfree (Usenet):

(BDSM) The practice of dripping melted wax onto a person's naked skin (usually from a candle) for sensual and/or sexual stimulation.


topspace

topspace (countable and uncountable, plural topspaces)

topspaces (plural)
top space (alternative)
top-space (alternative)

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From top (“dominant”) + space (“state of mind”).

compound

Most of the time I take care of other people, and when I get into topspace I just like to be selfish and "cruel".

2001 October 8, Laura Goodwin, “Re: Fantasy role play”, in soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm.femdom (Usenet):

He'd been so far into topspace during the scene that he hadn't noticed when the Overseer had arrived, but the cabrón stood there now.

2011, Cherise Sinclair, To Command and Collar, Loose Id, →ISBN:

“Topspace, but never subspace. The two are very different. I have to apologize. Now I know what you and Jonathan went through, and I feel closer to you after the experience.”

2012, Laci Paige, The Silken Edge, →ISBN:

(BDSM) The psychological state of the dominant or top during sadomasochistic activity.


raceplay

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Coordinate term: humiliation play

Her response to the off-topic remarks on "raceplay" is a somewhat somewhat^([sic]) elliptical reply that Avatar T is "very knowledgeable about Japanese culture, and feels she's learned a lot by exploring racial embodiment here."

2012, Sharon Collingwood, “Feminist Teaching in Virtual Worlds: Development Of A Pedagogy”, in Sharon Collingwood, Alvina E, Quintana, & Caroline J. Smith, editor, Feminist Cyberspaces: Pedagogies in Transition, Cambridge Scholars Publishing, →ISBN, page 283:

Hot historical plantation slavery fantasies & super fun modern slavery videos for you dirty apes into raceplay, racial humiliation

2012 September 18, zombieG, “Raceplay for niggers, plantation slavery fantasies”, in alt.sex.fetish.feet (Usenet):

College, nah. Lesbian, nah. Interracial....maybe some raceplay...he keeps looking, unsure of what he's in the mood for tonight.

2014, “Anonymous”, in Christina Escamilla, editor, 64 Deaths: An Anthology, →ISBN:

(BDSM) A form of sexual roleplay in which the players act out racially charged situations, such as interracial master–slave relationships.


findom

en-noun

findom (countable and uncountable, plural findoms)

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This includes public humiliation, findom, blackmail, hardcore cock and ball torture, bloodletting, cutting, edgeplay and so on.

2008, Hardcore mistress, “****DOMINATRIX BUSTS YOUR BALLS WITH A ROCK**** 75162”, in alt.sex.telephone.alt (Usenet):

Your money is much better spent on a FinDom Phone Sex Goddess Taryn.

2011, Chris, “I will OWN you”, in alt.sex.femdom (Usenet):

“The kind of domination I'm looking for isn't spankings or boot licking,” Maxwell went on. “As my screen name indicated, the kind of control I'm looking for is something calling^([sic]) 'findom'. […] I get sexual gratification from having someone, a woman preferably, taking control of my finances and spending my money as she sees fit.

2014, Helena Shaw, Maxed Out: A New Adult Billionaire Romance, page 17:

financial domination
financial domination#English

(BDSM, uncountable) Synonym of financial domination.

(BDSM, countable) A dominant who practices financial domination.


Florentine flogging

(BDSM) A two-handed style of flagellation involving the rhythmic use of a pair of matching floggers, one in each hand.


JOI

2014, Erotic Girl 4 ALL Your Pleasures, “Are You SERIOUS About EDGING? JOI ? CEI ? Let's See How Much Will Power You Have”, in alt.penthouse.sex.femdom (Usenet):

2015, Humiliate You, “Are You A Little Dick Man?? WANT Little Dick Humiliation - JOI with A Side of CEI”, in alt.sex.femdom (Usenet):

(BDSM) Initialism of jerk-off instructions: written or recorded instructions directing someone to masturbate.


cummie

cummies (plural)
cumie (alternative)
comie (alternative)

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The butt plug began to throb again, and I could feel the tube sucking my cummies out of me, over and over.

2007, Mako Allen, Auntie Eva's Boarder, page 107:

o,what I'm going to do is take away the privilege of having baby cummie time, and that means no cummies whatsoever at nap-time or bedtime.

2015 November 13, Slutty Whores, alt.sex.phone.ads (Usenet), retrieved 2016-07-19:

That's a good little boy, shoot all your cummies on mommy's favorite dress while we have Peeking Phone Sex.

2016 June 18, NO LIMITS PHONE SEX, “NO CUMMIES FOR A NAUGHTY BABY! ~ALLISON1-855-999-8469”, in alt.sex.phone.ads (Usenet), retrieved 2016-07-19:

I diaper myself or she helps Diaper me and sometimes I get to wet them, she knows I like that. And she whispers in my ear that "baby wants to make a cummie in his Diapers […]

2019, Michael Bent, Rosalie Bent, Understanding Adult Babies: Their Psychology and Lifestyles:

(BDSM, hypocoristic, usually in the plural) An emission of semen or female ejaculate, used especially in the context of ageplay roleplay.


subby

en-adj

subby (comparative more subby, superlative most subby)

more subby (comparative)
most subby (superlative)

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"That means a lot of people will either be very Dommy or very subby. You need to deal with both, and honestly right now you don't seem able to handle that.” I took in the serious face and lack of pushiness and frowned.

2013 June 24, Livia Olteano, Blitzkrieg Love, Simon and Schuster, →ISBN:

The sub wasn't acting very subby, and the wanna-be dom was looking more like a switch. For that matter, so was the sub. Or former sub. Well, whatever he is, it wasn't what Master Thomas needed. Master Thomas is clearly all dom.

2015 September 16, Bailey Bradford, Gacy Grant, Racheline Maltese & Erin McRae, Cassandra Murphy, S.E. O'Connor, Charles Payseur, CB Potts, Torrance Sené, Dawn M. Sooy, T. Strange, Angelique Voisen, Exchange of Power Anthology, Torquere Press, LLC, →ISBN:

That pretty little sub, Kelly, who'd been with Master Thomas for months, was laughing and flirting — […] Kelly wasn't acting very subby, […]

2017 November 21, Bailey Bradford, Exchange, Totally Entwined Group (USA+CAD), →ISBN:

(BDSM, slang) Submissive (in regard to BDSM roles).


DD/LG

(BDSM) Initialism of daddy dom/little girl: a paraphilia involving ageplay between older male and younger female personas.


CMNF

Initialism of clothed male, naked (or sometimes nude) female.

For quotations using this term, see Citations:CMNF.

(BDSM) A form of sexual roleplay in which the players act out situations in which the man wears clothes but the woman is naked.


femsub

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kinbaku

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Borrowed from Japanese 緊縛 (“tight binding”).

(BDSM) A Japanese style of bondage that involves tying a person up using simple yet visually intricate patterns, usually with several pieces of thin rope.


electroplay

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(BDSM) sexual activity involving electric shock


paypig

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From pay + pig, possibly with a suggestion of piggy bank.

(BDSM, slang) The submissive participant in financial domination, who provides another person with money.


RACK

risk-aware consensual kink
w:risk-aware consensual kink

(BDSM) Initialism of risk-aware consensual kink.


spider gag

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The projections are supposed to resemble a spider's legs.

(BDSM) A ring gag with a number of curved projections to prevent it from turning in the wearer's mouth.


footslut

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(BDSM, slang) A submissive who has a foot fetish.


stopwoord

nl-noun

stopwoord n (plural stopwoorden, diminutive stopwoordje n)

stopwoorden (plural)
stopwoordje (diminutive neuter)


suicide suspension

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So called because the suspended person has the appearance of a person who has hanged themselves.

(BDSM) The act of suspending a person upright by means of hooks placed in the flesh of the upper back.


口球

/kʰoʊ̯²¹⁴⁻²¹ t͡ɕʰi̯oʊ̯³⁵/

/kʰoʊ̯²¹⁴⁻²¹ t͡ɕʰi̯oʊ̯³⁵/


ENF

en-noun

ENF (countable and uncountable, plural ENFs)

Initialism of embarrassed, naked (or sometimes nude) female.

init

(uncountable, BDSM) A form of sexual roleplay in which a woman acts out situations in which she is accidentally, unintentionally, unwillingly, or reluctantly naked and consequently embarrassed, ashamed, or humiliated.

(uncountable) Pornography depicting such a situation.

(countable, rare) The woman in such a situation.


consensual non-consent

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Consensual non-consent describes engaging in behaviors that may include role-playing nonconsensual behaviors, or may involve negotiating sexual behaviors where one partner agrees to give up consent during certain behaviors or relationships.

2021 February 2, David J. Ley Ph.D., “Consensual Non-Consent: Exploring Challenging Boundaries”, in Psychology Today (article), retrieved 2025-01-05:

(BDSM) A mutual agreement between partners to be able to act as if sexual consent has been waived; for example, rape roleplay.


con-non-con

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consensual non-consent
consensual non-consent#English

(BDSM) Clipping of consensual non-consent.


SPH

en-noun

SPH (countable and uncountable, plural SPHs)

small penis humiliation
small penis humiliation#English

(BDSM, Internet slang) Initialism of small penis humiliation.


女主人

/ny²¹⁴⁻³⁵ ʈ͡ʂu²¹⁴⁻²¹ ʐən³⁵/

/nɵy̯¹³ t͡syː³⁵ jɐn²¹/

/li⁵³⁻⁴⁴ t͡su⁵³⁻⁴⁴ laŋ²⁴/

/li⁵⁵⁴⁻²⁴ t͡su⁵⁵⁴⁻²⁴ laŋ²⁴/

/li⁵³⁻⁴⁴ t͡su⁵³⁻⁴⁴ laŋ¹³/

/li⁵³⁻⁴⁴ t͡su⁵³⁻⁴⁴ laŋ²⁴/

/li⁴¹⁻⁴⁴ t͡su⁴¹⁻⁴⁴ laŋ²³/

/ny²¹⁴⁻³⁵ ʈ͡ʂu²¹⁴⁻²¹ ʐən³⁵/

/nɵy̯¹³ t͡syː³⁵ jɐn²¹/

/li⁵³⁻⁴⁴ t͡su⁵³⁻⁴⁴ laŋ²⁴/

/li⁵⁵⁴⁻²⁴ t͡su⁵⁵⁴⁻²⁴ laŋ²⁴/

/li⁵³⁻⁴⁴ t͡su⁵³⁻⁴⁴ laŋ¹³/

/li⁵³⁻⁴⁴ t͡su⁵³⁻⁴⁴ laŋ²⁴/

/li⁴¹⁻⁴⁴ t͡su⁴¹⁻⁴⁴ laŋ²³/

(BDSM) mistress; dominatrix (female dominant)


little space

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(BDSM, ABDL, neologism) The state of mind a little enters when they are comfortable engaging in ageplay.


funishment

funishment (countable and uncountable, plural funishments)

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[…] when punishment turns into “funishment”, and the Minuscule starts “acting out” in order to have some desired masochistic play.

2014, Raven Kaldera, Sabrina Popp, Unequal By Design: Counseling Power Dynamic Relationships:

(BDSM, countable, uncountable) A "punishment" administered for the enjoyment of the submissive, rather than as discipline.


gooning

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Explanations of "gooning" often reference accessing a primal, implicitly male state of sexual excitement and indulgence, a kind of physical speaking in tongues through masturbation.

2018 July 18, John Sherman, “Why Some Guys Like Jerking Off Together”, in BuzzFeed News, archived from the original on 2022-08-18:

Edging, gooning's close cousin, is a bit more time-consuming and involved, but it comes with the promise of a more powerful and gratifying ejaculation at the end.

2020 November 21, Michael Stahl, “The Psychedelic Science of 'Gooning' — Or Masturbating Into a Trance”, in MEL Magazine, archived from the original on 2022-07-03:

So, if you're in need of a legal, au naturel way of improving your meat-beating, have you considered gooning or mindgasms?

2021 September 8, Ian Lecklitner, “Reddit's Quest for the Perfect Fap Drug”, in MEL Magazine, archived from the original on 2022-09-24:

While gooning can be perfectly healthy for those who can exercise self-control and have their sessions in moderation, some aspects of the larger gooning culture can quickly become problematic.

2022 October 3, Lauren Beller, “G is for Gooning”, in Medium, archived from the original on 2022-12-22:

She adds that the two main quirks she noticed among her OnlyFans followers were "foot fetish stuff" and "gooning".

2022 November 20, Michael Moran, “OnlyFans star Angela White tells all about money, 'gooners' and foot fetishists”, in The Daily Star, archived from the original on 2022-12-22:

(BDSM) A form of masturbation that involves edging ("maintaining sexual arousal without reaching orgasm") for a long period of time, resulting in a hypnotic, trance-like state. This is sometimes enhanced with a drug, such as amyl nitrite, nitrous oxide, marijuana, or methamphetamines.


spreader bar

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(BDSM) A rod with cuffs or rope on both ends that is used to hold a person's arms or legs a fixed distance apart.


sissygasm

Sissification also involves mind control through erotic hypnosis in which the sissy-in-training watches videos that glorify the process of worshiping giant cocks that put the would-be sissy’s pathetic little “clitty”—i.e., tiny penis—to shame. He is sternly instructed to gain sexual satisfaction from prostate stimulation rather than penile stimulation and is trained to achieve “sissygasms” by either sitting on dildos or being fucked in the ass.

2018 April 30, Jerome London, “The Art Of Sissification: Is ‘Sissy’ A New Sexual Orientation?”, in Thought Catalog, archived from the original on 2021-01-25:

Google sissygasm. Teasing around their butt with your fingers or a vibrator will help. The goal is to have them only cum from anal stimulation. If you have to, make them wait another week if they can't do it without vibrating their[…]

2019 May 4, Scott Barry, 609 Pages of Horse Shit, Lulu.com, →ISBN:

(BDSM, slang) An orgasm reached solely through penetration of the anus, rather than by stimulation of the penis or clitoris.


sissygasm

en-verb

sissygasm (third-person singular simple present sissygasms, present participle sissygasming, simple past and past participle sissygasmed)

sissygasms (present singular third-person)
sissygasming (participle present)
sissygasmed (participle past)
sissygasmed (past)

(intransitive, BDSM, slang) To reach orgasm solely via penetration of the anus, without stimulation of the penis or clitoris.


subdrop

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(BDSM) A state of low spirits experienced by submissives after BDSM play.


縛り

縛り (canonical)
shibari (romanization)
sibari (romanization)
しばり (hiragana historical)

→ English: shibari

Conjunctive or noun form (連用形) of the verb 縛る.


predicament bondage

(BDSM) A form of bondage in which a person is restrained and forced to experience opposing sensory forces.


FLR

(BDSM) Initialism of female-led relationship.


ball gag

ball gags (plural)
ball-gag (alternative)
ballgag (alternative)

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Here is a model with an alluring docile expression, wearing a ball gag. Her arms and breasts also are bound.

1978–79, Teresa Hommel, “Images of Women in Pornography and Media”, in New York University Review of Law and Social Change, volume 8, number 2, →ISSN, page 209:

Miserable, violated and looking like a rag doll, Marsellus, red ball gag still in his mouth, opens his watery eyes to see Butch coming up behind.

c. 1994, Quentin Tarantino, Pulp Fiction (screenplay); quoted in Kathryn Bond Stockton, Beautiful Bottom, Beautiful Shame: Where “Black” Meets “Queer”, Durham, North Carolina: Duke University Press, 2006, →DOI, →ISBN, page 6:

(BDSM) A gag with a rubber or silicone sphere that is strapped into the mouth behind the teeth.


しばりプレイ

[ɕiba̠ɾʲi pɯ̟ɾe̞ː]


くちかせ

kuchikase (romanization)
kutikase (romanization)
くちかせ (hiragana historical)


Sub

de-noun

Sub m (strong, genitive Subs, plural Subs)

Subs (genitive)
Subs (plural)
Sub (genitive)
Subs (plural)
Sub (nominative singular)
Subs (definite nominative plural)
Subs (genitive singular)
Subs (definite genitive plural)
Sub (dative singular)
Subs (dative definite plural)
Sub (accusative singular)
Subs (accusative definite plural)
Sub (nominative singular)
Subs (definite nominative plural)
Sub (genitive singular)
Subs (definite genitive plural)
Sub (dative singular)
Subs (dative definite plural)
Sub (accusative singular)
Subs (accusative definite plural)


eternity collar

en-noun

eternity collar (plural eternity collars)

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This is an eternity collar. You will find no latches or clasps. The effect is that of an unending circle. Accepting this collar is a commitment.

Sure, many people who came to the club wore collars, but eternity collars? The ones that required special tools to remove?

She said, "I would like either an eternity collar or a chain that I could hang a pendant from that showed signs of our relationship that I wore all the time."

2023, Michael Fording, The Unwanted Gifts:

(BDSM) A collar worn by a submissive as a sign of devotion and never taken off.


cock cage

(BDSM) (slang) A chastity cage that covers the penis and testicles.


vac bed

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The dungeon room features fetters, a bondage chair, a bondage stool, a ladder back chair, a St Andrews Cross, a whipping bench, a vac bed, a full length cage/rack, and a Rococo throne.

2017 June 30, Ellen Scott, “You can now book a stay in a fancy dungeon suite designed for all kinds of BDSM fun”, in Metro:

I love mummification, rope, vac beds, latex, you name it!

2021, Alicia Zadig, Yes, Mistress: Why Men Crave Female Domination:

(BDSM) A device that produces a vacuum inside a latex envelope, used for sexual enclosure.


frogtie

en-verb

frogtie (third-person singular simple present frogties, present participle frogtying, simple past and past participle frogtied)

frogties (present singular third-person)
frogtying (participle present)
frogtied (participle past)
frogtied (past)

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(BDSM) To tie the ankles of (a person) to their thighs, bending their knees 180°


play party

play parties (plural)
play-party (alternative)

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(BDSM) A social gathering held for people to participate in BDSM activities.


rope bunny

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Compare angst bunny (“someone who enjoys angst literature”).

This is a great tie for a rope bunny who likes to feel helpless and completely bound.

2017, Lord Morpheous [pseudonym], Bondage, Beverly, Massachusetts: Fair Winds Press, →ISBN, page 84:

(BDSM, slang) A person who enjoys being tied up with rope.


D/s

(BDSM) Initialism of dominance and submission.


D/s

(BDSM) initialism of dominação e submissão


dungeon monitor

en-noun

dungeon monitor (plural dungeon monitors)

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(BDSM) A person charged with supervising BDSM activities at a play party or a BDSM club.


B and D

(BDSM) Abbreviation of bondage and discipline.


B & D

BiM needs Bi or Gay Master (M or F) to train me in mild B&D. I will serve you.

1977 April 9, “Personal advertisement”, in Gay Community News, page 14:

Tattoed^([sic]) &/or pierced submissive woman wanted by handsome, hung, dominant man, 42, for B & D fun.

1993 December 3, “Variations”, in The Boston Phoenix, volume 22, number 49, Boston, Mass.: The Phoenix Media Communications Group, Adult Services, page 3:


B/D

Alternative forms: BD, B&D, B & D, B+D, B and D


grandmother rule

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(BDSM) A rule at certain events requiring that one's behaviour and appearance be such that it would not shock even one's grandmother.


financial domination

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(BDSM) A type of erotic humiliation in which the submissive gives money and control of their finances to the dominator.

domination financière

BDSM: domination of one's finances by another person


findomme

(BDSM) A female dominant who practices financial domination.


finsub

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Blend of financial + submissive (“one who submits to a dominant in BDSM practices”)

blend

(BDSM) A submissive who submits to financial domination.


C and B torture

C & B torture (alternative)
C&B torture (alternative)

My interests are humiliation, public exhibitionism, nipple torture, hot wax, bondage, C & B torture, G.S., all fantasies

a. 1990, SM Express, number 24, page 26; quoted in Thomas Edward Murray, Thomas R. Murrell, The Language of Sadomasochism: A Glossary and Linguistic Analysis, Westport, Connecticut: Greenwood Press, 1989, →ISBN, page 79:

cock and ball torture
cock and ball torture#English

(BDSM) Abbreviation of cock and ball torture.


C & B torture

(BDSM) Alternative form of C and B torture.


hairbrushing

en-noun

hairbrushing (countable and uncountable, plural hairbrushings)

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Fancy my naughty male bottom flaming red over your knee or across the end of your bed as you spank me to a crisp and whale the tar out of me with a riding crop after the hairbrushing

a. 1990, Corporal, volume 10, number 3, page 34; quoted in Thomas Edward Murray, Thomas R. Murrell, The Language of Sadomasochism: A Glossary and Linguistic Analysis, Westport, Connecticut: Greenwood Press, 1989, →ISBN, page 79:

Especially if you have already prepared him with a thorough hand-spanking or hairbrushing, he will soon be jumping at the thin, intense pain of the stripes across his nether cheeks.

1996, Lorelei, The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl’s Guide to Female Dominance, Scranton, Pennsylvania: Berkana Press, →ISBN, page 138:

(BDSM) The act of spanking a person with a hairbrush.


hypoxyphilia

(BDSM) A paraphilia involving an attraction to breathplay.


cock and ball torture

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(BDSM, paraphilia) A sexual activity involving the application of pain or constriction to the penis or testicles.


queening stool

(BDSM) A low seat with an opening allowing the dominant partner to sit and receive oral sex from the submissive partner lying underneath.


CG/L

(BDSM) Initialism of caregiver/little: a paraphilia involving ageplay between an older, caring, parentlike and a child persona.


cucky

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cleave gag

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(BDSM) A gag consisting of material that is pulled between a person's teeth instead of being tied over the mouth.


undergiven

head

undergiven (comparative mer undergiven, superlative mest undergiven)

mer undergiven (comparative)
mest undergiven (superlative)
undergiven (indefinite positive)
mer undergiven (comparative indefinite)
mest undergiven (indefinite superlative)
undergivet (indefinite neuter positive singular)
mer undergivet (comparative indefinite neuter singular)
mest undergivet (indefinite neuter singular superlative)
undergivna (indefinite plural positive)
mer undergivna (comparative indefinite plural)
mest undergivna (indefinite plural superlative)
undergivne (archaic indefinite masculine plural positive)
mer undergivna (archaic comparative indefinite masculine plural)
mest undergivna (archaic indefinite masculine plural superlative)
undergivne (definite masculine positive singular)
mer undergivne (comparative definite masculine singular)
mest undergivne (definite masculine singular superlative)
undergivna (definite positive)
mer undergivna (comparative definite)
mest undergivna (definite superlative)


vampire glove

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“Ever heard of a vampire glove?”
Riley stared at him in disbelief. His lips twitched. “I see that you have. The inside of the piece covering your nipples, have^([sic]) the same spikes attached.”

2020, Linzi Basset, Isabel James, Kristen Breanne, Unwrapped Hearts:

(BDSM) A glove with small sharp spikes protruding from the finger parts.


sahibe

sahibe (definite accusative sahibeyi, plural sahibeler)

sahibeyi (accusative definite)
sahibeler (plural)
sahibe (nominative singular)
sahibeler (nominative plural)
sahibeyi (accusative definite singular)
sahibeleri (accusative definite plural)
sahibeye (dative singular)
sahibelere (dative plural)
sahibede (locative singular)
sahibelerde (locative plural)
sahibeden (ablative singular)
sahibelerden (ablative plural)
sahibenin (genitive singular)
sahibelerin (genitive plural)
sahibem (first-person nominative singular)
sahibelerim (first-person nominative singular)
sahiben (nominative second-person singular)
sahibelerin (nominative second-person singular)
sahibesi (nominative singular third-person)
sahibeleri (nominative singular third-person)
sahibemiz (first-person nominative plural)
sahibelerimiz (first-person nominative plural)
sahibeniz (nominative plural second-person)
sahibeleriniz (nominative plural second-person)
sahibeleri (nominative plural third-person)
sahibemi (accusative definite first-person singular)
sahibelerimi (accusative definite first-person singular)
sahibeni (accusative definite second-person singular)
sahibelerini (accusative definite second-person singular)
sahibesini (accusative definite singular third-person)
sahibelerini (accusative definite singular third-person)
sahibemizi (accusative definite first-person plural)
sahibelerimizi (accusative definite first-person plural)
sahibenizi (accusative definite plural second-person)
sahibelerinizi (accusative definite plural second-person)
sahibelerini (accusative definite plural third-person)
sahibeme (dative first-person singular)
sahibelerime (dative first-person singular)
sahibene (dative second-person singular)
sahibelerine (dative second-person singular)
sahibesine (dative singular third-person)
sahibelerine (dative singular third-person)
sahibemize (dative first-person plural)
sahibelerimize (dative first-person plural)
sahibenize (dative plural second-person)
sahibelerinize (dative plural second-person)
sahibelerine (dative plural third-person)
sahibemde (first-person locative singular)
sahibelerimde (first-person locative singular)
sahibende (locative second-person singular)
sahibelerinde (locative second-person singular)
sahibesinde (locative singular third-person)
sahibelerinde (locative singular third-person)
sahibemizde (first-person locative plural)
sahibelerimizde (first-person locative plural)
sahibenizde (locative plural second-person)
sahibelerinizde (locative plural second-person)
sahibelerinde (locative plural third-person)
sahibemden (ablative first-person singular)
sahibelerimden (ablative first-person singular)
sahibenden (ablative second-person singular)
sahibelerinden (ablative second-person singular)
sahibesinden (ablative singular third-person)
sahibelerinden (ablative singular third-person)
sahibemizden (ablative first-person plural)
sahibelerimizden (ablative first-person plural)
sahibenizden (ablative plural second-person)
sahibelerinizden (ablative plural second-person)
sahibelerinden (ablative plural third-person)
sahibemin (first-person genitive singular)
sahibelerimin (first-person genitive singular)
sahibenin (genitive second-person singular)
sahibelerinin (genitive second-person singular)
sahibesinin (genitive singular third-person)
sahibelerinin (genitive singular third-person)
sahibemizin (first-person genitive plural)
sahibelerimizin (first-person genitive plural)
sahibenizin (genitive plural second-person)
sahibelerinizin (genitive plural second-person)
sahibelerinin (genitive plural third-person)

Inherited from Ottoman Turkish صاحبه (sâhibe), from Arabic صَاحِبَة (ṣāḥiba).

der

Arabic صَاحِبَة (ṣāḥiba)

(BDSM) mistress, dominatrix; a female dominator.


DD/LB

(BDSM) Initialism of daddy dom/little boy: a paraphilia involving ageplay between older and younger male personas.


ENM

(BDSM) Initialism of embarrassed, naked (or sometimes nude) male, a form of sexual roleplay in which a man acts out situations in which he is accidentally, unintentionally, unwillingly, or reluctantly naked and consequently embarrassed, ashamed, or humiliated.


disciplinboll

disciplinboll (indefinite nominative singular)
disciplinbolls (genitive indefinite singular)
disciplinbollen (definite nominative singular)
disciplinbollens (definite genitive singular)
disciplinbollar (indefinite nominative plural)
disciplinbollars (genitive indefinite plural)
disciplinbollarna (definite nominative plural)
disciplinbollarnas (definite genitive plural)

disciplin (“discipline”) + boll (“ball”)


pussy torture

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(BDSM) A sexual activity involving the application of pain or pressure to the vulva or vagina.


daddy dom

en-noun

daddy dom (countable and uncountable, plural daddy doms)

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I felt that he had become obsessed with making a statement to the effect that incest was natural normal and ok. Which far exceeded my comfort zone. But does that differ overly much from age play and daddy Dom stuff?

2000 July 28, CRC, “The longer I'm here, the more I like Sherman”, in soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm (Usenet):

(BDSM, uncountable) A sexual practice in which a male role-plays a paternal figure and dominates the submissive partner.

Daddy Doms know the power of a good cuddle

2015 June 5, Kayla Lords, “The Definition of a Daddy Dom”, in Kayla Lords:

(BDSM, countable) A sexually dominant male who role-plays a paternal figure.


breast torture

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(BDSM, paraphilia) A sexual activity involving the application of physical pain or constriction to the breasts, areolae or nipples.


pissgirl

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(BDSM, slang) A submissive female participant in urolagnia.


verbal humiliation

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(sexuality, BDSM) Erotic humiliation performed through words.


small penis humiliation

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(sexuality, BDSM) A form of sexual fetish or kink where an individual, usually a woman, derives arousal from the act of belittling or demeaning another man's penis size.


cashfag

cashfags (plural)
cash fag (alternative)
cash-fag (alternative)

(slang, vulgar, LGBTQ, BDSM) A homosexual male paypig or finsub.


diaperslut

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I'm more of a wanna be diaperslut. I just need access to more diapersluts in order to achieve my life goals.

Can i please have my birthday at diaperslut chillis next year, please and thank you? 🙏

Is there a better feeling than taking a cute awkward transfemme and turning them into an adorable diaperslut.

2023 November 19, bittykitty1999, Twitter:

(ABDL, BDSM, vulgar) A person, especially one who is submissive, who has a sexual interest in diapers.


sensory play

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(sexuality, BDSM) Activity in which one partner delivers various sensory stimuli to the receiver, including but not restricted to those that cause pain.


wet and messy

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wet and messy fetishism
wet and messy fetishism

(sexuality, BDSM) Pertaining to wet and messy fetishism.


wet and messy fetishism

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(sexuality, BDSM) A fetish for involving substances with a slimy consistency in sexual activity, other than bodily fluids.


sensation play

(sexuality, BDSM) Synonym of sensory play (“activity in which one partner administers sensory stimuli to another, with or without pain”).


shitslut

shitsluts (plural)
shit-slut (alternative uncommon)

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The faceless man grunts enthusiastically as he forces the perfectly formed monster from his bowels, and into the groaning mouth of his the shitbegging, shitslut.

1997 February 21, Suzie [SleaZe], “'Perverse' Prose by Suzie SleaZe”, in alt.sex.tasteless (Usenet):

Of course it wasn't the first time. Bowser always KNEW he was a little shitslut~

2018 September 27, WantFriesWithIt, Twitter:

open wide shitslut

(BDSM, vulgar) A person, especially one who is submissive, with a sexual interest in excrement; a scatophile.


petplay

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pet-play (alternative)
pet play (alternative)

(BDSM) A form of sexual roleplay in which one or more players take on the role of an animal, especially as the pet of another.


diaper stuffing

diaper stuffing (countable and uncountable, plural diaper stuffings)

diaper stuffings (plural)
diaper-stuffing (alternative)

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I need to draw some diaper stuffing...take a smaller fuzzy and stuff 'em in my diaper~

Hmm, I wonder if people would be interested in a diaper-stuffing YCH... ...With *your* character getting stuffed into *my* diaper, of course!~

Diaper stuffing is absolutely amazing and so hot and I can't wait to see more of it 😍

(ABDL, BDSM) A kink or paraphilia, such as in role-playing, involving the idea of a person being placed or stuffed inside of a diaper.


tail plug

tail plugs (plural)
tailplug (alternative)

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I lay whimpering in the corner, my ass stinging from my tail plug and my jaws hurting from the gag. Julie ignored me, readying the meal until I heard a car drive into the garage.

1998 December 6, Nessus, “Stocking Tops(Revised)Pt17”, in alt.sex.stories (Usenet):

Why oh why is there no INFLATABLE puppy tail plug?

looking for a puppy boywife. mandatory dress code is short skirt, thigh highs, dog ears, and tail plug. please be prepared to bark, lay down, and open your mouth on command.

(chiefly furry fandom, BDSM) A butt plug that has a tail on its obverse.


pacifier gag

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No sooner did she begin complaining than a large pacifier gag was strapped into her mouth. All she could now do was suck on the large nipple and sob softly to herself.

1994 June 9, “Diaper Reformatory”, in alt.sex.fetish.diapers (Usenet):

I'm buying a pacifier gag today, who wants to use it first? ;)

Mommy unfastened the strap from behind my head, removed the pacifier gag and placed it beside her place setting. It stayed in my full view - a reminder of what was to come later.

2021 March 2, Colin Milton, edited by Michael Bent, Rosalie Bent, Tales from the Diapered Nursery: An ABDL Novel, volume 6, AB Discovery, page 38:

(ABDL, BDSM) A ball gag with a pacifier attached to its rubber or silicone sphere.


paci gag

paci gags (plural)
paci-gag (alternative)

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Who wants to be put in mits, paci gag, hole in the back of your diaper and mounted :)

Stuck, bound and diapered you begin to fuss as your new caretaker applies a enema to your bum...and a thick paci gag to your maw.

2016 August 14, DakureBrunswick, Twitter:

A fantasy of mine is hearing mommy and daddy have adult time while I’m locked in my crib with a paci gag and mittens, fussing over the baby monitor just as the laxatives kick in 🥺🥺🥺

2022 December 9, lottlebabiejade, Twitter:


Sense 2 is derived from the absence of an emoji or Unicode character for a rope; rather, this symbol specifically represents a knot.

(Internet slang, BDSM, metonymic) Represents bondage.


ბონდაჟი

bondaži (romanization)
ბონდაჟი (nominative singular)
ბონდაჟები (nominative plural)
ბონდაჟნი (archaic nominative plural)
ბონდაჟმა (ergative singular)
ბონდაჟებმა (ergative plural)
ბონდაჟთ (archaic ergative plural)
ბონდაჟთ (archaic ergative plural)
ბონდაჟთაt) (archaic ergative plural)
ბონდაჟთაta) (archaic ergative plural)
ბონდაჟს (dative singular)
ბონდაჟს (dative singular)
ბონდაჟსაs) (dative singular)
ბონდაჟსაsa) (dative singular)
ბონდაჟებს (dative plural)
ბონდაჟებს (dative plural)
ბონდაჟებსაs) (dative plural)
ბონდაჟებსაsa) (dative plural)
ბონდაჟთ (archaic dative plural)
ბონდაჟთ (archaic dative plural)
ბონდაჟთაt) (archaic dative plural)
ბონდაჟთაta) (archaic dative plural)
ბონდაჟის (genitive singular)
ბონდაჟის (genitive singular)
ბონდაჟისაs) (genitive singular)
ბონდაჟისაsa) (genitive singular)
ბონდაჟების (genitive plural)
ბონდაჟების (genitive plural)
ბონდაჟებისაs) (genitive plural)
ბონდაჟებისაsa) (genitive plural)
ბონდაჟთ (archaic genitive plural)
ბონდაჟთ (archaic genitive plural)
ბონდაჟთაt) (archaic genitive plural)
ბონდაჟთაta) (archaic genitive plural)
ბონდაჟით (instrumental singular)
ბონდაჟით (instrumental singular)
ბონდაჟითაt) (instrumental singular)
ბონდაჟითაta) (instrumental singular)
ბონდაჟებით (instrumental plural)
ბონდაჟებით (instrumental plural)
ბონდაჟებითაt) (instrumental plural)
ბონდაჟებითაta) (instrumental plural)
ბონდაჟად (adverbial singular)
ბონდაჟად (adverbial singular)
ბონდაჟადაd) (adverbial singular)
ბონდაჟადაda) (adverbial singular)
ბონდაჟებად (adverbial plural)
ბონდაჟებად (adverbial plural)
ბონდაჟებადაd) (adverbial plural)
ბონდაჟებადაda) (adverbial plural)
ბონდაჟო (singular vocative)
ბონდაჟებო (plural vocative)
ბონდაჟნო (archaic plural vocative)
ბონდაჟზე (singular)
ბონდაჟებზე (plural)
ბონდაჟთან (singular)
ბონდაჟებთან (plural)
ბონდაჟში (singular)
ბონდაჟებში (plural)
ბონდაჟივით (singular)
ბონდაჟებივით (plural)
ბონდაჟისთვის (singular)
ბონდაჟებისთვის (plural)
ბონდაჟისებრ (singular)
ბონდაჟებისებრ (plural)
ბონდაჟისკენ (singular)
ბონდაჟებისკენ (plural)
ბონდაჟისგან (singular)
ბონდაჟებისგან (plural)
ბონდაჟისადმი (singular)
ბონდაჟებისადმი (plural)
ბონდაჟიდან (singular)
ბონდაჟებიდან (plural)
ბონდაჟითურთ (singular)
ბონდაჟებითურთ (plural)
ბონდაჟამდე (singular)
ბონდაჟებამდე (plural)


фемдом

ru-noun+

фемдо́м • (femdóm) m inan (genitive фемдо́ма, nominative plural фемдо́мы, genitive plural фемдо́мов)

фемдо́м (canonical)
femdóm (romanization)
фемдо́ма (genitive)
фемдо́мы (nominative plural)
фемдо́мов (genitive plural)
фемдо́м (nominative singular)
фемдо́мы (nominative plural)
фемдо́ма (genitive singular)
фемдо́мов (genitive plural)
фемдо́му (dative singular)
фемдо́мам (dative plural)
фемдо́м (accusative singular)
фемдо́мы (accusative plural)
фемдо́мом (instrumental singular)
фемдо́мами (instrumental plural)
фемдо́ме (prepositional singular)
фемдо́мах (plural prepositional)

(BDSM) femdom (sexual practice in which women dominate men or other women)


مسلط

Borrowed from Arabic مُسَلَّط (musallaṭ).


rapeplay

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rape play (alternative)
rape-play (alternative)

(BDSM) A form of sexual roleplay in which the players act out nonconsensual situations, such as rape or sexual assault.


真空床

чжэнькунчуан

/ʈ͡ʂən⁵⁵ kʰʊŋ⁵⁵ ʈ͡ʂʰu̯ɑŋ³⁵/

/ʈ͡ʂən⁵⁵ kʰʊŋ⁵⁵ ʈ͡ʂʰu̯ɑŋ³⁵/


vacuum bed

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(BDSM) A device consisting of a large, latex envelope attached to a frame, from which most of the air may be removed via a vacuum pump while a person lies inside, which heavily restricts movement and induces asphyxiation for the purposes of stimulation.


tape gag

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(BDSM) A gag with sticky tape placed over the mouth to prevent speech, often as a restraint device to stop the subject from calling for help and keep its wearer silent.


fag cash

(slang, vulgar, LGBTQ, BDSM) Money or gifts provided by a homosexual male paypig or finsub.


cashmaster

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(slang, BDSM, uncommon) A highly paid or exceptional findom, i.e., a dominant who practices financial domination.


B+D

Alternative forms: BD, B&D, B & D, B/D, B and D

GWM master seeks obedient subordinate candidate to train. Discreet. B+D married a plus. Serve me.

1996 October 4, “Variations”, in The Boston Phoenix, volume 25, number 40, Boston, Mass.: The Phoenix Media/Communications Group, Adult Services, page 3:

(BDSM) Abbreviation of bondage and discipline.


B&D

Alternative forms: BD, B & D, B/D, B+D, B and D

Submissive MWC, in search of dominant WM or WF for spanking sessions, B&D roleplay. Spank her while I watch, spank me while she watches. Anything goes.

1996 October 4, “Variations”, in The Boston Phoenix, volume 25, number 40, Boston, Mass.: The Phoenix Media/Communications Group, Adult Services, page 2:


安全詞

/ˀän⁵⁵ t͡ɕʰy̯ɛn³⁵ t͡sʰz̩³⁵/

/ˀän⁵⁵ t͡ɕʰy̯ɛn³⁵ t͡sʰz̩³⁵/


Domme

(BDSM) Alternative letter-case form of domme.


CFNF

Initialism of clothed female, naked (or sometimes nude) female.

(BDSM) A form of lesbian sexual roleplay in which the players act out situations in which one woman wears clothes but the other woman is naked.


EUF

Initialism of embarrassed, underweared (or sometimes undressed or underclothed) female.

(BDSM) A form of sexual roleplay in which a woman acts out situations in which she is accidentally, unintentionally, unwillingly, or reluctantly in her underwear and consequently embarrassed, ashamed, or humiliated.


domspace

en-noun

domspace (countable and uncountable, plural domspaces)

domspaces (plural)
dom space (alternative)
dom-space (alternative)

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From dom (“dominant”) + space (“state of mind”).

compound

(BDSM) The psychological state of the dominant or top during sadomasochistic activity.


bottomspace

en-noun

bottomspace (countable and uncountable, plural bottomspaces)

bottomspaces (plural)
bottom space (alternative)
bottom-space (alternative)

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From bottom (“submissive”) + space (“state of mind”).

compound

(BDSM) The psychological state of the submissive or bottom during sadomasochistic activity.


brat tamer

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(BDSM) The dominant who controls a brat (a submissive who is disobedient and unruly).


forcefem

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Clipping of forced feminization; equivalent to force + fem.

(BDSM) Forced feminization; a sexual fetish involving a submissive male being forced to take on feminine roles.


puppygirl

puppygirls (plural)
puppy girl (alternative)
puppy-girl (alternative)

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(BDSM, endearing) A woman or girl who engages in pet play as a dog.


dom/me

dom/mes (plural)
Dom/me (alternative)
dom(me) (alternative)
Dom(me) (alternative)

(BDSM) Gender-neutral dominant in a BDSM relationship.


temperature play

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(BDSM) Any sexual activity involving stimulation using objects or substances with very high or very low temperatures.


femboydom

en-noun

femboydom (countable and uncountable, plural femboydoms)

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From femboy + dom, short for domination or dominance.

(BDSM, uncountable) A sexual practice in which femboys dominate other people.

(BDSM, countable) A femboy dominator in sadomasochistic sexual practices.


futadom

futadom (countable and uncountable, plural futadoms)

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From futa + dom, short for domination or dominance.

(BDSM, Japanese pornography, uncountable) A sexual practice in which futanari dominate other people.

(BDSM, Japanese pornography, countable) A futanari dominator in sadomasochistic sexual practices.


permalock

en-verb

permalock (third-person singular simple present permalocks, present participle permalocking, simple past and past participle permalocked)

permalocks (present singular third-person)
permalocking (participle present)
permalocked (participle past)
permalocked (past)

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(BDSM, intransitive) To be "locked up" permanently; to use a chastity cage for an indefinite amount of time.

(BDSM, transitive) To make someone wear a chastity cage for an indefinite amount of time.


permalocker

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(BDSM) Someone who wears a chastity cage for an indefinite amount of time.


magnet play

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Ratchet did the mech a favor and didn’t look at him while he recovered. He turned the seed magnet around in his pliers instead, examining it. […] ¶ “You should get a spotter if you’re going to experiment with magnets,” he said, once he figured Jazz was halfway to calm again. […] “Look, I’ve done magnet play, I’m not judging, but this thing is too powerful for how small it is. You’re lucky it didn’t get into your energon system.”

2023 March 27, neveralarch, “A Miracle Opened Wide”, in Archive Of Our Own (fan fiction), archived from the original on 2024-08-08:

Are nipple piercings magnetic?? That would be so fun if they were... imagine magnet play 😵💫

2023 December 13, @mementoviviere, Twitter, archived from the original on 2024-11-05:

(BDSM, science fiction) Any sexual activity involving magnets.


spreader pants

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From spreader (“a spacer or device for keeping two objects apart”) + pants, and so-called because the device spreads the wearer's legs apart.

compound

(ABDL, BDSM, neologism) A thick, firm but yielding device worn around the crotch—usually supported by straps above the shoulders—that spreads the wearer's legs apart, forcing them to crawl.


cum cow

Compound of cum + cow. Compare milk (“masturbate (someone) to ejaculation”, verb).

(BDSM, vulgar) A person who has their semen collected by their sexual partner.


Black New World Order

the Black New World Order (canonical)
black new world order (alternative)
BNWO (alternative initialism)

(BDSM) In raceplay, a fetishistic world order where black men sexually rule and exploit over other races.


BNWO

Black New World Order
Black New World Order#English

(BDSM) Initialism of Black New World Order.


rope kiss

(BDSM) A temporary imprint or mark left on the skin by a rope.


Mxtress

(BDSM) Used as a title of a gender-neutral dominant.


bitchsuit

bitchsuits (plural)
bitch suit (alternative)

The “Bitch Suit” an absolutely wonderful bondage punishment!!!⛓😈⛓

She's gunna be in that bitchsuit a long time if she doesn't age

2021 January 21, u/vaultdweller611, Reddit, r/hentaibitchsuits:

going to the tgirl party except when i arrive they pull me into a dark room and force me into a bitch suit and then make me crawl around the house while they treat me like the boston dynamics robot dog and push me around and kick me and pull my legs out from under me 😵💫😵💫😵💫

2024 July 17, @neverslutgender, Twitter:

(BDSM) A bondage suit which restrains the arms and legs, forcing its wearer into a crawling position.


ruined orgasm

(BDSM) An orgasm that is not accompanied by the typical pleasant physical sensations, usually achieved by withdrawing stimulation just before it occurs.


puppyplay

puppy-play (alternative)
puppy play (alternative)
pup-play (alternative)
pup play (alternative)

He needed to give up control and serve. He came to the dungeon for pup play, a common fetish. Once our scene started, he kneeled for me to collar him and pranced around the floor on a leash, eagerly sat up, barked, and rolled over on command. Sit! Stay! Good boy!

2015, Lux Alani, “On Authenticity”, in The Little Vanilla Book, →ISBN, →LCCN, →OCLC, page 2:

It’s important to note, firstly, that pup play isn’t a sexual activity so much as it is a head space,” said Amp, a puppy, a gamer, a porn performer, and the cohost of Watts the Safeword, a kink-friendly sex-education YouTube channel. “For DOGGONE’s coworker, pup play may be a comfort thing, or a social thing, or even a way for him to redefine who he is as a person so that he can take control.”[...]
A pup name is essentially a nickname, and people use nicknames socially and professionally. So long as the kinkier aspects of pup play—tail wagging, barking, ball chasing—are kept out of the workplace, DOGGONE’s coworker using his puppy name at work doesn’t involve the office in his sex life.”

2016 June 23, Dan Savage, “Savage Love”, in Eugene Weekly, →OCLC, page 31:

But if a pup doesn’t like romping and rolling around but rather just wants to play games with his Handler, that’s their prerogative and right as pup. Just like pups need to be accepting that there are male, female, and transgendered pups. That there are pups that ^([sic]) sex is an integral part of their pup play, while others, there are no sexual aspects in their play.

2018 July, Papa Woof Roth, “Puppy: Musings on Then and Now”, in Barking News, page 6:

(BDSM) A form of petplay in which one or more players take on the role of a dog or puppy, especially as the pet of another.


kittenplay

(BDSM) A form of petplay in which one or more players take on the role of a cat or kitten, especially as the pet of another.


humiliation play

Coordinate term: raceplay

(BDSM) A form of sexual roleplay where one partner (the dominant or top) engages in actions or behaviors designed to evoke feelings of humiliation or embarrassment in the other partner (the submissive or bottom) for sexual arousal or pleasure.


diaper sniffer

diaper sniffers (plural)
diapersniffer (alternative)
diaper-sniffer (alternative)

(ABDL, BDSM, rare) One who sniffs diapers for sexual gratification; a diaperslut, diapercuck.