guevedoce

From Spanish güevedoce, from Dominican Spanish güevos a los doce (“testicles at twelve”).

(medicine, endocrinology) In the Dominican Republic, a person born with male gonads, but who appears to have female external genitalia, as a result of a 5-alpha-reductase deficiency.


Obergefell

en-proper-noun

Obergefell (countable and uncountable, plural Obergefells)

/ˈoʊbərɡəˌfɛl/

(US, law, sexuality, US politics, informal, uncountable) Ellipsis of Obergefell v. Hodges. A 2015 U.S. Supreme Court ruling that legalized same-sex marriage; and reaffirmed the existence of a right to privacy under due process following the 14th Amendment.


queening stool

(BDSM) A low seat with an opening allowing the dominant partner to sit and receive oral sex from the submissive partner lying underneath.


genderspecial

LL-Q1860 (eng)-Flame, not lame-genderspecial.wav

(slang, derogatory, neologism) A person who affects an unusual or marginalized gender identity for perceived social benefit.


DAP

en-noun

DAP (countable and uncountable, plural DAPs)

double anal penetration
double anal penetration#English

(sexuality, slang, vulgar, pornography) Initialism of double anal penetration.


fetisher

I'm about to put a smoking fetisher survey on my web page. I have come up with the following categories which will be rated from 1 (low) to 5 (high) depending on the importance that aspect of smoking has to your particular fetish.

1998 May 28, Jim, “Smoking Fetisher Survey”, in alt.smokers.glamour (Usenet), retrieved 2022-06-28:

Hey SCAA folks. This here is typical WM fetisher behavior.
All you fetishers who roam the newsgroup and whine about how you are not a fetisher but love AFs for who they are individually. Yeah right. Here is WM fetisher looking for _any_ AF. How individual is that?
Fetishers are in denial most of the time. But this illustrates just what I've been talking about. Fetishers don't care about the individual. Just the fetish.
Fetisher behavior out in the open.

1999 December 16, question_...@my-deja.com, “looking for asian female to write to maybe more”, in soc.culture.asian.american (Usenet), retrieved 2022-06-28:

Subject: FOOT FETISHer seeks Lady in SouthEast

2001 January 5, surrey male, “FOOT FETISHer seeks Lady in SouthEast”, in uk.people.bdsm.personals (Usenet), retrieved 2022-06-28:

2002 April 24, Jocko, “Domi, a foot fetisher?”, in alt.sports.hockey.nhl.tor-mapleleafs (Usenet), retrieved 2022-06-28:


stage gay

(fandom slang) On-stage homoerotic (male) behavior; often with the implication that it is insincere.


biseks

biseks (nominative singular)
biseksi (nominative plural)
biseksy (derogatory nominative plural)
biseksa (genitive singular)
biseksów (genitive plural)
biseksowi (dative singular)
biseksom (dative plural)
biseksa (accusative singular)
biseksów (accusative plural)
biseksem (instrumental singular)
biseksami (instrumental plural)
biseksie (locative singular)
biseksach (locative plural)
biseksie (singular vocative)
biseksi (plural vocative)

Clipping of biseksualista. First attested in 1900, but in common usage only as of 1980.


Mumsnut

Blend of Mumsnet + nut (“a crazy person”).

blend

Here’s some folks who actually know what they’re talking about, you don’t get that on Mumsnut.

2018 July 25, Hetty Spoon (@Henriettaspoon), Twitter:

Oh, and in the light of the current mumsnut discussion... I block all transphobes. Just sayin'.

2019 October 12, Annie Wallace (@anniewallace), Twitter:

Mumsnut is melting down, tee hee. "EVEN WPUK", lol

2021 March 24, Stephanie Anne Calvert (@StephAcalvert), Twitter:

(Internet slang, derogatory) The British parenting-focused message board Mumsnet, viewed as a locus of gender-critical discourse and activism.


Prosecco Stormfront

From Prosecco, a wine varietal, and Stormfront, a white supremacist website, the implication being that Mumsnet has become a radicalisation pipeline for upper-middle-class mothers (sometimes referred to pejoratively as wine mums).

Prosecco Stormfront have worked themselves up into a transphobic frenzy of utter vileness now.

2019 November 27, Banquo's Ghost (@_banquos_ghost_), Twitter:

Prosecco Stormfront aka Mumsnet had to shut down the Graham Linehan thread to moderate it because of the sheer influx of new accounts trolling everyone.

2020 June 27, Gemma Stone (@notCursedE), Twitter:

Prosecco Stormfront slagging off another cis woman, all because she doesn’t agree with their obsessive transphobic hate-cult! 🙄😖

2022 May 20, Helen (@mimmymum), Twitter:


Mumsnutter

Blend of Mumsnet + nutter (“a crazy or eccentric person”).

Mumsnutters use all kinds of euphemisms to denigrate trans women (no acknowledgement of trans people) but somehow 'cis' is a hate crime?

2018 November 17, Aimee Evelyn (@AimeeEvelyn202), Twitter:

*waves at all the obsessive Mumsnutters trawling my twitter to ‘report back’ to the terven “mother ship” for back-slaps and gossip* 🙄

2019 November 1, Helen (@mimmymum), Twitter:

Hey trans guys, did you know that you're likely to be a "trojan horse" according to Mumsnutters?

2021 September 8, Rachel the wolf (@TheWolfSpirit1), Twitter:

(Internet slang, derogatory) A gender-critical poster on the Mumsnet feminism boards.


radtwt

do u know by any means if any of these groups accepts women that are new to radtwt and trying to get familiarized with the discourse?

2020 December 5, V (@dyke_me_down), Twitter:

i bet jkr has a secret account on radtwt—which one of you is it, come forward

i've been crypto on radblr for a while but i figured i'd make an account on radtwt since twt makes more sense to me.

2021 October 8, katarina (@wyvernfem), Twitter:

(Internet slang) The community of radical feminists on Twitter.


radblr

Radblr is saturated with women calling themselves radical feminists who have the barest grasp on what that phrase means.

2019 August 17, Radfem Black (@RadfemBlack), Twitter:

My only contribution to radblr is occasional snide commentary, and they're not even particularly funny. Sorry y'all UwU

2020 October 27, normieenvy (@normieenvy), Twitter:

tho I did discover radblr in my late teens/early 20s and that was really eye opening for me 👀

2021 March 11, mandy (@siyeonbora), Twitter:

(Internet slang) The community of radical feminists on Tumblr.


Tranada

Sadly the same is happening in Tranada, where I live.

2019 December 26, RadFemGem (@gem_fem), Twitter:

Oh Tranada. You are such a disappointment. I never knew you had so many legislators with no respect for women.

2020 June 5, The Honourable Yona (@yona1959), Twitter:

Scotland is still the fight we all need to fight, SNP are trying to emulate Tranada.

2020 September 20, Paintpot (@Paintpot17), Twitter:

(derogatory) Canada, viewed as excessively supportive of trans rights or hostile toward gender-critical beliefs and policies.


TERF Island

NY Times does another article about the terrible women of TERF Island...but without talking to any of them of course.

2021 February 26, Maya Forstater (@MForstater), Twitter:

Do I want to know why the Queen of TERF island is trending?
 I do not.

2021 December 13, Brianna Wu (@BriannaWu), Twitter:

When I came back to the UK this year people said, “are you sure you want to leave the US? It’s really bad in the UK right now.”
Yeeeeah I’m gonna take my chances on Terf Island.
That should say a lot about how terrifying the US has become.

2022 May 3, James Stephanie Sterling (@JimSterling), Twitter:

gender-critical feminism
gender-critical feminism

(slang, derogatory) Great Britain or the United Kingdom, viewed as a centre of gender-critical feminism, or more broadly of transphobic policies and attitudes.


TERFery

can't stop thinking about all these British ladies that apparently need the smelling salts because a judge ruled that TERFery isn't an equality act PROTECTED CHARACTERISTIC akin to disability, race, sex, religion or sexual orientation

2019 December 19, Christa Peterson (@christapeterso), Twitter:

But accusations of TERFery have been sufficient to intimidate many people, institutions and organisations I once admired, who’re cowering before the tactics of the playground.

2020 June 10, J. K. Rowling, J.K. Rowling Writes about Her Reasons for Speaking out on Sex and Gender Issues:

We're doing the usual road from "just asking questions" to "trans are being mean to me" to full-blown terfery and at this point can we just skip to the end?

2021 October 23, Ana Mardoll (@AnaMardoll), Twitter:

The state or quality of holding trans-exclusionary feminist views.


Glincel

Blend of Glinner + incel, the first component being taken from Linehan's now-suspended Twitter account (@glinner), itself a blend of his given name and surname.

Glincels in force doing their master’s bidding in response to this tweet.

2019 February 27, meh (@ohnonotphil), Twitter:

Seen a lot of Glincels and even Linehan himself repeating the lie “people are forceably transing gay teenage kids”.

2019 September 17, Bethany Black (@BeffernieBlack), Twitter:

at some point you'll incur the wrath of him or his Glincels.

2020 May 8, hashtag girlboss (@surfacingwater), Twitter:

(Internet slang, derogatory) A fervent defender of Graham Linehan and/or supporter of his views on transgender people.


TWAW

The woke left is aware of how mainstream media rigs news in favour of the ruling class but doesn't wonder why mainstream media agree that TWAW.

2020 July 2, Adeline Virginia Stephen (@A_V_Stephen), Twitter:

i used to be a sex worker and a staunch liberal feminist that firmly believed twaw.

2022 June 26, jah (@planetofplanet), Twitter:

The use of pronoun badges is intended to enforce TWAW.

2022 June 29, Helen Saxby (@helensaxby11), Twitter:

(Internet slang) Initialism of trans women are women.


ஒருபாலீர்ப்பு

ta-noun

ஒருபாலீர்ப்பு • (orupālīrppu)

orupālīrppu (romanization)
ஒருபாலீர்ப்பு (nominative singular)
ஒருபாலீர்ப்பே (singular vocative)
ஒருபாலீர்ப்பை (accusative singular)
ஒருபாலீர்ப்புக்கு (dative singular)
ஒருபாலீர்ப்புக்காக (benefactive singular)
ஒருபாலீர்ப்புடைய (genitive genitive-i singular)
ஒருபாலீர்ப்பின் (genitive genitive-ii singular)
ஒருபாலீர்ப்பில் (locative locative-i singular)
ஒருபாலீர்ப்பிடம் (locative locative-ii singular)
ஒருபாலீர்ப்போடு (singular sociative sociative-i)
ஒருபாலீர்ப்புடன் (singular sociative sociative-ii)
ஒருபாலீர்ப்பால் (instrumental singular)
ஒருபாலீர்ப்பிலிருந்து (ablative singular)

From ஒரு (oru, “one's own”) + பால் (pāl, “gender”) + ஈர்ப்பு (īrppu, “attraction”), meaning 'attraction to one's own gender.'


tervert

Found one of these stuck on the back of the toilet cubicle door at the Museum of and in Manchester today, if anyone needed to know which public toilets the grubby terverts have been knocking about in lately.

2021 August 6, :, ew (@llewcid), Twitter:

Do you beleive^([sic]) that children should be required to submit to invasive genital inspections in order to participate in sports, as gender critical terverts have mandated by law in Florida?

2021 December 27, Crash (@StarCrashr), Twitter:

Thank you for standing up to the terverts! They think every normal person in the world should enable their weird sexual obsession with bullying trans people.

2022 June 29, AJ (@DreamSerpentine), Twitter:

gender-critical feminist
gender-critical feminist

(slang, derogatory) A gender-critical feminist or anti-transgender advocate, viewed as having an unhealthy fixation on trans people's genitals.


எதிர்பாலீர்ப்பு

ta-noun

எதிர்பாலீர்ப்பு • (etirpālīrppu)

etirpālīrppu (romanization)
எதிர்பாலீர்ப்பு (nominative singular)
எதிர்பாலீர்ப்பே (singular vocative)
எதிர்பாலீர்ப்பை (accusative singular)
எதிர்பாலீர்ப்புக்கு (dative singular)
எதிர்பாலீர்ப்புக்காக (benefactive singular)
எதிர்பாலீர்ப்புடைய (genitive genitive-i singular)
எதிர்பாலீர்ப்பின் (genitive genitive-ii singular)
எதிர்பாலீர்ப்பில் (locative locative-i singular)
எதிர்பாலீர்ப்பிடம் (locative locative-ii singular)
எதிர்பாலீர்ப்போடு (singular sociative sociative-i)
எதிர்பாலீர்ப்புடன் (singular sociative sociative-ii)
எதிர்பாலீர்ப்பால் (instrumental singular)
எதிர்பாலீர்ப்பிலிருந்து (ablative singular)

/ɛd̪ɪɾbaːliːɾpːʊ/

[ɛd̪ɪɾbaːliːɾpːɯ]

From எதிர் (etir, “opposite”) + பால் (pāl, “gender”) + ஈர்ப்பு (īrppu, “attraction”), meaning 'attraction to one's opposite gender.'


gendercritter

Gendercritters never begin by being critical of their own gender stereotypes. It’s almost as if they think it’s everyone else’s job to free them from their stereotype performances.

2017 December 15, Cristan Williams (@cristanwilliams), Twitter:

Also, from the way they talk about non-passing trans women I suspect most gendercritters are only OK with GNC men so long as they fit a highly specific mould of thin, white, youthful androgyny.

2019 January 23, Maria H (@ThisMariaHutch), Twitter:

Have gendercritters tried blaming coronavirus on trans people yet?

2020 February 28, Iza Pride (@IzabelaKaramia), Twitter:

(derogatory) A gender-critical or trans-exclusionary feminist.


இருபாலீர்ப்பு

ta-noun

இருபாலீர்ப்பு • (irupālīrppu)

irupālīrppu (romanization)
இருபாலீர்ப்பு (nominative singular)
இருபாலீர்ப்பே (singular vocative)
இருபாலீர்ப்பை (accusative singular)
இருபாலீர்ப்புக்கு (dative singular)
இருபாலீர்ப்புக்காக (benefactive singular)
இருபாலீர்ப்புடைய (genitive genitive-i singular)
இருபாலீர்ப்பின் (genitive genitive-ii singular)
இருபாலீர்ப்பில் (locative locative-i singular)
இருபாலீர்ப்பிடம் (locative locative-ii singular)
இருபாலீர்ப்போடு (singular sociative sociative-i)
இருபாலீர்ப்புடன் (singular sociative sociative-ii)
இருபாலீர்ப்பால் (instrumental singular)
இருபாலீர்ப்பிலிருந்து (ablative singular)

From இரு (iru, “two, bi”) + பால் (pāl, “gender”) + ஈர்ப்பு (īrppu, “attraction”), meaning 'attraction to two genders.'

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ta:இருபாலீர்ப்பு


தன்பாலீர்ப்பு

ta-noun

தன்பாலீர்ப்பு • (taṉpālīrppu)

taṉpālīrppu (romanization)
தன்பாலீர்ப்பு (nominative singular)
தன்பாலீர்ப்பே (singular vocative)
தன்பாலீர்ப்பை (accusative singular)
தன்பாலீர்ப்புக்கு (dative singular)
தன்பாலீர்ப்புக்காக (benefactive singular)
தன்பாலீர்ப்புடைய (genitive genitive-i singular)
தன்பாலீர்ப்பின் (genitive genitive-ii singular)
தன்பாலீர்ப்பில் (locative locative-i singular)
தன்பாலீர்ப்பிடம் (locative locative-ii singular)
தன்பாலீர்ப்போடு (singular sociative sociative-i)
தன்பாலீர்ப்புடன் (singular sociative sociative-ii)
தன்பாலீர்ப்பால் (instrumental singular)
தன்பாலீர்ப்பிலிருந்து (ablative singular)

From தன் (taṉ, “one's own”) + பால் (pāl, “gender”) + ஈர்ப்பு (īrppu, “attraction”), meaning 'attraction to one's own gender.'

com

ta:நேர்பாலீர்ப்பு


terven

en-adj

terven (comparative more terven, superlative most terven)

more terven (comparative)
most terven (superlative)

Happy #ldov [Lesbian Day of Visibility] to all them terven ladies and deffos no^([sic]) to males UwU

2018 April 26, Pidge (but evil) (@radfempidge), Twitter:

There are those of the terven persuasion in my mentions and I have exactly no energy to deal today.

2019 June 3, Roo B. (@roo_b_boy), Twitter:

Hi gyns!! I'm a terven artist who makes radfem-themed patches!!

2020 August 28, terfery is afoot (@gynosupremacist), Twitter:

(Internet slang) Characteristic of, related to, or espousing gender-critical or trans-exclusionary feminism.


terven

en-noun

terven (countable and uncountable, plural tervens)

Any US radfems in the New England area? Watching with envy all the U.K. tervens getting to meet up

2019 September 7, coffee spoons (@coffeespoons3), Twitter:

Hey friends there's a few tervens who are harrasing^([sic]) this incredibly important binder fund aimed at the GRT community,

2022 May 4, Roo B. (@roo_b_boy), Twitter:

Tervens! I hope u all had a lovely weekend!

2022 June 12, Wild Womyn Workshop (@Wild_Womyn), Twitter:

(Internet slang, countable) A gender-critical or trans-exclusionary feminist.

I gots data (at least for UK Terven)

2020 August 18, Maya Forstater (@MForstater), Twitter:

Because terven don't actually care about women's rights or equality

2020 December 15, Max has Nightmare Eyes (@chaoticgaythey), Twitter:

Request, terven and allies. I'm looking for articles written by lesbians and gay men arguing that "queer" is still a homophobic slur.

2022 June 16, Kara Dansky (@KDansky), Twitter:

(Internet slang, uncountable) Gender-critical or trans-exclusionary feminists collectively.


戒同所

ㄐㄧㄝˋ ㄊㄨㄥˊ ㄙㄨㄛˇ

/t͡ɕi̯ɛ⁵¹ tʰʊŋ³⁵ su̯ɔ²¹⁴⁻²¹⁽⁴⁾/

/t͡ɕi̯ɛ⁵¹ tʰʊŋ³⁵ su̯ɔ²¹⁴⁻²¹⁽⁴⁾/


cryptoTERF

Cryptoterfs are really good at using social justice language to weasel themselves into these spaces and make people accept Bad Ideas and i hate it.

2019 October 25, shut up and go in peace (@deidaravore), Twitter:

ok so i think my moot is a cryptoterf and a bunch of ppl follow them and i dmed them about it (cause they’re following someone posting violent transmisogynist & transphobic shit) […]

2021 March 15, alina (@sindibunny), Twitter:

i'm glad i've curated my following on this account well enough from my last account that i don't have to read any cryptoterf "b- but queew is a swuw used to siwence wesbians 🥺" takes anymore

2021 June 15, Roo (@roopicoroo), Twitter:

A person who conceals or masks their gender-critical views, especially from friends or within trans-inclusive spaces.


அபாலீர்ப்பு

ta-noun

அபாலீர்ப்பு • (apālīrppu)

apālīrppu (romanization)
அபாலீர்ப்பு (nominative singular)
அபாலீர்ப்பே (singular vocative)
அபாலீர்ப்பை (accusative singular)
அபாலீர்ப்புக்கு (dative singular)
அபாலீர்ப்புக்காக (benefactive singular)
அபாலீர்ப்புடைய (genitive genitive-i singular)
அபாலீர்ப்பின் (genitive genitive-ii singular)
அபாலீர்ப்பில் (locative locative-i singular)
அபாலீர்ப்பிடம் (locative locative-ii singular)
அபாலீர்ப்போடு (singular sociative sociative-i)
அபாலீர்ப்புடன் (singular sociative sociative-ii)
அபாலீர்ப்பால் (instrumental singular)
அபாலீர்ப்பிலிருந்து (ablative singular)

From அ- (a-, negating prefix) + பால் (pāl, “gender”) + ஈர்ப்பு (īrppu, “attraction”), meaning 'attraction to no genders.'


Initialism of two-spirit, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender/transsexual, queer/questioning, etc.: LGBTQ+ within an Indigenous framework


enbyphobic

en-adj

enbyphobic (comparative more enbyphobic, superlative most enbyphobic)

more enbyphobic (comparative)
most enbyphobic (superlative)

Chris had to deal with enbyphobic comments at the workplace ever since coming out as non-binary.

So, here are some enbyphobic misconceptions about enby people that I’ve witnessed in queer/trans communities, and why they are wrong.

2016, Bad Apple Pie, Enbyphobia (in cis/trans spaces):

Someone might be clearly enbyphobic without being so clearly transphobic.

Even some trans people are being enbyphobic.

2021, Sophie Labelle, The Best of Assigned Male:


ball-gag

LL-Q1860 (eng)-Flame, not lame-ball-gag.wav


cwiter

(biology) hermaphrodite (individual or organism having both male and female gonads)


thussy

en-noun

thussy (countable and uncountable, plural thussies)

Blend of they + pussy, or from þussy, which resembles both the word bussy and pussy.

where can i get some thussy this monday afternoon

2020 December 21, @purportedfruit, Twitter, archived from the original on 2022-07-06:

Asking my non-binary shorty for some thussy

2021 June 26, @excuseforhate, Twitter, archived from the original on 2023-06-25:

I be going to Brooklyn like we ain't got perfectly good they/them thussy in Manhattan

2022 June 25, @JayJurden, Twitter, archived from the original on 2023-06-24:

(LGBTQ, slang, humorous) The vulva or vagina, or anus of a non-binary person.


rudefem

I will never fucking understand how these "rudefems" think using straight up slurs and ridiculing physical appearance is fucking necessary or productive.

2019 July 16, 🧅 (@ThatsInThePast), Twitter:

watching myself slowly turn into a rudefem as these people piss me off and disgust me in new ways daily has been amusing

2020 October 7, mich (@pinktaxed), Twitter:

Shoutout to all the rudefems who never bite their tongues, say what they mean and don’t back down.

2021 December 6, lez-being (@separatismrules), Twitter:

(slang) A radical feminist who is blunt, confrontational, and sometimes abusive in their approach.


factfem

Polite factfems help people outside of this discussion wake up 🥰

2020 January 11, Lorelei (@hatpinwoman), Twitter:

trying to be my best factfem self by writing a long introductory thread to radical feminism 😔✊

2021 December 12, Yana (@lesbian_envy), Twitter:

Benji is also a great factfem. She always has so much information.

2022 July 1, Lorelei (@hatpinwoman), Twitter:

(slang) A radical feminist who uses persuasion and education in their approach.


meanfem

I think we absolutely must be kind to rad learning women so they aren’t scared away by meanfems doing their thing 😋

2021 March 29, zara (@cache_pas), Twitter:

i love meanfems so much idgaf about appearing sane

2021 March 29, thea (@wingfem), Twitter:

It's become popular among the "meanfem" segment of radfems too.

2022 March 30, Fox (@RohanTheMajesty), Twitter:

(slang, sometimes derogatory) Synonym of rudefem.


nicefem

Another day being a mean lesbian and not a nicefem and I've never felt hotter

2020 April 23, Inappropriate Happiness (@gaytoastu), Twitter:

im one of the nicefems too, i barely get in qrt fights and usually gender ppl correctly aswell^([sic]),,,, wait until they meet the rudefems😌

2020 November 15, Amy (@chlorofem), Twitter:

I’m getting there daily. I was sooo nice when I first peaked. And I appreciate nicefems, still am one, but I’m def learning to take less shit.

2021 March 13, zara (@cache_pas), Twitter:

(slang, sometimes derogatory) A radical feminist who is cordial and patient in their approach.


febfem

Contraction of female-exclusive bisexual female.

possibly The spiciest take of today from me: generalising bi women is weird as hell and demanding that the only type of ""good"" bi women are febfems is 😐

2021 April 11, thea (@wingfem), Twitter:

i'm a febfem and i've never had a boyfriend in my life, now what

2021 September 22, sarah (@sarahofzion), Twitter:

i feel very lucky to be a goldstar febfem.

2022 July 4, wait shes selling vegan edibles?! (@commieharley), Twitter:

(LGBTQ, gender-critical) A cisgender bisexual woman who exclusively dates other cisgender women.


TEHM

Acronym of trans-exclusionary homosexual male. Coined after the pattern of TERF (“trans-exclusionary radical feminist”).

acronym

Slowly for the TEHMs at the back ... not fancying a trans man (if you’re gay) doesn’t make you a transphobe. Making a big issue of it, or ironically claiming you aren’t transphobic just because you don’t find trans men attractive, means you probably are transphobic!

2019 June 7, Eloïse-saur-u (@WorldWearyWoman), Twitter:

There is something organised about a load of TERFs and TEHMs who all follow each other on Twitter ganging up on Stonewall for supporting the trans community.

2021 May 23, doggy foodle (@doodle_bobby), Twitter:

can we also stop pretending like terf rhetoric doesn’t also deeply affect trans men? bc terfs are often the ones to spread misinfo like this and indoctrinate ppl into being TEHMs

2021 June 6, jay (@bumbleshines), Twitter:

(usually derogatory) A trans-exclusionary homosexual male; a gay man who holds gender-critical or anti-transgender views, particularly one who considers trans men to be women.


sau̯ko

Inherited from Proto-Slavic *sùka (“bitch, female dog”), further etymology unclear. The vulgar meaning is secondary. Cognates include Polish suka, Russian су́ка (súka).


autogynesmile

I guess deep dream decided you needed a bigger autogynesmile

2015 July 19, Mirah Image (@mirahimage), Twitter:

And there's that autogynesmile, that DUPER'S DELIGHT.

2017 December 7, Doctress Jiu Bao (@DoctressXiaoMao), Twitter:

And always with the autogynesmile. That smug face would make me lose my shit.

2020 July 24, Dixie Chick (@dixiechick547), Twitter:

(slang, derogatory, gender-critical) A coy or gloating smile exhibited by a trans woman.


transvestigator

LL-Q1860 (eng)-Flame, not lame-transvestigator.wav

You gotta be kidding me. Transvestigators are wild. Here I am just tryna find some Anne Hathaway movies and I see this. [screenshot of a Google search in which the top "people also ask" result is "Was Anne Hathaway born a boy?"]

2019 November 7, Devastated 24/7 (@roo_tea), Twitter:

No you can't always tell. Of the trans women I've known who told me they were trans I certainly couldn't "tell" when I met them. And the transvestigators just suspect every cis woman.

2020 August 10, Ann Coates (@setoacnna), Twitter:

I've known cisgender women who were kicked out of restrooms by transvestigators. It's the most poorly developed of all the Bigotry Sciences right behind phrenology.

2022 May 19, Lylac Doll (@LylacDoll), Twitter:

conspiracy theories
conspiracy theory#Noun

(Internet slang, conspiracy theories) A person who performs transvestigation; someone who routinely conducts or promotes informal investigations into whether a public figure is secretly transgender, generally by analyzing that person's appearance and anatomical structure.


thembo

Blend of them + bimbo, by analogy with himbo.

2020, “Bimbos, himbos, thembos, and topping the almighty eggplant”, in Verse Magazine, 33rd edition, University of South Australia, published 2020, page 40:

Anyone who wishes to embrace their femininity and sexuality is welcome on the bimbos' glittery island, regardless of gender expression — Chlapecka address^([sic]) her audience as “bimbos, thembos, himbos, bimboys, or any 'bo' you wanna be” in a "get ready with me" video on her profile.

2021, Elena Plumb, “Rise of the Bimbo”, in The Avenue, Northeastern University, published Spring 2021, page 41:

Miller and Hanson hired nonbinary people and trans and cisgender men to staff their cart—describing the workforce as “himbos, thembos and flirts” on the cart's social media pages.

2021 November 3, Andrew Jankowski, “Hot Coffee Cart”, in Williamette Week, published 2021, page 24:

(slang, sometimes derogatory) A physically attractive non-binary person who lacks intelligence; the non-binary equivalent of a bimbo.


transpatient

If transpatients experience sub-standard, insensitive, or frankly discriminatory care in an emergency department, providers should address this deficiency directly with the department or hospital administration.

2005, R. Nick Gorton, Jamie Buth, Dean Spade, Medical Therapy and Health Maintenance for Transgender Men: A Guide For Health Care Providers, page 76:

Metabolic diseases also need to be considered in transpatients.

2014 January, Cécile A. Unger, “Care of the transgender patient: the role of the gynecologist”, in American Journal of Obstetrics & Gynecology, page 23:

The quickest way to thwart analytic work with transpatients is to use legally assigned, as opposed to chosen, names and pronouns.

2018, Sheila L. Cavanagh, “Principles for Psychoanalytic Work with Trans Clients”, in Oren Gozlan, editor, Current Critical Debates in the Field of Transsexual Studies: In Transition, unnumbered page:


CG/L

(BDSM) Initialism of caregiver/little: a paraphilia involving ageplay between an older, caring, parentlike and a child persona.


kokott

kokott (indefinite nominative singular)
kokotts (genitive indefinite singular)
kokotten (definite nominative singular)
kokottens (definite genitive singular)
kokotter (indefinite nominative plural)
kokotters (genitive indefinite plural)
kokotterna (definite nominative plural)
kokotternas (definite genitive plural)

Borrowed from French cocotte. Cognate of German Kokotte. Doublet of kokett.


cucky

LL-Q1860 (eng)-Flame, not lame-cucky.wav


geng pelangi

ms-noun

geng pelangi (plural geng-geng pelangi, informal 1st possessive geng pelangiku, 2nd possessive geng pelangimu, 3rd possessive geng pelanginya)

geng-geng pelangi (plural)
geng pelangi ku (first-person informal possessive)
geng pelangi mu (possessive second-person)
geng pelangi nya (possessive third-person)

From the rainbow flag being used by pro-LGBT activists. Literally means "rainbow gang".

2020, Ohmymedia.cchttps://ohmymedia.cc/lagu-dikritik-geng-pelangi-netizen-akui-bunkface-jaga-solat-sebelum-nyanyi/

Lagu dikritik geng ‘pelangi’, netizen akui Bunkface jaga solat sebelum nyanyi

The song was criticised by the "rainbow" gang, netizens admitted that Bunkface prayed before singing.

(slang) LGBT supporters and advocacy groups.


ہمجنسیت

ur-noun

ہَمْجِنْسِیَت

ہَمْجِنْسِیَت • (hamjinsiyat) f (Hindi spelling हम्जिन्सियत)

ہَمْجِنْسِیَت (canonical)
hamjinsiyat (romanization)
हम्जिन्सियत (Hindi)

From ہم (ham, “(like) us”) + جنس (jins, “sex”) + یت (iyat, “ism”), likely a calque of English homosexuality.


FART

Acronym of feminism-appropriating reactionary transphobe deliberately constructed to be homonymous with fart.

acronym

Reminder that FARTs don't actually believe trans women are men. They don't speak to people they think are men the way they do to trans women.

2018 September 16, Panic Dixie Scream Girl (@ChaKatKimber), Twitter:

“Blaming trans people for everything” is to FARTs as Three Blind Mice is to the bloody recorder.

2019 May 16, Dan (@DanDanYamagata), Twitter:

Tellingly, FARTs often end up in alliance with other far right movements with xenophobic, white supremacist, and nativist and ethno-nationalist reactionary politics.

2022, Alex Khasnabish, Making Sense of Society: Power and Possibility, page 118:

(derogatory) A trans-exclusionary radical feminist (TERF).


驕傲月

/t͡ɕi̯ɑʊ̯⁵⁵ ˀɑʊ̯⁵¹⁻⁵³ ɥɛ⁵¹/

/t͡ɕi̯ɑʊ̯⁵⁵ ˀɑʊ̯⁵¹⁻⁵³ ɥɛ⁵¹/


booty bandit

The booty bandits, who craved sex with the weaker inmates, and the merchants, rich with scrounged or stolen items who kept safe through an uncanny craft to barter anything, followed.

2000, Rob Taft, Leaders of the City, page 23:

(prison slang) A male prison inmate who preys on other male inmates for sex.


horizontales Gewerbe

de-noun

horizontales Gewerbe n (strong, definite nominative das horizontale Gewerbe, genitive (des) horizontalen Gewerbes, no plural)

das horizontale Gewerbe (definite nominative)
horizontalen Gewerbes (genitive)
horizontales Gewerbe (nominative strong)
horizontalen Gewerbes (genitive strong)
horizontalem Gewerbe (dative strong)
horizontales Gewerbe (accusative strong)
horizontale Gewerbe (nominative weak)
horizontalen Gewerbes (genitive weak)
horizontalen Gewerbe (dative weak)
horizontale Gewerbe (accusative weak)
horizontales Gewerbe (mixed nominative)
horizontalen Gewerbes (genitive mixed)
horizontalen Gewerbe (dative mixed)
horizontales Gewerbe (accusative mixed)

Gibt es womöglich Menschen mit Waffenschein, die noch nie vom horizontalen Gewerbe gehört haben?

2022 July 14, Carola Padtberg, “Statt »Layla« zu verbieten, sollte man über Prostitution reden”, in Der Spiegel, →ISSN:


güevedoce

From huevos a los doce (“balls at twelve”).

(medicine, endocrinology) in the Dominican Republic, an individual born with male gonads, but who appears to have female external genitalia, as a result of a 5-alpha-reductase deficiency; such individuals are often raised as girls until puberty, at which point they develop typical male genitalia


wh*re

HBUI has been awarded the DUMBEST MEDICAL WH*RE MEDAL by the S R Vietnam for ruthlessly aborting fetuses, and murdering babies and feeble old men and women, for the glory of the COmmunist Party!

1999 October 22, VIETT...@hotmail.com, “NOBEL PEACE PRIZE”, in soc.culture.vietnamese (Usenet), retrieved 2022-07-17:

you're the wh*re b*tch, leave my daughter alone, she's only been with Ted for 11 yrs that's not a wh*re but when you do not know who the father of your son is and half to get 6 DNA test done I would say that's a wh*re and Ted must have wrote this post from work sandy called him about all the post she did not wright it

2003 April 22, Dragonflylady700, “Sandy is not a wh*re like a b*tch i know”, in z-netz.alt.wichtig (Usenet), retrieved 2022-07-17:

If you think that women are b*tches, wh*res or evil, then the solution is not to be with a woman.

2015 October 28, ibsh...@gmail.com, “Iago and Misogyny”, in soc.culture.russian (Usenet), retrieved 2022-07-17:

2016 September 6, Stow Butcher, “Pretender to work for Magazine is a son of a wh*re.”, in ukr.politics (Usenet), retrieved 2022-07-17:

2017 July 2, Gay Is Mental Illness, “"Fu*k you bitch. I fu*king hate you. Stupid tranny looking cu*t. Kill yourself wh*re."”, in alt.politics.homosexuality (Usenet), retrieved 2022-07-17:


chevalier de la manchette

fr-noun

chevalier de la manchette m (plural chevaliers de la manchette)

LL-Q150 (fra)-Lepticed7-chevalier de la manchette.wav

Cette aventure me mit pour l’avenir à couvert des entreprises des chevaliers de la manchette ; et la vue des gens qui passaient pour en être me rappelant l’air et les gestes de mon effroyable More, m’a toujours inspiré tant d’horreur, que j’avais peine à la cacher.

c. 1765, Jean-Jacques Rousseau, Les Confessions, volume 1, published 1889, book II, pages 64–65:

This adventure assured me for the future against the attempts of the "Knights of the Cuff"; and the sight of people who were supposed to belong to their order, by recalling to my mind the appearance and gestures of my frightful Moor, always inspired me with such horror, that I had difficulty in concealing it.

(dated, slang, euphemistic) gay man, homosexual man


golden shower boy

en-noun

golden shower boy (plural golden shower boys)

(LGBTQ, sexology) A male homosexual who enjoys urinating on other homosexuals or being urinated on by them.


kvár

is-noun

kvár n (genitive singular kvárs, nominative plural kvár)

kvárs (genitive singular)
kvár (nominative plural)
kvár (indefinite nominative singular)
kvárið (definite nominative singular)
kvár (indefinite nominative plural)
kvárin (definite nominative plural)
kvár (accusative indefinite singular)
kvárið (accusative definite singular)
kvár (accusative indefinite plural)
kvárin (accusative definite plural)
kvári (dative indefinite singular)
kvárinu (dative definite singular)
kvárum (dative indefinite plural)
kvárunum (dative definite plural)
kvárs (genitive indefinite singular)
kvársins (definite genitive singular)
kvára (genitive indefinite plural)
kváranna (definite genitive plural)

Adopted by a jury of the association Samtökin ’78 in January 2021 after a competition.

Vera, hinsegin félag kvenna og kvára, sem var stofnað sumarið 2019, hefur verið vettvangur fyrir hinsegin konur og kvár til að hittast og skapa samfélag.

Vera, a queer association of women and enbies, founded in the summer of 2019, has been a forum for queer women and enbies to meet and create a community.

Framboðslistinn samanstendur af 11 konum, 10 körlum og einu kvári.

2022, Morgunblaðið, Listi Viðreisnar í Mosfellsbæ samþykktur:

The list of candidates consists of 11 women, 10 men and one enby.

Hann, hún eða kvár sem hlýtur viðurkenningu sem Reykvíkingur ársins rennir fyrstur fyrir lax í Elliðaánum ásamt borgarstjóra í boði Stangaveiðifélags Reykjavíkur sem hefur árnar á leigu.

2022, City of Reykjavík, Þekkir þú Reykvíking ársins?:

He, she or the enby who receives recognition as the Reykjavík resident of the year, will be the first to chase for salmon in the Elliðaár together with the mayor at the invitation of Reykjavík Rod Fishing Association, which rents the rivers.


мѫжеложьць

head

мѫжеложьць • (mǫželožĭcĭ) m

cu-noun

мѫжеложьць • (mǫželožĭcĭ) m

mǫželožĭcĭ (romanization)
мѫжеложьць (nominative singular)
мѫжеложьца (dual nominative)
мѫжеложьци (nominative plural)
мѫжеложьца (genitive singular)
мѫжеложьцоу (dual genitive)
мѫжеложьць (genitive plural)
мѫжеложьцоу (dative singular)
мѫжеложьцеви (dative singular)
мѫжеложьцема (dative dual)
мѫжеложьцемъ (dative plural)
мѫжеложьць (accusative singular)
мѫжеложьца (accusative singular)
мѫжеложьца (accusative dual)
мѫжеложьцѧ (accusative plural)
мѫжеложьцемь (instrumental singular)
мѫжеложьцема (dual instrumental)
мѫжеложьци (instrumental plural)
мѫжеложьци (locative singular)
мѫжеложьцоу (dual locative)
мѫжеложьцихъ (locative plural)
мѫжеложьче (singular vocative)
мѫжеложьца (dual vocative)
мѫжеложьци (plural vocative)

cu-decl-noun

мѫжеложьцоу, мѫжеложьцеви

мѫжеложьць, мѫжеложьца

мѫжеложьцемь

мѫжеложьцема

мѫжеложьцема

мѫжеложьцемъ

мѫжеложьцихъ

→ Russian: мужело́жец (muželóžec)

From мѫжь (mǫžĭ) + -е- (-e-) + ложити (ložiti) + -ьць (-ĭcĭ). Calque of Ancient Greek ἀρσενοκοίτης (arsenokoítēs).

calque

ἀρσενοκοίτης

a male who has sexual intercourse with males


性窒息

/ɕiŋ⁵¹⁻⁵³ ʈ͡ʂʐ̩⁵¹ ɕi⁵⁵/

/ɕiŋ⁵¹⁻⁵³ ʈ͡ʂʐ̩⁵¹ ɕi³⁵/

/ɕiŋ⁵¹⁻⁵³ ʈ͡ʂʐ̩⁵¹ ɕi⁵⁵/

/ɕiŋ⁵¹⁻⁵³ ʈ͡ʂʐ̩⁵¹ ɕi³⁵/


girlslash

For quotations using this term, see Citations:girlslash.

(fandom slang) Slash fiction that focuses on romantic and/or sexual relationships between female characters.


antigenderist

From anti- + gender + -ist, anti- + genderist, or antigender + -ist.

For quotations using this term, see Citations:antigenderist.

One who supports or engages in antigenderism.


homocrat

Blend of homosexual + democrat. Coined or popularized by lesbian author and activist Sarah Schulman.

Although assimilationist gays, or “homocrats” in Sarah Schulman's parlance (Shepard 2001), were beginning to be elected and appointed to positions of power around the country, this incorporation (or co-optation) did not extend to[…]

2005 October 9, L.M. Bogad, Electoral Guerrilla Theatre: Radical Ridicule and Social Movements, Routledge, →ISBN, page 128:

Some, such as author Sara Schulman, blame the problem on the “homocrats” seduced into inaction by Bill Clinton. Yet, the phenomenon is not unique to the last decade. Since the birth of the modern gay liberation movement in 1969[…]

2001, Monthly Review: An Independent Socialist Magazine:

56 These political insiders, called "homocrats" by lesbian activist Sarah Schulman, were like many others in the early days of the Clinton Administration: virtual political newcomers to Washington. In an interview following the[…]

2013 October 15, Craig A. Rimmerman, Gay Rights, Military Wrongs: Political Perspectives on Lesbians and Gays in the Military, Routledge, →ISBN, page 283:

In the seventies, the argument raged between grassroots activists and homocrats. In the 1980s, the fight was between those favoring direct action and the gay lobbyists. In the early nineties the term assimilationist was popularized by[…]

2015 November 18, Urvashi Vaid, Virtual Equality: The Mainstreaming of Gay and Lesbian Liberation, Anchor, →ISBN:

Wealthy gays were outraged by our tactics, homocrats accused us of being counterproductive. Many people who felt that they owned or defined the gay movement were threatened by ACT UP. Within the organization there was a uniting[…]

2018 September 24, Sarah Schulman, My American History: Lesbian and Gay Life During the Reagan and Bush Years, Routledge, →ISBN:

(US, LGBTQ, chiefly historical) A gay person who supports slow and assimilationist movement toward equality, working politically with the Democratic Party; an assimilationist (as contrasted with a radical).


글로리홀

[kɯɭɭo̞ɾiβo̞ɭ]


cisbi

I’m married, my husband is cishet but I’m always going to be cisbi.

2019 December 29, amanda (@rarityfirefly), Twitter:

Cisbi married couples elbow each other in the yogurt section when the young assistant manager with suspenders and Buddy Holly glasses walks by.

2021 December 16, Elizabeth (@EMK55102), Twitter:

I've seen it from cishet and cisgay people. But all my cisbi friends and my cisbi fiancée are as chill as can be.

2022 April 19, Joey (@AutumnBreezeOff), Twitter:

(LGBTQ, informal, neologism) Cisgender and bisexual.


cisbi

As a cishet married to a cisbi this doesn’t make her less bi for being in our relationship.

2020 January 1, RPGHour Studios (@RPGHour), Twitter:

The way cisgays gatekeep cisbis from the LGBT lunch table, telling them that they cannot sit with us and are too cishet for team rainbow

if a cisbi comes into queer spaces where we’re taking about our tangible oppression & they start yelling about not feeling *included* bc they’re in a straight passing relationship, sorry, but we aren’t even having the same convos, so there’s no point in trying to talk with them.

2022 June 7, sunglasses cryptid (@railroadlesbian), Twitter:

(LGBTQ, informal, neologism) A cisgender and bisexual person.


女同性戀者

ㄋㄩˇ ㄊㄨㄥˊ ㄒㄧㄥˋ ㄌㄧㄢˋ ㄓㄜˇ

нюйтунсинляньчжэ

/ny²¹⁴⁻²¹ tʰʊŋ³⁵ ɕiŋ⁵¹⁻⁵³ li̯ɛn⁵¹ ʈ͡ʂɤ²¹⁴⁻²¹⁽⁴⁾/


balchder

cy-noun

balchder m (usually uncountable, plural balchderau)

(LGBTQ, as Balchder) Pride (festival and movement of and for LGBT people)

(countable) an instance of such a festival


genderbread person

en-noun

genderbread person (plural genderbread people)

From Blend of gender + gingerbread, from the resemblance to a gingerbread man.

He notes that schools are using cartoon characters such as a “genderbread person” or unicorn to indoctrinate students, beginning with seventh graders, to believe that one's biological sex, psychological sense of sex, manner of dress, and erotic feelings are independent of one another.

2019, David Limbaugh, Guilty By Reason of Insanity: Why The Democrats Must Not Win:

Have you ever been asked to complete a genderbread person? This person looks like a gingerbread cookie, but instead of drawing icing and eyes, you indicate your biological sex, your gender identity, and who you are sexually attracted to.

2022, Mary E. Kite, Bernard E. Whitley, Jr., Lisa S. Wagner, Psychology of Prejudice and Discrimination:

A simple diagram of a person with symbols over the brain, heart, and groin to represent a person's gender identity, orientation, and biological sex as separate aspects of the person, with a further label indicating outward gender expression.


Shenko

Finished my Shenko doodle but tumblr is barfing all over me. *kicks tumblr*

2011 July 8, Kia Purity (@kiapurity), Twitter:

I don't get some Shenko fans. It's like, yeah Kaidan is my space husbando but I ain't gonna flip shit if you don't like him lmao

2012 December 9, hannah (@floraofmoon), Twitter:

I have just read a 500k word Shenko fic that was far better than the game.

2020 February 5, Siân (@alphra_), Twitter:

(fandom slang) The ship of characters Commander Shepard and Kaidan Alenko from the video game series Mass Effect.


Shiara

i'm having so many shiara feelings lately and i don't know why oh my god i love liara so much what a cutie

liara and f!shepard are the best. I love them. I love my Shep and Liara, i love seeing other people's f'sheps and Liara. Shiara is too pure

2016 November 17, Yeehaw Todd (@AfroPrincex), Twitter:

Daily reminder that I stan Shiara and that I live and die for them

2021 February 25, Atrast nal Tunsha, salroka (@Illusive_s0ul), Twitter:

(fandom slang) The ship of characters Commander Shepard and Liara T'Soni from the video game series Mass Effect.


big dyke energy

(slang, somewhat derogatory) The equivalent of big dick energy in a lesbian; unassuming self-confidence in a lesbian.


Feti

de-noun

Feti m (strong, genitive Fetis, plural Fetis)

Fetis (genitive)
Fetis (plural)
Feti (nominative singular)
Fetis (definite nominative plural)
Fetis (genitive singular)
Fetis (definite genitive plural)
Feti (dative singular)
Fetis (dative definite plural)
Feti (accusative singular)
Fetis (accusative definite plural)

fetishist, kinkster (colloquial, used by other circles to distinguish oneself from outliers)


LGBQ

Initialism of lesbian, gay, bisexual, queer.


U-Haul syndrome

(slang, US) In North American lesbian culture, the tendency of relationships to progress very quickly, for example when partners move in together after only a short period of time.


Lesbaru

Blend of lesbian + Subaru. Subaru was known for intentionally marketing to a lesbian demographic.

We have the Subaru Outback, or as it's more commonly known in the industry, the Lesbaru.

By then I was out and proud, with Martina Navratilova telling me to buy a Subaru. I liked the Lesbaru.

2016, Fay Jacobs, For Frying Out Loud: Rehoboth Beach Diaries, page 66:

(Canada, US, slang) A Subaru automobile, regarded as a popular choice of lesbian drivers.


விபச்சாரம்

ta-noun

விபச்சாரம் • (vipaccāram)

vipaccāram (romanization)
விபச்சாரம் (nominative singular)
விபச்சாரமே (singular vocative)
விபச்சாரத்தை (accusative singular)
விபச்சாரத்துக்கு (dative singular)
விபச்சாரத்துக்காக (benefactive singular)
விபச்சாரத்துடைய (genitive genitive-i singular)
விபச்சாரத்தின் (genitive genitive-ii singular)
விபச்சாரத்தில் (locative locative-i singular)
விபச்சாரத்திடம் (locative locative-ii singular)
விபச்சாரத்தோடு (singular sociative sociative-i)
விபச்சாரத்துடன் (singular sociative sociative-ii)
விபச்சாரத்தால் (instrumental singular)
விபச்சாரத்திலிருந்து (ablative singular)

/ʋɪbɐt͡ɕːaːɾɐm/


Pearlrose

Blend of pearl and rose (from rose quartz).

(fandom slang) The ship of characters Pearl and Rose Quartz from the Steven Universe series.


Pearlmethyst

(fandom slang) The ship of characters Pearl and Amethyst from the Steven Universe series.


Amedot

(fandom slang) The ship of characters Amethyst and Peridot from the Steven Universe series.


Harlivy

(fandom slang) The ship of characters Dr. Harleen Quinzel ("Harley Quinn") and Dr. Pamela Isley ("Poison Ivy") from DC Comics.


Rupphire

(fandom slang) The ship of characters Ruby and Sapphire from the Steven Universe series.


Pearlnet

(fandom slang) The ship of characters Pearl and Garnet from the Steven Universe series.


Lapidot

See also: Lapidoth
Romanization of Hebrew לַפִּידוֹת (Lapīḏōṯ, literally “torches”), a pluralization of לפיד (lapíd, “torch”).

der

Ma'ale Yosef Regional Council
w:Ma'ale Yosef Regional Council

A moshav in Ma'ale Yosef Regional Council council area, Northern District, Israel.


Lapidot

Blend of lapis (from lapis lazuli) and peridot.

(fandom slang) The ship of characters Lapis Lazuli and Peridot from the Steven Universe series.


titty skittle

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In reference to Skittles candy, as well as the breast growth caused by the extended use of estrogen.

Kayla even used the nickname for the little blue pills sold as Estrofem: titty skittles.

After six months of researching options for non-binary amab folk who want titty skittles without the titty, I am OFF TO MY FIRST HORMONE APPOINTMENT

2018 August 2, farbandish, Twitter, archived from the original on 2022-08-18:

My girlfriend's 1 year on titty skittle was yesterday!!!,

2019 February 9, mmtruooao, “Ya girl just took her first titty skittle :^)”, in Reddit, traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns, archived from the original on 2022-08-18:

2019 August 29, Darcyblue, “Guess who finally got on the titty skittles? This girl right here! This was a long wait.”, in Reddit, traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns, archived from the original on 2022-08-18:

Trans people I knew—the cultists! —had insisted that the “titty skittles” would make my breasts grow.

2020, Grace Lavery, “Egg Theory's Early Style”, in Transgender Studies Quarterly, page 388:

I DREAM OF A WORLD WHERE ONE DAY ALL GOATS CAN HOLD THEIR HEADS UP HIGH AND BLEAT A SONG OF JOY BECAUSE THEIR PRIVATES MATCH THEIR GENDER IDENTITY AND EVERYONE IS OK WITH THAT PLUS THEY GET FREE GOVERNMENT TITTY SKITTLES

2021 May 16, fred k. engels®, “Trans goat rights are caprine rights”, in rec.radio.shortwave (Usenet), retrieved 2022-08-18:

I'm misses estradiol
I'm misses E
I'm misses titty skittle
I'm misses HRT
Friends call me girlmiser
Whatever I touch
turns to girls in my clutch
I’m just too much

2022 January 16, Hex_Bomb, Twitter, archived from the original on 2022-01-16:

2022 February 8, Jaydee_O, “I got my titty Skittles! 💥🎊🎉🍈🍈”, in Reddit, MtF, archived from the original on 2022-08-18:

Yes, I know.
Thinking about this is scary.
Believe me, I was there every day of every month leading up to when I personally finally popped a titty skittle.
I'm just saying, this has been the best decision I've literally ever made & I regret not making it sooner.
Just saying.

2022 April 22, RileyGryc, Twitter, archived from the original on 2022-04-22:

hormone replacement therapy
hormone replacement therapy

(transgender slang, humorous, usually in the plural) An estrogen pill taken as part of hormone replacement therapy.


Fem&M's

It's the little things while you are pre everything. Hopefully not for long though because I go on Thursday to hopefully get my Fem&m's

2017 September 24, ccbarber1014, “I got my belly button pierced!”, in Reddit, MtF, archived from the original on 2022-08-18:

2019 April 19, Fraih, “MRW I got a prescription for fem&m's after my first endo appointment without any gatekeeping.”, in Reddit, traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns, archived from the original on 2022-08-18:

Congrats Hun! Enjoy the Titty Skittles, Fem&M's, Breast Mints, Tit Tacs, Galtoids, Anticistamines

2019 February 9, Syn-the-Guardian, “I started on E!!!”, in Reddit, traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns, archived from the original on 2022-08-18:

THREE GODDAMN YEARS OF FEM&M’S TODAY AND IT JUST KEEPS GETTING BETTER HELLLL YEA

2019 December 8, SomeBWord, Twitter, archived from the original on 2022-08-18:

Good luck! Get them Fem&M's, Girl!

2019 December 9, ThatEdgyOne, “Got my first appointment in 2 hours for hrt so so so so soooooo excited but also super nervous hope you all have an amazing day today <3”, in Reddit, traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns, archived from the original on 2022-08-18:

I'm still only on Fem&M's and Antidudeimines.

2020 April 23, Riggy_Minus, Twitter, archived from the original on 2022-08-18:

At the pharmacy waiting to pick up my titty skittles, fem&ms and anticistamines 💜💙

2022 March 1, Selenaissapphic, Twitter, archived from the original on 2022-08-18:

(transgender slang, humorous) Estrogen pills taken as part of hormone replacement therapy.


endosexism

There's nothing threatening about saying some common trans ontologies in their infancy were rooted in endosexism

2017 October 6, Siobhan O'Leary, tweet (archived)

In fact, numerous studies have demonstrated how manhood also relies on and reproduces societal patterns of cissexism, endosexism, monosexism, heterosexism, classism, racism, ageism, nationalism, and religious privilege in the United States.

2020, J. E. Sumerau, Violent Manhood, Rowman & Littlefield Publishers, →ISBN, pages 6–7:

We discuss this finding with reference to cisgenderism and endosexism, focusing particularly on being critical of ‘gender’ and foregrounding biological sex, and views for and against self-identifying gender.

2020, Elizabeth Peel, Hannah J. H. Newman, Gender's wider stakes: lay attitudes to legal gender reform, in feminists@law (ISSN 2046-9551)

Stigma and discrimination combined with minority stress, and cultural and social norms that give preference to heterosexuality, cisgenderism and endosexism, are some of the root causes that contribute to these health inequalities.

2020 May, Valeria Donisi et al., “Training healthcare professionals in LGBTI cultural competencies: Exploratory findings from the Health4LGBTI pilot project”, in Patient Education and Counseling, volume 103, number 5, pages 978–987:

Intersex people are not extremely rare, although endosexism (up to and including forced genital surgery in infancy) has contributed to conditions that lead us to believe they are.

2022 September 6, Reese Minshew, Treating Trauma in Trans People: An Intersectional, Phase-Based Approach, Taylor & Francis, →ISBN:

(rare) A system, practice, or bias privileging endosex people over intersex people.


goddex

First off: to anyone feeling an iota of guilt for indulging your plant-loving inner green goddex during the pandemic—you stop that right now.

2020 November, Cheryl Rafuse, “Why You Should Quarantine (Your Plants)”, in Boston Compass, page 6:

These days, a Witch or pagan might welcome a warm summer wind as an inherently feminine blessing from a femme goddex, […]

2021, Elliot Director, "The Gender Evolution of Air", in Astraea Taylor, Air Magic, page 56

Thank God, or Goddess, or Goddex we failed and found each other.

2022, Monique Jenkinson, Faux Queen: A Life in Drag, unnumbered page:

(neologism) A genderless or non-binary deity; a deity whose gender is unknown.


pronounphobia

en-noun

pronounphobia (countable and uncountable, plural pronounphobias)

Pronounphobia omg. Do they realise that they’ve used pronouns in that tweet 🤦

2020 April 10, Charlie (@ThenonbinaryC), Twitter:

Fr [for real]. All this internalised pronounphobia, like duh, everyone has pronouns

2020 November 11, 'Ala ad-Din (@IbnAbiQ), Twitter:

I agree, there needs to be more research into pronounphobia. Why do so many people get so upset about a part of speech?

2021 May 19, Max Harvey (@max_harvey), Twitter:

(chiefly sarcastic) Fear, hatred, or aversion to pronouns, especially as relates to gender.


trans cult

The rage and despair of seeing your flesh and blood drift into the trans cult and turn against you is unspeakable.

2018, "GenderCriticalDad", "'I'm Not A Hideously Bigoted Parent Who Doesn't 'Get' It'", in Transgender Children and Young People: Born in Your Own Body (eds. Heather Brunskell-Evans & Michele Moore), page 82

Clichéd insults await the wrongthinkers: deny TW and you’re a bigoted transphobe; assert it and you’re a deluded member of the transcult.

2020, Alex Byrne, “Are women adult human females?”, in Philosophical Studies, volume 177, page 3798:

There is seemingly a widely held concern that trans men are simply naive and manipulated gender non-conforming lesbians who have been led astray by the so-called trans cult or trans cabal.

2021, Finn Mackay, Female Masculinities and the Gender Wars: The Politics of Sex, unnumbered page:

(gender-critical, derogatory) The transgender community, viewed as cultlike.


TERFspeak

Truth be told parroting actual TERFspeak for it's^([sic]) comedy value might have been a bad call.

2018 March 13, venyle (@cold_inthewater), Twitter:

"Trans-identified male" is TERFspeak for trans woman.

2019 December 17, fern +r | Badenlily (@fernseasons), Twitter:

“Respecting other people’s boundaries” is just TERFspeak for “trans women are not welcome to use public spaces”.

2022 March 3, Bette Joy (@SlaggitySlag), Twitter:

The jargon and rhetoric of gender-critical or trans-exclusionary feminists.


gendersex

Holm provides a contextualised analysis of two life stories by persons in trans or intersex(ed) positions who applied for the legal change of their gendersex status, as Holm innovatively names it.

2019, Riikka Taavetti, “From Present Trans and Intersex(ed) Politics to Past Embodied Experiences”, in Suomen Queer-tutkimuksen Seuran, →DOI:

the technologies and histories of racial and colonial gendering that have established binary gendersex as one of the primary fault lines for securing and differentiating the national body

2022, Christopher Joseph Lee, “Transmedia Uprising”, in TSQ: Transgender Studies Quarterly, →DOI:

Sex or gender. A division of organisms into masculine, feminine and possibly others, by sexual or social characteristics.


Johndave

I SHIP EVERYTHING because I am an equal opportunity sort of gal. I secretly ship JohnDave a lot too.

2011 January 8, M. Elizabeth Em. (@weareallpuppets), Twitter:

johndave shippers are the most devoted/gung ho shippers i have ever seen..........

2012 February 26, emily hu (@emilyyyhu), Twitter:

i’ll forever hold johndave close to my heart fhdhdhdd

2019 September 7, fuglying (@fnyacking), Twitter:

(fandom slang) The ship of characters John Egbert and Dave Strider from the Homestuck series.


Johnkat

Totally shipping johnkat. Just for the record.

2011 December 9, gimnim (@lordbisleepykimalingual), Twitter:

having mysterious inexplicable resurgence of johnkat feelings oops

2012 March 28, Undead Anime Trash Princess (@caporushes), Twitter:

just saw Johnkat referred to as a 'crack pairing' ...... i genuinely think people don't know what that term originally refers to at this point

2019 November 16, zen (@archeradicator), Twitter:

(fandom slang) The ship of characters John Egbert and Karkat Vantas from the Homestuck series.


Stridercest

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I'm writing Stridercest fic holla if you wanna read it when i am done

2012 June 24, que snacky, snacky (@badsnacks), Twitter:

I think one of the grossest Homestuck ships is Stridercest because of the fucked-up power dynamic.

2013 June 7, godless neutrois (@the_stars_abide), Twitter:

Are we going to ignore the fact that almost everyone in Homestuck shipped Stridercest?

2015 March 26, HealthcareBoywife (@das_uberchicken), Twitter:

(fandom slang) The incestuous ship of brothers Dave Strider and Dirk Strider from the Homestuck series.


khwaja sira

From Urdu خواجہ سرا (xāja sarā), ultimately partly from Persian.
Emphasising the mismatch between their visible bodies (hazir) and the invisible soul (ruh), they presented the khwaja sira as a feminine soul that was stuck in a masculine body. In presenting this definition of their gender and seeking legitimacy for it, khwaja siras seek to define the distinctiveness of their soul. It is not just any feminine soul but one endowed with certain spiritual qualities.1

That the discussion kept focusing on the sexual behavior of khwaja siras agitated a number of transgender activists, who were uncomfortable that these issues were being discussed in the presence of people who were not khwaja siras. […] Beena's response demonstrates the tendency of khwaja sira activists to represent themselves and their communities in a socially acceptable manner as respectable and religious people. She emphasized the conservatism[…]

2014 December 18, Susan S Wadley, South Asia in the World: An Introduction: An Introduction, Routledge, →ISBN, pages 182–183:

Funding that is targeting the Khwaja Sira community ought to go through Khwaja Sira organisations, she says, insisting on being more than a token for international NGOs that have little or no knowledge about the local conditions.

2018 June 12, Lena Martinsson, Diana Mulinari, Dreaming Global Change, Doing Local Feminisms: Visions of Feminism. Global North/Global South Encounters, Conversations and Disagreements, Routledge, →ISBN:

The individual and shared identity of khwaja siras is pivotal to studying why and how they are persecuted. According to Khan (2014a), there is no universally agreed upon definition for a khwaja sira, and the fluid term has a distinct trajectory of use in Pakistan. Transgender Pakistanis may use the term hijra to refer to themselves,[…]

2018 December 6, Arzu Güler, Maryna Shevtsova, Denise Venturi, LGBTI Asylum Seekers and Refugees from a Legal and Political Perspective: Persecution, Asylum and Integration, Springer, →ISBN, page 52:

A member of a traditional transfeminine third gender in Pakistan and India since Mughal times.


Davekat

ship dynamics EXCEPT ITS LITERALLY JUST DAVEKAT (or what i know from fanfics ive read because im not done homestuck yet <3)
also includes:
- constant lighthearted teasing and banter
- cuddling
- helping each other overcome emotional boundaries
- i love them so much

2019 April 17, mspa_reading, Twitter, archived from the original on 2022-08-28:

Davekat is canon, and that's really all there is to say on the matter. <3
#homestuck #davekat

2019 May 9, Blimpcatt, Twitter, archived from the original on 2022-08-28:

in honor of #homestuck day, i'm here to confess something: i used to be a davekat shipper except i mostly liked it as them hate dating instead of normal dating and i guess most of the fandom disagreed with me on that point. anyway, here's some fanart from 2013-2014

2020 April 13, prettypinkpansy, Twitter, archived from the original on 2022-08-28:

davekat and romcom movie posters ? wat an outlandish idea.... o_o

2020 September 12, vomitcore, Twitter, archived from the original on 2022-08-28:

(fandom slang) The ship of characters Dave Strider and Karkat Vantas from the Homestuck series.


transkønnethed

head

transkønnethed c (singular definite transkønnetheden, not used in plural form)

transkønnetheden (definite singular)
transkønnethed (indefinite nominative singular)
transkønnetheden (definite nominative singular)
transkønnetheds (genitive indefinite singular)
transkønnethedens (definite genitive singular)

/ˈtʁɑnˀskœnəðˌheðˀ/

/ˈtʁɑnskœnəðˌheðˀ/

From transkønnet (“transgender”) + -hed (“-ness”).


alloromantic

In Simon's case, the feeling is resolved by owning up to his gay identity, and he is almost immediately rewarded with a hunky new boyfriend – a rather optimistic ending that may appeal more to alloromantic than to aromantic aces.

2018, "Blue Ice-Tea", "Ace Mini-Review: 'Love, Simon'", AVENues Newsletters, October-December 2018, page 22

An alloromantic individual will enjoy activities associated with intimate relationships such as holding hands, kissing, cuddling, emotional intimacy, and commitment.

2019, Katherine Rachlin, “The Intersection of Gender Diversity and Asexuality: Psychotherapy with TGNC Individuals Who Identify as Ace”, in Gary J. Jacobson, Jan C. Niemira, Karalyn J. Violeta, editors, Sex, Sexuality, and Trans Identities: Clinical Guidance for Psychotherapists and Counselors, page 133:

"Do you think it's possible... Do you think two people could fall in love with no physical intimacy?"
I shrugged. “I mean, alloromantic asexual people must do it, right?”

2021, L. C. Mawson, Ethics in Magic, unnumbered page:


alloromantic

“The language and the physicality that are associated with romance and sexuality are not limited to people who are allosexuals or alloromantics,” they said.

2018 February 8, Talia Soglin, “Super Ace”, in Yale Daily News:

Seth: I don’t understand you alloromantics. Love letters, long walks in the park, listening to each other’s heartbeats? No thank you. I am only allosexual.

2021, Chloe O. Davis, “Allosexual”, in The Queens’ English: The LGBTQIA+ Dictionary of Lingo and Colloquial Phrases, Clarkson Potter, →ISBN, page 21:

It is unfortunately not uncommon for allosexuals and alloromantics to see those on the asexuality or aromanticism spectrums as not having valid identities, as needing to be fixed.

2022 May 17, Alex Brown, “Alex Brown Reviews Fire Becomes Her by Rosiee Thor”, in Locus:

Someone who experiences romantic attraction.


allocishet

en-adj

allocishet (comparative more allocishet, superlative most allocishet)

more allocishet (comparative)
most allocishet (superlative)

It's frustrating that allocishet folks are often unable to grasp the nuances of queer sex.

2018, K. M. Szpara, quoted in Caroline M. Yoachim, "Interview: K. M. Szpara", Uncanny Magazine, July/August 2018, unnumbered page

I can't think of a single allocishet person taking the time to explain their identity to anyone.

2022, Saundra Mitchell, Out There: Into the Queer New Yonder, unnumbered page:

Black consumers who are beyond the allocishet “norm” must search harder, look deeper, to find their community .

2022, Jessica P. Pryde, “Introduction”, in Jessica P. Pryde, editor, Black Love Matters: Real Talk on Romance, Being Seen, and Happily Ever Afters, page xvii-xviii:

(LGBTQ, neologism) Allosexual, cisgender, and heterosexual.


grayromantic

I might be kind of vaguely aromantic, honestly. Or whatever. Grayromantic?

Grayromantic asexual people are between romantic and aromantic and less likely to experience romantic attraction compared to most people.

2019, Julie Xuemei Hu, Shondrah Tarrezz Nash, “Sexuality and Sexual Relationships throughout Life”, in Marriage and the Family: Mirror of a Diverse Global Society, Routledge, →ISBN:

Asexual people (who do not generally desire romantic connection with others), and people who identify as graysexual, grayromantic, or grayscale (comparatively low sexual or romantic desire for other) are also part of the TGD community.

2022, Reese Minshew, “Introduction”, in Treating Trauma in Trans People: An Intersectional, Phase-Based Approach, Routledge, →ISBN:

Intermediate between romantic and aromantic; sometimes, but not usually, experiencing romantic attraction and desire.


split attraction model

We'll be looking more at the 'split attraction model' of sexuality in the next chapter, and how romantic attraction and sexual attraction can be different for different people.

2021, Erin Ekins, Queerly Autistic: The Ultimate Guide For LGBTQIA+ Teens On The Spectrum, page 34:

The Split Attraction Model distinguishes between romantic and sexual attraction, meaning that someone could be romantically attracted to anybody but only sexually attracted to other genders.

2022, Cate Campbell, Sex Therapy: The Basics, unnumbered page:

Within asexual contexts, people commonly reference this distinction as the “split attraction model” (Przyblo, 2019), and many use this model in describing their personal identities.

2022, Amanda L. Mollet, “Asexuality & Asexuality Studies”, in Kamden K. Strunk, Stephanie Anne Shelton, editors, Encyclopedia of Queer Studies in Education, page 45:

(psychology) A model of human desire which distinguishes sexual and romantic attraction.


arospec

arospec (comparative more arospec, superlative most arospec)

more arospec (comparative)
most arospec (superlative)

From aro (“aromantic”) + spec (“spectrum”).

After some research into various arospec (aromantic spectrum) identities, I found the term “wtfromantic” and a whole bunch of people who identified with that.

2016, Ashley Mardell, The ABC's of LGBT+, unnumbered page:

In fact, I've, uh... well, there's this forum for demisexual and other ace/arospec people, and I've been a member for a while.

2017, Talia Hibbert, That Kind of Guy, unnumbered page:

While there can still be a tendency for allosexual characters in YA science fiction to perform conscious and unconscious microaggressions against ace, acespec, aro and arospec characters, some recent novels manage to challenge the aphobic presumption of compulsory sexuality, and to ultimately create and sustain asexual-inclusive speculative worlds.

2021, Patricia Kennon, "Asexuality and the Potential of Young Adult Literature for Disrupting Allonormativity", International Journal of Young Adult Literature, Volume 2, Issue 1 (link)

(neologism) Belonging or related to the aromantic spectrum.


acespec

acespec (comparative more acespec, superlative most acespec)

more acespec (comparative)
most acespec (superlative)

From ace (“asexual”) + spec (“spectrum”).

For the show to completely and utterly ignore this is huge since there are very few representations of aro and ace-spec people in media of any kind.

2017 October 26, Melissa Reph, “You might not like hearing this, but I don't like 'Riverdale'”, in The Muhlenberg Weekly, Muhlenberg College, page 3:

Be open to ALL acespec folx! No matter what other identities intersect with their acespec identity and no matter how they behave in whatever types of relationships they may have.

2020, Will, quoted in "Questions Of The Month", AVENues Newsletter, July-September 2020, page 23

(neologism) Belonging or related to the asexual spectrum.


aroness

people who believe gintoki's aroness can be 'fixed' really need to reevaluate themselves

2015 September 19, church (@gntmconfessions), Twitter:

While much more work is obviously needed on exploring Martin’s aceness and aroness, I want to suggest that Martin’s assertions suggest that while lesbian, Martin was also aromantic and asexual.

2021, Ela Przybyło, “Ace and aro lesbian art and theory with Agnes Martin and Yayoi Kusama”, in Journal of Lesbian Studies, volume 26, number 1:

Not every aro-spec person is going to experience aroness the exact same way as another.

2021 June 15, Glitter's Garden (@GlittersGarden), Twitter:

(slang, neologism) The state of not experiencing romantic attraction to others.


Patrochilles

Mainly because I want to cry and see Patrochilles in all their glory!

2018, Nkiya Machona, quoted in Curiositales, September 2018, page 82

Perhaps even more problematically for the Patrochilles naysayers, is that this ambiguity throughout Homer's original epic is really not that ambiguous.

2021, Amelia Koen, "An Olive Pit, A Lyre, A Fig", Honi Soit (University of Sydney), Week 8, Semester 2 (2021), page 19

The Twitter account Incorrect Patrochilles Quotes has over 20,000 followers and is entirely devoted to The Song of Achilles.

2021, Sarah Leidich, "From Muse To Material: The Defiance Of Homeric Identity Through Creative Adaptation", Meliora, Volume 1, Issue 1 (link)

(fandom slang) The ship of characters Patroclus and Achilles from the novel The Song of Achilles by Madeline Miller.


aro-allo

aro-allo (comparative more aro-allo, superlative most aro-allo)

more aro-allo (comparative)
most aro-allo (superlative)

It was always clear that my beliefs — that an aro-allo woman was independent while an aro-allo man was a fuckboy — were gendered stereotypes I should disavow.

2020, Angela Chen, Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex, page 130:

It seems like aro-allo people often have distinct experiences and face distinct challenges.

2020 August 12, Transcendragon (@a_the_orange), Twitter:

Aroallo people are not automatically hypersexual, nor are we predators.

2021 October 12, Ian Stobaugh, “Experiences of an aromantic, not asexual”, in The Daily Eastern News, Eastern Illinois University, page 3:

(informal, neologism) Aromantic and allosexual.


aro-allo

stop treating aroallos like they're just shitty people for being interested in sex and not romance 2k19

2019 September 15, press y to honk (@ghostburritos), Twitter:

Harmful stereotypes about aroallos is that “they want sex all the time” and they’re “hypersexual” when that’s just not true.

2021 October 14, Ace Girl (@acegirleatscake), Twitter:

please start including aroallos more. i see a lot of people assuming all aros are ace, which is frankly untrue and are harmful to both communities. it’s very hard to find aroallos in media too

2022 June 1, keris (@keropiji), Twitter:

(informal, neologism) An aromantic and allosexual person.


queerbaity

queerbaity (comparative queerbaitier, superlative queerbaitiest)

queerbaitier (comparative)
queerbaitiest (superlative)

From queerbait (“to create homoerotic tension in a narrative without intention of realizing it”) + -y.

suffix

sherlock holmes and john watson except theyre lesbians and its not queerbaity

2016 January 28, @hereticglory, Twitter:

wangxian‘s true love and cql’s lack of queerbaiting set the bar so high I’ll never be satisfied with settling for subpar queerbaity content from shows like sherlock, spn, teen wolf, (etc) anymore.

2019 December 24, @wangxianling, Twitter:

Oh wow I had totally forgotten how extreeeeeemely queerbaity Sherlock was from the very first episode.

2020 July 4, Yllogique (@Yllogique), Twitter:

(LGBTQ, fandom slang) Exhibiting or characterized by queerbaiting.


cleave gag

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(BDSM) A gag consisting of material that is pulled between a person's teeth instead of being tied over the mouth.


Tejanx

The gender-neutral suffix -x replaces the gendered Spanish suffixes -a and -o.

-a-o-x

He also understood reciprocal paternalistic obligation as more important than the impersonal alienations of contract or law—something an older generation of Texans, or Tejanxs, might have appreciated.

2021, Ethan Blue, The Deportation Express: A History of America Through Forced Removal, Oakland: University of California Press, →ISBN, page 244:

A Texan of Mexican descent (of any gender); a Tejano or Tejana.


transplain

en-verb

transplain (third-person singular simple present transplains, present participle transplaining, simple past and past participle transplained)

transplains (present singular third-person)
transplaining (participle present)
transplained (participle past)
transplained (past)

When you lead with story instead of education, then it becomes absorbed emotionally and intuitively so you don't really have to explain things. I don't think people respond as well to being transplained.

2015, Rhys Ernst, quoted in Mehera Bonner, "Rhys Ernst on the Pop Culture Trans Movement", Marie Claire, 21 August 2015

The “they” I’m referring to is not transgender people. (Though the bullies will pretend that it is.) I’m referring to the “trans activists” — some sinister, most joyless, and more than a few who don’t even identify as transgender themselves — who delight in “transplaining” to the rest of us the rules of this new, glittering utopia, where spaces must be shared, safeguards dismantled, disagreement decreed to be hate speech, and women must not be allowed to gather to discuss laws that will affect them.

2018 October 1, Lucy Bannerman, “Trans movement has been hijacked by bullies and trolls”, in The Times, UK:

"It's all about the lens to me," Escola continues. "A lot of culture and art is created with the straight audience in mind, gay-splaining and transsplaining to a straight audience. Like, 'We are human. Look, we cry just like regular people! And you're a good person because you cried when we cried.'"

2021, Cole Escola, quoted in Meredith Blake, "Contains Multitudes", Los Angeles Times, 21 January 2021

(colloquial, usually derogatory, chiefly Internet) To explain transgender issues to a cis person (as a trans person or ally), especially in a condescending, heavy-handed, or preachy manner.


nonbinær

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nonbinær (neuter nonbinært, plural and definite singular attributive nonbinære)

nonbinært (neuter)
nonbinære (attributive definite singular)
nonbinære (attributive plural)
nonbinær (positive)
nonbinært (positive)
nonbinære (plural positive)
nonbinære (positive)

/ˈnʌnˌbiˌnɛˀɐ̯/


Femme&M's

(transgender slang, humorous) Alternative spelling of Fem&M's.


breast mint

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this just reminded me that i forgot my breast mints today, thank you~

2016 February 24, @CryptChiroptera, Twitter, archived from the original on 2023-04-17:

thanks 🖤 yea I’ve been on breast mints up to now

2018 April 23, @janusrose, Twitter, archived from the original on 2023-04-19:

Hmmm, I know it's only day two of being on breast mints but I figured I'd feel something by now?

2022 March 21, @ByCharlotteFinn, Twitter, archived from the original on 2022-03-22:

(transgender slang, humorous, usually in the plural) Synonym of Tit Tac.


Tit Tac

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god i can never remember if i took my tit tacs already anymore

2018 December 5, @im_a_bitch_ty, Twitter, archived from the original on 2023-04-15:

Hey it's been 7 months on HRT so here's the thread i do every month about my progress with the tit tacs!

2020 February 15, @sup_im_sammy, Twitter, archived from the original on 2020-02-16:

today is 23 months on tit tacs 😋

2021 June 12, @emily_dawnxo, Twitter, archived from the original on 2021-06-12:

(transgender slang, humorous, usually in the plural) A pill taken as part of feminizing hormone replacement therapy, especially spironolactone (called by this name due to its peppermint smell) or estrogen such as estradiol.


plurrolulo

eo-head

plurrolulo (accusative singular plurrolulon, plural plurroluloj, accusative plural plurrolulojn)

plurrolulon (accusative singular)
plurroluloj (plural)
plurrolulojn (accusative plural)

From pluraj (“more than one”) + rolo (“role”) + -ul- (person) + -o.

af

One who is willing to take either a submissive or a dominant role in a sexual relationship


밤일

Of native Korean origin. From 밤 (bam, “night”) + 일 (il, “work”).

밤일하다

to work at night; to have sexual intercourse

(euphemistic) sexual intercourse, sex work, prostitution


undergiven

head

undergiven (comparative mer undergiven, superlative mest undergiven)

mer undergiven (comparative)
mest undergiven (superlative)
undergiven (indefinite positive)
mer undergiven (comparative indefinite)
mest undergiven (indefinite superlative)
undergivet (indefinite neuter positive singular)
mer undergivet (comparative indefinite neuter singular)
mest undergivet (indefinite neuter singular superlative)
undergivna (indefinite plural positive)
mer undergivna (comparative indefinite plural)
mest undergivna (indefinite plural superlative)
undergivne (archaic indefinite masculine plural positive)
mer undergivna (archaic comparative indefinite masculine plural)
mest undergivna (archaic indefinite masculine plural superlative)
undergivne (definite masculine positive singular)
mer undergivne (comparative definite masculine singular)
mest undergivne (definite masculine singular superlative)
undergivna (definite positive)
mer undergivna (comparative definite)
mest undergivna (definite superlative)


Qcumber

I no longer refer to them as 'Qanon people.'
To me, they will forever be known as Qcumbers.
#QcumberCult

2020 April 19, just_mice33, Twitter, archived from the original on 2022-09-16:

(slang, derogatory) A follower of the QAnon movement.


homogenitality

From homogenital + -ity, equivalent to homo- + genitality.

The Bible’s concern is about same-sex acts, what had been called homogenitality.

2005, The Bible on homosexuality: Exploring its meaning and authority:

The Chuch now accepts homosexuality as a fact but does not accept homogenitality as a choice.

2000, Cistercian Studies Quarterly, Some problematic aspects of human sexuality: Psychological considerations:

1998, Whole and Holy Sexuality: How to Find Human and Spiritual Integrity as a Sexual Person
It is my view that homosexuality (understood as homogenitality) is not healthy, but that homosexual persons can be healthy .

Sexual activity with a person of the same genitalia, sometimes (potentially offensive) restricted to same-sex sex between males.


아동 포르노

adong poreuno (romanization)
兒童 포르노 (hanja)

From 아동 (adong, “child”) + 포르노 (poreuno, “pornography”).


子どもポルノ

子どもポルノ (canonical)
kodomo poruno (romanization)

児童ポルノ 児童ポルノ#Japanese


андрогінія

uk-noun

андрогі́нія<sg>

андрогі́нія • (androhínija) f inan (genitive андрогі́нії, uncountable)

андрогі́нія (canonical)
androhínija (romanization)
андрогі́нії (genitive)
андрогі́нія (nominative singular)
андрогі́нії (genitive singular)
андрогі́нії (dative singular)
андрогі́нію (accusative singular)
андрогі́нією (instrumental singular)
андрогі́нії (locative singular)
андрогі́ніє (singular vocative)

uk-ndecl

андрогі́нія<sg>


бісексуалізм

uk-noun

бісексуалі́зм<sg>

бісексуалі́зм • (biseksualízm) m inan (genitive бісексуалі́зму, uncountable)

бісексуалі́зм (canonical)
biseksualízm (romanization)
бісексуалі́зму (genitive)
бісексуалі́зм (nominative singular)
бісексуалі́зму (genitive singular)
бісексуалі́змові (dative singular)
бісексуалі́зму (dative singular)
бісексуалі́зм (accusative singular)
бісексуалі́змом (instrumental singular)
бісексуалі́зму (locative singular)
бісексуалі́змі (locative singular)
бісексуалі́зме (singular vocative)

uk-ndecl

бісексуалі́зм<sg>

uk:бісексуалізм


Jefferson has been a leader in the LGBTQ2A community for over three years. […] Jefferson is the owner of the event coordination company, Jefferson Presents, and has coordinated […] Ride for Pride Home, a spin-a-thon supporting Saskatoon's LGBTQ2A youth and Welcome To The Club, a fundraiser for the GLCR.

2018 November 14, “Meet 2018's third batch of 10 Future 40 winners”, in CBC:

(LGBTQ, chiefly Canada) Initialism of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender/transsexual, queer/questioning, two-spirited, and allied/asexual/aromantic/agender.


pro-LGBT

en-adj

pro-LGBT (comparative more pro-LGBT, superlative most pro-LGBT)

more pro-LGBT (comparative)
most pro-LGBT (superlative)

So rather than an outright ban, he drew up a manifesto with their help, founded on the principle that any country could host the event if they signed a contract saying the Games had to have a pro-LGBT ethos.

2022 August 6, Simon Hattenstone, “Tom Daley on his LGBTQ+ awakening: ‘I had my head in my hands. I felt so dark about being British’”, in The Guardian:

Supporting LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender/transsexual) people and/or rights.


LGBTQIA+

They also teach workshops on creating safer spaces for LGBTQIA+ communities and on something called radical sex positivity.

2022 August 30, “The sex ed most queer students never got”, in Life Kit, spoken by Lili Quiroz, via NPR:

The quartet will be joined by a plethora of LGBTQIA+ icons and allies, from The X Factor champion Alexandra Burke to ‘Shoulda Woulda Coulda’ icon Beverley Knight and Big Brother co-host AJ Odudu.

2024 September 12, Sam Damshenas, “‘A new direction for the franchise’: Drag Race UK stars on “mind-blowing” season 6”, in Gay Times:

(LGBTQ) Initialism of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender/transsexual, queer/questioning, intersex, allied/asexual/aromantic/agender, etc.


асексуал

uk-noun

асексуа́л<pr>

асексуа́л • (aseksuál) m pers (genitive асексуа́ла, nominative plural асексуа́ли, genitive plural асексуа́лів)

асексуа́л (canonical)
aseksuál (romanization)
асексуа́ла (genitive)
асексуа́ли (nominative plural)
асексуа́лів (genitive plural)
асексуа́л (nominative singular)
асексуа́ли (nominative plural)
асексуа́ла (genitive singular)
асексуа́лів (genitive plural)
асексуа́лові (dative singular)
асексуа́лу (dative singular)
асексуа́лам (dative plural)
асексуа́ла (accusative singular)
асексуа́лів (accusative plural)
асексуа́лом (instrumental singular)
асексуа́лами (instrumental plural)
асексуа́лові (locative singular)
асексуа́лі (locative singular)
асексуа́лах (locative plural)
асексуа́ле (singular vocative)
асексуа́ли (plural vocative)

uk-ndecl

асексуа́л<pr>


공창가

[ko̞ŋt͡ɕʰa̠ŋɡa̠]

Sino-Korean word from 공창(公娼) (gongchang, “registered prostitute”) + 街 (“street”).

ko-etym-sino

공창가에서 마주친 아버지와 아들은 얼굴이 벌게져서는 서로 못 본 척하고 냅다 도망쳤다.

The father and son, who ran into each other at the red-light district, were both embarrassed, so, pretending not to see one another, they fled.

Gongchangga-eseo majuchin abeojiwa adeur-eun eolgur-i beolgejeoseo-neun seoro mot bon cheokhago naepda domangcheotda.


homokláda

homokláda (nominative singular)
homoklády (nominative plural)
homoklády (genitive singular)
homoklád (genitive plural)
homokládě (dative singular)
homokládám (dative plural)
homokládu (accusative singular)
homoklády (accusative plural)
homokládo (singular vocative)
homoklády (plural vocative)
homokládě (locative singular)
homokládách (locative plural)
homokládou (instrumental singular)
homokládami (instrumental plural)

(colloquial, offensive, vulgar) queer, fag, faggot


공창

Sino-Korean word from 工匠, from 工 (“work”) + 匠 (“craftsman”). Cognate with Japanese 工匠(こうしょう) (kōshō, “craftsman”).

[ko̞ŋt͡ɕʰa̠ŋ]


ashtime

There were, as I have pointed out, three genders in traditional Maale: atinke, lali, and ashtime. Male, female, and transvestite.

1999, Donald L. Donham, History, Power, Ideology, page 106:

Among the Maale people of Ethiopia, a male transvestite serving in the king's court, regarded as a third gender.


GAH

(medicine, LGBTQ) Initialism of gender-affirming hormone.


Q+

I heard a woman ask a guy in a "Q+" hat — one of Q's signatures, he told me — what Q was about.

2018 August 3, Philip Bump, “There’s a virus in Trumpland”, in Washington Post:

The group regularly disseminates Q's messages on UCP's official YouTube livestream. Members toss off remarks like "thank God for Q and Q+, that’s Trump," actively look for Q messages and claim that real news is based those messages.

2019 April 23, Brendan Joel Kelley, “QAnon Conspiracy Increasingly Popular with Antigovernment Extremists”, in Southern Poverty Law Center:

Some QAnon devotees even believe that Mr. Trump posts himself, under the code name "Q+".

2020 February 9, Mike McIntire, Kevin Roose, “What Happens When QAnon Seeps From the Web to the Offline World”, in New York Times:

Ms. Perkins said she saw Mr. Trump as being involved in the Q effort, saying that she believed he was posting online under the pseudonym Q+.

2020 May 20, Mike Baker, “G.O.P. Voters Back QAnon Conspiracy Promoter for U.S. Senate”, in New York Times:

DAVIES: Let's just talk about some QAnon terms. When you see Q+, what does that mean?
 LAFRANCE: Well, Q+ refers to President Trump himself.

2020 August 20, Dave Davies, Adrienne LaFrance, Fresh Air, NPR:

(QAnon) A hypothetical individual believed to be in charge of QAnon, most commonly thought to be Donald Trump himself.


bisexual lighting

en-noun

bisexual lighting (countable and uncountable, plural bisexual lightings)

/baɪˌsɛkʃʊəl ˈlaɪtɪŋ/

From bisexual (adjective) + lighting (noun), referring to the pink, purple, and blue colours of the bisexual flag (also known as the bisexual pride flag).

(LGBTQ, often art, film, television) The simultaneous use of pink, purple, and blue lighting, often to indicate bisexuality.


Mehrfachliebe

de-noun

Mehrfachliebe f (genitive Mehrfachliebe, no plural)

Mehrfachliebe (genitive)
Mehrfachliebe (nominative singular)
Mehrfachliebe (genitive singular)
Mehrfachliebe (dative singular)
Mehrfachliebe (accusative singular)


Transgeschlechtlichkeit

Transgeschlechtlichkeit f (genitive Transgeschlechtlichkeit, no plural)

Transgeschlechtlichkeit (genitive)
Transgeschlechtlichkeit (nominative singular)
Transgeschlechtlichkeit (genitive singular)
Transgeschlechtlichkeit (dative singular)
Transgeschlechtlichkeit (accusative singular)


en-proverb

gender is between your ears, not between your legs

Coined by American writer, musician and actor Chaz Bono, who is also a trans man.

coinage

Gender only exists as a social construct, and is not confined to one's birth sex.


Beziehungsanarchie

de-noun

Beziehungsanarchie f (genitive Beziehungsanarchie, plural Beziehungsanarchien)

Beziehungsanarchie (genitive)
Beziehungsanarchien (plural)
Beziehungsanarchie (nominative singular)
Beziehungsanarchien (definite nominative plural)
Beziehungsanarchie (genitive singular)
Beziehungsanarchien (definite genitive plural)
Beziehungsanarchie (dative singular)
Beziehungsanarchien (dative definite plural)
Beziehungsanarchie (accusative singular)
Beziehungsanarchien (accusative definite plural)

From Beziehung + -s- + Anarchie, a calque of English relationship anarchy.

relationship anarchy
relationship anarchy


super straight

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Coined by Canadian TikToker Kyle Royce in a video posted on February 21, 2021, in which he explained that he had begun identifying as "super straight" in order to avoid accusations of transphobia for not wanting to date transgender people. It was later popularized by the 4chan board /pol/.

These TikTok users have also come up with a flag to symbolize 'super straight' people. The flag is made up of black and orange colors. Several users have made the flag their profile picture or have been using it on their bio.

2021 March 7, Prerna Nambiar, “What is super straight movement on TikTok? Super straight flag gets slammed”, in HITC, archived from the original on 2021-03-07:

Super straight, yeah, you can check the flag / I was bisexual for a minute, but switched back

2021 March 7, “Super Straight”performed by LilCockPump:

"I've made a new sexuality," Kyleroyce said in his video. "Straight men get called transphobic because I wouldn't date a trans woman. Now, I'm super straight. I only date the opposite gender, women, that are born women. So you can't say I'm transphobic now because that is just my sexuality."

2021 March 8, Steven Asarch, “A social-media trend has people identifying as 'super straight.' The transphobic campaign was meant to divide LGBTQ people.”, in Insider:

We also encountered numerous posts referring to the trend as "SS pride" and one talking about tattooing the SS rune as part of their "Super Straight pride."

2021 March 11, Nur Ibrahim, “Did the 'Super Straight' Trend Originate With Nazis on 4chan?”, in Snopes, archived from the original on 2022-01-27:

According to super straight "advocates", this sexual orientation describes cisgender people who are only attracted to cisgender individuals of the opposite gender. Super straight people claim that the identity is just like any other identity that falls under the LGBTQ spectrum, and that identifying as one is a way to "come out" and express that they are proud to be straight and cis.

2022 June 14, “Is there a straight Pride flag? Exploring the controversy of the heterosexual flag”, in LGBTQ Nation, archived from the original on 2022-08-17:

(alt-right, Internet slang) Being sexually attracted only to cisgender people of the opposite sex.


super straight

Nobody is required to date or have sex with trans people, but it's eerily violent to organize an identity and a movement around excluding them. For Super Straights to do just that, while claiming that they're persecuted is the ultimate irony.

2021 March 15, Michelle Santiago Cortés, “The Super Straights Are Definitely Not Okay”, in Refinery29, archived from the original on 2022-12-17:

To make the point they're trying to desperately prove legit, the Super Straights have come with a flag and merchandise though it's not quite sure who's buying it yet or who came up with the inspired colour scheme.

2021 March 24, Jaishree Kumar, “Inside the 'Super Straight' Movement That Got Banned on TikTok and Reddit”, in VICE, archived from the original on 2022-05-27:

"Have you seen these colors on a TikTok video? Scroll [away] instantly," a critic warned in one of many response clips. "These men are known as Super Straights. We have to keep them off the For You page."

2021 April 7, Conor Friedersdorf, “The Sexual Identity That Emerged on TikTok”, in The Atlantic, archived from the original on 2021-04-07:

Gold star gays/lesbians are just as transphobic as super straights. To be cisgender and require another to be cisgender before allowing oneself to be attracted to someone is transphobic. To have a preference, though, is valid.

2021 November 7, Rose Montoya, “Trans 101 by Rose Montoya: Gold Star Gays/Lesbians Transphobic?”, in Los Angeles Blade, archived from the original on 2022-07-04:

And hearing marginalized people speak up can feel like injustice for those accustomed to their stories being the only ones told. That's why white racists scream "reverse racism," and transphobes cry for the rights of the "super-straights."

2022 May 2, Ian D. Svetkey, “A White Man's Voice: The Role of the Privileged Actor”, in The Harvard Crimson, archived from the original on 2022-05-03:

(alt-right, Internet slang) A person who identifies as super straight.


Intergeschlechtlichkeit

Intergeschlechtlichkeit f (genitive Intergeschlechtlichkeit, no plural)

Intergeschlechtlichkeit (genitive)
Intergeschlechtlichkeit (nominative singular)
Intergeschlechtlichkeit (genitive singular)
Intergeschlechtlichkeit (dative singular)
Intergeschlechtlichkeit (accusative singular)


Intersexualität

Intersexualität f (genitive Intersexualität, no plural)

Intersexualität (genitive)
Intersexualität (nominative singular)
Intersexualität (genitive singular)
Intersexualität (dative singular)
Intersexualität (accusative singular)


Zwischengeschlechtlichkeit

Zwischengeschlechtlichkeit f (genitive Zwischengeschlechtlichkeit, no plural)

Zwischengeschlechtlichkeit (genitive)
Zwischengeschlechtlichkeit (nominative singular)
Zwischengeschlechtlichkeit (genitive singular)
Zwischengeschlechtlichkeit (dative singular)
Zwischengeschlechtlichkeit (accusative singular)


diversgeschlechtlich

de-adj

diversgeschlechtlich (strong nominative masculine singular diversgeschlechtlicher, not comparable)

diversgeschlechtlicher (masculine nominative singular strong)
diversgeschlechtlich (masculine predicative singular)
diversgeschlechtlich (feminine predicative singular)
diversgeschlechtlich (neuter predicative singular)
diversgeschlechtlich (plural predicative)
diversgeschlechtlicher (masculine nominative singular strong without-article)
diversgeschlechtliche (feminine nominative singular strong without-article)
diversgeschlechtliches (neuter nominative singular strong without-article)
diversgeschlechtliche (nominative plural strong without-article)
diversgeschlechtlichen (genitive masculine singular strong without-article)
diversgeschlechtlicher (feminine genitive singular strong without-article)
diversgeschlechtlichen (genitive neuter singular strong without-article)
diversgeschlechtlicher (genitive plural strong without-article)
diversgeschlechtlichem (dative masculine singular strong without-article)
diversgeschlechtlicher (dative feminine singular strong without-article)
diversgeschlechtlichem (dative neuter singular strong without-article)
diversgeschlechtlichen (dative plural strong without-article)
diversgeschlechtlichen (accusative masculine singular strong without-article)
diversgeschlechtliche (accusative feminine singular strong without-article)
diversgeschlechtliches (accusative neuter singular strong without-article)
diversgeschlechtliche (accusative plural strong without-article)
der diversgeschlechtliche (definite includes-article masculine nominative singular weak)
die diversgeschlechtliche (definite feminine includes-article nominative singular weak)
das diversgeschlechtliche (definite includes-article neuter nominative singular weak)
die diversgeschlechtlichen (definite includes-article nominative plural weak)
des diversgeschlechtlichen (definite genitive includes-article masculine singular weak)
der diversgeschlechtlichen (definite feminine genitive includes-article singular weak)
des diversgeschlechtlichen (definite genitive includes-article neuter singular weak)
der diversgeschlechtlichen (definite genitive includes-article plural weak)
dem diversgeschlechtlichen (dative definite includes-article masculine singular weak)
der diversgeschlechtlichen (dative definite feminine includes-article singular weak)
dem diversgeschlechtlichen (dative definite includes-article neuter singular weak)
den diversgeschlechtlichen (dative definite includes-article plural weak)
den diversgeschlechtlichen (accusative definite includes-article masculine singular weak)
die diversgeschlechtliche (accusative definite feminine includes-article singular weak)
das diversgeschlechtliche (accusative definite includes-article neuter singular weak)
die diversgeschlechtlichen (accusative definite includes-article plural weak)
ein diversgeschlechtlicher (includes-article indefinite masculine mixed nominative singular)
eine diversgeschlechtliche (feminine includes-article indefinite mixed nominative singular)
ein diversgeschlechtliches (includes-article indefinite mixed neuter nominative singular)
diversgeschlechtlichen (indefinite mixed nominative plural)
keine diversgeschlechtlichen (includes-article indefinite mixed negative nominative plural)
eines diversgeschlechtlichen (genitive includes-article indefinite masculine mixed singular)
einer diversgeschlechtlichen (feminine genitive includes-article indefinite mixed singular)
eines diversgeschlechtlichen (genitive includes-article indefinite mixed neuter singular)
diversgeschlechtlichen (genitive indefinite mixed plural)
keiner diversgeschlechtlichen (genitive includes-article indefinite mixed negative plural)
einem diversgeschlechtlichen (dative includes-article indefinite masculine mixed singular)
einer diversgeschlechtlichen (dative feminine includes-article indefinite mixed singular)
einem diversgeschlechtlichen (dative includes-article indefinite mixed neuter singular)
diversgeschlechtlichen (dative indefinite mixed plural)
keinen diversgeschlechtlichen (dative includes-article indefinite mixed negative plural)
einen diversgeschlechtlichen (accusative includes-article indefinite masculine mixed singular)
eine diversgeschlechtliche (accusative feminine includes-article indefinite mixed singular)
ein diversgeschlechtliches (accusative includes-article indefinite mixed neuter singular)
diversgeschlechtlichen (accusative indefinite mixed plural)
keine diversgeschlechtlichen (accusative includes-article indefinite mixed negative plural)