BBC

en-noun

BBC (countable and uncountable, plural BBCs)

She on my TV screen; I’m talking DVD / British bitches love my cock; I’m talking BBC

2014, ScHoolboy Q (lyrics and music), “Californication”, in Oxymoron:

(sexuality, slang, vulgar) Initialism of big black cock.


AA

AA (countable and uncountable, plural AAs)

approach anxiety
approach anxiety#English

(seduction community) Initialism of approach anxiety.


Chad

4chan
Chad (name)
Chad (slang)
Chicago, Illinois

From Middle English Chadde, from Old English Ċeadda, of obscure meaning; name of a seventh-century Anglo-Saxon saint, revived in the 20th century.
The sense of “alpha male” originates from an apparent stereotype that men with such a name tend to bear that temperament, first attested in c. late 1990s in Chicago, Illinois (specifically "successful white man, yuppie"), but in common usage only as of the late 2010s via 4chan slang.

etydate

They are united by the fact that women will not have sex with them, usually attributed to shallow obsessions with looks or superficial personality, and by their hatred of “Chads” and “Stacys”, the men and women who have sex.

2018 April 25, Alex Hern, “Who are the 'incels' and how do they relate to Toronto van attack?”, in The Guardian:

Short for “female humanoid”, it’s used in place of the word “woman” to depict how, in an incel’s view, women are not entirely human, but are instead robot-like androids who only crave sex with Chads.

2018 April 28, Kate Wilson, “Last week in tech: sex robots”, in The Georgia Straight:

(Internet slang, seduction community, incel slang) A very handsome, usually tall man whom women find sexually attractive; at times seen as an alpha male of a group.


zipper

→ Cebuano: siper

→ Esperanto: zipo

→ French: zipper

→ Japanese: ジッパー (jippā)

→ Korean: 지퍼 (jipeo)

→ Portuguese: zíper

→ Spanish: zíper

→ Tagalog: siper

1925, zip + -er. The trade name was registered in 1925 by B.F. Goodrich for “boots made of rubber and fabric,” claiming use of the name since June 1923. No longer a registered trademark.

(BDSM) A string of clothes pegs or clips attached to the body and then quickly pulled off.


A

* (highest rank, grade, music): From the initial position of the letter A in the English alphabet.
* (blood type): From A antigen


wall

From Middle English wal, from Old English weall (“wall, dike, earthwork, rampart, dam, rocky shore, cliff”), from Proto-West Germanic *wall (“wall, rampart, entrenchment”), from Latin vallum (“wall, rampart, entrenchment, palisade”), from Proto-Indo-European *welH- (“to turn, wind, roll”).
Perhaps conflated with waw (“a wall within a house or dwelling, a room partition”), from Middle English wawe, from Old English wāg, wāh (“an interior wall, divider”), see waw.
Cognate with North Frisian wal (“wall”), Saterland Frisian Waal (“wall, rampart, mound”), Dutch wal (“wall, rampart, embankment”), German Wall (“rampart, mound, embankment”), Swedish vall (“mound, wall, bank”). More at wallow, walk.

cog

the apples on the other side of the wall are the sweetest

throw enough mud at the wall and some of it will stick

throw things at the wall and see what sticks

Depreciation of assets happens. Prepare yourself
Marla. Get ready for the wall.

1996 December 27, “The Definitive Answer to "Why Nice Guys Finish Last"”, in alt.romance (Usenet):

At what age would you peg the
'wall' to be for men, on or thereabouts?

2001 February 2, “what a drag it is getting old”, in soc.singles (Usenet):

I have never had a problem getting the attention of men. I'm 44
and there's no wall staring me in the face

2001 June 19, “the laws of biomechanics”, in soc.singles (Usenet):

That was only six
years later and Natasha is not near the wall yet

2002 January 22, “towards a useful smv metric”, in soc.singles (Usenet):

As for the wall....Im convinced part of this is just something us guys tell ourselves to 'get back'(in our minds) at all the girls who wouldn't sleep with us 5-10 years ago

2015 July 20, “catcalls are bad”, in rec.sport.football.college (Usenet):

(slang, seduction community, chiefly definite) The stage of biological aging where physical appearance and attractiveness start to deteriorate rapidly.


big

Inherited from Northern Middle English big, bigge (“powerful, strong”), possibly from a dialect of Old Norse. Ultimately perhaps a derivative of Proto-Germanic *bugja- (“swollen up, thick”), from Proto-Indo-European *bʰew-, *bu- (“to swell”), in which case big would be related to bogey, bugbear, and bug.
Compare dialectal Norwegian bugge (“great man”), Low German Bögge, Boggelmann.

der

(BDSM, ABDL) The participant in ageplay who acts out the older role.


bit

From Middle English bitte, bite, from Old English bita (“bit; fragment; morsel”) and bite (“a bite; cut”), from Proto-Germanic *bitô and *bitiz; both from Proto-Indo-European *bʰeyd- (“to split”). More at bite.
cognates
Cognate with West Frisian bit, Saterland Frisian Bit, Dutch bit, German Low German Beet, Biet, German Biss and Bissen, Danish bid, Swedish bit, Icelandic biti.

der

(BDSM) A gag of a style similar to a bridle.


finish

en-verb

finish (third-person singular simple present finishes, present participle finishing, simple past and past participle finished)

finishes (present singular third-person)
finishing (participle present)
finished (participle past)
finished (past)
finish (infinitive)

→ Gulf Arabic: فنش (fannaš)

From Middle English finishen, finisshen, finischen, from Old French finiss-, stem of some of the conjugated forms of finir, from Latin fīnīre, present active infinitive of fīniō, from fīnis (“end, limit, border, boundary”), possibly from Proto-Indo-European *dʰeygʷ- (“to stick, set up”) or from Proto-Indo-European *bʰeyd- (“to split”).

der

Fucked my cousin in her asshole
Before I finish on her tits

2016, “Redneck Shit”, performed by Wheeler Walker Jr.:

"Understand the anxiety around sex and what beliefs are triggering it," says Van Kirk."Are you worried you aren't good in bed? That you'll come off as selfish? That pleasuring you will take too long? Reframe that anxiety. Your excitement needs to be louder than any anxiety" to finish.

2019 June 14, Macaela Mackenzie, Lindsay Geller, “Why Your Orgasm Is MIA—And Exactly What To Do About It”, in Women's Health, archived from the original on 2021-01-25:


queen

en-verb

queen (third-person singular simple present queens, present participle queening, simple past and past participle queened)

queens (present singular third-person)
queening (participle present)
queened (participle past)
queened (past)

From Middle English quene, queen, cwen, from Old English cwēn (“queen”), from Proto-West Germanic *kwāni, from Proto-Germanic *kwēniz (“woman”), from Proto-Indo-European *gʷénh₂s (“woman”).
Cognate with Scots queen, wheen (“queen”), Old Saxon quān ("wife"; > Middle Low German quene (“elderly woman”)), Dutch kween (“woman past child-bearing age”), Swedish kvinna (“woman”), Norwegian kvinne (“woman”), Danish kvinde (“woman”), Icelandic kvon (“wife”), Gothic 𐌵𐌴𐌽𐍃 (qēns, “wife”), Norwegian dialectal kvån (“wife”). Related to and possibly merged with and/or absorbed some senses of English quean, from Middle English quene, from Old English cwene (“woman; female serf, quean”), see quean. Generally eclipsed non-native Middle English regina (“queen”), borrowed from Latin rēgīna (“queen”) (see Modern English regina). Doublet of quean and gyne.

gloss

"wife"; > Middle Low German <i class="Latn mention" lang="gml">quene</i> (“elderly woman”)

cog

The classic posture, in which you lie on your back while the male serves you, may make him feel arrogant and in charge. Try Queening him. Have him lie on his back while you sit on his face (make sure he has an airway through either his mouth or his nose).

1996, Lorelei, The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl’s Guide to Female Dominance, Scranton, Pennsylvania: Berkana Press, →ISBN, page 138:

She saw his pink tongue flickering on Clare's exposed nympha as she queened him, her love juices shining on his chin and throat[…]

2012, Yolanda Celbridge, The Castle of Maldona:

(BDSM, slang, transitive, usually of a woman) To sit on a person’s face to receive oral sex, typically while straddling the person’s head.


finger

en-verb

finger (third-person singular simple present fingers, present participle fingering, simple past and past participle fingered)

fingers (present singular third-person)
fingering (participle present)
fingered (participle past)
fingered (past)

PIE word
 *pénkʷe
From Middle English fynger, finger, from Old English finger (“finger”), from Proto-West Germanic *fingr, from Proto-Germanic *fingraz (“finger”), from Proto-Indo-European *penkʷrós, from *pénkʷe (“five”). Compare West Frisian finger, Low German/German Finger, Dutch vinger, Danish, Norwegian, and Swedish finger; also Old Armenian հինգեր-որդ (hinger-ord, “fifth”). More at five.

digitar

to provide instructions about the use of fingers in music

She fingered him, spreading the gel and sliding the tip of her finger inside him.

2007, Madeline Bastinado, A Talent for Surrender, page 201:

She smiled, a look of amazement on her face, as if thinking that maybe this was the cock that she had been fantasizing about just now, as she fingered herself to a massive, body-engulfing orgasm.

2008, Thomas Wainwright, editor, Erotic Tales, page 56:

(transitive, sex) To use the fingers to penetrate or sexually stimulate one's own or another person's vulva, vagina, or anus.

صَبَّعَ

to penetrate and sexually stimulate with one's finger


TO

Initialism of target operasi (literally “operation target”).

initialism

(slang, internet prostitution) female prostitute


MG

en-noun

MG (countable and uncountable, plural MGs)

(uncountable, pornography) Initialism of weight gain.


AR

AR (countable and uncountable, plural ARs)

Coordinate term: AP

(pornography) Initialism of age regression.


French

French (countable and uncountable, plural French or Frenches)

→ Zulu: iFulentshi

Inherited from Middle English Frenche, Frensch, Frensc, Frenshe, Frenk, Franche, from Old English Frenċisċ (“Frankish, French”), from Proto-West Germanic *Frankisk (“Frankish”), equivalent to Frank + -ish (compare Frankish). Cognate with Middle Low German vranksch, frenkisch, vrenkesch, vrenksch (“Frankish, French”), Middle High German vrenkisch, vrensch ("Frankish, Franconian; > German fränkisch (“Frankish, Franconian”)), Danish fransk (“French”), Swedish fransk, fransysk (“French”), Icelandic franska (“French”).
Doublet of Frankish.
In reference to vulgar language, from expressions such as pardon my French in the early 19th century, originally in reference to actual (but often mildly impolite) French expressions by the upper class, subsequently adopted ironically by the lower class for English cursewords under the charitable conceit that the listener would not be familiar with them.
In reference to vermouth, a shortened form of French vermouth, distinguished as usually being drier than Italian vermouth.

gl

"Frankish, Franconian; > German <i class="Latn mention" lang="de">fränkisch</i> (“Frankish, Franconian”)

French--^([sic]) to do the French--Cocksucking; and, inversely, to tongue a woman.

1916, Henry Nathaniel Cary, The Slang of Venery and Its Analogues, volume I, page 94:

You can be whipped or caned... or you can have French for another pound.

Always use condoms with Greek (anal intercourse), straight sex (vaginal intercourse, fucking), French (oral sex).

‘French’—still used by prostitutes as a term for oral sex.

(uncountable, dated slang, sex) Synonym of oral sex, especially fellatio.


French

en-adj

French (comparative more French or Frencher, superlative most French or Frenchest)

more French (comparative)
Frencher (comparative)
most French (superlative)
Frenchest (superlative)

→ Choctaw: Filanchi

→ Tamil: பிரஞ்சு (pirañcu)

Coordinate term: straight

French active ― person who is fellated

French girl ― a prostitute who offers fellatio

She was a tall redhead, with a shape that would make you jump for joy and a reputation as the best French girl in the place.

1946, Milton “Mezz” Mezzrow, Bernard Wolfe, “Not too Far Tangent”, in Really the Blues, New York, N.Y.: Random House, book 1 (1899–1923: A Nothin’ but a Child), page 23:

(slang, sexuality) Of or related to oral sex, especially fellatio.


boy

en-noun

boy (countable and uncountable, plural boys)

Jamaican Creole: bwoy

Sranan Tongo: boi, boy

→ Cebuano: boy

→ Chinese: boy

→ Dutch: boy
→ Indonesian: boi

→ French: boy

→ German: Boy

→ Hungarian: boy

→ Iraqi Arabic: بوي

→ Italian: boy

→ Japanese: ボーイ (bōi)

→ Polish: boy

→ Russian: бой (boj)

→ Spanish: boy

→ Swahili: boi

→ Tagalog: boy

→ Vietnamese: bồi

→ Welsh: boi

Etymology tree
Proto-West Germanic *bōjō
Old English *bōia
Middle English boye
English boy
From Middle English boy／boye (“servant, commoner, knave, boy”), from Old English *bōia (“boy”), from Proto-West Germanic *bōjō, from Proto-Germanic *bōjô (“younger brother, young male relation”), from Proto-Germanic *bō- (“brother, close male relation”), from Proto-Indo-European *bʰā-, *bʰāt- (“father, elder brother, brother”).
Cognate with Scots boy (“boy”), West Frisian boai (“boy”), Dutch boi (“boy”), Low German Boi (“boy”), and probably to the Old English proper name Bōia. Also related to West Flemish boe (“brother”), Norwegian dialectal boa (“brother”), Dutch boef (“rogue, knave”), Bavarian Bua (“young boy, lad”), German Bube ("boy; knave; jack"; > English bub), Icelandic bófi (“rogue, crook, bandit, knave”). See also bully.

gloss

"boy; knave; jack"; > English <i class="Latn mention" lang="en">bub</i>

boy

formerly, African male servant in colonies

mutil

male of any age, used as a friendly diminutive

all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy

since Adam was an oakum boy in Chatham Dockyard

when Adam was an oakum boy in Chatham Dockyard


hard

en-adj

hard (comparative harder or more hard, superlative hardest or most hard)

harder (comparative)
more hard (comparative)
hardest (superlative)
most hard (superlative)

→ Finnish: haarti

→ Spanish: hard

From Middle English hard, from Old English heard, from Proto-West Germanic *hard(ī), from Proto-Germanic *harduz, from Proto-Indo-European *kort-ús, from *kret- (“strong, powerful”). Cognate with German hart, Swedish hård, Ancient Greek κρατύς (kratús), Sanskrit क्रतु (krátu), Avestan 𐬑𐬭𐬀𐬙𐬎 (xratu).

صَعْب

requiring a lot of effort to do or understand


euphoria

en-noun

euphoria (countable and uncountable, plural euphorias)

From New Latin euphoria, from Ancient Greek εὐφορίᾱ (euphoríā), from εὔφορος (eúphoros, “bearing well”), from εὐ- (eu-, “well”) + φέρω (phérō, “to bear”).


train

→ Irish: traein

→ Maltese: trejn

→ Scottish Gaelic: trèan

→ Welsh: trên

[t̠ɹ̠̊˔e̞ɪn]

From Middle English trayne (“train”), from Old French train (“a delay, a drawing out”), from traïner (“to pull out, to draw”), from Vulgar Latin *traginō, from *tragō, from Latin trahō (“to pull, to draw”), ultimately from Proto-Indo-European *tregʰ- (“to pull, draw, drag”). The verb was derived from the noun in Middle English.

der

it ain't the whistle that pulls the train

it is not the whistle that pulls the train

it isn't the whistle that pulls the train

it's not the whistle that pulls the train

“You want us to run a train on you?”

2005, Violet Blue, Best Women's Erotica 2006: Volume 2001, link:

(sex, slang) An act wherein series of men line up and then penetrate a person, especially as a form of gang rape.

trenzinho

sex: an act wherein series of men line up and then penetrate a person


crush

en-noun

crush (countable and uncountable, plural crushes)

From Middle English cruschen (“to crush, smash, squeeze, squash”), from Old French croissir (“to crush”), from Late Latin *crusciō (“to brush”), from Frankish *krustijan (“to crush, squeeze, squash”), from Proto-Germanic *kreustaną (“to crush, grind, strike, smash”). Cognate with Middle Low German tokrosten (“to crush, shatter”).
Akin also to Middle Dutch crosen (“to bruise, crush”), Middle Low German krossen, krȫsen (“to break, shatter”), Old Swedish krusa (“to crush”), Swedish krysta (“to squeeze”), Danish kryste (“to squash”), Icelandic kreista (“to squeeze, squash”), Faroese kroysta (“to squeeze”), Gothic 𐌺𐍂𐌹𐌿𐍃𐍄𐌰𐌽 (kriustan, “to gnash”).

cog

Just as they say that marijuana leads to harder drugs, Gallegly is claiming that crush is a "gateway fetish"—a term I've never heard before. He claims that if someone starts with bugs they'll end up escalating to human babies in no time.

2000, Katharine Gates, Deviant Desires: Incredibly Strange Sex, page 137:

(uncountable, sexuality) A paraphilia involving arousal from seeing things destroyed by crushing.


collar

en-verb

collar (third-person singular simple present collars, present participle collaring, simple past and past participle collared)

collars (present singular third-person)
collaring (participle present)
collared (participle past)
collared (past)

From Middle English coler, borrowed from Old French coler (Modern French collier), from Late Latin collāre, from Latin collāris, from collum (“neck”). Cognate with Gothic 𐌷𐌰𐌻𐍃 (hals, “neck”), Old English heals (“neck”). Compare Spanish cuello (“neck”). More at halse.

(transitive, BDSM) To bind (a submissive) to a dominant under specific conditions or obligations.


horizontal

en-adj

horizontal (comparative more horizontal, superlative most horizontal)

more horizontal (comparative)
most horizontal (superlative)

/ˌhɒɹɪˈzɒntəl/

horizontal tango

Comparing a man who inspires you intellectually and makes you laugh with a guy who fulfils all your horizontal desires means you’re not comparing like with like.

2020 February 2, Mariella Frostrup, “One is a great guy; the other is good in bed. So who do I choose?”, in The Guardian:

(sex, euphemistic) Relating to sexual intercourse.


plate

→ Maori: pereti

→ Hindi: प्लेट (pleṭ)

From Middle English plate, from Old French plate, from Medieval Latin plata, from Vulgar Latin *plat(t)us, from Ancient Greek πλατύς (platús, “broad, flat, wide”). Compare Spanish plato.

der

More plates means more dates!

(slang, seduction community) Any of the potential romantic or sexual partners with whom a person keeps in touch as part of plate spinning.


hammer

en-verb

hammer (third-person singular simple present hammers, present participle hammering, simple past and past participle hammered)

hammers (present singular third-person)
hammering (participle present)
hammered (participle past)
hammered (past)

From Middle English hamer, from Old English hamor, from Proto-West Germanic *hamar, from Proto-Germanic *hamaraz (“tool with a stone head”) (compare West Frisian hammer, Low German Hamer, Dutch hamer, German Hammer, Danish hammer, Swedish hammare). This is traditionally ascribed to Proto-Indo-European *h₂eḱmoros, from *h₂éḱmō (“stone”), but see *hamaraz for further discussion.
(declare a defaulter on the stock exchange): Originally signalled by knocking with a wooden mallet.

sense

the nail that sticks out gets hammered down

A short time later I’ve got Lissie in bed. I’m really going after it, really hammering her.

2012, John Locke, Wish List (Donovan Creed), John Locke Books, →ISBN, page 19:

(sex, transitive, colloquial) To have hard sex with.


brat

en-noun

brat (countable and uncountable, plural brats)

Early Modern English (c. 1500) slang term meaning "beggar's child". Possibly from Scots bratchet (“bitch, hound”). Another possibility is that it was originally a dialectal word, from northern and western England and the Midlands, for a "makeshift or ragged garment," from Old English bratt (“cloak”), which is from a Celtic source (Old Irish brat (“cloak, cloth”)). In the sense "characteristic of a confident and assertive woman", coined by English singer and songwriter Charli XCX in her 2024 album Brat.

coinage

(BDSM) A submissive partner who is disobedient and unruly.


brat

en-verb

brat (third-person singular simple present brats, present participle bratting, simple past and past participle bratted)

brats (present singular third-person)
bratting (participle present)
bratted (participle past)
bratted (past)

Ruthie was Ed's own submissive, a short, pretty, feisty ash-blonde New York City native who combined her submission to Ed with a good deal of mischievous bratting and a lot of sharp, intelligent conversation […]

2021, Ardie Stallard, Switch: A Tale of Spanking, BDSM & Romance:

Rather, Ana moves between playful bratting and a type of “conquer me” wantedness that good Dominants would respond to with increased control and correction.

2020, Jessica M. Kratzer, Communication in Kink, page 43:

(BDSM, intransitive) To act in a bratty manner as the submissive.


異

Ideogram (指事) – a man with a mask (田) over his face. Possible interpretations:
* Strange, bizarre — "uncommon".
* Different face — "different".
Compare 鬼 (“demon”), where the 田 also derives from a face or a mask. Compare also 禺, in which the top component represents either a mask or a monkey's face.
Alternatively, may be a pictogram (象形) of a person carrying something on his head, the original form of 戴 (“to carry on the head”).
Modern form is graphically 田 + 共, though this is not the etymology.

異男

异男


game

game (third-person singular simple present games, present participle gaming, simple past and past participle gamed)

games (present singular third-person)
gaming (participle present)
gamed (participle past)
gamed (past)

From Middle English game, gamen, gammen, from Old English gamen (“sport, joy, mirth, pastime, game, amusement, pleasure”), from Proto-West Germanic *gaman, from Proto-Germanic *gamaną (“amusement, pleasure, game", literally "participation, communion, people together”), from *ga- (collective prefix) + *mann- (“man”); or alternatively from *ga- + a root from Proto-Indo-European *men- (“to think, have in mind”).
Cognate with Old Frisian game, gome (“joy, amusement, entertainment”), Middle High German gamen (“joy, amusement, fun, pleasure”), Swedish gamman (“mirth, rejoicing, merriment”), Icelandic gaman (“fun”). Related to gammon, gamble.

cog

Returning briefly to his journalistic persona to interview Britney Spears, he finds himself gaming her, and she gives him her phone number.

2005 October 6, “Picking up the pieces”, in The Economist:

A business associate of mine at the time, George Wu, sat across the way, gaming a stripper the way I taught him.

2010, Mystery, The Pickup Artist: The New and Improved Art of Seduction, Villard Books, →ISBN, page 100:

How did Amanda know she wasn’t getting gamed? Well, she didn’t. “I would wonder, ‘Is he saying stuff to other girls that he says to me?’ We did everything we could to cut it off […] yet we somehow couldn’t.”

2010 July 9, Sheila McClear, “Would you date a pickup artist?”, in New York Post:

(transitive, seduction community, slang, of males) To perform premeditated seduction strategy.


call

en-noun

call (countable and uncountable, plural calls)

→ Armenian: քոլ (kʻol)

→ Georgian: ქოლი (koli)

From Middle English callen, from Old English ċeallian (“to call, shout”) and Old Norse kalla (“to call; shout; refer to as; name”); both from Proto-Germanic *kalzōną (“to call, shout”), from Proto-Indo-European *golH-so- (“voice, cry”), from *gel(H)- (“to vocalize, call, shout”).
Cognates
* Scots call, caw, ca (“to call, cry, shout”)
* Dutch kallen (“to chat, talk”),
* German kallen (“to call”)
* Swedish kalla (“to call, refer to, beckon”)
* Norwegian kalle (“to call, name”)
* Danish kalde (“to call, name”)
* Icelandic kalla (“to call, shout, name”)
* Welsh galw (“to call, demand”)
* Polish głos (“voice”)
* Lithuanian gal̃sas (“echo”)
* Russian голос (golos, “voice”)
* Albanian gjuhë (“language, tongue”).

cog

the call is coming from inside the house

"They have a little network of women that watch out for each other," Morford said. That means that if one prostitute doesn't come back after going out on a call – whether it's an Internet prostitute or a streetwalker – and the other women can't get hold of her, they get scared, close up shop and won't work, Morford said.

2015 March 3, Lyda Longa, “Internet hookups mean fewer prostitutes on Daytona’s streets, police say”, in The Daytona Beach News-Journal, Daytona Beach, Fla.:

(informal, slang, prostitution) A meeting with a client for paid sex; hookup; job.


without

From Middle English withoute, withouten, from Old English wiþūtan (literally “against the outside of”). Compare Dutch buiten (“outside of, without”), Danish uden (“without”), Swedish utan (“without”), Norwegian uten (“without”). By surface analysis, with- + out.

inh

“What's within reason?” “Hand-job, blow-job, full sex — straight, full service. Greek, maybe, if you're not too big. Golden shower, if you like, but not reverse. No hardsports. And absolutely nothing without.”

2012, Maxim Jakubowski, The Best British Crime Omnibus:

(prostitution, euphemistic) Without a condom being worn.


petting

en-noun

petting (countable and uncountable, plural pettings)

(sex) The act of kissing, stroking, etc., a person in a sexual manner.

撫摸

kissing, stroking, etc., in a sexual manner

не́жничанье

сексуа́льные


petting

petting (nominative singular)
pettingit (nominative plural)
petting (accusative nominative singular)
pettingit (accusative nominative plural)
pettingin (accusative genitive singular)
pettingit (accusative genitive plural)
pettingin (genitive singular)
pettingien (genitive plural)
pettingiä (partitive singular)
pettingejä (partitive plural)
pettingissä (inessive singular)
pettingeissä (inessive plural)
pettingistä (elative singular)
pettingeistä (elative plural)
pettingiin (illative singular)
pettingeihin (illative plural)
pettingillä (adessive singular)
pettingeillä (adessive plural)
pettingiltä (ablative singular)
pettingeiltä (ablative plural)
pettingille (allative singular)
pettingeille (allative plural)
pettinginä (essive singular)
pettingeinä (essive plural)
pettingiksi (singular translative)
pettingeiksi (plural translative)
pettingittä (abessive singular)
pettingeittä (abessive plural)
pettingein (instructive plural)
See the possessive forms below. (comitative)
pettingini (nominative singular)
pettingini (nominative plural)
pettingini (accusative nominative singular)
pettingini (accusative nominative plural)
pettingini (accusative genitive singular)
pettingini (accusative genitive plural)
pettingini (genitive singular)
pettingieni (genitive plural)
pettingiäni (partitive singular)
pettingejäni (partitive plural)
pettingissäni (inessive singular)
pettingeissäni (inessive plural)
pettingistäni (elative singular)
pettingeistäni (elative plural)
pettingiini (illative singular)
pettingeihini (illative plural)
pettingilläni (adessive singular)
pettingeilläni (adessive plural)
pettingiltäni (ablative singular)
pettingeiltäni (ablative plural)
pettingilleni (allative singular)
pettingeilleni (allative plural)
pettinginäni (essive singular)
pettingeinäni (essive plural)
pettingikseni (singular translative)
pettingeikseni (plural translative)
pettingittäni (abessive singular)
pettingeittäni (abessive plural)
pettingeineni (comitative plural)
pettingisi (nominative singular)
pettingisi (nominative plural)
pettingisi (accusative nominative singular)
pettingisi (accusative nominative plural)
pettingisi (accusative genitive singular)
pettingisi (accusative genitive plural)
pettingisi (genitive singular)
pettingiesi (genitive plural)
pettingiäsi (partitive singular)
pettingejäsi (partitive plural)
pettingissäsi (inessive singular)
pettingeissäsi (inessive plural)
pettingistäsi (elative singular)
pettingeistäsi (elative plural)
pettingiisi (illative singular)
pettingeihisi (illative plural)
pettingilläsi (adessive singular)
pettingeilläsi (adessive plural)
pettingiltäsi (ablative singular)
pettingeiltäsi (ablative plural)
pettingillesi (allative singular)
pettingeillesi (allative plural)
pettinginäsi (essive singular)
pettingeinäsi (essive plural)
pettingiksesi (singular translative)
pettingeiksesi (plural translative)
pettingittäsi (abessive singular)
pettingeittäsi (abessive plural)
pettingeinesi (comitative plural)
pettingimme (nominative singular)
pettingimme (nominative plural)
pettingimme (accusative nominative singular)
pettingimme (accusative nominative plural)
pettingimme (accusative genitive singular)
pettingimme (accusative genitive plural)
pettingimme (genitive singular)
pettingiemme (genitive plural)
pettingiämme (partitive singular)
pettingejämme (partitive plural)
pettingissämme (inessive singular)
pettingeissämme (inessive plural)
pettingistämme (elative singular)
pettingeistämme (elative plural)
pettingiimme (illative singular)
pettingeihimme (illative plural)
pettingillämme (adessive singular)
pettingeillämme (adessive plural)
pettingiltämme (ablative singular)
pettingeiltämme (ablative plural)
pettingillemme (allative singular)
pettingeillemme (allative plural)
pettinginämme (essive singular)
pettingeinämme (essive plural)
pettingiksemme (singular translative)
pettingeiksemme (plural translative)
pettingittämme (abessive singular)
pettingeittämme (abessive plural)
pettingeinemme (comitative plural)
pettinginne (nominative singular)
pettinginne (nominative plural)
pettinginne (accusative nominative singular)
pettinginne (accusative nominative plural)
pettinginne (accusative genitive singular)
pettinginne (accusative genitive plural)
pettinginne (genitive singular)
pettingienne (genitive plural)
pettingiänne (partitive singular)
pettingejänne (partitive plural)
pettingissänne (inessive singular)
pettingeissänne (inessive plural)
pettingistänne (elative singular)
pettingeistänne (elative plural)
pettingiinne (illative singular)
pettingeihinne (illative plural)
pettingillänne (adessive singular)
pettingeillänne (adessive plural)
pettingiltänne (ablative singular)
pettingeiltänne (ablative plural)
pettingillenne (allative singular)
pettingeillenne (allative plural)
pettinginänne (essive singular)
pettingeinänne (essive plural)
pettingiksenne (singular translative)
pettingeiksenne (plural translative)
pettingittänne (abessive singular)
pettingeittänne (abessive plural)
pettingeinenne (comitative plural)
pettinginsä (nominative singular)
pettinginsä (nominative plural)
pettinginsä (accusative nominative singular)
pettinginsä (accusative nominative plural)
pettinginsä (accusative genitive singular)
pettinginsä (accusative genitive plural)
pettinginsä (genitive singular)
pettingiensä (genitive plural)
pettingiään (partitive singular)
pettingiänsä (partitive singular)
pettingejään (partitive plural)
pettingejänsä (partitive plural)
pettingissään (inessive singular)
pettingissänsä (inessive singular)
pettingeissään (inessive plural)
pettingeissänsä (inessive plural)
pettingistään (elative singular)
pettingistänsä (elative singular)
pettingeistään (elative plural)
pettingeistänsä (elative plural)
pettingiinsä (illative singular)
pettingeihinsä (illative plural)
pettingillään (adessive singular)
pettingillänsä (adessive singular)
pettingeillään (adessive plural)
pettingeillänsä (adessive plural)
pettingiltään (ablative singular)
pettingiltänsä (ablative singular)
pettingeiltään (ablative plural)
pettingeiltänsä (ablative plural)
pettingilleen (allative singular)
pettingillensä (allative singular)
pettingeilleen (allative plural)
pettingeillensä (allative plural)
pettinginään (essive singular)
pettinginänsä (essive singular)
pettingeinään (essive plural)
pettingeinänsä (essive plural)
pettingikseen (singular translative)
pettingiksensä (singular translative)
pettingeikseen (plural translative)
pettingeiksensä (plural translative)
pettingittään (abessive singular)
pettingittänsä (abessive singular)
pettingeittään (abessive plural)
pettingeittänsä (abessive plural)
pettingeineen (comitative plural)
pettingeinensä (comitative plural)


petting

petting (nominative singular)
pettingu (genitive singular)
pettingowi (dative singular)
petting (accusative singular)
pettingiem (instrumental singular)
pettingu (locative singular)
pettingu (singular vocative)

Unadapted borrowing from English petting.

ubor

(sex) petting (kissing, stroking, etc., in a sexual manner)


foreplay

Actually in quick undressing or actual lovemaking modern nylons usually get ruined, but if you keep your nails and fingers smooth taking them off gently makes good foreplay, along with mutual undressing generally.

1972, Alex Comfort, The Joy of Sex, Crown, pages 215–216:

Root (Amy Acker): Hey, sweetie, you busy? / Sameen Shaw (Sarah Shahi): A little. Skip the verbal foreplay, Root. Why you calling? / Root: Can't a couple of gals take a little break from work to catch up?

2015 January 6, Denise Thé, “If-Then-Else”, in Chris Fisher, director, Person of Interest, season 4, episode 11:

(sex) The acts at the beginning of a (usually human) sexual encounter that serve to build up sexual arousal.


milk

en-verb

milk (third-person singular simple present milks, present participle milking, simple past and past participle milked)

milks (present singular third-person)
milking (participle present)
milked (participle past)
milked (past)

From Middle English milken, from Old English melcan, from Proto-Germanic *melkaną, ultimately from Proto-Indo-European *h₂melǵ-, the same root as the noun. Compare Dutch and German melken, Danish malke, Norwegian mjølke, also Latin mulgeō (“I milk”), Ancient Greek ἀμέλγω (amélgō, “I milk”), Albanian mjel (“to milk”), Russian молоко́ (molokó), Lithuanian mélžti, Tocharian A mālk-.

Controlled milking can actually establish and consolidate a mistress’s dominance over her sub rather than diminish it.

“No, no, no! When a male is in chas-ti-ty,” (Clive always drew out this word and also slavery, emphasizing every syllable to give it extra importance) “he should receive regular milking to maintain good hygiene.” (Yet more kinky behavior cloaked as healthy living.) “Milking helps flush out the toxins which accumulate within the prostate gland of a chaste male.”

2015, Joyce Snyder, Mistress Pussycat: Adventures with Submissive Men in the World of Femdom, Headpress, →ISBN:

(transitive, BDSM, vulgar) To masturbate a male to ejaculation, especially for the amusement or satisfaction of the masturbator rather than the person masturbated.


parachute

Borrowed from French parachute, from para- (“protection against”) (as in parasol) and chute (“fall”).

Under that there are dildos and butt-plugs arranged by size on two shelves: two fat butt-plugs and four small ones, four two-headed dildos, eight ordinary dildos. Under that, the little material hanging on nails: five different pairs of nipple clamps, some clothespins, a parachute for the balls, a dog collar, two hoods, one in leather, one in latex, six cockrings, in steel or leather, regular or with built-in ball-squeezers, two dick sheaths […]

1998, Guillaume Dustan, translated by Brad Rumph, In My Room, London: Serpent’s Tail, →ISBN, page 53:

Parachutes are usually made of leather and can be purchased through most fetish catalogs or stores catering to the BDSM scene.

2012, Peggy Sue, Guide to Female Supremacy, London: Gynarchy International Editions / Lulu Press, →ISBN, page 75:

She came near and grabbed his balls tightly with her left hand, tugging them downward while applying a parachute harness with her right hand. […] His balls stretched downward under the delicious weight.

2016, John Caesar, Wife Scorned!, Lulu.com, →ISBN:

A parachute is a small collar, usually made from leather, which fastens around the scrotum, and from which weights can be hung.

2022, Mohamed A. Baky Fahmy, “Scrotum in Human Conscience”, in Mohamed A. Baky Fahmy, editor, Normal and Abnormal Scrotum, Cham, Switzerland: Springer, →DOI, →ISBN, page 22:

(BDSM) A small collar which fastens around the scrotum and from which weights can be hung.

parachute

BDSM: scrotum collar from which weights can be hung


parachute

→ Azerbaijani: paraşüt

→ Albanian: parashutë

desctree

→ Dutch: parachute
→ Papiamentu: parachüt

→ English: parachute

→ Ottoman Turkish: پاراشوت (paraşüt)

Turkish: paraşüt

→ Russian: парашю́т (parašút)
→ Armenian: պարաշյուտ (parašyut)
→ Kazakh: парашют (paraşüt)

From para- (“protection against”) + chute (“fall”).

af

En dessous il y a les godes et les plugs, rangés par taille sur deux étagères: deux gros plugs, quatre petits, quatre godes doubles, huit godes simples. En dessous il y a le petit matériel, accroché à des clous: cinq paires de pinces à seins différentes, des pinces à linge, un parachute pour les couilles, tin collier de chien, deux cagoules, une en cuir, une en latex, six cockrings, en acier, en cuir, simples ou avec serre-couilles incorporé, deux étuis à bite […]

1996, Guillaume Dustan, Dans ma chambre [In My Room], Paris: POL, page 71; quoted in David Caron, My Father and I: The Marais and the Queerness of Community, Ithaca, New York: Cornell University Press, 2009, →ISBN, page 106:

Below there are the dildos and plugs, ranging in size on two shelves: two big plugs, four small, four double-dildos, eight simple dildos. Below there is the small equipment, hung on nails: five pairs of different nipple clamps, clothes pegs, a parachute for the balls, a dog collar, two hoods, one leather, one latex, six cockrings, in steel, in leather, simple or with built-in ball clamps, two cock-sleeves […]

(BDSM) parachute (scrotum collar from which weights can be hung)


switch

→ Gulf Arabic: سويچ (swīč)

→ German: Switch

Perhaps from Middle Dutch swijch (“twig”), first attested in c. 1592. The mechanical device for altering the direction of something sense is first attested in c. 1797, pertaining to pivoted rails on minecart railways, which were once wooden.

камута́тар

system allowing the interconnection of telephone lines

Ideally, if one of your ladies happens to be a switch (or would be willing to switch for this scene), I would love to be able to inflict a little "revenge tickling" as well, as part of a scenario.

2012, Terri-Jean Bedford, Bondage Bungalow Fantasies, page 99:

(especially BDSM) One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship.


switch

switch (nominative singular)
switchit (nominative plural)
switch (accusative nominative singular)
switchit (accusative nominative plural)
switchin (accusative genitive singular)
switchit (accusative genitive plural)
switchin (genitive singular)
switchien (genitive plural)
switchiä (partitive singular)
switchejä (partitive plural)
switchissä (inessive singular)
switcheissä (inessive plural)
switchistä (elative singular)
switcheistä (elative plural)
switchiin (illative singular)
switcheihin (illative plural)
switchillä (adessive singular)
switcheillä (adessive plural)
switchiltä (ablative singular)
switcheiltä (ablative plural)
switchille (allative singular)
switcheille (allative plural)
switchinä (essive singular)
switcheinä (essive plural)
switchiksi (singular translative)
switcheiksi (plural translative)
switchittä (abessive singular)
switcheittä (abessive plural)
switchein (instructive plural)
See the possessive forms below. (comitative)
switchini (nominative singular)
switchini (nominative plural)
switchini (accusative nominative singular)
switchini (accusative nominative plural)
switchini (accusative genitive singular)
switchini (accusative genitive plural)
switchini (genitive singular)
switchieni (genitive plural)
switchiäni (partitive singular)
switchejäni (partitive plural)
switchissäni (inessive singular)
switcheissäni (inessive plural)
switchistäni (elative singular)
switcheistäni (elative plural)
switchiini (illative singular)
switcheihini (illative plural)
switchilläni (adessive singular)
switcheilläni (adessive plural)
switchiltäni (ablative singular)
switcheiltäni (ablative plural)
switchilleni (allative singular)
switcheilleni (allative plural)
switchinäni (essive singular)
switcheinäni (essive plural)
switchikseni (singular translative)
switcheikseni (plural translative)
switchittäni (abessive singular)
switcheittäni (abessive plural)
switcheineni (comitative plural)
switchisi (nominative singular)
switchisi (nominative plural)
switchisi (accusative nominative singular)
switchisi (accusative nominative plural)
switchisi (accusative genitive singular)
switchisi (accusative genitive plural)
switchisi (genitive singular)
switchiesi (genitive plural)
switchiäsi (partitive singular)
switchejäsi (partitive plural)
switchissäsi (inessive singular)
switcheissäsi (inessive plural)
switchistäsi (elative singular)
switcheistäsi (elative plural)
switchiisi (illative singular)
switcheihisi (illative plural)
switchilläsi (adessive singular)
switcheilläsi (adessive plural)
switchiltäsi (ablative singular)
switcheiltäsi (ablative plural)
switchillesi (allative singular)
switcheillesi (allative plural)
switchinäsi (essive singular)
switcheinäsi (essive plural)
switchiksesi (singular translative)
switcheiksesi (plural translative)
switchittäsi (abessive singular)
switcheittäsi (abessive plural)
switcheinesi (comitative plural)
switchimme (nominative singular)
switchimme (nominative plural)
switchimme (accusative nominative singular)
switchimme (accusative nominative plural)
switchimme (accusative genitive singular)
switchimme (accusative genitive plural)
switchimme (genitive singular)
switchiemme (genitive plural)
switchiämme (partitive singular)
switchejämme (partitive plural)
switchissämme (inessive singular)
switcheissämme (inessive plural)
switchistämme (elative singular)
switcheistämme (elative plural)
switchiimme (illative singular)
switcheihimme (illative plural)
switchillämme (adessive singular)
switcheillämme (adessive plural)
switchiltämme (ablative singular)
switcheiltämme (ablative plural)
switchillemme (allative singular)
switcheillemme (allative plural)
switchinämme (essive singular)
switcheinämme (essive plural)
switchiksemme (singular translative)
switcheiksemme (plural translative)
switchittämme (abessive singular)
switcheittämme (abessive plural)
switcheinemme (comitative plural)
switchinne (nominative singular)
switchinne (nominative plural)
switchinne (accusative nominative singular)
switchinne (accusative nominative plural)
switchinne (accusative genitive singular)
switchinne (accusative genitive plural)
switchinne (genitive singular)
switchienne (genitive plural)
switchiänne (partitive singular)
switchejänne (partitive plural)
switchissänne (inessive singular)
switcheissänne (inessive plural)
switchistänne (elative singular)
switcheistänne (elative plural)
switchiinne (illative singular)
switcheihinne (illative plural)
switchillänne (adessive singular)
switcheillänne (adessive plural)
switchiltänne (ablative singular)
switcheiltänne (ablative plural)
switchillenne (allative singular)
switcheillenne (allative plural)
switchinänne (essive singular)
switcheinänne (essive plural)
switchiksenne (singular translative)
switcheiksenne (plural translative)
switchittänne (abessive singular)
switcheittänne (abessive plural)
switcheinenne (comitative plural)
switchinsä (nominative singular)
switchinsä (nominative plural)
switchinsä (accusative nominative singular)
switchinsä (accusative nominative plural)
switchinsä (accusative genitive singular)
switchinsä (accusative genitive plural)
switchinsä (genitive singular)
switchiensä (genitive plural)
switchiään (partitive singular)
switchiänsä (partitive singular)
switchejään (partitive plural)
switchejänsä (partitive plural)
switchissään (inessive singular)
switchissänsä (inessive singular)
switcheissään (inessive plural)
switcheissänsä (inessive plural)
switchistään (elative singular)
switchistänsä (elative singular)
switcheistään (elative plural)
switcheistänsä (elative plural)
switchiinsä (illative singular)
switcheihinsä (illative plural)
switchillään (adessive singular)
switchillänsä (adessive singular)
switcheillään (adessive plural)
switcheillänsä (adessive plural)
switchiltään (ablative singular)
switchiltänsä (ablative singular)
switcheiltään (ablative plural)
switcheiltänsä (ablative plural)
switchilleen (allative singular)
switchillensä (allative singular)
switcheilleen (allative plural)
switcheillensä (allative plural)
switchinään (essive singular)
switchinänsä (essive singular)
switcheinään (essive plural)
switcheinänsä (essive plural)
switchikseen (singular translative)
switchiksensä (singular translative)
switcheikseen (plural translative)
switcheiksensä (plural translative)
switchittään (abessive singular)
switchittänsä (abessive singular)
switcheittään (abessive plural)
switcheittänsä (abessive plural)
switcheineen (comitative plural)
switcheinensä (comitative plural)


turn out

en-verb

turn out (third-person singular simple present turns out, present participle turning out, simple past and past participle turned out)

turns out (present singular third-person)
turning out (participle present)
turned out (participle past)
turned out (past)

From Middle English turnen out, tornen out, equivalent to turn + out.
The slang and prison terms meaning "to turn into a prostitute, etc." are probably an ellipsis for turn (inside) out (“to flip someone's character or role”).

He then turned her out onto the streets of Chicago with a quota to meet: $500 for a night's work.

2008, Carolyn Maloney, Rumors of Our Progress Have Been Greatly Exaggerated:

Like I told you, I'm still turning this one bitch out. […] Sunday is three days away, if you ain't turned her out by then she ain't worth it.

2008, Joseph B. Haggerty, Sr., Shame: The Story of a Pimp, page 361:

The nigga that turned her out was named Derek “Sweets” D. I despised that pimping motherfucker with passion.

2012, Eyes . . . JB, If I Should Die Tonight: The Untold Stories, page 18:

(sex, transitive, slang) To convince a person (usually a woman) to become a prostitute.

(sex, transitive, prison slang) To rape; to coerce an otherwise heterosexual individual into performing a homosexual role.


sandwich

sandwich (third-person singular simple present sandwiches, present participle sandwiching, simple past and past participle sandwiched)

sandwiches (present singular third-person)
sandwiching (participle present)
sandwiched (participle past)
sandwiched (past)

[ˈsæmˌwɪt͡ʃ]

[ˈsæ̃ˌwɪt͡ʃ]

Named after its supposed inventor, the Earl of Sandwich (see Sandwich).

They sandwiched her, the footballer at her back, his dick tucked into the perfect seam of her ass as he fingered her pussy while the shorter, leaner, covered-in-tattoos Monsieur Artiste kissed her and pinched her nipples


slave

Inherited from Middle English sclave, from Old French sclave, from Medieval Latin sclavus (“slave”), from Late Latin Sclavus (“Slav”), traditionally assumed to be because Slavs were often forced into slavery in the Middle Ages. The Latin word is from Byzantine Greek Σκλάβος (Sklábos); see that entry and Slav for more. Displaced native Old English þēow. Thrall and bondsman/bondswoman, however, remain common synonyms. Doublet of ciao and Slav.
An alternative hypothesis derives sclavus from Ancient Greek σκῡλεύω (skūleúō), σκῡλάω (skūláō, “to strip or despoil a slain enemy”).

In the clip the black female “slave” dons a chain around her neck for which her white mistress possesses the key. The black woman sub is further disciplined by the power of speech—the force of silence.

[2016, Ariane Cruz, The Color of Kink: Black Women, BDSM, and Pornography, NYU Press, →ISBN, page 39:

(BDSM) A submissive partner in a BDSM relationship who consensually submits to, sexually or personally, serving one or more masters or mistresses.

奴隸

submissive partner in a BDSM relationship who (consensually) submits to (sexually) serving


juice

en-noun

juice (usually uncountable, plural juices)

Tok Pisin: jus

→ Czech: džus

→ Danish: juice

→ Faroese: djús

→ Hungarian: dzsúsz

→ Icelandic: djús

→ Indonesian: jus

→ Japanese: ジュース (jūsu)

→ Korean: 주스 (juseu), 쥬스 (juseu)

→ Norwegian:

Norwegian Bokmål: juice, jus

Norwegian Nynorsk: juice, jus

→ Papiamentu: djus

→ Serbo-Croatian: džus

→ Slovak: džús

→ Swahili: juisi, jusi

→ Swedish: juice, jos

→ Zulu: újúsi

From Middle English jus, juis, from Old French jus, jous, from Latin jūs (“broth, soup, sauce”), from Proto-Indo-European *yúHs, from *yewH- (“to mix (of meal preparation)”). Doublet of jus and ukha. In this sense, mostly displaced native Middle English sew (“juice”), from Old English sēaw (“juice, sap”) (> English sew (“juice, broth, gravy”)). Sense of "soft drink" most likely an ellipsis of fizzy juice, another similarly common term in Scotland.

the blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice

the darker the berry, the sweeter the juice

1981, Susan Griffin, Pornography and Silence: Culture's Revenge Against Nature, page 62, quoting Yvette Clemons, The Skin Flick Rapist.
The demand that a woman drink semen is repeated throughout pornography. Volume after volume presents such scenes as this which we find in The Skin Flick Rapist: "Maria gagged on his juice. It made him so angry that he reached out with his right hand and pulled at her hair."

I pulled my cock out of North and he fell forward, his face in the cum-soaked laundry. He rolled over on his back and looked up at me. I shook the last drops of juice from my prick.

2005, Michael Thomas Ford, Tangled Sheets, Kensington Books, page 242:

(uncountable, slang, vulgar, sex) Semen.

Lily shuddered and looked at me as I came up from between her legs with her juices dripping all over me.

1999, Tristan Taormino, editor, Best Lesbian Erotica 1999, Cleis Press, page 62:

Body singing with pleasure, she found he was right, and her juices flowed as he pulled her back down on his stiffness.

2006, Donna Lea Simpson, Awaiting the Night, page 247:

(uncountable, slang, vulgar, sex) The vaginal lubrication that a female naturally produces when sexually aroused.


raw

en-adj

raw (comparative rawer, superlative rawest)

rawer (comparative)
rawest (superlative)

From Middle English rawe, raw, rau, from Old English hrēaw (“raw, uncooked”), from Proto-West Germanic *hrau, from Proto-Germanic *hrawaz, *hrēwaz (“raw”), from Proto-Indo-European *krewh₂- (“raw meat, fresh blood”).
Cognate with Scots raw (“raw”), Dutch rauw (“raw”), German roh (“raw”), Swedish rå (“raw”), Icelandic hrár (“raw”), Latin crūdus (“raw, bloody, uncooked”), Irish cró (“blood”), Lithuanian kraujas (“blood”), Russian кровь (krovʹ, “blood”). Related also to Old English hrēow, hrēoh (“rough, fierce, wild, angry, disturbed, troubled, sad, stormy, tempestuous”). More at ree.


raw

We did it raw.

You know what I be on, I'm about to go raw

2020, “What You Know Bout Love”, performed by Pop Smoke:


pineapple

From Middle English pinappel (“pinecone”, literally “pine-apple/pine-fruit”). Later applied to the fruit of the pineapple plant due to its resemblance to a pinecone. Compare the Middle Dutch and Dutch pĳnappel, the Middle Low German pinappel, the Old High German pīnapful, the Middle High German pīnaphel, and the early Modern German pinapfel — all in the sense of “pine cone”. Compare also the post-Classical Latin pomum pini, the Old French pume de pin, the Middle French and French pomme de pin and Spanish piña. By surface analysis, pine + apple.


ATM

en-noun

ATM (countable and uncountable, plural ATMs)

(pornography, vulgar) Initialism of ass to mouth.


neg

The purpose of a neg is to lower a woman's self esteem while actively displaying a lack of interest in her—by telling her she has lipstick on her teeth, for example, or offering her a piece of gum after she speaks.

2005, Neil Strauss, The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists, Text Publishing Company, →ISBN, →OL, pages 20–21:

A neg is not an insult but a negative social value judgment that is telegraphed.

2007 February 6, Erik von Markovik, The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed, St. artin's Press, →ISBN, →OL, page 94:

As we sped down Lake Michigan Drive, I was still feeling a little star-struck and decided that on account of her uber-hot looks, I'd need to start launching negs at her like there was no tomorrow.

2011, Benton Miller with Travis Wolfe, The Journal: Man's Quest for the Perfect Match, Moon Planet Publishing, page 104:

Negs include asking whether her nails are real, or saying that you saw someone else wearing her skirt.

2012, Meg Barker, Rewriting the Rules: An Integrative Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships, Routledge, →ISBN, →OL, pages 77–78:

(seduction community) An expression or implication that one has a negative value judgement of someone in order to make them desire one's approval, especially when trying to pick up a date.


neg

en-verb

neg (third-person singular simple present negs, present participle negging, simple past and past participle negged)

negs (present singular third-person)
negging (participle present)
negged (participle past)
negged (past)

Women, on the other hand, are wired to believe that men are always ready to reach home base and never turn down a booty opportunity. So when he negs you, it seems unnatural, and you may worry that something’s wrong with your relationship.

2011 December 16, Jessica Knoll, “The Surprising Reasons He Turns You Down For Sex”, in Cosmopolitan:

I mean, the thing is, overall you want the chick to feel good about herself around you and because of you. It's true that good negging really helps that, but bad negging--negging where she's already insecure--can kill it.

2001 January 18, traction_free, “Negging”, in alt.seduction.fast (Usenet), message-ID <9477av$dpq$1@nnrp1.deja.com>:

She's an 11. This is going to take some hardcore negging.

2005, Neil Strauss, quoting Erik von Markovik, The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists, Text Publishing Company, →ISBN, →OL, page 151:

(transitive, seduction community) To express or imply a negative value judgement of someone to make them desire one's approval, especially when trying to pick up a date.


dom

Coordinate term: domme

(BDSM) A dominant in sadomasochistic sexual practices, especially a male one.


dom

dom (third-person singular simple present doms, present participle domming, simple past and past participle dommed)

doms (present singular third-person)
domming (participle present)
dommed (participle past)
dommed (past)

Nola is actually "Nurse Nola," a dominatrix who specializes in medical role playing. […] "After that," she continues, "I started domming, which I did for a long time, but have never liked much."

2006, Bitch: feminist response to pop culture, numbers 31-34:

(slang, online gaming or BDSM) To dominate.


top

en-noun

top (countable and uncountable, plural tops)

From Middle English top, toppe, from Old English top (“top, highest part; summit; crest; tassel, tuft; (spinning) top, ball; a tuft or ball at the highest point of anything”), from Proto-West Germanic *topp, from Proto-Germanic *tuppaz (“braid, pigtail, end”), of unknown ultimate origin.
Cognate with Scots tap (“top”), North Frisian top, tap, tup (“top”), Saterland Frisian Top (“top”), West Frisian top (“top”), Dutch top (“top, summit, peak”), Low German Topp (“top”), German Zopf (“braid, pigtail, plait, top”), Swedish topp (“top, peak, summit, tip”), Icelandic toppur (“top”).
The sense of a spinning toy is separated from this, obscurely related to Dutch top and dop in this sense, against Standard Dutch tol, and French toupie having this sense.

頂上

chōjō, ちょうじょう

suprulo

BDSM: dominant partner in a BDSM relationship or roleplay

主動

gay sexual slang: gay man who likes to penetrate in sex

one's elevator doesn't go all the way to the top

(BDSM) A dominant partner in a sadomasochistic relationship or roleplay.

(broadly, by extension) A dominant partner in a sexual relationship.


top

en-verb

top (third-person singular simple present tops, present participle topping, simple past and past participle topped)

tops (present singular third-person)
topping (participle present)
topped (participle past)
topped (past)

I used to be a slave, but I ended up topping.

Giving advice to the dominant partner on how to run the BDSM session is called "topping from the bottom".

(BDSM) To be the dominant partner in a BDSM relationship or roleplay.


top

nl-noun

top m (plural toppen, diminutive topje n)

toppen (plural)
topje (diminutive neuter)

Negerhollands: top

From Middle Dutch top, topp, from Old Dutch *topp, *top, from Proto-West Germanic *topp, from Proto-Germanic *tuppaz.


AFC

en-noun

AFC (countable and uncountable, plural AFCs)

average frustrated chump
average frustrated chump#English

(seduction community) Initialism of average frustrated chump.


versatile

en-adj

versatile (comparative more versatile, superlative most versatile)

more versatile (comparative)
most versatile (superlative)

[ˈvɜː.səˌtaɪɫ]

LL-Q1860 (eng)-I learned some phrases-versatile.wav

/ˈvɜː.səˌtɑɪl/

[ˈvɜː.səˌtɑɪɫ]

From Latin versātilis (“turning easily”), from versātus, past participle of versō (“I turn, change”), frequentative of vertō (“I turn”).

2004, queenchaser1158, “Horny Versatile TV/TS Wanted in Phoenix”, in alt.personals.gay (Usenet):

(BDSM) Being a switch; capable of taking either a dominant or a submissive role.

مُبَادِل

gay sexual slang: capable of taking both a top and bottom role

(sex, broadly) Capable of being either a dominant or a submissive partner in a sexual relationship.


little

en-noun

little (countable and uncountable, plural littles)

From Middle English litel, from Old English lyttel, lȳtel, from Proto-West Germanic *lūtil, from Proto-Germanic *lūtilaz (“tending to stoop, crouched, little”), from Proto-Indo-European *lewd- (“to bend, bent, small”), equivalent to lout + -le. Cognate with Dutch luttel, regional German lütt and lützel, Saterland Frisian litje, West Frisian lyts, Low German lütt, lüttje. Related also to Old English lūtan (“to bow, bend low”); and perhaps to Old English lytiġ (“deceitful”), Gothic 𐌻𐌹𐌿𐍄𐍃 (liuts, “deceitful”), 𐌻𐌿𐍄𐌾𐌰𐌽 (lutjan, “to deceive”); compare also Icelandic lítill (“little”), Faroese lítil, Swedish liten, Danish liden, lille, Gothic 𐌻𐌴𐌹𐍄𐌹𐌻𐍃 (leitils), which appear to have a different root vowel. More at lout.

der

An adult in a child-like role, or in the more junior of two paired roles.

(countable, BDSM, ABDL) The participant in ageplay who acts out the younger role.


constellation

PIE word
 *ḱóm
From Middle English constellacioun, constillacioun (“(astrology) position of the moon or a planet in relation to the ascendant sign of the zodiac; horoscope; (astronomy) formation of fixed stars, constellation; (astronomy) elevation or position of the sun”) [and other forms], borrowed from Old French constellation (modern French constellation), or directly from its etymon Late Latin cōnstēllātiōnem, the accusative singular of cōnstēllātiō (“collection of stars supposed to exert an influence upon human affairs, constellation”), from Latin con- (prefix denoting a bringing together of several objects) + stēlla (“star; meteor; planet”) (ultimately from Proto-Indo-European *h₂stḗr (“star”)) + -ātiō (suffix forming nouns).

nb...

constelacioun, constellacion, constellacyon, constellacyoun, constillacion, constillacione, constillacioune, constillatioun, constollacion, constolacioun

sterrebeeld

arbitrary formation of stars perceived as a figure or pattern, or a division of the sky including it

rykelmä

(figurative) A configuration or grouping of related things.

(sexuality) A network of connections between people who are in polyamorous relationships, for example between a person, their partner, and that person's partner.


necrophilia

en-noun

necrophilia (countable and uncountable, plural necrophilias)

/ˌnɛkɹə(ʊ)ˈfɪlɪə/

From necro- + -philia.
From necro- (Ancient Greek νεκρός (nekrós, “corpse, dead”)) + -philia (Ancient Greek φιλία (philía, “affection”)), after German Nekrophilie (in Krafft-Ebing 1887).

uder

(sexuality) A pathological attraction to dead bodies.


bottom

en-noun

bottom (countable and uncountable, plural bottoms)

→ Dutch: bottom

→ French: bottom

PIE word
 *bʰudʰmḗn
From Middle English botme, botom, from Old English botm, bodan (“bottom, foundation; ground, abyss”), from Proto-West Germanic *butm, from Proto-Germanic *butmaz, *budmaz, from Proto-Indo-European *bʰudʰmḗn (“bottom”). Cognate with Dutch bodem, German Boden, Icelandic botn, Danish bund; also Irish bonn (“sole (of foot)”), Ancient Greek πυθμήν (puthmḗn, “bottom of a cup or jar”), Sanskrit बुध्न (budhna, “bottom”), Persian بن (bon, “bottom”), Latin fundus (“bottom”) (whence fund, via French). The sense “posterior of a person” is from 1794; the verb “to reach the bottom of” is from 1808. bottom dollar (“the last dollar one has”) is from 1882.

سَالِب

gay sexual slang: penetrated partner in sex

Since what I wanted to do was be a bottom, a masochist, I had to learn that you could do it and be safe, that you could do it and not sign your life away, that you could do it by agreement, and that it was still fun.

1981 August 15, Nancy Wechsler, Gayle Rubin, Pat Califia, “Sadomasochism: Fears, Facts, Fantasies”, in Gay Community News, volume 9, number 5, page 6:

(BDSM) A submissive partner in a sadomasochistic relationship.

(broadly, by extension) A submissive partner in a sexual relationship.


bottom

en-verb

bottom (third-person singular simple present bottoms, present participle bottoming, simple past and past participle bottomed)

bottoms (present singular third-person)
bottoming (participle present)
bottomed (participle past)
bottomed (past)

(BDSM, intransitive) To be the submissive partner in a BDSM relationship.


sub

* Shortened form of any of various words beginning with sub-.
* (lend a person money): From subsidize.

[…] roleplay where a sub or bottom takes care of a top's bodily and hygiene needs […]

2004, Paul Baker, Fantabulosa: A Dictionary of Polari and Gay Slang:

"It means that I'm both a sub and a dom." "Submissive and dominant," I said. He nodded.

2007, Laurell K Hamilton, The Harlequin:

Typically a dom and a sub have a more or less standard routine that they like to go through all the time.

2008, Lannie Rose, How to Change Your Sex:

We're not that kind of sub!

2012, “Karai's Vendetta”, in Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles:

(BDSM, informal) Clipping of submissive.


sub

sub (third-person singular simple present subs, present participle subbing, simple past and past participle subbed)

subs (present singular third-person)
subbing (participle present)
subbed (participle past)
subbed (past)

switch

one who is willing to take either a sadistic or a masochistic role

You've never subbed before. Jessica will be expecting a man on stage that follows orders and enjoys what she's going to be doing. Do you want to be spanked? Possibly whipped?

2012, Alicia White, Jessica's Breakdown, page 53:

Wasn't like she'd never subbed before. She'd been a sub longer than she'd been a Dominatrix–ten years she'd spent in a collar.

2012, Tiffany Reisz, Little Red Riding Crop:


perform

perform (third-person singular simple present performs, present participle performing, simple past and past participle performed)

performs (present singular third-person)
performing (participle present)
performed (participle past)
performed (past)
perform (infinitive)

From Middle English performen, parfournen (“to perform”), from Anglo-Norman performer, parfourmer, alteration of Old French parfornir, parfurnir (“to complete, accomplish, perform”), from par- + fornir, furnir (“to accomplish, furnish”), from Frankish *frummjan (“to accomplish, furnish”), from Proto-Germanic *frumjaną, *framjaną (“to further, promote”), from Proto-Indo-European *promo- (“in front, forth”), *per- (“forward, out”). Cognate with Old High German frummen (“to do, execute, accomplish, provide”), Old Saxon frummian (“to perform, promote”), Old English fremman (“to perform, execute, carry out, accomplish”), Gothic 𐍆𐍂𐌿𐌼𐌾𐌰𐌽 (frumjan, “to promote, accomplish”). See also frame, from. Modernly, rather than Proto-Germanic *frumjaną, associated with Latin formō, analyzable as per- + form.

representar

to exhibit an expected pattern of behavior

(intransitive) To exhibit an expected pattern of behavior; to function; to work.

(sexology, uncommon) Of a man, to be able to initiate or fulfill an act of sexual intercourse.


hardcore

en-adj

hardcore (comparative more hardcore, superlative most hardcore)

more hardcore (comparative)
most hardcore (superlative)

From hard + core: hard to the core; 1936 (n.); 1951 (adj.)

(pornography) Depicting penetration and abnormal sexual activity.

হার্ডকোর পর্নোগ্রাফি

of or pertaining to pornography that depicts penetration


hot rod

Attested since 1945 in American English, specifically meaning ‘hunk of metal’.


vanilla

en-noun

vanilla (countable and uncountable, plural vanillas)

Borrowed from Spanish vainilla, a diminutive form of vaina (“pod”). "plain" senses derive from the perceived plainness of vanilla ice cream.

(countable, sexuality, slang) Someone who is not into fetishism.


vanilla

en-adj

vanilla (comparative more vanilla, superlative most vanilla)

more vanilla (comparative)
most vanilla (superlative)

An uncharacteristically vanilla threesome and non-cute realist rendering - derived paradoxically from tracing drawings rather than photographs.

2006, Felix Lance Falkon, Gay Art: A Historic Collection, →ISBN, page 136:

While Dominick was more of a vanilla kind of a guy himself, he wasn't a total dunce when it came to the kinkier sides of things.

2010, Chloe Stowe, Hard Water, →ISBN, page 37:

Sebastian could never do that, be in a marriage with a vanilla woman.

2014, Christina Thacher, The Negotiation: A BDSM Romance, →ISBN:

(sexuality) Not kinky, not involving BDSM.


lair

From Middle English leir, leire, lair, lare, from Old English leġer (“couch, bed”), from Proto-Germanic *legrą, from Proto-Indo-European *legʰ-.

(seduction community) A group where pickup artists meet to discuss and practise seduction techniques.


(sexuality) Alternative form of soixante-neuf


dock

en-verb

dock (third-person singular simple present docks, present participle docking, simple past and past participle docked)

docks (present singular third-person)
docking (participle present)
docked (participle past)
docked (past)

From early modern English "area of mud in which a ship can rest at low tide, dock", borrowed from Dutch dok (“dock”) or Middle Low German docke (“dock, ship's dock”), both from Middle Dutch docke (“port, harbour, roadstead”), of uncertain origin. The original sense may have been "the furrow a grounded vessel makes in a mud bank". Compare modern Dutch dok, modern German Low German Dock, West Frisian dok, German Dock, Danish dok, Swedish docka.
Some sources link this word to an unattested Middle Dutch *docke (“watercourse, trench, canal”), which is a ghost word, only being inferred from Mediaeval Latin documents in the form of ducta, doctus, doccia (“conduit, canal”). However, if this theory is correct, then it would relate the word to Italian doccia (“drainpipe”), making dock a doublet of douche and duct.
An alternative theory ties Middle Dutch docke to a North Germanic/Scandinavian source, notably Old Norse dǫkk (“depression in the landscape, pit, pool, trench”), related to Norwegian dokk (“hollow, low ground”), Old Icelandic dökk, dökð (“pit, pool”), Swedish dank (“marshy ground”). If so, this would make dock a doublet of dank.

der

(intransitive, sex) To engage in the sexual practice of docking (where the tip of one participant's penis is inserted into the foreskin of the other participant).


verse

fr-noun

verse f (countable and uncountable, plural verses)

(especially BDSM) One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship; a switch.


daddy

The guy I've been dating offered to do bondage with me, and I was like "Yes please, daddy."

The very attractive Daddy-type in the harness and cap.

1988 May 7, Christopher Wittke, “It Takes Two To Tango”, in Gay Community News, page 10:

(BDSM, sexual slang) A dominant male partner, often used as an address.


presentation

en-noun

presentation (countable and uncountable, plural presentations)

/ˌpɹɛzənˈteɪʃən/

From Old French presentation (French présentation), from Latin praesentātiōnem, accusative singular of praesentātiō (“representation, exhibition”).
Morphologically present + -ation

(mainly LGBT) Gender presentation; gender expression.


変態

desctree

→ English: hentai (“pornographic anime or manga”)
→ Cebuano: hentai
→ Finnish: hentai
→ French: hentai
→ German: Hentai
→ Indonesian: hentai
→ Italian: hentai
→ Japanese: ヘンタイ (hentai)
→ Korean: 헨타이 (hentai)
→ Polish: hentai
→ Portuguese: hentai
→ Russian: хентай (xentaj)
→ Spanish: hentai
→ Swedish: hentai
→ Tagalog: hentai
→ Ukrainian: хента́й (xentáj)

Entomological Society of Japan
Mao Dun
ja:変態

First used as an entomological term in publications by the Entomological Society of Japan, with later non-entomological applications in the broader zoology and botany. The narrower sense, "abnormal" is attested in Chinese works, such as those by Mao Dun; but the strictest sense, "abnormal sexual tendency," - from a contraction of 変態性欲 (hentai seiyoku, literally “abnormal sexual desire”) - may have been due to a reinterpretation of 変 (hen) as a 形容動詞 (keiyō dōshi, “adjectival verb”) meaning "strange," hence "strange state" rather than "change state."

(sexuality) Short for 変態性欲 (hentai seiyoku, “sexual perversion”).


cunnilingus

From Latin cunnus and lingō (“to lick”).

Le cunnilingus est une pratique sexuelle orale qui consiste à stimuler les différentes parties des organes génitaux féminins à l’aide de la langue, des lèvres ou du nez.

Cunnilingus is an oral sex act that consists of stimulating different parts of the female genitalia with the help of the tongue, lips or the nose.


cunnilingus

att utföra cunnilingus på någon


master

Sranan Tongo: masra

→ Catalan: màster

→ Finnish: master

→ French: master

→ German: Master

→ Polish: master

→ Portuguese: máster

→ Spanish: máster

→ Turkish: master

From Middle English maister, mayster, meister (noun) and maistren (verb), from Old English mǣster, mæġster, mæġester, mæġister, magister (“master”), from Latin magister (“chief, teacher, leader”), from Old Latin magester, from Proto-Indo-European *méǵh₂s, (as in magnus (“great”)) + -ester/-ister (compare minister (“servant”)). Reinforced by Old French maistre, mestre (noun) and maistriier, maister (verb) from the same Latin source. Compare also Saterland Frisian Mäster (“master”), West Frisian master (“master”), Dutch meester (“master”), German Meister (“master”). Doublet of maestro, magister, and meister.

doublet

Southern US, African-American Vernacular, obsolete

use the master's tools to dismantle the master's house

Coordinate term: mistress


master

master (nominative singular)
masterit (nominative plural)
master (accusative nominative singular)
masterit (accusative nominative plural)
masterin (accusative genitive singular)
masterit (accusative genitive plural)
masterin (genitive singular)
masterien (genitive plural)
mastereiden (genitive plural)
mastereitten (genitive plural)
masteria (partitive singular)
mastereita (partitive plural)
mastereja (partitive plural)
masterissa (inessive singular)
mastereissa (inessive plural)
masterista (elative singular)
mastereista (elative plural)
masteriin (illative singular)
mastereihin (illative plural)
masterilla (adessive singular)
mastereilla (adessive plural)
masterilta (ablative singular)
mastereilta (ablative plural)
masterille (allative singular)
mastereille (allative plural)
masterina (essive singular)
mastereina (essive plural)
masteriksi (singular translative)
mastereiksi (plural translative)
masteritta (abessive singular)
mastereitta (abessive plural)
masterein (instructive plural)
See the possessive forms below. (comitative)
masterini (nominative singular)
masterini (nominative plural)
masterini (accusative nominative singular)
masterini (accusative nominative plural)
masterini (accusative genitive singular)
masterini (accusative genitive plural)
masterini (genitive singular)
masterieni (genitive plural)
mastereideni (genitive plural)
mastereitteni (genitive plural)
masteriani (partitive singular)
mastereitani (partitive plural)
masterejani (partitive plural)
masterissani (inessive singular)
mastereissani (inessive plural)
masteristani (elative singular)
mastereistani (elative plural)
masteriini (illative singular)
mastereihini (illative plural)
masterillani (adessive singular)
mastereillani (adessive plural)
masteriltani (ablative singular)
mastereiltani (ablative plural)
masterilleni (allative singular)
mastereilleni (allative plural)
masterinani (essive singular)
mastereinani (essive plural)
masterikseni (singular translative)
mastereikseni (plural translative)
masterittani (abessive singular)
mastereittani (abessive plural)
mastereineni (comitative plural)
masterisi (nominative singular)
masterisi (nominative plural)
masterisi (accusative nominative singular)
masterisi (accusative nominative plural)
masterisi (accusative genitive singular)
masterisi (accusative genitive plural)
masterisi (genitive singular)
masteriesi (genitive plural)
mastereidesi (genitive plural)
mastereittesi (genitive plural)
masteriasi (partitive singular)
mastereitasi (partitive plural)
masterejasi (partitive plural)
masterissasi (inessive singular)
mastereissasi (inessive plural)
masteristasi (elative singular)
mastereistasi (elative plural)
masteriisi (illative singular)
mastereihisi (illative plural)
masterillasi (adessive singular)
mastereillasi (adessive plural)
masteriltasi (ablative singular)
mastereiltasi (ablative plural)
masterillesi (allative singular)
mastereillesi (allative plural)
masterinasi (essive singular)
mastereinasi (essive plural)
masteriksesi (singular translative)
mastereiksesi (plural translative)
masterittasi (abessive singular)
mastereittasi (abessive plural)
mastereinesi (comitative plural)
masterimme (nominative singular)
masterimme (nominative plural)
masterimme (accusative nominative singular)
masterimme (accusative nominative plural)
masterimme (accusative genitive singular)
masterimme (accusative genitive plural)
masterimme (genitive singular)
masteriemme (genitive plural)
mastereidemme (genitive plural)
mastereittemme (genitive plural)
masteriamme (partitive singular)
mastereitamme (partitive plural)
masterejamme (partitive plural)
masterissamme (inessive singular)
mastereissamme (inessive plural)
masteristamme (elative singular)
mastereistamme (elative plural)
masteriimme (illative singular)
mastereihimme (illative plural)
masterillamme (adessive singular)
mastereillamme (adessive plural)
masteriltamme (ablative singular)
mastereiltamme (ablative plural)
masterillemme (allative singular)
mastereillemme (allative plural)
masterinamme (essive singular)
mastereinamme (essive plural)
masteriksemme (singular translative)
mastereiksemme (plural translative)
masterittamme (abessive singular)
mastereittamme (abessive plural)
mastereinemme (comitative plural)
masterinne (nominative singular)
masterinne (nominative plural)
masterinne (accusative nominative singular)
masterinne (accusative nominative plural)
masterinne (accusative genitive singular)
masterinne (accusative genitive plural)
masterinne (genitive singular)
masterienne (genitive plural)
mastereidenne (genitive plural)
mastereittenne (genitive plural)
masterianne (partitive singular)
mastereitanne (partitive plural)
masterejanne (partitive plural)
masterissanne (inessive singular)
mastereissanne (inessive plural)
masteristanne (elative singular)
mastereistanne (elative plural)
masteriinne (illative singular)
mastereihinne (illative plural)
masterillanne (adessive singular)
mastereillanne (adessive plural)
masteriltanne (ablative singular)
mastereiltanne (ablative plural)
masterillenne (allative singular)
mastereillenne (allative plural)
masterinanne (essive singular)
mastereinanne (essive plural)
masteriksenne (singular translative)
mastereiksenne (plural translative)
masterittanne (abessive singular)
mastereittanne (abessive plural)
mastereinenne (comitative plural)
masterinsa (nominative singular)
masterinsa (nominative plural)
masterinsa (accusative nominative singular)
masterinsa (accusative nominative plural)
masterinsa (accusative genitive singular)
masterinsa (accusative genitive plural)
masterinsa (genitive singular)
masteriensa (genitive plural)
mastereidensa (genitive plural)
mastereittensa (genitive plural)
masteriaan (partitive singular)
masteriansa (partitive singular)
mastereitaan (partitive plural)
masterejaan (partitive plural)
mastereitansa (partitive plural)
masterejansa (partitive plural)
masterissaan (inessive singular)
masterissansa (inessive singular)
mastereissaan (inessive plural)
mastereissansa (inessive plural)
masteristaan (elative singular)
masteristansa (elative singular)
mastereistaan (elative plural)
mastereistansa (elative plural)
masteriinsa (illative singular)
mastereihinsa (illative plural)
masterillaan (adessive singular)
masterillansa (adessive singular)
mastereillaan (adessive plural)
mastereillansa (adessive plural)
masteriltaan (ablative singular)
masteriltansa (ablative singular)
mastereiltaan (ablative plural)
mastereiltansa (ablative plural)
masterilleen (allative singular)
masterillensa (allative singular)
mastereilleen (allative plural)
mastereillensa (allative plural)
masterinaan (essive singular)
masterinansa (essive singular)
mastereinaan (essive plural)
mastereinansa (essive plural)
masterikseen (singular translative)
masteriksensa (singular translative)
mastereikseen (plural translative)
mastereiksensa (plural translative)
masterittaan (abessive singular)
masterittansa (abessive singular)
mastereittaan (abessive plural)
mastereittansa (abessive plural)
mastereineen (comitative plural)
mastereinensa (comitative plural)


gape

en-verb

gape (third-person singular simple present gapes, present participle gaping, simple past and past participle gaped)

gapes (present singular third-person)
gaping (participle present)
gaped (participle past)
gaped (past)

From Middle English gapen, from Old Norse gapa (“to gape”) (compare Swedish gapa, Danish gabe), from Proto-Germanic *gapōną (descendants Middle English geapen, Dutch gapen, German gaffen), perhaps from Proto-Indo-European *ǵʰеh₂b-. Cognates include Russian зяпа (zjapa).

(pornography) To depict a dilated anal or vaginal cavity upon penetrative sexual activity.


rigger

(BDSM) A person who applies functional or artistic rope bondage to another person's body.


scat

en-noun

scat (countable and uncountable, plural scats)

Origin uncertain. Both the Oxford English Dictionary and Merriam-Webster suggest derivation from Ancient Greek σκῶρ (skôr, “excrement”), compare English scato-, but Random House Dictionary suggests that the popular character of the word makes this unlikely. Perhaps from English dialectal scat (“to scatter, fling, bespatter”), or an alteration of shit, which is also used for "drugs, heroin".

Enema queens, like scat queens, are really the scum of the earth.

1988, “Pete”, quoted in Seymour Kleinberg, Alienated Affections: Being Gay in America, Macmillan, page 183

“[…] I hear he’s into S&M and scat and all kinds of kinky shit. […]”

1998, Dennis Cooper, Guide, Grove Press, →ISBN, page 170:

In short, when venturing into the realm of extreme fetish, ensure you have an extreme understanding of a partner’s boundaries before laying down a plastic tarp for scat play.

2004, Phineas Mollod, Jason Tesauro, The Modern Lover: A Playbook for Suitors, Spouses & Ringless Carousers, Ten Speed Press, →ISBN, page 72:


domination

domination (countable and uncountable, plural dominations)

/ˌdɒməˈneɪʃən/

/ˌdɑːməˈneɪʃən/

From Middle English domynacion, from Old French dominacion, from Latin dominātiō (“rule, dominion”), from dominor (“domineer; rule”); see dominate.

By night, I am Mistress Shay Noir, the Black queen of domination. The world's most beautiful sadist.

2017, Teejay LeCapois, The Black Dominatrix Universe, →ISBN, page 121:

(BDSM) A fetish characterized by control and power over and discipline of one's sexual partner.


gimp

Attested in US slang since the 1920s. Maybe influenced by, or cognate with limp.

(BDSM) An individual, almost always male, dressed generally in a full-body suit of various materials. See Gimp (Bondage suit) in Wikipedia.


dominant

→ Polish: dominant

This calendar is not for the faint of heart (unless you have some strong butch dominant to hold you while you swoon)

1988 December 25, Wickie Stamps, “Leather, Peace and Wombyn over Forty”, in Gay Community News, volume 16, number 24, page 7:

His story was a fable you told dominants in training to stress the importance of comprehending the depths of your submissive's needs.

2011, Jayne Rylon, Mistress's Master, page 65:

(BDSM) The dominating partner in sadomasochistic sexual activity.


dominant

head

dominant (comparative dominantare, superlative dominantast)

dominantare (comparative)
dominantast (superlative)
dominant (indefinite positive)
dominantare (comparative indefinite)
dominantast (indefinite superlative)
dominant (indefinite neuter positive singular)
dominantare (comparative indefinite neuter singular)
dominantast (indefinite neuter singular superlative)
dominanta (indefinite plural positive)
dominantare (comparative indefinite plural)
dominantast (indefinite plural superlative)
dominante (archaic indefinite masculine plural positive)
dominantare (archaic comparative indefinite masculine plural)
dominantast (archaic indefinite masculine plural superlative)
dominante (definite masculine positive singular)
dominantare (comparative definite masculine singular)
dominantaste (definite masculine singular superlative)
dominanta (definite positive)
dominantare (comparative definite)
dominantaste (definite superlative)


scene

From Middle French scene, from Latin scaena, scēna, from Ancient Greek σκηνή (skēnḗ, “scene, stage”). Doublet of scena and skene.

der

(BDSM) A BDSM fantasy that is acted out.


scene

en-verb

scene (third-person singular simple present scenes, present participle scening, simple past and past participle scened)

scenes (present singular third-person)
scening (participle present)
scened (participle past)
scened (past)


slam

slam (third-person singular simple present slams, present participle slamming, simple past and past participle slammed)

slams (present singular third-person)
slamming (participle present)
slammed (participle past)
slammed (past)

From Middle English *slammen (not recorded), apparently from a Scandinavian source ultimately from Old Norse slæma, slœma (“to slam, swing a weapon, strike an object out of reach”), related to Old Norse slamra, slambra (“to slam”). Cognate with Norwegian Bokmål slamre (“to slam”), Swedish slamra (“to pound, beat, make a clatter, rattle”), Norwegian Nynorsk slamra (“to sway, dangle”).

правя капо

card games: to defeat by winning all the tricks

Your bird's textin' me
'Tremzy is the man,'
You be tryna call her but she's busy gettin' slammed
The way she's gettin' doggied you would think she's tryna dance

2015, Tremz (lyrics and music), “Sketty Bums Get Wild”:

(transitive, sex, slang, vulgar) To perform coitus upon forcefully; to rail.


stray

From Middle English stray, strey, from Anglo-Norman estray, stray, Old French estrai, from the verb (see below).

(BDSM) A submissive that has not committed to submit to any particular dominant.


(BDSM) A relationship in which the submissive is available for the dominant at all times.


(BDSM) Of or relating to a 24/7 relationship.


(BDSM) twenty-four seven (relationship where the submissive if always available)


(BDSM) twenty-four seven (of or relating to a 24/7 relationship)


MILF

Acronym of mother/mom/mama I'd like to fuck. Popularized via the sex comedy American Pie (1999), see quotations.

acronym

(pornography, slang) A pornographic actress in her late twenties or older.


banger

→ Estonian: bänger

→ Finnish: bängeri

From bang + -er. The sausages were so called because of their excess water content and impervious skin, leading to the risk of explosion if not punctured before cooking.

He is also a former international chick banger.

2008, Dewan Gibson, The Imperfect Enjoyment, page 177:

A thing or person which bangs, in any sense.

(sexuality, slang) A person who has sex.

[…] yet not only was Gok able to tell her that her 'bangers' were amazing: he buried his head in her cleavage. No other man on television would have been able to get away with that.

2010, Emily Herbert, Gok Wan: The Biography:

(British, sexuality, slang) A woman's breast.

(British, sexuality, slang) A man's penis.


sissy

sissy bar

a passenger backrest for a motorcycle or bicycle

sissy squat

a weightlifting exercise emphasizing knee extension

I realised I still held my normal male clothes and dropped them to the floor under the desk, out of the way. […] Would it hurt? Yes, I knew it would from watching videos of sissies being spanked by their dominant mistresses.

2018, Paul Zante, Sissy Dreams: Motel Sissy, page 4:

(BDSM) A male crossdresser who adopts feminine behaviours.


pedophile

From pedo- (“child”) + -phile, after Ancient Greek παιδοφῐ́λης (paidophílēs) (from παῖς (paîs, “boy, child”) + φιλέω (philéō, “I love”)).

com

Apart from his sexual behavior, the pedophile is typically law abiding.

1982, National Council on Crime and Delinquency, Criminal Justice Abstracts, volume 14, page 253:

The pedophile, a particular type of child molester, is an adult whose conscious sexual interests and overt sexual behavior are directly either partially or exclusively toward children.

1986, Patrick B. McGuigan, Jon S. Pascale, Crime and Punishment in Modern America, page 109:

(psychiatry, sexology) A person aged 16 or older who is mostly or only sexually attracted toward prepubescent children.


muu

head

muu m (plural *muus, feminine mua, feminine plural muas)

*muus (plural)
mua (feminine)
muas (feminine plural)

Fala: mú

Portuguese: mu

Inherited from Latin mūlum. Doublet of mulo.

(figurative, derogatory, sexuality) pathic; bottom (man who prefers the receptive role in anal sex)


blackmail

Anglo-Scottish border
Scottish Highlands
blackmail
border reivers

From black + mail (“a piece of money”). Compare Middle English blak rente (“a type of blackmail levied by Irish chieftains”).
The word is variously derived from the tribute paid by English and Scottish border dwellers to border reivers in return for immunity from raids and other harassment. This tribute was paid in goods or labour, in Latin reditus nigri (“black mail”); the opposite is blanche firmes or reditus albi (“white rent”), denoting payment by silver.
McKay derives it from two Scottish Gaelic words blàthaich, pronounced (the th silent) bl-aich, "to protect" and màl (“tribute, payment”). He notes that the practice was common in the Scottish Highlands as well as the Borders.
More likely, from black + Middle English mal, male, maile (“a payment, rent, tribute”), from Old English māl (“speech, contract, agreement, lawsuit, terms, bargaining”), from Old Norse mál (“agreement, speech, lawsuit”); related to Old English mæðel (“meeting, council”), mæl (“speech”), Gothic 𐌼𐌰𐌸𐌻 (maþl, “meeting place”), from Proto-Germanic *maþlą (“gathering, agreement”), ultimately from Proto-Indo-European *med- (“to give advice, measure”). From the practice of freebooting clan chieftains who ran protection rackets against Scottish farmers. Black from the evil of the practice.
Expanded c. 1826 to any type of extortion money. Compare silver mail (“rent paid in money”) (1590s); buttock-mail (“fine imposed for fornication”) (1530s, Scottish).

der

(by extension) Compromising material that can be used to extort someone.

(BDSM) A type of roleplay where the submissive shares information that may be extorted by the dominant.


mouiller

mouiller (infinitive)
avoir + past participle (infinitive multiword-construction)
mouillant (gerund participle present)
ayant + past participle (gerund multiword-construction participle present)
mouillé (participle past)
mouille (first-person indicative present singular)
mouilles (indicative present second-person singular)
mouille (indicative present singular third-person)
mouillons (first-person indicative plural present)
mouillez (indicative plural present second-person)
mouillent (indicative plural present third-person)
mouillais (first-person imperfect indicative singular)
mouillais (imperfect indicative second-person singular)
mouillait (imperfect indicative singular third-person)
mouillions (first-person imperfect indicative plural)
mouilliez (imperfect indicative plural second-person)
mouillaient (imperfect indicative plural third-person)
mouillai (first-person historic indicative past singular)
mouillas (historic indicative past second-person singular)
mouilla (historic indicative past singular third-person)
mouillâmes (first-person historic indicative past plural)
mouillâtes (historic indicative past plural second-person)
mouillèrent (historic indicative past plural third-person)
mouillerai (first-person future indicative singular)
mouilleras (future indicative second-person singular)
mouillera (future indicative singular third-person)
mouillerons (first-person future indicative plural)
mouillerez (future indicative plural second-person)
mouilleront (future indicative plural third-person)
mouillerais (conditional first-person singular)
mouillerais (conditional second-person singular)
mouillerait (conditional singular third-person)
mouillerions (conditional first-person plural)
mouilleriez (conditional plural second-person)
mouilleraient (conditional plural third-person)
future of avoir + past participle (future indicative multiword-construction perfect)
conditional of avoir + past participle (conditional multiword-construction perfect)
mouille (first-person present singular subjunctive)
mouilles (present second-person singular subjunctive)
mouille (present singular subjunctive third-person)
mouillions (first-person plural present subjunctive)
mouilliez (plural present second-person subjunctive)
mouillent (plural present subjunctive third-person)
mouillasse (first-person imperfect singular subjunctive)
mouillasses (imperfect second-person singular subjunctive)
mouillât (imperfect singular subjunctive third-person)
mouillassions (first-person imperfect plural subjunctive)
mouillassiez (imperfect plural second-person subjunctive)
mouillassent (imperfect plural subjunctive third-person)
mouille (imperative second-person singular)
mouillons (first-person imperative plural)
mouillez (imperative plural second-person)

Inherited from Old French moillier, from Vulgar Latin *molliāre (“soak”), a verb based on Latin mollis (“soft”). Compare Occitan molhar.


submissive

(BDSM) One who submits to a dominating partner in BDSM practices.


frottage

en-verb

frottage (third-person singular simple present frottages, present participle frottaging, simple past and past participle frottaged)

frottages (present singular third-person)
frottaging (participle present)
frottaged (participle past)
frottaged (past)

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(sexuality) To rub parts of the body against those of another person for sexual stimulation.


frottage

en-noun

frottage (countable and uncountable, plural frottages)

Coordinate term: frotteurism

(uncountable, sexuality) The practice of rubbing parts of the body against those of another person for sexual stimulation.


gangbanger

(vulgar, sex) Someone who takes part in a gangbang.


homework

homework (usually uncountable, plural homeworks)

/ˈhəʊmˌwɜːk/

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(BDSM) Tasks assigned by a dominant for a submissive to perform when they are physically away from their dominant or otherwise free.


dungeon

From Middle English dongeoun (“keep of a castle; dungeon; abyss, cave, den; whirlpool”), from Anglo-Norman donjun (“keep of a castle; keep used as a prison; dungeon”) and continental Old French donjon (“keep of a castle”), from Vulgar Latin *dominiōnem, seemingly derived from Latin dominus (“master, lord”) perhaps via some figurative sense like “dominant building”. Doublet of donjon. The sense of “dungeon”, first attested in Anglo-Norman (13th c.) and apparently never in continental Old French, likely developed in combination with Old English dung (“underground prison cell”), whence Middle English donge (“pit, abyss” - senses that are also attested for Middle English dongeoun).
The game term has been popularized by Dungeons & Dragons.

der

“pit, abyss” - senses that are also attested for Middle English <i class="Latn mention" lang="enm">dongeoun</i>

(BDSM) A room dedicated to sadomasochistic sexual activity.


viande

Inherited from Old French viande, from Vulgar Latin *vīvanda, alteration of Latin vīvenda, from the neuter plural form of vīvendus, from vīvere (“to live”). Compare English viand, Italian vivanda, Portuguese vivenda, Spanish vivienda.

(sexuality) an object of sexual desire; a piece of meat


sword fighting

(slang, sexuality) Mutual penile frottage.


fluffer

"This isn't MGM. I don't do this full-time," she said. "During production, I'm the AD. Occasionally, I fill in as a fluffer."

1991, Robert Reeves, Peeping Thomas, →ISBN, page 112:

(pornography) One who arouses male pornographic actors before filming.

felszopó

arouses a male pornographic actor through fellatio


CNC

consensual non-consent
consensual non-consent#English

(BDSM) Initialism of consensual non-consent.


CBT

en-noun

CBT (countable and uncountable, plural CBTs)

Here Welles engages in the same kind of stereotypical thinking his characters condemn in their antagonists. For example, in a gay male psychology, testicles are not mandatory for “manhood,” if manhood is defined as being able to produce offspring. Testicular manipulation, or “cock and ball torture” (CBT) as it is known in sadomasochistic parlance, is an act around which extensive sexual scenes can be constructed.

1992, Les Wright, “Gay Genocide as Literary Trope”, in Emmanuel S. Nelson, editor, AIDS: The Literary Response, New York: Twayne Publishers, →ISBN, page 60:

For the female dominant, men’s cocks can provide hours of delightful fun. In the scene, this is often known as cock-and-ball torture or CBT, and bondage is an important part of this specialty.

1994, John Warren, The Loving Dominant, New York: Rhinoceros, →ISBN, page 167:

For CBT you will need thinner rope, rope that is quarter of an inch thick, and six to eight feet long. If he is particularly hairy, you may have to trim or shave him so his little hairs don’t get caught in the rope.

1998, Claudia Varrin, The Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women, Secausus, New Jersey: Citadel Press, published 1999, →ISBN, page 47:

cock and ball torture
cock and ball torture#English

(BDSM, uncountable) Initialism of cock and ball torture.


facial

Early 17th century, borrowed from Medieval Latin faciālis (“face-to-face, direct, open”), from faciēs (“form, configuration, figure; face, visage, countenance”) + -ālis (“-al”, adjectival suffix).

af

Coordinate term: self-facial

Chuck gave his co-star a creamy facial.

(slang, pornography, sex) A sex act of male ejaculation onto another person's face.


oviposition

en-noun

oviposition (usually uncountable, plural ovipositions)

From oviposit + -ion, from ovi- (“egg”) + Latin pōsitus (“placed”).

If an opsiblastic egg is produced by an individual, it is usually the last oviposition by that animal even if it is also the first.

1963, Ellsworth C. Dougherty, “Other Disciplines of Comparative Biology”, in The Lower Metazoa: Comparative Biology and Phylogeny, Berkley: University of California Press, page 474:

(zoology or pornography) The process or instance of ovipositing, laying eggs.


sarge

From sergeant, q.v. In reference to PUA slang, coined by American writer and television personality Ross Jeffries after the behavior of his cat Sarge.

coinage

I did not interpret this advice correctly at first and in the same sarge as the hand-slap Juggler observed that she was really into me and liking my game but a little annoyed that I kept encroaching on her by moving myself closer to her while keeping myself square.

2003 March 4, SexPDX, “Juggler Workshop Review and Lay Report (VERY LONG)”, in alt.seduction.fast (Usenet):

I thought it would be funny and depressing to join them on what they call the "Saturday Sarge." A sarge is when a group of morons roam around looking for girls to annoy. Sounds gr8 right?

2012 September 25, Matt Jenkins, Bertie Brandes, “My Day Out with the London Seduction Society”, in VICE, archived from the original on 2023-07-23:

(seduction community) An instance of sarging.


sarge

en-verb

sarge (third-person singular simple present sarges, present participle sarging, simple past and past participle sarged)

sarges (present singular third-person)
sarging (participle present)
sarged (participle past)
sarged (past)

Sure, the echoes of PUA raise concerns and I have no doubt Saturday Sarge has its fair share of men just wanting to pick up women for sex (Phil says in the four years he's sarged he's only slept with about 10 – the same amount another sarger says he's slept with in the last six months).

2014 October 18, Gareth May, “Saturday Sarge: meet the men who go hunting for women”, in The Daily Telegraph, London: Telegraph Media Group, →ISSN, →OCLC, archived from the original on 2019-03-01:

(intransitive, seduction community) To go out and engage women in order to pick them up.


clover clamp

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(chiefly BDSM) A metal clamp, usually joined to another by a chain, meant to be worn on the nipples to cause pain.


munch

en-noun

munch (countable and uncountable, plural munches)

From Middle English monchen, a variant of mocchen, mucchen ("to munch (food); chew audibly"; > Modern English dialectal mouch), probably imitative in origin (compare crunch).

gloss

"to munch (food); chew audibly"; > Modern English dialectal <i class="Latn mention" lang="en">mouch</i>

And thanks to the stunning paxie for getting it all together and creating the best munch ever in the history of munches. :)

1996, peh^ – the prat with the hat, “What Is a 'Munch'?”, in alt.sex.femdom (Usenet):

does anyone know any BDSM parties and munches, in greece???

2000, Anton, “BDSM Parties and Munches”, in alt.sadistic (Usenet):

(countable, BDSM) A casual meeting for those interested in BDSM, usually at a restaurant, bar or pub.


glory hole

The boy looks into Mugwump eyes blank as obsidian mirrors, pools of black blood, glory holes in a toilet wall closing on the Last Erection.

1962 [1959], William S. Burroughs, Naked Lunch, New York: Grove Press, page 75:

One trick I used is turning things into a word problem. For example, if there are three glory holes in the bathroom at the club and 28 guys at the circuit party, how many rotations of guys will it take before everybody's had a turn?

2009, Richard Appel, “Family Gay”, in Family Guy, season 7, episode 8, spoken by Peter Griffin:

His personal assistants wear go-go boots and every vocal booth / Must have a glory hole

2009, “Scoliosis Jones”, in Jhelli Beam, performed by Busdriver:

(sexuality, slang) A hole in a screen or wall big enough to allow an erect penis to be stuck through, made to facilitate anonymous sex with another person.


IR

(pornography) Initialism of interracial.