painplay

LL-Q1860 (eng)-Flame, not lame-painplay.wav

I do not have much experience with painplay, and am not sure how much I'll be able to take, but I'm prepared to find out.

1996 December 17, k'Shandra, “Reflections on Safewording (long)”, in alt.sex.bondage (Usenet):

I was originally into plain old bondage, but have found that both submission and painplay are things that I can eroticize.

2000 December 24, Sockermom9 [username], “Re: Psycology of BDSM”, in soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm (Usenet):

But I'm curious -- what got you started doing BDSM? What fantasies were intense enough to drive you to try painplay in the first place?

2002 June 24, Janet Hardy, “Re: sub vs bottom”, in soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm (Usenet):

(BDSM) Any sexual practice involving the intentional infliction of pain.


dom publiczny

dom publiczny (nominative singular)
domy publiczne (nominative plural)
domu publicznego (genitive singular)
domów publicznych (genitive plural)
domowi publicznemu (dative singular)
domom publicznym (dative plural)
dom publiczny (accusative singular)
domy publiczne (accusative plural)
domem publicznym (instrumental singular)
domami publicznymi (instrumental plural)
domu publicznym (locative singular)
domach publicznych (locative plural)
domu publiczny (singular vocative)
domy publiczne (plural vocative)


šlapka

šlapka (nominative singular)
šlapky (nominative plural)
šlapky (genitive singular)
šlapek (genitive plural)
šlapce (dative singular)
šlapkám (dative plural)
šlapku (accusative singular)
šlapky (accusative plural)
šlapko (singular vocative)
šlapky (plural vocative)
šlapce (locative singular)
šlapkách (locative plural)
šlapkou (instrumental singular)
šlapkami (instrumental plural)


heteroamorous

en-adj

heteroamorous (comparative more heteroamorous, superlative most heteroamorous)

more heteroamorous (comparative)
most heteroamorous (superlative)

(rare) Characterized by love with another of the opposite sex; heteroromantic.


homoamorous

homoamorous (comparative more homoamorous, superlative most homoamorous)

more homoamorous (comparative)
most homoamorous (superlative)

He is bisexual but homoamorous, so while he slept with her, he won't be in a relationship with her.

(rare) Characterized by love with another person of the same sex; homoromantic.


polyphobia

en-noun

polyphobia (usually uncountable, plural polyphobias)

Just how bad a problem is polyphobia? I'm not willing to live anyplace where I have to be closeted […]

1997 September 13, John R. Snead, “Worrying about polyphobia”, in alt.polyamory (Usenet):

Ren noted the following internalization of polyphobia: My date had dated other people, but it's a lot different if it's a family unit living together […]

2015, Jillian Deri, Love's Refraction: Jealousy and Compersion in Queer Women's Polyamorous Relationships, University of Toronto Press, →ISBN, page 112:

Monopride usually comes together with polyphobia, which has been defined as (conscious or unconscious) fear of or disgust toward nonmonogamy […]

2021, Jorge N. Ferrer, Love and Freedom: Transcending Monogamy and Polyamory, Rowman & Littlefield, →ISBN, page 41:

(uncountable) Fear, hatred, or dislike of, or prejudice against, polyamory or polyamorous people.


muunsukupuolinen

muunsukupuolinen (nominative singular)
muunsukupuoliset (nominative plural)
muunsukupuolinen (accusative nominative singular)
muunsukupuoliset (accusative nominative plural)
muunsukupuolisen (accusative genitive singular)
muunsukupuoliset (accusative genitive plural)
muunsukupuolisen (genitive singular)
muunsukupuolisten (genitive plural)
muunsukupuolisien (genitive plural)
muunsukupuolista (partitive singular)
muunsukupuolisia (partitive plural)
muunsukupuolisessa (inessive singular)
muunsukupuolisissa (inessive plural)
muunsukupuolisesta (elative singular)
muunsukupuolisista (elative plural)
muunsukupuoliseen (illative singular)
muunsukupuolisiin (illative plural)
muunsukupuolisella (adessive singular)
muunsukupuolisilla (adessive plural)
muunsukupuoliselta (ablative singular)
muunsukupuolisilta (ablative plural)
muunsukupuoliselle (allative singular)
muunsukupuolisille (allative plural)
muunsukupuolisena (essive singular)
muunsukupuolisina (essive plural)
muunsukupuoliseksi (singular translative)
muunsukupuolisiksi (plural translative)
muunsukupuolisetta (abessive singular)
muunsukupuolisitta (abessive plural)
muunsukupuolisin (instructive plural)
muunsukupuolisine (comitative plural)
muunsukupuoliseni (nominative singular)
muunsukupuoliseni (nominative plural)
muunsukupuoliseni (accusative nominative singular)
muunsukupuoliseni (accusative nominative plural)
muunsukupuoliseni (accusative genitive singular)
muunsukupuoliseni (accusative genitive plural)
muunsukupuoliseni (genitive singular)
muunsukupuolisteni (genitive plural)
muunsukupuolisieni (genitive plural)
muunsukupuolistani (partitive singular)
muunsukupuolisiani (partitive plural)
muunsukupuolisessani (inessive singular)
muunsukupuolisissani (inessive plural)
muunsukupuolisestani (elative singular)
muunsukupuolisistani (elative plural)
muunsukupuoliseeni (illative singular)
muunsukupuolisiini (illative plural)
muunsukupuolisellani (adessive singular)
muunsukupuolisillani (adessive plural)
muunsukupuoliseltani (ablative singular)
muunsukupuolisiltani (ablative plural)
muunsukupuoliselleni (allative singular)
muunsukupuolisilleni (allative plural)
muunsukupuolisenani (essive singular)
muunsukupuolisinani (essive plural)
muunsukupuolisekseni (singular translative)
muunsukupuolisikseni (plural translative)
muunsukupuolisettani (abessive singular)
muunsukupuolisittani (abessive plural)
muunsukupuolisineni (comitative plural)
muunsukupuolisesi (nominative singular)
muunsukupuolisesi (nominative plural)
muunsukupuolisesi (accusative nominative singular)
muunsukupuolisesi (accusative nominative plural)
muunsukupuolisesi (accusative genitive singular)
muunsukupuolisesi (accusative genitive plural)
muunsukupuolisesi (genitive singular)
muunsukupuolistesi (genitive plural)
muunsukupuolisiesi (genitive plural)
muunsukupuolistasi (partitive singular)
muunsukupuolisiasi (partitive plural)
muunsukupuolisessasi (inessive singular)
muunsukupuolisissasi (inessive plural)
muunsukupuolisestasi (elative singular)
muunsukupuolisistasi (elative plural)
muunsukupuoliseesi (illative singular)
muunsukupuolisiisi (illative plural)
muunsukupuolisellasi (adessive singular)
muunsukupuolisillasi (adessive plural)
muunsukupuoliseltasi (ablative singular)
muunsukupuolisiltasi (ablative plural)
muunsukupuolisellesi (allative singular)
muunsukupuolisillesi (allative plural)
muunsukupuolisenasi (essive singular)
muunsukupuolisinasi (essive plural)
muunsukupuoliseksesi (singular translative)
muunsukupuolisiksesi (plural translative)
muunsukupuolisettasi (abessive singular)
muunsukupuolisittasi (abessive plural)
muunsukupuolisinesi (comitative plural)
muunsukupuolisemme (nominative singular)
muunsukupuolisemme (nominative plural)
muunsukupuolisemme (accusative nominative singular)
muunsukupuolisemme (accusative nominative plural)
muunsukupuolisemme (accusative genitive singular)
muunsukupuolisemme (accusative genitive plural)
muunsukupuolisemme (genitive singular)
muunsukupuolistemme (genitive plural)
muunsukupuolisiemme (genitive plural)
muunsukupuolistamme (partitive singular)
muunsukupuolisiamme (partitive plural)
muunsukupuolisessamme (inessive singular)
muunsukupuolisissamme (inessive plural)
muunsukupuolisestamme (elative singular)
muunsukupuolisistamme (elative plural)
muunsukupuoliseemme (illative singular)
muunsukupuolisiimme (illative plural)
muunsukupuolisellamme (adessive singular)
muunsukupuolisillamme (adessive plural)
muunsukupuoliseltamme (ablative singular)
muunsukupuolisiltamme (ablative plural)
muunsukupuolisellemme (allative singular)
muunsukupuolisillemme (allative plural)
muunsukupuolisenamme (essive singular)
muunsukupuolisinamme (essive plural)
muunsukupuoliseksemme (singular translative)
muunsukupuolisiksemme (plural translative)
muunsukupuolisettamme (abessive singular)
muunsukupuolisittamme (abessive plural)
muunsukupuolisinemme (comitative plural)
muunsukupuolisenne (nominative singular)
muunsukupuolisenne (nominative plural)
muunsukupuolisenne (accusative nominative singular)
muunsukupuolisenne (accusative nominative plural)
muunsukupuolisenne (accusative genitive singular)
muunsukupuolisenne (accusative genitive plural)
muunsukupuolisenne (genitive singular)
muunsukupuolistenne (genitive plural)
muunsukupuolisienne (genitive plural)
muunsukupuolistanne (partitive singular)
muunsukupuolisianne (partitive plural)
muunsukupuolisessanne (inessive singular)
muunsukupuolisissanne (inessive plural)
muunsukupuolisestanne (elative singular)
muunsukupuolisistanne (elative plural)
muunsukupuoliseenne (illative singular)
muunsukupuolisiinne (illative plural)
muunsukupuolisellanne (adessive singular)
muunsukupuolisillanne (adessive plural)
muunsukupuoliseltanne (ablative singular)
muunsukupuolisiltanne (ablative plural)
muunsukupuolisellenne (allative singular)
muunsukupuolisillenne (allative plural)
muunsukupuolisenanne (essive singular)
muunsukupuolisinanne (essive plural)
muunsukupuoliseksenne (singular translative)
muunsukupuolisiksenne (plural translative)
muunsukupuolisettanne (abessive singular)
muunsukupuolisittanne (abessive plural)
muunsukupuolisinenne (comitative plural)
muunsukupuolisensa (nominative singular)
muunsukupuolisensa (nominative plural)
muunsukupuolisensa (accusative nominative singular)
muunsukupuolisensa (accusative nominative plural)
muunsukupuolisensa (accusative genitive singular)
muunsukupuolisensa (accusative genitive plural)
muunsukupuolisensa (genitive singular)
muunsukupuolistensa (genitive plural)
muunsukupuolisiensa (genitive plural)
muunsukupuolistaan (partitive singular)
muunsukupuolistansa (partitive singular)
muunsukupuolisiaan (partitive plural)
muunsukupuolisiansa (partitive plural)
muunsukupuolisessaan (inessive singular)
muunsukupuolisessansa (inessive singular)
muunsukupuolisissaan (inessive plural)
muunsukupuolisissansa (inessive plural)
muunsukupuolisestaan (elative singular)
muunsukupuolisestansa (elative singular)
muunsukupuolisistaan (elative plural)
muunsukupuolisistansa (elative plural)
muunsukupuoliseensa (illative singular)
muunsukupuolisiinsa (illative plural)
muunsukupuolisellaan (adessive singular)
muunsukupuolisellansa (adessive singular)
muunsukupuolisillaan (adessive plural)
muunsukupuolisillansa (adessive plural)
muunsukupuoliseltaan (ablative singular)
muunsukupuoliseltansa (ablative singular)
muunsukupuolisiltaan (ablative plural)
muunsukupuolisiltansa (ablative plural)
muunsukupuoliselleen (allative singular)
muunsukupuolisellensa (allative singular)
muunsukupuolisilleen (allative plural)
muunsukupuolisillensa (allative plural)
muunsukupuolisenaan (essive singular)
muunsukupuolisenansa (essive singular)
muunsukupuolisinaan (essive plural)
muunsukupuolisinansa (essive plural)
muunsukupuolisekseen (singular translative)
muunsukupuoliseksensa (singular translative)
muunsukupuolisikseen (plural translative)
muunsukupuolisiksensa (plural translative)
muunsukupuolisettaan (abessive singular)
muunsukupuolisettansa (abessive singular)
muunsukupuolisittaan (abessive plural)
muunsukupuolisittansa (abessive plural)
muunsukupuolisineen (comitative plural)
muunsukupuolisinensa (comitative plural)

muun (“of other”) + sukupuoli (“gender”) + -inen

affix

non-binary (not identifying with culturally conventional gender roles and categories of male or female)

transgender

transgender; not exactly the same as English


BDE

en-noun

BDE (countable and uncountable, plural BDEs)

bond dissociation energy
bond dissociation energy#English

(physical chemistry) Initialism of bond dissociation energy.


LGBTA

An initialism, one of several expansions of the earlier initialism LGBT.

Initialism of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender/transsexual, and asexual/aromantic/agender/allied.


homoromanticism

For example, analysis of Thoreau's poem “Sympathy” (“Lately, alas, I knew a gentle boy") is enriched by considering its homoromanticism.

1993, Arthur Lipkin, "The Case for a Gay and Lesbian Curriculum", The High School Journal, Volume 77, Number 1/2, October/November 1993 - December 1993/January 1994, page 103

In Smallville’s teen fantasy, the themes of alienation and the search for identity easily transmute into homoromanticism and sympathetic queerness.

2005, Louisa Ellen Stein, "'They Cavort, You Decide': Transgenericism, Queerness, and Fan Interpretation in Teen TV", Spectator, Volume 25, Issue 1, Spring 2005, page 21

2006, "The homoromanticism of Sufjan Stevens' little ditties", The Georgia Straight, 2 December 2006 (used in title only)

The state of being being romantically attracted to the same gender.


biromanticism

(neologism) The state of being biromantic.


demiromantic

en-adj

demiromantic (comparative more demiromantic, superlative most demiromantic)

more demiromantic (comparative)
most demiromantic (superlative)

From demi- + romantic. Compare demisexuality.

For quotations using this term, see Citations:demiromantic.

Romantically attracted to people only after forming deep emotional bonds.


romantic orientation

en-noun

romantic orientation (countable and uncountable, plural romantic orientations)

There are more romantic orientations than simple homoromanticism and heteroromanticism.

The tendencies of a person's romantic attraction, considered as a whole, often as opposed to sexual attractions.


heteroromanticism

Heteronormativity describes the tendencies to assume a gender binary, the alignment of gender with sex, and the expectation of heterosexuality and heteroromanticism.

2015 October, Nathan Chan, “Coming out at University”, in Salterrae, page 4:

Could we gradually replace all of love's traditional characterizing features—monogamy, permanence, heteroromanticism, romantic gender roles, and so on—over time? Would there still be romantic love at the end of that process?

2017, Carrie Jenkins, What Love Is: And What It Could Be:

Heteroromantics feel this way [attracted] to someone of the opposite [gender]. [...] Eve Peyser, who identifies as a heteroromantic bisexual woman — she dates only men but is sexually attracted to men and women — wrote a piece on heteroromanticism for Mic in 2015.

2017 May, Christiana Lilly, “A Rainbow of Sexuality: Beyond the LGBT”, in The Mirror, page 24:

The state of being heteroromantic, i.e. romantically attracted to the opposite gender.


polyromantic

en-adj

polyromantic (comparative more polyromantic, superlative most polyromantic)

more polyromantic (comparative)
most polyromantic (superlative)

From poly- + romantic. Compare polysexuality.

Being polyamorous isn't inherently wrong. Neither is desiring threesomes or kinky sex. […] The other misconceptions, the ones that sexualize us, need to stop too, but in stopping those, we mustn't shame the bisexual folks who do prefer a polyromantic or sexually-explorative lifestyle.

2016 April 3, Zachary Zane, “Where Do "Messy Bisexuals" Fit Into the Bi+ Community?”, in HuffPost, archived from the original on 2022-06-07:

The American series You Me Her is being promoted as ‘TV’s first polyromantic comedy”, starring Amy Poehler’s brother Greg.

2017, Rosie Wilby, Is Monogamy Dead?: Rethinking Relationships in the 21st Century, Accent Press Ltd, →ISBN:

This is because the internalization of the model of monogamy forecloses a lot of self-discovery and self-knowledge. […] Quinn said, for example, “If you want to get really, really specific, I am a demi-polyromantic, polysexual, gender-queer individual.” Quinn defines themselves as “polyamorous and polysexual and polyromantic”: “but I usually just describe myself as queer because that’s so much easier, in addition to being a demi-romantic, which is on the aromantic spectrum.”

2018, Ann Travers, The Trans Generation: How Trans Kids (and Their Parents) Are Creating a Gender Revolution, New York, N.Y.: New York University Press, →ISBN, page 24:

(neologism) Romantically polyamorous; that is, having multiple romantic relationships.


panromanticism

(neologism) The state of being panromantic, i.e. romantically attracted to people regardless of genders.


無性戀

ㄨˊ ㄒㄧㄥˋ ㄌㄧㄢˋ

/u³⁵ ɕiŋ⁵¹⁻⁵³ li̯ɛn⁵¹/

/mou̯²¹ sɪŋ³³ lyːn³⁵/

/u³⁵ ɕiŋ⁵¹⁻⁵³ li̯ɛn⁵¹/

/mou̯²¹ sɪŋ³³ lyːn³⁵/


性傾向

ㄒㄧㄥˋ ㄑㄧㄥ ㄒㄧㄤˋ

/ɕiŋ⁵¹ t͡ɕʰiŋ⁵⁵ ɕi̯ɑŋ⁵¹/

/sɪŋ³³ kʰɪŋ⁵⁵ hœːŋ³³/

/ɕiŋ⁵¹ t͡ɕʰiŋ⁵⁵ ɕi̯ɑŋ⁵¹/

/sɪŋ³³ kʰɪŋ⁵⁵ hœːŋ³³/


雙性戀

ㄕㄨㄤ ㄒㄧㄥˋ ㄌㄧㄢˋ

/ʂu̯ɑŋ⁵⁵ ɕiŋ⁵¹⁻⁵³ li̯ɛn⁵¹/

/sœːŋ⁵⁵ sɪŋ³³ lyːn³⁵/

/siaŋ⁴⁴⁻³³ siɪŋ²¹⁻⁴¹ luan²³/

/siaŋ⁴⁴⁻³³ siɪŋ¹¹⁻⁵³ luan²⁴/

/ʂu̯ɑŋ⁵⁵ ɕiŋ⁵¹⁻⁵³ li̯ɛn⁵¹/

/sœːŋ⁵⁵ sɪŋ³³ lyːn³⁵/

/siaŋ⁴⁴⁻³³ siɪŋ²¹⁻⁴¹ luan²³/

/siaŋ⁴⁴⁻³³ siɪŋ¹¹⁻⁵³ luan²⁴/


泛性戀

ㄈㄢˋ ㄒㄧㄥˋ ㄌㄧㄢˋ

/fän⁵¹⁻⁵³ ɕiŋ⁵¹⁻⁵³ li̯ɛn⁵¹/

/fän⁵¹⁻⁵³ ɕiŋ⁵¹⁻⁵³ li̯ɛn⁵¹/


cupiosexual

From Latin cupiō (“to desire, long for”) + -sexual.


transromantic

en-adj

transromantic (comparative more transromantic, superlative most transromantic)

more transromantic (comparative)
most transromantic (superlative)

My argument is post- or transromantic, but that very move through romanticism leaves romantic traces everywhere. The most vital impulse in current translation theory that is excluded by these dualisms is a social one — a concern with ...

1991, Douglas Robinson, The Translator's Turn, JHU Press, →ISBN, page 267:

Modernism is literally transromantic: early Modernism emerges from Baudelaire's transformation of French Romanticism, and this transformation continues to influence writers, artists and critics.

2006, Rosemary Lloyd, The Cambridge Companion to Baudelaire, Cambridge University Press, →ISBN:

On the tormented Desire, as if naming the plight of self-blinded love in the album title itself, "Oh Sister" overcomes the broken covenant as the voice calls out for a confederation of male and female in transromantic quest: "We grew up together ..."

2009, Rob Wilson, Be Always Converting, be Always Converted: An American Poetics, Harvard University Press, →ISBN, page 180:

Moving through or across romanticism (as a movement, etc) or that which is romantic (Romantic).

Often, however, asexual people will also identify with a particular sexual orientation, minus the sexual aspect, and may define themselves as heteroromantic, homoromantic, biromantic, transromantic or panromantic.

2009, Jennifer Byrne, "He's Just Not That Into Anyone, Pop Matters, 31 August 2009

(neologism) Romantically attracted to persons of variant or ambiguous gender, or to transgender persons.


蘿莉控

ㄌㄨㄛˊ ㄌㄧˋ ㄎㄨㄥˋ

/lu̯ɔ³⁵ li⁵¹⁻⁵³ kʰʊŋ⁵¹/

/lɔː²¹ lei̯²² hʊŋ³³/

/lu̯ɔ³⁵ li⁵¹⁻⁵³ kʰʊŋ⁵¹/

/lɔː²¹ lei̯²² hʊŋ³³/

Borrowed from Japanese ロリコン (rorikon), from English Lolita complex.

lolicon/rorikon (an individual fixated on young, generally prepubescent, girls)


transfeminine

[…] the same masculinity at the heart of the military’s pervasive homophobia, tolerance of sexual assault, and transmisogynistic practice of court-martialing transfeminine soldiers for “cross-dressing.”

2011, "An open letter to the organizers of TEDxMiddlebury", The Middlebury Campus (Middlebury College, Middlebury, Vermont), Volume 110, Issue 8, 10 November 2011, page 11

Born as a physical male, she now identifies as transfeminine, or pangender.

2012, Alessandra Robertson, "Trans Stories", Sex and the Steel City (The Silhouette special edition), page 14

[...individuals for whom] “man” or “woman” may not accurately reflect identity but are nonetheless on the transmasculine or transfeminine spectrum. We also acknowledge the limitations of language in reflecting agender clients who do not identify as masculine or feminine ...

2017, Michael R. Kauth, Jillian C. Shipherd, Adult Transgender Care: An Interdisciplinary Approach for Training Mental Health Professionals, Routledge, →ISBN:

Hormonal and surgical options, [...] for transgender women and transfeminine spectrum persons, 99-111

2017, Lynne Carroll, Lauren Mizock, Clinical Issues and Affirmative Treatment with Transgender Clients, An Issue of Psychiatric Clinics of North America, Elsevier Health Sciences, →ISBN, index:

Pertaining to people who were assigned male but whose gender identities are feminine.


lezploitation

Is Lady Gaga scoring a victory for gay visibility by featuring butch lesbians in a pop video? Or is this "lezploitation", playing up to heterosexual fantasies about gay women?

2010 March 21, Andrew Eaton, “Andrew Eaton: What's all the fuss about acting gay?”, in The Scotsman:

Her big hit, I Kissed a Girl, was a piece of marketing genius: every bloke's fantasy, delivered by a blatantly heterosexual female. It attracted charges of "lezploitation" from the gay community […]

2010 August 28, Kate Mossman, “Katy Perry: Teenage Dream”, in The Times:

These ladies do indeed have sex, with each other, but don't mistake writer/director Peter Strickland's surreal, mischievous love story for mere lezploitation.

2015 March 4, Eric D. Snider, “Sex and Butterflies”, in The Portland Mercury:

The exploitation of women in same-sex relationships and female-female sexual expression in the media, especially for the purpose of titillating heterosexual males.


dykedar

My FedEx driver is of the female persuasion. I don't posess^([sic]) a working dykedar, so I can't say a thing about her; other than she is quite, well, I guess handsome would be the best word for it.

1994 June 15, Keith Shillington, “Re: UPSy-daisy”, in soc.motss (Usenet):

I discovered from this episode that I don't have any dykedar.

1997 February 8, Ken Rudolph, “Re: ER dyke (WAS: A eunichs question)”, in soc.motss (Usenet):

On the other hand for us lesbians unless we are really butch straights don't tend to accept our queerness. Like "You can't be a lesbian, you are too pretty." Well Duh.
Although I must admit even I have better gaydar than dykedar.

1998 March 18, Suzan Cooke, “Re: Do hets know what rainbow means?”, in soc.motss (Usenet):

(LGBTQ slang) The ability to detect whether or not a person is lesbian by observing that person.


transploitation

Created by photographer Austin Young and Saskia Wilson-Brown, the series was first screened in 2007 as part of the Silver Lake Film Festival, and last week’s follow-up sought to probe the “transploitation” genre (as the creators have coined it) further, with short films and music videos by and about their favorite gender-blender superstars.

2009 December 9, Lina Lecaro, “Drag-Hagging With The Best Of 'Em”, in LA Weekly:

[…] and finally climaxing in a buckets-of-gore showdown in a suburban kitchen where a sexy bad guy is killed 42 ways to Sunday, this cheesy, way beyond camp "transploitation" snuff film has a truckload of chills and giggles.

2010 July 8, David Lambe, “Queer eye for the gore fest”, in Bay Area Reporter, volume 40, number 27, page 22:

In the same way that the transploitation film Ticked Off Trannies with Knives was so named in order to take ownership of a term that can be used derisively, couldn’t we all agree that “she-mail” was meant in good fun and leave it at that?

2014 April 18, Anna Waugh, “'Drag Race' promises to drop 'transphobic' gags”, in Dallas Voice, volume 30, number 49, page 4:

The exploitation of transgender/transsexual people in the media (especially film and television).


en homme

From the French phrase en homme, as in s’habille en homme.

Coordinate term: en femme

(chiefly of a trans, non-binary or cross-dressing person) Dressed in masculine clothing.


disorder of sex development

en-noun

disorder of sex development (plural disorders of sex development)

Recently, growing patient and parental concerns about the stigma associated with the term intersex, along with advances in treatment and diagnosis, have led to the adoption of the term disorders of sex development (DSD) in its place.

2008, Harvey J. Makadon (Ed.), The Fenway Guide to Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Health, page 393:

There are also several states of disorders of sex development in males, namely gonadal dysgenesis or defects in androgen biosynthesis which cause insufficient synthesis of androgens and hypoandrogenisation in consequence.

2009, Konrad Janowski, Biopsychosocial Aspects of Health and Disease, volume 1, page 69:

Parents of children with these kinds of conditions — known as intersex conditions, or differences or disorders of sex development (DSDs) — often face difficult decisions about whether to bring up their child as a boy or a girl.

2015, Claire Ainsworth, ‘Sex redefined’, Nature, volume 518, number 7539:

A medical condition whereby the development of chromosomal or anatomical sex is in some way atypical; an intersex condition.


ตุ๋ย

dtǔi (romanization)
การตุ๋ย (abstract-noun)

From the nickname of Captain Thammanat Phromphao (ธรรมนัส พรหมเผ่า), a Thai military officer arrested over raping and murdering a young academician, Mr Phunsawat Chiraphon (พูลสวัสดิ์ จิราภรณ์), in 1998.

(LGBTQ, slang) to have an anal sex (with); to perform an anal sex (on).


ถั่วดำ

From the nickname of Karun Phasuk (การุณ ผาสุข), a Thai man arrested over raping boys in 1935; literally meaning "black bean", from ถั่ว (tùua, “bean”) + ดำ (dam, “black”).

(slang) anal sex (between men); male to male sex.


buzík

buzík (nominative singular)
buzíci (nominative plural)
buzíka (genitive singular)
buzíků (genitive plural)
buzíkovi (dative singular)
buzíku (dative singular)
buzíkům (dative plural)
buzíka (accusative singular)
buzíky (accusative plural)
buzíku (singular vocative)
buzíci (plural vocative)
buzíkovi (locative singular)
buzíku (locative singular)
buzících (locative plural)
buzíkem (instrumental singular)
buzíky (instrumental plural)

(colloquial, offensive, vulgar) queer, fag, faggot


andromimetic

From andro- + mimetic. Literally “male mimic”.

An andromimetic...is the counterpart of a gynemimetic. He lives full-time as a man. If he has access to male hormone and undergoes hormonal masculinization, it is more likely than not that he will seek hysterectomy and breast removal...

1988, John Money, Gay, Straight, and In-between: The Sexology of Erotic Orientation, →ISBN, page 98:

(dated, nonstandard, rare, sexology) A transmasculine individual or trans man.


Gaystapo

Probably intimidated into a mandatory round of the Gaystapo's "Homosexuals are People, Too!" re-education programs.

2001 September 25, hgr999 [username], “Re: MORE Facts to Surface”, in alt.true-crime (Usenet):

It looks like the Gaystapo is really up in arms over my recent series of articles on Cisco’s firing of Frank Turek.

2011, Mike Adams, "A Queer and Present Danger", Townhall.com, 13 July 2011 (archived on Usenet)

But the hidden hegemonic ambitions of the Gaystapo have been exposed recently by their plans to annex and redefine ‘marriage’.

2011 October 28, Alan Craig, “Confronting the Gaystapo”, in Church of England Newspaper, number 6098, page 9:

(informal, derogatory) Gay activists viewed as a militant and oppressive force.


samasooliste abielu

head

samasooliste abielu (genitive samasooliste abielu, partitive samasooliste abielu)

samasooliste abielu (genitive)
samasooliste abielu (partitive)


heteronazi

There are heteronazis and homonazis. Of the two, homonazis are by far the most vicious.

1998, Wheeler, “In support of prostitutes (was: Scary Cherry, child molester ...)”, in soc.motss (Usenet):

[If one used the term] heteronazi' to describe the people who do things like beat gays and leave them to die, if it would be accepted.

2000, trinkler, “"Defending" marriage?”, in alt.callahans (Usenet):


puścić

puszczać (imperfective)
puścić (infinitive)
puszczę (future singular)
puścimy (future plural)
puścisz (future singular)
puścicie (future plural)
puści (future singular third-person)
puszczą (future plural third-person)
puści się (future impersonal)
puściłem (masculine past singular)
-(e)m puścił (masculine past singular)
puściłam (feminine past singular)
-(e)m puściła (feminine past singular)
puściłom (neuter past singular)
-(e)m puściło (neuter past singular)
puściliśmy (past plural virile)
-(e)śmy puścili (past plural virile)
puściłyśmy (nonvirile past plural)
-(e)śmy puściły (nonvirile past plural)
puściłeś (masculine past singular)
-(e)ś puścił (masculine past singular)
puściłaś (feminine past singular)
-(e)ś puściła (feminine past singular)
puściłoś (neuter past singular)
-(e)ś puściło (neuter past singular)
puściliście (past plural virile)
-(e)ście puścili (past plural virile)
puściłyście (nonvirile past plural)
-(e)ście puściły (nonvirile past plural)
puścił (masculine past singular third-person)
puściła (feminine past singular third-person)
puściło (neuter past singular third-person)
puścili (past plural third-person virile)
puściły (nonvirile past plural third-person)
puszczono (impersonal past)
puściłbym (conditional masculine singular)
bym puścił (conditional masculine singular)
puściłabym (conditional feminine singular)
bym puściła (conditional feminine singular)
puściłobym (conditional neuter singular)
bym puściło (conditional neuter singular)
puścilibyśmy (conditional plural virile)
byśmy puścili (conditional plural virile)
puściłybyśmy (conditional nonvirile plural)
byśmy puściły (conditional nonvirile plural)
puściłbyś (conditional masculine singular)
byś puścił (conditional masculine singular)
puściłabyś (conditional feminine singular)
byś puściła (conditional feminine singular)
puściłobyś (conditional neuter singular)
byś puściło (conditional neuter singular)
puścilibyście (conditional plural virile)
byście puścili (conditional plural virile)
puściłybyście (conditional nonvirile plural)
byście puściły (conditional nonvirile plural)
puściłby (conditional masculine singular third-person)
by puścił (conditional masculine singular third-person)
puściłaby (conditional feminine singular third-person)
by puściła (conditional feminine singular third-person)
puściłoby (conditional neuter singular third-person)
by puściło (conditional neuter singular third-person)
puściliby (conditional plural third-person virile)
by puścili (conditional plural third-person virile)
puściłyby (conditional nonvirile plural third-person)
by puściły (conditional nonvirile plural third-person)
puszczono by (conditional impersonal)
niech puszczę (imperative singular)
puśćmy (imperative plural)
puść (imperative singular)
puśćcie (imperative plural)
niech puści (imperative singular third-person)
niech puszczą (imperative plural third-person)
puszczony (adjectival masculine participle passive singular)
puszczona (adjectival feminine participle passive singular)
puszczone (adjectival neuter participle passive singular)
puszczeni (adjectival participle passive plural virile)
puszczone (adjectival nonvirile participle passive plural)
puściwszy (adverbial anterior participle)
puszczenie (noun-from-verb)


puszczać

puścić (perfective)
puszczać (infinitive)
puszczam (present singular)
puszczamy (plural present)
puszczasz (present singular)
puszczacie (plural present)
puszcza (present singular third-person)
puszczają (plural present third-person)
puszcza się (impersonal present)
puszczałem (masculine past singular)
-(e)m puszczał (masculine past singular)
puszczałam (feminine past singular)
-(e)m puszczała (feminine past singular)
puszczałom (neuter past singular)
-(e)m puszczało (neuter past singular)
puszczaliśmy (past plural virile)
-(e)śmy puszczali (past plural virile)
puszczałyśmy (nonvirile past plural)
-(e)śmy puszczały (nonvirile past plural)
puszczałeś (masculine past singular)
-(e)ś puszczał (masculine past singular)
puszczałaś (feminine past singular)
-(e)ś puszczała (feminine past singular)
puszczałoś (neuter past singular)
-(e)ś puszczało (neuter past singular)
puszczaliście (past plural virile)
-(e)ście puszczali (past plural virile)
puszczałyście (nonvirile past plural)
-(e)ście puszczały (nonvirile past plural)
puszczał (masculine past singular third-person)
puszczała (feminine past singular third-person)
puszczało (neuter past singular third-person)
puszczali (past plural third-person virile)
puszczały (nonvirile past plural third-person)
puszczano (impersonal past)
będę puszczał (future masculine singular)
będę puszczać (future masculine singular)
będę puszczała (feminine future singular)
będę puszczać (feminine future singular)
będę puszczało (future neuter singular)
będę puszczać (future neuter singular)
będziemy puszczali (future plural virile)
będziemy puszczać (future plural virile)
będziemy puszczały (future nonvirile plural)
będziemy puszczać (future nonvirile plural)
będziesz puszczał (future masculine singular)
będziesz puszczać (future masculine singular)
będziesz puszczała (feminine future singular)
będziesz puszczać (feminine future singular)
będziesz puszczało (future neuter singular)
będziesz puszczać (future neuter singular)
będziecie puszczali (future plural virile)
będziecie puszczać (future plural virile)
będziecie puszczały (future nonvirile plural)
będziecie puszczać (future nonvirile plural)
będzie puszczał (future masculine singular third-person)
będzie puszczać (future masculine singular third-person)
będzie puszczała (feminine future singular third-person)
będzie puszczać (feminine future singular third-person)
będzie puszczało (future neuter singular third-person)
będzie puszczać (future neuter singular third-person)
będą puszczali (future plural third-person virile)
będą puszczać (future plural third-person virile)
będą puszczały (future nonvirile plural third-person)
będą puszczać (future nonvirile plural third-person)
będzie puszczać się (future impersonal)
puszczałbym (conditional masculine singular)
bym puszczał (conditional masculine singular)
puszczałabym (conditional feminine singular)
bym puszczała (conditional feminine singular)
puszczałobym (conditional neuter singular)
bym puszczało (conditional neuter singular)
puszczalibyśmy (conditional plural virile)
byśmy puszczali (conditional plural virile)
puszczałybyśmy (conditional nonvirile plural)
byśmy puszczały (conditional nonvirile plural)
puszczałbyś (conditional masculine singular)
byś puszczał (conditional masculine singular)
puszczałabyś (conditional feminine singular)
byś puszczała (conditional feminine singular)
puszczałobyś (conditional neuter singular)
byś puszczało (conditional neuter singular)
puszczalibyście (conditional plural virile)
byście puszczali (conditional plural virile)
puszczałybyście (conditional nonvirile plural)
byście puszczały (conditional nonvirile plural)
puszczałby (conditional masculine singular third-person)
by puszczał (conditional masculine singular third-person)
puszczałaby (conditional feminine singular third-person)
by puszczała (conditional feminine singular third-person)
puszczałoby (conditional neuter singular third-person)
by puszczało (conditional neuter singular third-person)
puszczaliby (conditional plural third-person virile)
by puszczali (conditional plural third-person virile)
puszczałyby (conditional nonvirile plural third-person)
by puszczały (conditional nonvirile plural third-person)
puszczano by (conditional impersonal)
niech puszczam (imperative singular)
puszczajmy (imperative plural)
puszczaj (imperative singular)
puszczajcie (imperative plural)
niech puszcza (imperative singular third-person)
niech puszczają (imperative plural third-person)
puszczający (active adjectival masculine participle singular)
puszczająca (active adjectival feminine participle singular)
puszczające (active adjectival neuter participle singular)
puszczający (active adjectival participle plural virile)
puszczające (active adjectival nonvirile participle plural)
puszczany (adjectival masculine participle passive singular)
puszczana (adjectival feminine participle passive singular)
puszczane (adjectival neuter participle passive singular)
puszczani (adjectival participle passive plural virile)
puszczane (adjectival nonvirile participle passive plural)
puszczając (adjectival contemporary participle)
puszczanie (noun-from-verb)


antibisexual

en-adj

antibisexual (comparative more antibisexual, superlative most antibisexual)

more antibisexual (comparative)
most antibisexual (superlative)


antistraight

antistraight (comparative more antistraight, superlative most antistraight)

more antistraight (comparative)
most antistraight (superlative)

The laws banning discrimination based on sexual orientation apply to all people, gay and straight alike. If an antistraight boss starts firing heterosexuals, they're protected.

2001, John K. Wilson, How the Left Can Win Arguments and Influence People:

So you think Gregg is antistraight, but he is best friends with a straight guy. Russell and he have a very close relationship.

2013, Steven Zeeland, Sailors and Sexual Identity, page 140:

One of the key points of this paper is to create legitimacy for a set of representations of antistraight discourses. […] In a world where any antistraight manifestation, either sexual or nonsexual, is a reason for exclusion, ridicule, and persecution […]

2014, David W. Foster, Chicano/Latino Homoerotic Identities, page 233:


Kinsey scale

A scale devised by Alfred Kinsey, used to measure a person's sexuality, ranging from 0 (exclusively heterosexual) to 6 (exclusively homosexual), passing through different stages of bisexuality, including the 3 in the middle (bisexual, attracted to men and women equally). There is also an X option, for those exhibiting no sexual attraction (asexual).


woman-born-woman

Coined by second-wave feminists to distinguish cisgender women from transgender women.

To the extent that she can pull it off, her gender is babe. But at Stayfree her babe outfit (long hair, big shirt, leggings, flats) makes her feel like an interloper—like some rude woman-born-woman intent on boycotting femininity because she can take it for granted.

(feminism) A cisgender woman; a cis woman.


womyn-born-womyn

For the spelling, see womyn; for information about the phrase itself, see woman-born-woman.

Lesbians for Justice therefore appeals to the organizers of the Michigan Womyn's Music Festival to nullify its "womyn-born-womyn only" policy, and to allow the attendance of post-operative male-to-female transsexuals at all future festivals.

1992 May 8, Tamara Severns, “Open Letter To Michigan Festival Organizers”, in Gay Community News, page 4:


WBW

When WBWs claim they are women because of their girlhood's^([sic]) the WBT can point to her trannie childhood and say […]

2001 March 6, Suzan Cooke, “Woman Born Transsexual: A Post Transsexual Manifesto”, in alt.support.srs (Usenet):

Over the past years, we have ignored death threats as we choose to stand for sacred space for WBW and girls.

2008, The Michigan Womyn's Music Festival, →ISBN, page 54:

This pub is only open to WBW and their companion animals.

2012, Lesbian Communities: Festivals, RVs, and the Internet, page 122:

Abbreviation of womyn-born-womyn: woman-born-woman.


transgenderize

en-verb

transgenderize (third-person singular simple present transgenderizes, present participle transgenderizing, simple past and past participle transgenderized)

transgenderizes (present singular third-person)
transgenderizing (participle present)
transgenderized (participle past)
transgenderized (past)


guncle

It could have been worse. Vince had been debating whether to have Buddy call her Guncle (Gay-Uncle) Lisa.

2012, Mari SanGiovanni, Camptown Ladies, →ISBN, page 264:

The major upside of all this, for me anyway, was that these Broadway guys became my guncles, or gay uncles, and had a strong hand in teaching me lots of adult lessons—particularly one guncle named Chris.

2013, Melissa Joan Hart, Melissa Explains It All: Tales from My Abnormally Normal Life, →ISBN:

"If we killed him, the Dev would be the next king and your baby would be a prince. Power. I like it. He'll need his guncle to advise him.” Zack and I laughed, but Lee looked a bit lost. “Gay uncle,” Zack provided.


bisexualist

Six homosexualists (males?) thus far examined yielded from anatomically perfect testes an ovarian reaction in four instances and in the other two subjects (bisexualists), an ovario-testicular reaction (ovarian by measurement predominating).


nookie-bookie

From nookie (“sex”) and book (“to make a reservation”), + -ie.


transgay

Justin Tanis, a transgay male, reads the story of Jesus turning the Canaanite woman away.

2000, Robert Goss, Mona West, Take Back the Word: A Queer Reading of the Bible, →ISBN, page 6:

Simon, who is 64 and the only self-identified transgay man of the interviewees, explained that growing up, "I hated girly clothes all along. I never wanted to show my body or wear a dress. I never dated at all ... it does make you feel different. When I came out as a lesbian, I was already divorced ... my sexual sensation had already increased ... what I discovered is that I was gay."

2008, Brian Reed Singer, "On the gender continuum: the stories of transmen", thesis submitted to San Jose State University, pages 73-74

Many issues like transphobia, homosexual transsexuality (of both translesbians and transgay individuals), the transfeminist project, […]

2009, Izzo Mirella, AzioneTrans Manifesto, →ISBN, page 7:

Being, or pertaining to being, both a trans man and attracted to men (gay).


trans lesbian

A trans woman who is a lesbian, i.e. attracted to women.


translesbian

There are many femisexuals who never consider taking a male lover after their treatments, immediately becoming translesbians.

1997, Tracie O'Keefe, Katrina Fox, Trans-X-U-All: The Naked Difference, Extraordinary People Press, →ISBN, page 155:

It is both irresponsible and disingenuous to talk about safe space as if translesbians make space unsafe.

1999, Deke Law, “Evolution”, in Kris Kleindienst, editor, This is What Lesbian Looks Like: Dyke Activists Take on the 21st Century, Firebrand Books, →ISBN, page 139:

2009, Izzo Mirella (translated from the Italian by Simona Continente), AzioneTrans Manifesto, Lulu.com (2009), page 7


transbian

Our trans meeting at the clinic breaks up, after a discussion about transbians.

2010, Red Jordan Arobateau, Autumn Changes: Part III, page 930:

To give an opinionated answer, I'd say no, I do not think that there is a trend toward all transsexuals becoming transbians.

2011, Shannon Leigh O'Shea, Blue Life, Pink Hair: What It's Like Being The Pink Sheep Of The Family, page 186:

“So, I'm a butch transbian, so by most standards I'm literally just a cis-het dude-”

2018 March, Valerie Pleasant, “Women Problems”, in Montréal Writes, page 16:


gorilla pimp

LL-Q1860 (eng)-Flame, not lame-gorilla pimp.wav

Coordinate term: sugar pimp

(slang, informal) A pimp who is physically violent toward the prostitutes he manages.


-sexual

Forms a noun or adjective describing a state or style of sexuality


sarasa

(Spain, slang) queerboy; fag; faggot; poofter


trans female

For quotations using this term, see Citations:trans female.

Female and trans, that is, being a female who was assigned male at birth.


ᓯᐱᓂᖅ

iu-noun

ᓯᐱᓂᖅ (sipiniq) (plural ᓯᐱᓂᐃᑦ, Latin sipiniq)

sipiniq (romanization)
ᓯᐱᓂᐃᑦ (plural)
sipiniq (Latin)

person raised in a gender that does not match their birth sex (i.e. a female-bodied person raised as a male, or a male-bodied person raised as a female)


saída do armário

pt-noun

saída do armário f (plural saídas do armário)

coming out of the closet
coming out of the closet

the act of coming out of the closet (admitting to being a homosexual)


ชาวสีม่วง

/t͡ɕʰaːw˧.siː˩˩˦.mua̯ŋ˥˩/

From ชาว (chaao, “prefix for a group of persons sharing something (nationality, occupation, religion, etc.)”) + สี (sǐi, “colour”) + ม่วง (mûuang, “purple”); literally "people of the purple colour".


ชาวสีรุ้ง

/t͡ɕʰaːw˧.siː˩˩˦.ruŋ˦˥/

From ชาว (chaao, “prefix for a group of persons sharing something (nationality, occupation, religion, etc.)”) + สี (sǐi, “colour”) + รุ้ง (rúng, “rainbow”); literally "people of the rainbow colour".


transperson

en-noun

transperson (plural transpersons or transpeople)

transpersons (plural)
transpeople (plural)

As a group of men, the "Sisters" trivialize a group of women (nuns). Likewise, by the particular form of their "drag" they trivialize those transpersons (transsexuals and transvestites) who cross-dress out of a genuine need of their self-identity.

1982 April 10, Mikhael Iktin, “Over-indulgence”, in Gay Community News, page 4:


transperson

head

transperson c (singular definite transpersonen, plural indefinite transpersoner)

transpersonen (definite singular)
transpersoner (indefinite plural)
transperson (indefinite nominative singular)
transpersonen (definite nominative singular)
transpersoner (indefinite nominative plural)
transpersonerne (definite nominative plural)
transpersons (genitive indefinite singular)
transpersonens (definite genitive singular)
transpersoners (genitive indefinite plural)
transpersonernes (definite genitive plural)


transperson

transpersonen (definite singular)
transpersoner (indefinite plural)
transpersonene (definite plural)

Coordinate term: cisperson


transperson

transpersonen (definite singular)
transpersonar (indefinite plural)
transpersonane (definite plural)

Coordinate term: cisperson


transperson

transperson (indefinite nominative singular)
transpersons (genitive indefinite singular)
transpersonen (definite nominative singular)
transpersonens (definite genitive singular)
transpersoner (indefinite nominative plural)
transpersoners (genitive indefinite plural)
transpersonerna (definite nominative plural)
transpersonernas (definite genitive plural)


lesbian bed death

Coined by University of Washington sociologist Pepper Schwartz in her 1983 book American Couples.

(LGBTQ, sexology) A supposed phenomenon by which lesbian couples in committed relationships have less sex than any other type of couple, and generally experience less sexual intimacy the longer the relationship lasts.


shotacon

en-noun

shotacon (usually uncountable, plural shotacons)

LL-Q1860 (eng)-Flame, not lame-shotacon.wav

From Japanese ショタコン (shotakon). By surface analysis, shota + -con (“abnormal sexual attraction”).

surf

The term shota-con is a variant of the term loli-con for "Lolita complex" comics, a genre of porn comics for men featuring young girls. Shota is a common Japanese boy's name, thus shota-con indicates porn comics featuring young boys.

2004 Deborah Shamoon, "Porn Studies", page 101

Lolicon or Lolicom is a contraction of "Lolita Complex," an unhealthy interest in underage girls exemplified by the Lolita Anime. Its rarer male variant is Shotacon.
Shotacon is a contraction of “Shotaro Complex,” or an unhealthy obsession with little boys. It is said to derive from the boyish good looks of Shotaro Kaneda, the protagonist of GIGANTOR

2006 Jonathan Clements, Helen McCarthy A Guide to Japanese Animation Since 1917 page 31

(uncountable, anime) A sexual complex where an adult is attracted to young, typically prepubescent boys, or the fictional depictions thereof.


shounen ai

(slang, anime, manga) A narrative or visual work featuring a romance or sexual relationship between two or more males.


shoujo ai

Two connected etymologies. Either interpreted as a loan translation of Japanese 少女愛 (shōjo ai), or a specialized neologism created in analogy to shounen ai (少年愛; shōnen ai) using Japanese vocabulary.


transseksa

eo-head

transseksa (accusative singular transseksan, plural transseksaj, accusative plural transseksajn)

transseksan (accusative singular)
transseksaj (plural)
transseksajn (accusative plural)

From trans- (“across”) + sekso (“gender, sex”) + -a.


essa Coca é Fanta

(Brazil, offensive, idiomatic) Said to announce that a man is gay or effeminate


escorregar no quiabo

pt-verb

escorregar no quiabo (first-person singular present escorrego no quiabo, first-person singular preterite escorreguei no quiabo, past participle escorregado no quiabo)

escorrego no quiabo (first-person present singular)
escorreguei no quiabo (first-person preterite singular)
escorregado no quiabo (participle past)

(idiomatic, often offensive) to perform anal sex in the receiving position


transgenderise

en-verb

transgenderise (third-person singular simple present transgenderises, present participle transgenderising, simple past and past participle transgenderised)

transgenderises (present singular third-person)
transgenderising (participle present)
transgenderised (participle past)
transgenderised (past)

Non-Oxford British English standard form of transgenderize.


queerize

queerize (third-person singular simple present queerizes, present participle queerizing, simple past and past participle queerized)

queerizes (present singular third-person)
queerizing (participle present)
queerized (participle past)
queerized (past)

... seems to have combined (and queerized) a dozen Harlequin novels.

1998, Raymond Murray, Images in the Dark, page 491:

The decriminalization of homosexuality which gradually took place in Australia from the 1970s onwards helped queerize the 1990s.

2002, David Coad, Gender Trouble Down Under: Australian Masculinities, page 124:

[…] to queerize spaces, disciplines, heterocentrist structures of power and knowledge while still recalling the politico-sexual basis of the term.

2009, Darren Waldron, Queering Contemporary French Popular Cinema, page 29:

As he perhaps justly ridicules Soviet “vulgar sociologizing” approaches to Gogol, Karlinsky's own approach may thus better be labeled as vulgar queerizing.

2011, Alexei Lalo, Libertinage in Russian Culture and Literature, page 67:

(transitive) To make queer (homosexual, transgender, etc.); to queer.


Mixter

Blend of mix + Mister or Mister + -x-, probably influenced by the earlier abbreviation Mx.

(uncommon) A gender-neutral title (coordinate with Mr. and Ms.), used especially for genderqueer/non-binary people.


Klaine

With the recent death of Glee's Cory Monteith, there wasn't much creators could do to make viewers feel better. Yet they found it: a reunion of gay couple "Klaine."

2013, "Tragedy Brings People Together After All, Doesn't It?", Watermark, 29 August 2013 - 11 September 2013, page 29

However Ryan Murphy gives fans a few rewards in Series 5 for sticking with the show (happy news for Klaine supporters), […]

2013, Heather Boyles, "The final curtain draws near", Seren (Bangor University), Issue 235, October 2013, page 25

Klaine fans and writers have lived in a culture where homosexuality has been mainstreamed, if not always accepted.

2014, Nicholas Alexander Hayes, “Glee Literally Means Glee: The Queer Art of Community's Parody”, in Michelle Parke, editor, Queer in the Choir Room: Essays on Gender and Sexuality in Glee, McFarland & Company, →ISBN, page 267:

(fandom slang) The ship of characters Kurt Hummel and Blaine Anderson from the television series Glee.


Brittana

Never mind Finn and Rachel – I'm on Team Brittana now.

2009, Dorothy Snarker of AfterEllen.com, quoted in Amy Rickman, Gleeful!: A Totally Unofficial Guide to the Hit TV Series GLEE, Villard (2010), page 136

[…] there'd been such a fuss over the original Brittana kiss, & with Kurt kissing Blaine, […]

2012, Bruce Wagner, Dead Stars, Penguin, →ISBN:

However, the taste of happiness many viewers felt at Brittana's queer relationship quickly turned bitter when the label of homosexual continued to be thrust upon Santana by many of the show's straight characters as well as her own girlfriend.

2014, Taylor Cole Miller, “Forced out of the 'flannel closet': The Coming-Out-Gay Imperative”, in Michelle Parke, editor, Queer in the Choir Room: Essays on Gender and Sexuality in Glee, McFarland & Company, →ISBN, page 34:

(fandom slang) The ship of characters Brittany Pierce and Santana Lopez from the television series Glee.


XXY

Having an aneuploidy in the configuration of chromosomes by having an extra Y chromosome.


truscum

The term 'truscum', meant to be an epithet directed at the medicalization supporters, came into usage through an often-referenced post by tumblr user transstingray [... in 2012] a 'truscum' individual believes that all trans people should identify as transsexual, identify within the binary, use only male or female pronouns […] . The term is derived from 'true transsexual' and 'scum' […] . Although 'truscum' was originally meant to be a derogatory term, it has since been reclaimed and redefined to mean an individual who believes that one needs to experience sex-based dysphoria in order to be trans, and that transsexualism is a medical condition. It has now transcended its original purpose and has become a term with which the supporters of medicalization identify themselves.

2013, Alexander Wijnants, "Identity of Neurology Social Media and the Politician versus Medicalization of Trans People", Synaesthesia: Communication Across Cultures, ISSN 1883-5953, Volume 1, Number 4, Spring 2013, page 131

The truscum, or medical supporters, use basic, non-radical goals and a reliance on empirical evidence to develop and support a self-concept of being the more rational and realistic group within the debate.

2013, Alexander Wijnants, "Identity of Neurology Social Media and the Politician versus Medicalization of Trans People", Synaesthesia: Communication Across Cultures, ISSN 1883-5953, Volume 1, Number 4, Spring 2013, page 134

That, in summary, is the tone taken by the very recently developed factions of quote unquote social justice warriors, trans and trans* activists, truscum, radfems; […]

2014, Zoe Kilbourn, "PSA, UWU: Tumblr, Gender, and Gaga", Pelican (University of Western Australia), Volume 85, Edition 6, circa September 2014, page 9

Even among wonderful and truscum-battling friends I still avoid the label trans, instead occasionally asking for 'they' pronouns to be used and trying to talk of men as an outsider.

2015, Henrx Holmes, "Unmanned", No HeterOx (Oxford, UK), page 7 (approx.)

(slang, usually derogatory) A person who believes that gender dysphoria is an essential trait to being transgender.


transness

Green recognized that there are “little beehives of transness” in a few major US cities and abroad and F2M individuals who take upon themselves the role of educator and activist

1996, R. Scott Gerdes, “Extraordinary Lives—A Personal History of the F2M Movement (Part Ⅱ): Where have we been? Where are we going?”, in Jean Marie Stine, editor, Transgender Tapestry, volume 1, number 77, Waltham, Massachusetts: International Foundation for Gender Education, →ISSN, →OCLC, UPC 07447074121377, page 42, column 2:

Clearly, these were folks who chose to view my transness as an “affliction” (despite the fact that I did not portray it that way myself).

2013, Julia Serano, Excluded: Making Feminist and Queer Movements More Inclusive, Seal Press, published 2013, →ISBN:

Now though, I've been thinking more about the idea that one can be attracted to transgender men (or women) in part because of their transness, not (as mainstream culture seems to think) in spite of it.

2014, Diane Anderson-Minshall, Jacob Anderson-Minshall, Queerly Beloved: A Love Story Across Genders, Bold Strokes Books, published 2014, →ISBN:

My transness felt irrelevant to most of my informal, passing relationships. It was not something I discussed upon meeting someone.

2014, Janet Mock, Redefining Realness: My Path to Womanhood, Identity, Love & So Much More, Atria, published 2014, →ISBN, page 248:

The condition or quality of being transgender or transsexual.


ABDL

(sexuality) Sexual practices involving paraphilic infantilism, or sexual arousal that stems from pretending one is an infant through the use of diapers and other paraphernalia.

(colloquial) A person who engages in ABDL practices; an adult baby (age regressor) or diaper lover.


raceplay

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Her response to the off-topic remarks on "raceplay" is a somewhat somewhat elliptical reply that Avatar T is "very knowledgeable about Japanese culture, and feels she's learned a lot by exploring racial embodiment here."

2012, Sharon Collingwood, "Feminist Teaching in Virtual Worlds: Development Of A Pedagogy", in Feminist Cyberspaces: Pedagogies in Transition (eds. Sharon Collingwood, Alvina E, Quintana, & Caroline J. Smith), Cambridge Scholars Publishing (2012), page 283

Hot historical plantation slavery fantasies & super fun modern slavery videos for you dirty apes into raceplay, racial humiliation

2012 September 18, zombieG [username], “Raceplay for niggers, plantation slavery fantasies”, in alt.sex.fetish.feet (Usenet):

College, nah. Lesbian, nah. Interracial....maybe some raceplay...he keeps looking, unsure of what he's in the mood for tonight.

2014, “Anonymous”, in Christina Escamilla, editor, 64 Deaths: An Anthology, →ISBN:

(BDSM) A form of sexual roleplay in which the players act out racially charged situations, such as interracial master–slave relationships.


taxi-girl

a nightclub hostess (paid to dance with, and entertain, customers)


gay-straight alliance

en-noun

gay-straight alliance (plural gay-straight alliances)

A school- or community-based organization intended to provide a safe and supportive environment for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer youth, as well as their straight supporters.

同志與非同志聯盟

school or community based organization that provides an environment for LGBTQ youth


sex swing

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Love hotels differ in terms of price (from about $30 per hour and up), decoration (some may offer features such as sex swings, hot tubs, or round beds, and many are themed), and architecture […].

2021, Margo DeMello, On the Job: An Encyclopedia of Unique Occupations around the World, Bloomsbury, →ISBN, page 137:

A swing, used in sexual activity, designed to restrain one person while one or more others are able to move freely.


transmisogynist

en-adj

transmisogynist (comparative more transmisogynist, superlative most transmisogynist)

more transmisogynist (comparative)
most transmisogynist (superlative)

Ropchan's assessment of the situation displays transmisogynist bias in the intentional misuse of the pronoun 'he,' […]

2012 April 4, Jil Jorgensen, Alexa DeGagne, “University must do more for transgendered people”, in The Gateway, volume 102, number 28, University of Alberta, page 10:

Well, speaking for myself as a trans woman: Certainly it's hard to argue that it doesn't repeat and reinforce all sorts of tired transmisogynist tropes, or that the song doesn't have a nasty hetero-cis sneer underneath it.

2012, Rachel Zall, quoted in Andrew Hickey, Preservation: The Kinks' Music 1964-1974, Lulu.com (2012), page 137, published 2 September 2012

Transwomen grow up in an incredibly transmisogynist culture, where we receive relentlessly negative messages about our identities, […]

2013, Leela Ginelle, "Parker Marie Molloy Elaborates on 'Gay Dudes, Can You Just Not?'", PQ Monthly, Volume 2, Number 12, December 2013/January 2014, page 12

(feminism, LGBTQ, neologism) Relating to, characteristic of, or exhibiting transmisogyny.


transmisogynist

(feminism, LGBTQ, neologism) One who exhibits transmisogyny.


transmisogynistic

transmisogynistic (comparative more transmisogynistic, superlative most transmisogynistic)

more transmisogynistic (comparative)
most transmisogynistic (superlative)

[…] the same masculinity at the heart of the military’s pervasive homophobia, tolerance of sexual assault, and transmisogynistic practice of court-martialing transfeminine soldiers for “cross-dressing.”

2011, "An open letter to the organizers of TEDxMiddlebury", The Middlebury Campus (Middlebury College, Middlebury, Vermont), Volume 110, Issue 8, 10 November 2011, page 11

But I am asking us to examine a comedic device that not only degrades women but also reinforces the absolutely incorrect and harmfully transmisogynistic idea that trans women are really just "men in dresses."

2014 November 4, Morgan Philley, “Dressing down the gender binary”, in The Daily Mississippian, volume 103, number 49, University of Mississippi, page 2:

As far as I'm concerned, Leelah's death wasn't suicide – it was murder at the hands of a transmisogynistic society.

2015, Casey Aldridge, "To the Charlotte Christian community after Chapel Hill", Niner Times (University of North Carolina at Charlotte), Volume 27, Issue 19, 17 February 2015 - 23 February 2015, page 8

(LGBTQ, neologism) Relating to, characteristic of, or exhibiting transmisogyny.


antitransgender

antitransgender (comparative more antitransgender, superlative most antitransgender)

more antitransgender (comparative)
most antitransgender (superlative)

Following the lead of the courts, the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission then ruled that antitransgender bias was a form of sex discrimination under Title VII of the Civil Rights Act.

2015 August 29, Deborah Sontag, The New York Times:


findom

en-noun

findom (countable and uncountable, plural findoms)

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This includes public humiliation, findom, blackmail, hardcore cock and ball torture, bloodletting, cutting, edgeplay and so on.

2008, Hardcore mistress, “****DOMINATRIX BUSTS YOUR BALLS WITH A ROCK**** 75162”, in alt.sex.telephone.alt (Usenet):

Your money is much better spent on a FinDom Phone Sex Goddess Taryn.

2011, Chris, “I will OWN you”, in alt.sex.femdom (Usenet):

“The kind of domination I'm looking for isn't spankings or boot licking,” Maxwell went on. “As my screen name indicated, the kind of control I'm looking for is something calling^([sic]) 'findom'. […] I get sexual gratification from having someone, a woman preferably, taking control of my finances and spending my money as she sees fit.

2014, Helena Shaw, Maxed Out: A New Adult Billionaire Romance, page 17:

financial domination
financial domination#English

(BDSM, uncountable) Synonym of financial domination.

(BDSM, countable) A dominant who practices financial domination.


sex dungeon

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She has even built herself her own private dungeon. But Melissa's sex dungeon wasn't her secret
So You've Been Publicly Shamed By Jon Ronson

If a couple dresses in leather and studs, then visits a sex dungeon to meet friends for consensual sessions of sadomasochistic bondage and domination (“BDSM”), should they be considered deviants if they enjoy their activity?
What Every Mental Health Professional Needs to Know About Sex By Stephanie Buehler

She developed a sex amusement park called Climaxland that had the largest sex dungeon in the world.
"Brain Defying Tales"

A dungeon-like location designed and equipped for BDSM sexual activities.


gaytastic

en-adj

gaytastic (comparative more gaytastic, superlative most gaytastic)

more gaytastic (comparative)
most gaytastic (superlative)

"Yooo-hooo. Excuse me, dear."
Had someone called security?
Vanessa turned oh-so-casually to come face-to-face with Bailey Winter himself, the gaytastic designer […] and the host of the party she just happened to be crashing.

2006, Cecily von Ziegesar, Gossip Girl 10: Would I Lie to You, Bloomsbury, published 2008, →ISBN, page 98:

“I always thought Playa del Inglés was a horrible kip,” Susan said.
“Oh it is, but it's a gaytastic horrible kip—besides if you spend a few quid it's not so bad.”

2008, Anna McPartin, As Sure As the Sun, Downtown Press, →ISBN, page 312:

This episode marks the beginning of the end of the gaytastic relationship between Mr. Slave and Mr. Garrison.

2010, Sam Stall, James Siciliano, The South Park Episode Guide: Volume 2, Seasons 6-10, Running Press, →ISBN, page 117:

(slang) Extremely gay or appealing to gay people.


jocker

The jocker's sexual behavior can therefore be viewed as situational homosexuality.
2012, "Men Behind Bars: Sexual Exploitation in Prison" By Wayne S. Wooden

More common than the reciprocal and mutually constituted homosexual associations between hoboes were the predatory relationships between older hoboes, or “jockers,” and young initiates, or “punks.”
2010, Citizen Hobo: How a Century of Homelessness Shaped America By Todd DePastino

As the "masculine" or "active" partner in prison sexual exchanges, jockers maintained a sexual identity as heterosexual
2008, Criminal Intimacy: Prison and the Uneven History of Modern American Sexuality by Regina P. Kunzler

(slang) A man who perceives himself as straight and is the aggressive top in a relationship between two men, especially in prison.


straight trade

From straight (“heterosexual”) + trade (“man available for casual sex with men”).

af

In general with respect to sexual experiences in prison the homosexuals indicated a clear preference for more masculine men—the blacks and chicanos clearly preferred “straight trade”—and all three ethnic groups preferred more masculine than feminine homosexuals as sexual partners.

2012, Wayne S. Wooden, Men Behind Bars: Sexual Exploitation in Prison:

A lovely thought when cruising straight trade, but just remember—it works both ways.

1997, Carol Queen, Lawrence Schimel, PoMoSexuals: Challenging Assumptions About Gender and Sexuality:

The Embarcadero YMCA, George Mendenhall recalled, was where people went if they were looking for "straight trade."

1998, John Donald Gustav-Wrathall, Take the Young Stranger by the Hand: Same-Sex Relations and the YMCA:

The practice of same-sex sexual behavior involving at least one man who perceives himself as heterosexual.


andromimetophilia

(paraphilia) An attraction to trans men or to females who look and act like men (andromimetics).


gynemimesis

From gyne- + mimesis. Literally “female imitation”. First put forward in a 1984 article by sexologists John Money and Malgorzata Lamacz.

Gynemimesis is a subtype of gender transposition or gender dysphoria in which a person with male anatomy and morphology lives in society as a woman without genital sex-reassignment surgery, and with or without taking female sex-hormonal therapy. The lover of such a person is a gynemimetophile. The corresponding terms that apply to the female are andromimesis and andromimetophile.

1984, John Money, Margaret Lamaczab, “Gynemimesis and gynemimetophilia: Individual and cross-cultural manifestations of a gender-coping strategy hitherto unnamed”, in Comprehensive Psychiatry, volume 25, number 4, pages 392–403:

(dated, nonstandard, rare) The state of being a transfeminine individual, or trans woman, who has not had sex reassignment surgery.


andromimesis

From andro- + mimesis. Literally “male imitation”. First put forward in a 1984 article by sexologists John Money and Malgorzata Lamacz.

(dated, nonstandard, rare) The state of being transmasculine or a trans man.


gynemimetic

From Ancient Greek γυνή (gunḗ, “female”) + μῑμητικός (mīmētikós, “imitative”); equivalent to gyne- + mimetic. Literally “female mimic”. First put forward in a 1984 article by sexologists John Money and Malgorzata Lamacz.

In most large cities of the West there exists an unnamed gynemimetic community that corresponds to the social institution of hijras in India and xanith in Oman.

(dated, nonstandard, rare) Transfeminine.


deadname

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From dead + name, because the old name is dead (“no longer used”). Attested since at least 2010 as a noun and 2013 as a verb by the OED.

And when people constantly refer to you as your deadname [a name that you previously went by], or use the incorrect pronouns, it really is like getting slapped with a wet fish.

2014, Natalia Moorin, “My Illness Is Not Your Inspiration”, in Damsel, University of Western Australia, page 21:

One of the articles in our last issue contained a major error: we referred to a transgender student by their deadname.

2018 February 27, Amy O'Kruk, “Apology to readers”, in Western Gazette, Western University, page 2:

“My deadname is everywhere because of my ID card, and not only do I have to look at it but lots of other people get to see. […]

2018, Alex McFadden, quoted in Noni Cole & Ruby Perryman, "The Unfair University ID Card", Farrago (University of Melbourne), Edition Three (2018), page 7

(neologism, especially LGBTQ) A previous name of a person (especially a transgender person) who has since changed their name.


deadname

en-verb

deadname (third-person singular simple present deadnames, present participle deadnaming, simple past and past participle deadnamed)

deadnames (present singular third-person)
deadnaming (participle present)
deadnamed (participle past)
deadnamed (past)

Using trans peoples' dead names – names that they were born with which are either wrong through either legal or preferential means – has been and always will be an act of aggression, not just to the person you're deadnaming but to all trans people.

2015 June 17, Luca Kuchinka, “Caitlyn's story inspiring, spotlight should be shared”, in Estevan Mercury, page A7:

"Right now, it's unclear whether they are choosing to deadname me maliciously, or just can't be bothered to accommodate trans students in the way we require them to," he said.

2018, Alex, quoted in Sylvie Woods, "Students pay the price for 'tired' administration", Honi Soit (University of Sydney), Volume 90, Week 9 (2018), page 12

Felix's dad deadnames him despite supporting his top surgery and hormone therapy, and he hates his mom for leaving when he was 10.

(transitive) To refer to someone (especially a transgender person) who has changed names by a previous name.

棄名錯稱

to refer to someone by their previous name

dead-naming

act or instance of naming as the target of a death-curse


lesbianise

lesbianise (third-person singular simple present lesbianises, present participle lesbianising, simple past and past participle lesbianised)

lesbianises (present singular third-person)
lesbianising (participle present)
lesbianised (participle past)
lesbianised (past)

Non-Oxford British English standard spelling of lesbianize.


lesbianly

Stacey's project at once disavows lesbian identities and opens up possibilities for self-identified heterosexual women spectators to identify lesbianly.

2002, Stacy Ellen Wolf, A Problem Like Maria, →ISBN:


lesbianisation

Non-Oxford British English standard spelling of lesbianization.


genderist

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The Feminist Movement, […] is split between two types of feminists: the equality feminists and the gender feminists. Those who demand equal rights, […] are the equality feminists, […] The others are the NOW type, […] the gender feminists, or genderists. This radical element attempts to remodel women into something other than what nature has determined women to be. […] The genderists address particular vitriol toward non-conforming women still "enslaved" to men, like those who get married and have babies, […] And for her apostasy, Sommers says, the genderists “wish to excommunicate me from my sex.” The genderists tend to position themselves among the far left politically, to reject all advances of women as inadequate, and to hate America.

2010, William Davis Eaton, Liberal Betrayal of America and the Tea Party Firestorm, ELDERBERRY PRESS, INC., →ISBN, page 47:

(uncommon, in right-wing usage, derogatory) One who believes in gender ideology or does not support traditional gender roles.


metamour

From meta- + amour (probably influenced by paramour).

I get it less with women who are bi and poly than with women who are monosexual and monogamous/monoamorous, but I can't put my finger on why, and there are exceptions in both directions. I get it less with metamours than with women who are unrelated, but maybe that's just because if my metamours were alien to me, there's a fair chance they'd be alien to my partners too, or conversely that I'd have been alien to the partners when they were still just potential partners, and hence we'd never become metamours in the first place.

2000 August 11, Liz W, “When your wife loves to be at the center...!”, in alt.polyamory (Usenet):

[…] — and in considering how jealous I would feel if Anna (or honestly any of this polycule, because yes, reader, they are all hot) were my metamour, I imagine what it would be like, how destabilizing to watch your partner grow closer and more intimate and happier with another person;[…]

2024 January 16, Allison P. Davis, “What Does a Polycule Actually Look Like?”, in New York Magazine:

(uncommon) In a polyamorous relationship, one's partner's partner, with whom one is not directly involved.

metamuru

partner's partner in a polyamorous relationship


Sheriarty

The Empty Hearse club member goth girl who came up with the romantic Sheriarty solution to Sherlock’s fake suicide is played by Scottish actress Sharon Rooney, star of the British dramedy “My Mad Fat Diary.”

2014 January 19, Lori Rackl, “Answers to your ‘Sherlock’ questions — because you know you’ve got ‘em”, in Chicago Sun-Times:

The Sheriarty and Jimlock fans believe the two men are struggling in a love-hate relationship, while WH is a gay “couple” beloved by most fans.

2014 January 25, Qu Zhi, “Sherlock China’s new sex god”, in Shanghai Daily:

Having exhausted what meager supply of Sheriarty fic there was, I ended up reading a Mormor (Moriarty/Moran) story – and ended up loving it.

2015, Kee Lundqvist, "Stories of Significance: The Process and Practices of Sense-Making in the Sherlock Fan Community", thesis submitted to Uppsala University, page 77

(fandom slang) The ship of characters Sherlock Holmes and Jim Moriarty from the television series Sherlock.


ตงฟาง

From Mandarin 東方／东方 (dōngfāng, “east”), the family name of 東方／东方 (dōngfāng)不敗／败 (dōngfāng bùbài, literally “Invincible East”), a character in the Chinese novel The Smiling, Proud Wanderer.

(Internet slang) a transvestite or trans woman who is aging and influential, powerful, or vigourous.


FTM

Initialism of female-to-male (transgender or transsexual).


FTM

Abbreviation of first-time mom/mother/mum.

At the end of the 1960s doctors at UCLA's Gender Identity Research Clinic debated privately whether FTMs even qualified as transsexuals.

2013, Susan Stryker, Stephen Whittle, The Transgender Studies Reader, page 373:


FTM

Alternative letter-case form of FtM (“trans man”)


polyphobic

en-adj

polyphobic (comparative more polyphobic, superlative most polyphobic)

more polyphobic (comparative)
most polyphobic (superlative)

Relating to or characteristic of polyphobia.


dykeling

We encourage each GCN reader to sit in a comfortable place, close his/her eyes and dream of a NOLAG as nationally recognized recognized as the ACLU, NAACP, or NOW. Dream of little faglets and dykelings coming to you and asking what it was like to live in a time when people could hate you or kill you because of who loved.

1981 December 12, Kathy MacDonald, Jay Darnell, Anne Simon, Maryanne Kirkbride, “NOLAG Eats Wheaties”, in Gay Community News, volume 9, number 21, page 4:

They will gather their own gaylings and dykelings and Miss Things at the hem of their own caftans. They'll wheel the old queen out.

2002, Alisa Solomon, Framji Minwalla, The Queerest Art: Essays on Lesbian and Gay Theater, page 253:

(LGBTQ slang, rare) A young or immature lesbian.


lesbic

lesbic (comparative more lesbic, superlative most lesbic)

more lesbic (comparative)
most lesbic (superlative)

Pertaining to love between women; lesbian; sapphic.


gift giver

It is difficult to say exactly how many people are intentionally spreading HIV, but in any given week, in the San Francisco Bay Area personals section of Craigslist, it is not unusual to find at least a couple of personal ads by bug chasers or gift givers.

2016 November 30, Joseph Channing, “An Undercover Look Inside the World of HIV Bug Chasers and Gift Givers”, in SF Weekly:

(slang, sexuality) A sexual partner who transmits HIV to a bug-chaser.


гей-порно

ru-noun

гей-по́рно • (gej-pórno) n inan (indeclinable)

гей-по́рно (canonical)
gej-pórno (romanization)


Florentine flogging

(BDSM) A two-handed style of flagellation involving the rhythmic use of a pair of matching floggers, one in each hand.


(historical) A homosexual in Germany in the era when homosexuality was illegal (1871 to 1994).


de-noun

175er m (strong, genitive 175ers, plural 175er)

From Paragraph 175 of the German criminal code, which once made homosexuality a crime.

Im Fall eines Theaterintendanten wurde ein Vorermittlungsverfahren eingeleitet, nachdem als Laiendarsteller eingesetzte Schüler das Gerücht verbreiteten, der Mann sei ein „175er“.

2019 June 22, Joachim Göres, “Verdächtige Umarmungen”, in Die Tageszeitung: taz, →ISSN:

(dated, informal) a homosexual, especially in Germany from 1871 to 1994


aseksuālists

lv-noun

aseksuālists m (1st declension, feminine form: aseksuāliste)

aseksuāliste (feminine)
aseksuālists (nominative singular)
aseksuālisti (nominative plural)
aseksuālistu (accusative singular)
aseksuālistus (accusative plural)
aseksuālista (genitive singular)
aseksuālistu (genitive plural)
aseksuālistam (dative singular)
aseksuālistiem (dative plural)
aseksuālistu (instrumental singular)
aseksuālistiem (instrumental plural)
aseksuālistā (locative singular)
aseksuālistos (locative plural)
aseksuālist (singular vocative)
aseksuālisti (plural vocative)

From aseksuāls + -ists (with aseksuāls from a- + seksuāls and seksuāls from sekss (“sex”) + -āls). Probably not derived as such in Latvian, but borrowed and adapted from other European languages.

tu esi vienīgais aseksuālists valstī

you are the only asexual man in the country

esmu panromantisks aseksuālists

an asexual man (a man who does not experience sexual feelings)


homoseksuāliste

homoseksuāliste f (5th declension, masculine form: homoseksuālists)

homoseksuālists (masculine)
homoseksuāliste (nominative singular)
homoseksuālistes (nominative plural)
homoseksuālisti (accusative singular)
homoseksuālistes (accusative plural)
homoseksuālistes (genitive singular)
homoseksuālistu (genitive plural)
homoseksuālistei (dative singular)
homoseksuālistēm (dative plural)
homoseksuālisti (instrumental singular)
homoseksuālistēm (instrumental plural)
homoseksuālistē (locative singular)
homoseksuālistēs (locative plural)
homoseksuāliste (singular vocative)
homoseksuālistes (plural vocative)

From homoseksuālists (“homosexual man”) + -e (“fem.”).

suffix

vai tu esi homoseksuāliste?

viņa ir pirmā premjerministre Islandes vēsturē un pirmā pasaulē zināmā valdības vadītāja, kura ir atklātā homoseksuāliste

she is the first female Prime Minister of Iceland and the first known head of state who is an open homosexual woman


aseksuālisms

aseksuālisms (nominative singular)
aseksuālismu (accusative singular)
aseksuālisma (genitive singular)
aseksuālismam (dative singular)
aseksuālismu (instrumental singular)
aseksuālismā (locative singular)
aseksuālism (singular vocative)

From aseksuāls + -isms (with aseksuāls from a- + seksuāls (“sexual”) and seksuāls from sekss (“sex”) + -āls). Probably not derived as such in Latvian, but borrowed and adapted from other European languages.

aseksuālisma karogs

aseksuālisms ir pilnīgs erotisko un seksuālo jūtu trūkums

asexuality is the complete lack of erotic and sexual feelings

asexuality (the state or quality of being asexual, of not experiencing sexual attraction; the lifestyle associated with it)


aseksuāliste

lv-noun

aseksuāliste f (5th declension, masculine form: aseksuālists)

aseksuālists (masculine)
aseksuāliste (nominative singular)
aseksuālistes (nominative plural)
aseksuālisti (accusative singular)
aseksuālistes (accusative plural)
aseksuālistes (genitive singular)
aseksuālistu (genitive plural)
aseksuālistei (dative singular)
aseksuālistēm (dative plural)
aseksuālisti (instrumental singular)
aseksuālistēm (instrumental plural)
aseksuālistē (locative singular)
aseksuālistēs (locative plural)
aseksuāliste (singular vocative)
aseksuālistes (plural vocative)

From aseksuālists (“asexual man”) + -e (“fem.”).

suffix

es esmu aseksuāliste

an asexual woman (a woman who does not experience sexual feelings)


aseksuāls

head

aseksuāls (definite aseksuālais, comparative aseksuālāks, superlative visaseksuālākais, adverb aseksuāli)

aseksuālais (definite)
aseksuālāks (comparative)
visaseksuālākais (superlative)
aseksuāli (adverb)
aseksuāls (indefinite masculine nominative singular)
aseksuāli (indefinite masculine nominative plural)
aseksuāla (feminine indefinite nominative singular)
aseksuālas (feminine indefinite nominative plural)
aseksuālu (accusative indefinite masculine singular)
aseksuālus (accusative indefinite masculine plural)
aseksuālu (accusative feminine indefinite singular)
aseksuālas (accusative feminine indefinite plural)
aseksuāla (genitive indefinite masculine singular)
aseksuālu (genitive indefinite masculine plural)
aseksuālas (feminine genitive indefinite singular)
aseksuālu (feminine genitive indefinite plural)
aseksuālam (dative indefinite masculine singular)
aseksuāliem (dative indefinite masculine plural)
aseksuālai (dative feminine indefinite singular)
aseksuālām (dative feminine indefinite plural)
aseksuālu (indefinite instrumental masculine singular)
aseksuāliem (indefinite instrumental masculine plural)
aseksuālu (feminine indefinite instrumental singular)
aseksuālām (feminine indefinite instrumental plural)
aseksuālā (indefinite locative masculine singular)
aseksuālos (indefinite locative masculine plural)
aseksuālā (feminine indefinite locative singular)
aseksuālās (feminine indefinite locative plural)

From a- + seksuāls (“sexual”) (with seksuāls from sekss (“sex”) + -āls). Probably not derived as such in Latvian, but borrowed and adapted from other European languages.

aseksuāls dvīvesstāsts

aseksuāls cilvēks

aseksuālas attiecības

asexual, non-sexual (not able to experience sexual feelings)


ساقطة

ar-noun

سَاقِطَة • (sāqiṭa) f (plural سَوَاقِط (sawāqiṭ))

سَاقِطَة (canonical)
sāqiṭa (romanization)
سَوَاقِط (plural)
سَاقِطَة (ar-infl-a indefinite informal singular triptote)
السَّاقِطَة (ar-infl-a definite informal singular triptote)
سَاقِطَة (ar-infl-a construct informal singular triptote)
سَاقِطَةٌ (ar-infl-a indefinite nominative singular triptote)
السَّاقِطَةُ (ar-infl-a definite nominative singular triptote)
سَاقِطَةُ (ar-infl-a construct nominative singular triptote)
سَاقِطَةً (accusative ar-infl-a indefinite singular triptote)
السَّاقِطَةَ (accusative ar-infl-a definite singular triptote)
سَاقِطَةَ (accusative ar-infl-a construct singular triptote)
سَاقِطَةٍ (ar-infl-a genitive indefinite singular triptote)
السَّاقِطَةِ (ar-infl-a definite genitive singular triptote)
سَاقِطَةِ (ar-infl-a construct genitive singular triptote)
سَاقِطَتَيْن (ar-infl-a dual indefinite informal singular triptote)
السَّاقِطَتَيْن (ar-infl-a definite dual informal singular triptote)
سَاقِطَتَيْ (ar-infl-a construct dual informal singular triptote)
سَاقِطَتَانِ (ar-infl-a dual indefinite nominative singular triptote)
السَّاقِطَتَانِ (ar-infl-a definite dual nominative singular triptote)
سَاقِطَتَا (ar-infl-a construct dual nominative singular triptote)
سَاقِطَتَيْنِ (accusative ar-infl-a dual indefinite singular triptote)
السَّاقِطَتَيْنِ (accusative ar-infl-a definite dual singular triptote)
سَاقِطَتَيْ (accusative ar-infl-a construct dual singular triptote)
سَاقِطَتَيْنِ (ar-infl-a dual genitive indefinite singular triptote)
السَّاقِطَتَيْنِ (ar-infl-a definite dual genitive singular triptote)
سَاقِطَتَيْ (ar-infl-a construct dual genitive singular triptote)
سَوَاقِط (broken-form diptote indefinite informal plural)
السَّوَاقِط (broken-form definite diptote informal plural)
سَوَاقِط (broken-form construct diptote informal plural)
سَوَاقِطُ (broken-form diptote indefinite nominative plural)
السَّوَاقِطُ (broken-form definite diptote nominative plural)
سَوَاقِطُ (broken-form construct diptote nominative plural)
سَوَاقِطَ (accusative broken-form diptote indefinite plural)
السَّوَاقِطَ (accusative broken-form definite diptote plural)
سَوَاقِطَ (accusative broken-form construct diptote plural)
سَوَاقِطَ (broken-form diptote genitive indefinite plural)
السَّوَاقِطِ (broken-form definite diptote genitive plural)
سَوَاقِطِ (broken-form construct diptote genitive plural)

Derived from the feminine active participle of سَقَطَ (saqaṭa, “to fall, to drop, to descend”). سَاقِط (sāqiṭ) + ـَة (-a).

af

سَاقِط (sāqiṭ) + ـَة (-a)


homonegativity

The findings indicate that both forms of homonegativity are prevalent in Europe.

2015 August 7, “Relationships between Religion and Two Forms of Homonegativity in Europe—A Multilevel Analysis of Effects of Believing, Belonging and Religious Practice”, in PLOS ONE, →DOI:

Negative attitudes toward homosexuality.


JOI

2014, Erotic Girl 4 ALL Your Pleasures, “Are You SERIOUS About EDGING? JOI ? CEI ? Let's See How Much Will Power You Have”, in alt.penthouse.sex.femdom (Usenet):

2015, Humiliate You, “Are You A Little Dick Man?? WANT Little Dick Humiliation - JOI with A Side of CEI”, in alt.sex.femdom (Usenet):

(BDSM) Initialism of jerk-off instructions: written or recorded instructions directing someone to masturbate.


anti-homofobia

antihomophobia (opposition to homophobia)


anti-homofóbico

pt-adj

anti-homofóbico (feminine anti-homofóbica, masculine plural anti-homofóbicos, feminine plural anti-homofóbicas)

anti-homofóbica (feminine)
anti-homofóbicos (masculine plural)
anti-homofóbicas (feminine plural)


anti-homossexual

anti-homossexual m or f (plural anti-homossexuais)

antihomosexual (opposed to homosexuality)


anti-homossexualismo

anti-homosexualism (opposition to homosexualism)


stone butch

However, as Feinberg's novel dramatizes, the dominance of lesbian feminist models of sexual mutuality, reciprocity, and exchange turns stone butches into pariahs.

1998, Judith Halberstam, Female Masculinity, page 138:

(LGBTQ, slang) A butch lesbian who does not want to be sexually touched by her partner.


soft butch

(LGBTQ) A lesbian who exhibits some butch traits (short hair, men's clothing, etc.) without wholly fitting the masculine butch stereotype.


pillow princess

en-noun

pillow princess (plural pillow princesses)

These roles extended into the bedroom, where the butch would initiate and give sexual pleasure and the femme would play “pillow princess” and receive — never the other way around [...]

1992, Deneuve, volume 2, FRS Enterprises, page 64:

Similarly, whereas pillow princesses and other femmes appear to fall in line with heterosexual conceptualizations of sexual roles for women, where the woman’s role is the passive and non-assertive partner, they represent radical departures in other respects. In particular, participants indicated that ultra femmes and pillow princesses fully expected that the sexual act ended with their sexual climax.

2009, Bianca D. M. Wilson, “Black Lesbian Gender and Sexual Culture: Celebration and Resistance”, in Culture, Health & Sexuality, volume 11, number 3, →DOI, →ISSN, →JSTOR, page 309:

Also, just because a respondent identified as femme did not mean she was not involved in or interested in a reciprocal sexual relationship. Many femmes made sure to point out they were not “pillow princesses,” meaning they are not just receivers. “My current girlfriend is very masculine looking, but I am far more aggressive than her in the bedroom, I don’t know if I can say this …but, well, I am no “pillow princess” (Sara).

2014, Joey Cooter, Butch, Femme, or Neither? What Owning These Identities Means, Johnson City, Tennessee: East Tennessee State University, retrieved 2022-01-17, page 31:

A soft fem may also be referred to as a “pillow princess”. The pillow princess expects to be catered to in bed and while she may demand oral sex, does not feel compelled to perform it on her partner.

2017, Karen Carpenter, “Women Who Have Sex with Women in Jamaica”, in Karen Carpenter, editor, Interweaving Tapestries of Culture and Sexuality in the Caribbean, Cham, Switzerland: Palgrave Macmillan, →DOI, →ISBN, page 79:

(slang, originally LGBTQ) A person (typically a lesbian) who wants to receive sexual pleasure but is not interested in giving it.


stoneness

(LGBTQ) Willingness to give sexual pleasure but not to receive it.


homoflexibility

Essig divides society into the categories of heteroflexibility and heterorigidity and homoflexibility and homorigidity.

2002, Robert Goss, Queering Christ: Beyond Jesus Acted Up, Pilgrim Press, published 2002, →ISBN, page 232:

Or what about hetero- and homoflexibility (the primarily heterosexual or homosexual orientation with occasional forays into things not typical of those sexualities)?

2011, "Ribbons", "Queeriosities: 'Adding to the ABCs of LGBs'", The Catalyst (Colorado College), Volume 42, Number 8, 11 November 2011, page 7

In other words, there is no place for homoflexibility in this cultural analysis of sexuality.

2015, B. C. Roberts, “Not Gay”: Another Way of (Not) Being Bi?, in the Journal of Bisexuality, volume 15, issue 4

(rare) The quality or state of being homoflexible.


bottomhood

[...] of Brandon Lee as a desirable West Hollywood twink in contradistinction to his less-than-appealing Asian costars with their working-class status, Chinatown address, bad accent, bad hair, flat face, small dick, and propensity for bottomhood.

(LGBTQ) The state, quality, or condition of a bottom (non-penetrative sexual role)


sell oneself

en-verb

sell oneself (third-person singular simple present sells oneself, present participle selling oneself, simple past and past participle sold oneself)

sells oneself (present singular third-person)
selling oneself (participle present)
sold oneself (participle past)
sold oneself (past)

She'd never been forced to sell herself, she'd always had a secure home and job where she was valued, with no real responsibility.

2011 February 3, Lesley Pearse, Belle, Penguin UK, →ISBN:

(reflexive, euphemistic) To work as a prostitute.


పడుపు

From పడుచు (paḍucu, “to solicit (as a prostitute)”).


పడుపుకొమ్మ

te-noun

పడుపుకొమ్మ • (paḍupukomma) f (plural పడుపుకొమ్మలు)

paḍupukomma (romanization)
పడుపుకొమ్మలు (plural)

Compound of పడుపు (paḍupu, “prostitution”) + కొమ్మ (komma, “damsel, female”).


పడుపుకూడు

te-noun

పడుపుకూడు • (paḍupukūḍu) n (plural పడుపుకూళ్ళు)

paḍupukūḍu (romanization)
పడుపుకూళ్ళు (plural)

Compound of పడుపు (paḍupu, “prostitution”) + కూడు (kūḍu, “food”).


najstarszy zawód świata

najstarszy zawód świata (nominative singular)
najstarszego zawodu świata (genitive singular)
najstarszemu zawodowi świata (dative singular)
najstarszy zawód świata (accusative singular)
najstarszym zawodem świata (instrumental singular)
najstarszym zawodzie świata (locative singular)
najstarszy zawodzie świata (singular vocative)

Literally, “world's oldest profession”.`

world's oldest profession
world's oldest profession

(idiomatic, euphemistic) world's oldest profession


slut-shamey

en-adj

slut-shamey (comparative more slut-shamey, superlative most slut-shamey)

more slut-shamey (comparative)
most slut-shamey (superlative)

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One of the biggest myths about dating is that how soon you choose to have sex impacts the longevity of the relationship. So if you are a woman and you're looking for love, giving it up too early will preclude any possibility of a long-term relationship. Outside of being blatantly slut-shamey, this advice is plain wrong.

2011, Samhita Mukhopadhyay, Outdated: Why Dating Is Ruining Your Love Life, Seal Press, →ISBN, pages 92–93:

We should all know by now that hooker jokes are way passé and slut-shaming is wrong, but when tempers flare, a slut-shamey slur can occasionally pop out of one's mouth.

2015, Siouxsie Q, "A Happier, Hotter Year: Seven Sexual Resolutions for 2015, SF Weekly, 7 January 2015

Not to sound slut-shamey or anything here, coming from someone who was also sexually active at around the same age, but if I was getting my swerve on with dudes in their 20s, I’m pretty sure I would remember that sh*t.

2015 July 31, Jerome Khalid, “Khloé Kardashian Defends Kylie Jenner & Tyga: “At 16 I Was Probably””, in Press Examiner:

(informal) Engaging in, promoting, or characteristic of slut-shaming.


hutch up

en-verb

hutch up (third-person singular simple present hutches up, present participle hutching up, simple past and past participle hutched up)

hutches up (present singular third-person)
hutching up (participle present)
hutched up (participle past)
hutched up (past)

(idiomatic, LGBTQ) To put on a more heterosexual manner, in order to be integrated or accepted; compare ‘butch’.


cowboy up

cowboy up (third-person singular simple present cowboys up, present participle cowboying up, simple past and past participle cowboyed up)

cowboys up (present singular third-person)
cowboying up (participle present)
cowboyed up (participle past)
cowboyed up (past)

(idiomatic, LGBTQ) To put on a more heterosexual manner, in order to fit in.


transactivist

The transactivists who are trying to eliminate Gender Identity Disorder from the DSM-IV have not come up with any credible replacement for the diagnosis, which is the prerequisite for sex reassignment.

1997, Pat Califia, Sex changes: the politics of transgenderism, page 268:

For quotations using this term, see Citations:transactivist.


lightskirt

And now I want to know exactly what the lightskirt told you.

Ought to find a good lightskirt to keep you company.

(dated) A woman of lax behavior; a prostitute.


genderphobia

Genderphobia is a more surreptitious form of discrimination than transphobia because it quietly adheres to hegemonic notions of gender behaviour.

2005 January, Vincent Stephens, “Pop goes the rapper: a close reading of Eminem's genderphobia”, in Popular Music, volume 24, number 1, page 23:

She characterized women's reactions to a masculine person in a public rest room as “an example of genderphobia” (1996, 117), viewing such women as policing gender boundaries rather than believing that there really is a man in the women's rest room.

2008, Joan Z. Spade, Catherine G. Valentine, The Kaleidoscope of Gender: Prisms, Patterns, and Possibilities, Pine Forge Press, →ISBN, page 29:

Genderphobia was no hindrance to her [Margaret Thatcher's] ambitions; her husband took a back seat.

2015, Virginia Nicholson, Perfect Wives in Ideal Homes: The Story of Women in the 1950s, Penguin Books, →ISBN:

Genderphobia works to reinforce gendered hierarchies and the heteropatriarchal state, disenfranchising not only women, but also sexual and gender minorities. Genderphobia is also very much used to enforce xenophobic and nationalist policies […]

2023 March 29, Jose Antonio Langarita, Ana Cristina Santos, Marisela Montenegro, Mojca Urek, Child-Friendly Perspectives on Gender and Sexual Diversity: Beyond Adultcentrism, Taylor & Francis, →ISBN:

Fear, dislike, or hatred of gender-nonconforming individuals or behaviour.


arromântico

pt-adj

arromântico (feminine arromântica, masculine plural arromânticos, feminine plural arromânticas)

arromântica (feminine)
arromânticos (masculine plural)
arromânticas (feminine plural)

aromantic (having no romantic attraction to others)


Spander

And lord knows, if you want there's plenty of Spuffy and Spander to last a lifetime.

2004 April 29, Kathryn Burlingham, “Re: You want fries with that?”, in soc.motss (Usenet):

Yeah, the Spander shippers really got off on that one.

2006 September 10, Don Sample, “Re: AOQ Review 7-2: "Beneath You"”, in alt.tv.buffy-v-slayer (Usenet):

Spander 'shippers prefer long NC-17 rated stories, regardless of genre.

2013, Mary Kirby-Diaz, “Ficcers and 'Shippers: A Love Story”, in Jennifer K. Stuller, editor, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Intellect Books, →ISBN, page 46:

(fandom slang) The ship of characters Spike and Xander Harris from the television series Buffy the Vampire Slayer.


bussy

Blend of boy + pussy or butt + pussy. See also the suffix -ussy.

(gay slang, LGBTQ, by extension) Any anus, in general.

(gay slang, LGBTQ, sometimes derogatory) The vulva or vagina of a trans man.


ロリ

A transliteration of the English female given name Laurie

A transliteration of the English female given name Laury

A transliteration of the English female given name Lori

A transliteration of the English male given name Rory


woman of ill repute

en-noun

woman of ill repute (plural women of ill repute)


kopacz

kopacz (nominative singular)
kopacze (nominative plural)
kopacza (genitive singular)
kopaczy (genitive plural)
kopaczowi (dative singular)
kopaczom (dative plural)
kopacza (accusative singular)
kopacze (accusative plural)
kopaczem (instrumental singular)
kopaczami (instrumental plural)
kopaczu (locative singular)
kopaczach (locative plural)
kopaczu (singular vocative)
kopacze (plural vocative)

Inherited from Proto-Slavic *kopačь. By surface analysis, kopać + -acz.

Parascalops breweri
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đồng tính

[ʔɗəwŋ͡m˨˩ tïŋ˧˦]

[ʔɗəwŋ͡m˦˩ tɨn˦˧˥]

[ʔɗəwŋ͡m˨˩ tɨn˦˥]

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Sino-Vietnamese word from 同性, composed of 同 (“same”) and 性 (“sex”).


necrozoophilia

A paraphilia characterised by sexual attraction toward dead animals.


yag

(Internet slang) Filter-avoidance spelling of gay.


yag

pt-noun

yag m or f by sense (plural yags or syag)


LGBTphobia

(rare, informal, LGBTQ) A fear of or a negative attitude towards LGBT people.


transfemininity

en-noun

transfemininity (usually uncountable, plural transfemininities)


detransition

en-verb

detransition (third-person singular simple present detransitions, present participle detransitioning, simple past and past participle detransitioned)

detransitions (present singular third-person)
detransitioning (participle present)
detransitioned (participle past)
detransitioned (past)

People detransition because they may find it difficult to get jobs, or because of social ostracism, not passing in their target gender, family responsibilities, and so on.

2007, Helen Boyd, She's Not the Man I Married, page 303:

I recently had an encounter in which I was asked if I was detransitioning simply because I was wearing a pair of jeans!

2014, Michelle Spicer, The Transgender Handbook:

“I wish there had been more open conversations,” Powell, now 23 and detransitioned, told me. “But I was told there is one cure and one thing to do if this is your problem, and this will help you.”

2024 February 2, Pamela Paul, “As Kids, They Thought They Were Trans. They No Longer Do.”, in The New York Times, →ISSN:

(intransitive, LGBTQ) To revert to one's original gender presentation, role, or identity.


hormone-replacement therapy

en-noun

hormone-replacement therapy (plural hormone-replacement therapies)

hormone replacement therapy
hormone replacement therapy#English

Alternative spelling of hormone replacement therapy


blow jobber

(sexuality, vulgar, slang) Someone who performs fellatio (blowjobs).